cap boyfriend aloof and selfish?....
This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Kikikako on Thursday, November 22, 2012 and has 6 replies.
I haven't seen my cap bf(he has alot of cap in his chart,venus in cap,sun in cap) in 5 months he seemed like he was happy to see me but the next morning he was so aloof,as if he didn't want to be around and was rushing to see his best male friend and didn't even tell me that he was happy to see me and he loved me and just didn't show emotion and that really hurt me and idk what i did wrong.He also wasn't feeling too well cause he has a cold and he kept telling me the night before that he's a mess. But he could've at least showed me he cared for me ,if he actually does:-/I haven't seen him for months and he's visiting Cali(that's where i live,we're in a long distance relationship) for 2 weeks,says it's to see his family and hedidn't even say that he came to visit to see me 
he's staying over his best friends place not his family's place.He's been here for 3 days now and I've only seen him once.He's not even asking me to hangout with him.He's been spending the past 2 days with his best friend that he hasn't seen for months and not me and I just feel awful and don't understand.If he truly loved me he'd be willing to spend time with me and not his best friend.what should I do guys?does his behavior prove that he doesn't love me?I've been crying for the past 2 days. what to think guys?is he not into me anymore?or is this how caps are ?
he's staying over his best friends place not his family's place.He's been here for 3 days now and I've only seen him once.He's not even asking me to hangout with him.He's been spending the past 2 days with his best friend that he hasn't seen for months and not me and I just feel awful and don't understand.If he truly loved me he'd be willing to spend time with me and not his best friend.what should I do guys?does his behavior prove that he doesn't love me?I've been crying for the past 2 days. what to think guys?is he not into me anymore?or is this how caps are ?Sorry, but I dont think he's really interested in the relationship. Maybe you should let him go.
The thing is he only told me he loved me once,months ago.He's also very insecure about his appearance because he was in an accident and he had to get surgery and all those things
because he was in an accident and he had to get surgery and all those things
May I ask you age? It sounds like young love having died due to distance. Im sorry for you.
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He's got a lot of people to see while he's there. I'm sensing he probably was glad to see you, but sometime during the course of the visit with you, he realized the long term relationship just isn't going to work. Maybe he wasn't feeling the same connection anymore. I'm sorry to say this as well, but its time to move on. Besides, wouldn't it be more fun to be with someone who is in your town every day?
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