Scorpio women & emotional connection.

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by truthseeker_10 on Monday, December 21, 2009 and has 4 replies.
Just surfing through the web...came to find this place and wanted to ask a simple yet important question...
How can someone build/create more emotional connection with a scorpio woman without disclosing too much of oneself?
Background:
I've been seeing/dating this scorpio lady for over a month now. We felt this magnetism and drawing from day one that we just couldn't resist. I'm a Virgo, she is the one in tune with all these astrological things, me, not so much, but willing to learn.
We have kept things light and simple, inspite of the strong passion we feel, this is something new for me since I have never dated someone who ignited that in me this fast and in this way (so intense). She says she respects me a lot and I feel the same way. We decided to wait instead of rushing in the physical dept. (inspite of the high levels of attraction!) and so far I've been holding still and am willing to work things out the best way possible. The truth is, I want that level intimacy very much...and with her, but I also need to feel safe and secure before that...so I go back and forth with the thoughts of what I should do and when.
One thing she did mentioned that left me perplexed is that...she believes one day we will share all that we want...but that she needs to have more emotional connection...and I have yet to understand what she could have meant by that...
We can talk for hours, have spent lots of time together, and I've slowly shared more of who I am with her. It just takes time with me and also I just don't like disclosing all things, plus I found out recently that it is not good to open up too much or completely with scorpios you like because then you lose that sense of mystery...is that true?
If that is true, then how can I connect with her more in the emotional area without disclosing too much of me? The goal is to connect...not to ever lose each other...so now I'm perplexed and also unsure as to what to do and how to do it.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!I really like this girl.
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You should repost this to the Virgo forum.
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lol. yeah. sex will definitely help. you open up during sex. they dig that.
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Well the crazy thing about Virgo/Scorpio combinations is that they both kind of live by the same creed: Be cautious & allow things to naturally come out & for true colors to naturally reveal themselves. Virgo & Scorpio are alot alike in many ways, but in the ways that they're alike, that could mean trouble for the friendship or relationship. With anything, too much caution in romance can kill things! Scorpios have so much to give & will give anyone they're dating a little sneak peak of all they have to offer, but they do this in a way that they feel they are giving just ENOUGH to intice that person, but yet not so much so that they reveal & give all of themselves to that person. Scorpios wants all the same things Virgo wants, it's just that they go about finding, seeking & establishing love almost in the same way. This can be a GREAT thing & also a horrible thing b/c it often leads to 2 great people just sitting back & being stubborn; and it's not b/c they aren't great for eachother; no if anything, once Scorpio or Virgo spots a likely love match, that's when they're true shells come out b/c it can be a scary thing. Idk what this Scorpio meant when she said she was looking for more of an emotional connection. Then again, it sounds like she was saying that she needs to see MORE from you before you see more from her. She wants you to go first. She wants you to prove yourself to her first before she gives you what she considers the greatest gift you'll ever have (which is her). This is not something Scorpio women do to lead on someone or something they just do for fun; no, they do this b/c they are confident in themselves in that they'll be all that YOU need, but they can't necessarily be confident in the other person being able to fulfill their deepest desires & needs until the see the actual proof of that. I don't believe that sex is the answer b/c so far, you two have came a long way w/o it. Literally ask her what she means by "she needs more of an emotional connection." You'd be suprised. She'd probably be able to give you the best answer & insight into what she really meant by that comment moreso than we Dxp users can. I also suggest posting this on the Scorpio board.
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