libra's and sex is this you two????

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Librachick32 on Tuesday, May 25, 2010 and has 18 replies.
okay so ive been in a relationship for eight years and of course when we first got together it was hot and heavy brain sweating action on a regular. it seems for me that after im with someone for a while my desire for sex decreases drastically which causes a serious lack in my relationship on my part only. when this happens im in the need for new sex. i feel if i get a session of new good good sex with a new person then i can simmer and return back to my normal self with my girl. its like no matter who iam with i need new p@!#* only a few times and im okay. am i a crazy libra? can anyone relate or understand? i would appreciate some insight on this thanks. im a newbie to the site by the way smile
What's your Venus and Moon? That might help.
I'd say something in your Venus/Moon doesn't like to be tied down. I'm an Aries Venus and a Taurus Moon... so my need for freedom wars with my need for security all the time. There are a few Venus/Moon placements that tend to make people balk in the (perceived) "confines" of relationships.. like having a Venus (or Moon) in Aries, Sag, Gemini, or Aqua. We can definitely be "commitmentphobes" Offhand, without knowing anything about you, I'd guess you to have Venus in Gem or Sag, or an Aries Moon lol
i don't think libras can have venus in gemini.
i take it from your post that you are in a lesbian relationship. or else there was a typo. i think that's probably pretty common in the lesbian community. it's kind of a cliche that long-term couples are virtually sexless, with all the hot girl on girl action being relegated to working up a sweat on home improvement projects.
if you're concerned about the sex, maybe you should bring up your concerns with your partner.
i don't really see this as an astrology thing. i think it's common for couples to lose a bit of spark, unless they really work to keep things fresh.
nefer-- my venus is in scorpio and my moon is in gemini! if this will help thanks i appreciate it!
CURIOUS VISITOR- i sense homophobia there in your comment. i dont know where youve gotten your misguided info from, and you should re evaluate that. what i feel is in no way part of being lesbian. one things correct, yes sex dies after a while in a long term relationship (ding ding ding ding) 1 point for you. now go get a cookie! i wont waste time on correcting your distorted perception of the gay community because you are just like the rest of the pathetically ignorant homophobes of the world. honey grow up and be better!
Libra men are great with sex and being friends..they suck in relationships..lol
so i called it a cliche because i'm a homophobe? or because it's the subject of jokes from within the glbt community, and often jokes start from a thread of truth? and it's a pretty easy one to believe. in most straight relationships, the sex drive of the woman slows and fades way before the man's does, usually. so you get two women, yeah, it's pretty likely that the same thing will happen.
but you're right, what you feel isn't because you're a lesbian. it's because you want to cheat on your girlfriend and expect us to tell you it's okay to do.
i'm a libra too. i understand the wanderlust. it's because we're a cardinal sign. we're good with starting things, but sustaining them is hard...we feel compelled to start something new. but you don't have to try someone new. you could take some classes or find a new hobby or take up running or something. something you can feel passionate about, and that passion will probably spill over into your relationship and sex life.
don't use astrology as your excuse for wanting to be a slut.
you made your commitment. either keep it or don't. do whatever you think is fair.
great sex just makes me want more great sex. bad sex, I lose interest. For me, new sex isn't what makes sex great. In fact, new sex is a chance you take and can be quite lousy.

curious visitor-- LOL you dont have a clue. i asked a fuckin question and you were the only out of the ones who answered who couldnt just answer a question and leave your bs scarcasm out. the others were intelligent enough to answer and not judge but not you. its none of your business what i wanna be. i can do wtf i want to you dont know me and best believe you dont want to. ah duh i did make a committment and i do plan on keeping it again thats none of your fucking business. LOL i wanna cheat on my gf and expect the folks here to give me the green light???? no sweetheart i dont need anyone to give me the green light to do anything. what i did expect was intelligent answers that were thorough and informative non judgemental and helpful. because you suck as a person you wouldnt have been able to give anyof that which i expected. my sad fellow libran, i so wish you the best in improving your personality and approach to things!
little sparrow- thanks and thats something to think about. i mean you got a point there.
curious visitor-- and just to let you know SLUTS TAKE OFF THEIR CLOTHES FOR MONEY BABY!!!!! a woman like yourself in that line of work has no self respect!! so i need the money?????? thats your excuse FIND ANOTHER WAY TO GET IT! fuck planet you living on??? LOL
ok, this thread officially just got ridiculous.
first of all, get off ur soapbox. no one cares about ur sexual orientation. what was said by CV was said in jest. some humor. i'm bi, have many gay friends, and we make fun of ourselves all the time. once upon a time i was ''straight'' and i still did.
i was with my ex libra bf for 7 years (he's also from the baltimore/dc area which is why i'm shocked u don't have a thicker skin for this shit; then again, he could dish it but not take it). the thing that lasted longest was the sex. someone had a great point when they said when u become passionate about other things it will spill over into ur love life. he and i were (are) huge into martial arts. we would spar each other which was like a form of foreplay in a sense.
don't be afraid to experiment either. if u feel u need a new face just watch some porn. also, try to spend some time apart. this gives u both a chance to miss each other. i dunno if it's a female thing but i know this works for me!
Posted by little_sparrow
great sex just makes me want more great sex. bad sex, I lose interest. For me, new sex isn't what makes sex great. In fact, new sex is a chance you take and can be quite lousy.




Bingo. It's just a matter of figuring out what excites you and making it happen in your relationship. For example my sex drive gets low when the opportunities for sex become routine. It doesn't have anything to do with my partner, it has to do with the sex itself. So, I figure out what I can do to change it, and have wild hot passionate sex.
I share the same opinion with LS. One of the more logical reasons I do not and will not cheat is my partner is incredible in bed, she pleases me beyond what I thought was possible. Why would I risk that sex for the 1 in 50,000 chance that the cheating sex will even come close?
to the OP...you clearly have issues. i posted something that was not an attack, but you didn't like it, so you attacked me?
what a sweetheart you are.
and yes, i am a stripper. i don't think it's slutty. but i also don't think "slutty" is all that bad anyways. it's a personal choice if someone wants to have sex with a lot of people they aren't in relationships with. as long as someone is honest and upfront about what they are into, i don't see what the problem is. if you think it's a problem, that's fine. nobody is forcing you to strip or to go to strip clubs. but if you're so concerned with sluttiness, maybe you should stop wanting to cheat on your girlfriend. you don't want to sink to my level, do you?
my favorite thing about my job is that it weeds out the jerks so i don't become friends with them. even if i had some sort of very-clothed, clerical job, i still wouldn't want to associate with people who are so prejudiced.
curious visitor--- naw baby i would never and could never sink so low as you! its in my dna to not strip for any reason whatsoever, but hell were all wired differently some of us really got a $ hitty deal dont you think. you have a favorite thing about being a stripper??? WOW how does that happened? girl you talk so much bs you should have skid marks on your chin! oh and you should tell mommy and daddy what their little princess does for a living im sure they will throw a party and celebrate your biggest accomplishment in life. CONGRATS ON MAKING IT GIRL!
So....BACK to the main topic...
It is very common for Libras, not to necessarily cheat on their partners, BUT to crave variety or always be in tune with the things they don't have. Temptation is a very hard thing for certain Libras to resist, considering most of them are drawn to virtually anything that stimulates their senses. And it's not necessarily that their intention is to betray their partners and/or that they want to be "sluts" as earlier put, but moreso that they have a hard time yielding or not chasing after what draws them in.
Libras get bored easily. They don't like anything routine, & sex is one of the main areas where routineness is very likely in alot of relationships these days. And even though I wouldn't recommend you allowing your craving for new sex to consume you so much so that you're willing to betray the trust in your relationship, I DO however understand where this common need for something new/different comes from. Hell, alot of people (not just Libras) get bored with their daily routines and/or with the person they are committed too. Sure, some people chose to place less importance on outside temptations than others might, but OH the temptations are there. Everyone has atleast thought about it.
If I were you, I'd just leave the relationship if your need for variety outweighs your respect for your partner. If you finding that new exciting sex is a priority for you right now then that's fine, BUT don't drag your partner down into this (whether you believe she will find out or not). Be true to yourself, BUT make sure you finish 1 thing before you start another. If you don't think you can handle or resist your constant need for variety, then try not to enter into long-term commitments, that way you won't feel so guilty or have to deal with the problems associated with cheating on a partner & potentially losing a good thing all over something that only lasted 20 minutes
Posted by Librachick32
curious visitor--- naw baby i would never and could never sink so low as you! its in my dna to not strip for any reason whatsoever, but hell were all wired differently some of us really got a $ hitty deal dont you think. you have a favorite thing about being a stripper??? WOW how does that happened? girl you talk so much bs you should have skid marks on your chin! oh and you should tell mommy and daddy what their little princess does for a living im sure they will throw a party and celebrate your biggest accomplishment in life. CONGRATS ON MAKING IT GIRL!


lol. you're a very angry person, aren't you? you're very hostile.
the great irony is that many people would say the same things about lesbians. actually, the other irony is that if i had a "mommy and daddy" who viewed me as "their little princess" i'd probably be financially comfortable enough that i wouldn't have needed to work in this industry. perhaps you're spoiled and don't understand that the real world can be expensive.
also, i never implied that i've made it or that i'm something special because of what i do. it's a job. you should consider what beliefs you have that cause you to infer that i think i'm something special because of my job. if you think that anyone would consider stripping to be "making it", maybe deep down you view it that way. maybe deep down you wish you were pretty enough that men thought you were worth spending money on.