What is wrong??

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Ssasy on Sunday, September 22, 2013 and has 7 replies.
Well After being off and On I decided to call it quits on a calm not with my Aqua, as a Cancer its not very easy to just cut her off and not care....My tolerance level is very strong once you have been good to me....
But a day later, im still getting I love you messages....
Sad thing is I love her too.....I didnt want to do it but I need something more solid...
and I cant say I love you back, but I do interact via text...
Dont thinkk theres a real question here. Just dont understand why Aquas are soo difficult..
calm note*
Posted by feby16aqua
I know I can be difficult but also I've never been with a cancer so I can't say...what's going on? Why did you break?



You know my story hunn!
But I decided because I felt as if this "space" was her running from something again, and although the space had been for just 3 tays (at the time) but now its a week, I felt impulsive and didnt want to wait any longer. A good friend of mine says I am being selfish as well not allowing her her space and time to think things through....
But apparently my flirting, my stories of being hit on( and me telling her), and past situations have led her to feel as if she cannot trust me, What made it worst is that a few weeks ago I went to a friends house, and I didnt text or call her and I missed her call as well. Situations like that has led her to believe she cannot trust me, she asked me not to go, and to stay and work with her...and give her time, but i want more stability, and I want her all to myself...
I did the deed but now I feel bad nd I dont want to give up...
Posted by ceu
I am an Aquarius lesbian. I understand from your opening post that this may be more of an opportunity for you to vent your feelings, or at least, depending on the response your receive to your opening post, gauge how comfortable you feel to speak at greater length and in greater depth.
It is very provocative of you to end your post by saying, "Just dont understand why Aquas are soo difficult..", without further explanation.
I second Feby16 and ask, what happened?
There some wonderful Aquarius posters on this board, female and male. They are compassionate and intelligent. I would do a roll call, but I know I would forget someone.
With my Cancer friends and family members, I open the door to a conversation and when they feel emotionally comfortable and ready they come out of their "proverbial" shells to talk for awhile, albeit in a sideways manner. Then they retreat again and reemerge when they are ready to continue the conversation. It is a patient process. I respect both our approaches.
I feel though that IF you decide you would like advice you need to be direct in asking for it and in communicating the details of what happened between to you and her. Otherwise the conversation will proceed in a sideways fashion. In fact, perhaps, you are quietly asking why "Aquas are soo difficult."
Outside of that "IF", please feel comfortable and free to vent!




FINALLY A LESBIAN ON HERE!
Thank You for your input, i have had 1/1 convos with 3 or 4 great Aquas and with a great Pices, I think I was just venting out loud. Nothing MUCH to do now....
But hey now that I know youre here I will even take speaking to you into consideration! Because you may relate more!
I do trust her being faithful, I told her how I felt...LEts see what happens!
Clueless Cancer REALLYYY!!!!!! OMG!
Ok I will Be patient....
Thank You FEBY!!!!