Cutting a Pisces man out of my life
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by artlove45 on Tuesday, September 27, 2016 and has 10 replies.
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
Posted by artlove45No, he may die-possibly from crabs from the new bird then come crying to you for solace. Yes he will be just fine. Pisces have a way about them that make you feel needed. Get on with your life. If you were that much to him he will take notice of your absence. Just make sure when he resurfaces to "hold your own"
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
Posted by artlove45How is it his fault you couldn't handle it?
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
Posted by LibraLovesHimThank you! I tried to do whatever I could to make sure he didn't come back, he is very good at resurfacing. blocking him from social media may have been a bit dramatic but half of it was for me because I just don't want to cave and go back to him.Posted by artlove45No, he may die-possibly from crabs from the new bird then come crying to you for solace. Yes he will be just fine. Pisces have a way about them that make you feel needed. Get on with your life. If you were that much to him he will take notice of your absence. Just make sure when he resurfaces to "hold your own"
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?click to expand
Posted by DamnataI left becaus he lied to me, I could accept just being friends but what kind of friendship would we have knowing he lied to me? I feel like I could never trust him.Posted by artlove45How is it his fault you couldn't handle it?
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?click to expand
Posted by artlove45What did he lie to you about?Posted by DamnataI left becaus he lied to me, I could accept just being friends but what kind of friendship would we have knowing he lied to me? I feel like I could never trust him.Posted by artlove45How is it his fault you couldn't handle it?
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?click to expand
What were the terms to that FWB?
Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Your post is all over the place. I don't see him doing anything wrong. It was FWB. He stuck to the rules... You didn't. Then retaliated by cutting him off.
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
You have a consistent track record of acting before you think. Your concern for his feelings now sound like cheap talk.
You made your bed... Now sleep in it. If you don't like it, make sure you do a better job next time and stop playing games you can't handle.click to expand
I left because he lied to me, I guess the FWB girlfriend thing was just another issue but the fact that he was lying to me period is the issue. I feel as though I can't have a friendship with someone who isn't honest with me. I do worry for him but thought what I did would be better for both us in the long run, as I'm sure his current girlfriend wouldn't be too happy with him talking to me and I don't want to cause them to fight.
Posted by Infinite8Thank you! I will do this will be my last FWB for surePosted by artlove45Just keep doing what your doing, in due time you will feel better and hopefully create better habits that don't lead you to trouble.Posted by LibraLovesHimThank you! I tried to do whatever I could to make sure he didn't come back, he is very good at resurfacing. blocking him from social media may have been a bit dramatic but half of it was for me because I just don't want to cave and go back to him.Posted by artlove45No, he may die-possibly from crabs from the new bird then come crying to you for solace. Yes he will be just fine. Pisces have a way about them that make you feel needed. Get on with your life. If you were that much to him he will take notice of your absence. Just make sure when he resurfaces to "hold your own"
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?click to expand
Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Posted by Infinite8Posted by artlove45Your post is all over the place. I don't see him doing anything wrong. It was FWB. He stuck to the rules...
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
I left because he lied to me, I guess the FWB girlfriend thing was just another issue but the fact that he was lying to me period is the issue. I feel as though I can't have a friendship with someone who isn't honest with us in the long run, as I'm sure his current girlfriend wouldn't be too happy with him talking to me and I don't want to cause them to fight.
What was the lie
Let's be fair here... Based on what you've written, it seems like you lied to him too. You signed up for a FWB, but your feelings for him were MORE than that of a friend. Don't be mad because he lied just like you...click to expand
We had rules our main one being if we started dating someone else we would tell each other. He didn't do that and lied about several things to hide that from me. We live far which is why we decided on FWB but we visit when possible, he had planned a stay with me and didn't want to cancel even though he has girlfriend! when we originally decided to meet up again (a week before this happened) we both weren't wanting relationships and he lied to me then too apparently. I told him getting together was not fair to her or I and he got mad. I told him it's not appropriate she wouldn't be happy with you sharing a bed with me knowing our past even if we weren't being physical. He said "but we're just friends" and that's when I told him it's only fair to her that we stop talking. I told him I wouldn't be happy if my boyfriend was close with a girl he was romantic with and talked to everyday, he saw my point but fought it. I don't want be a cause of fights between them, I don't think he was expecting me with leave, but I don't want to tempt him or myself.
Posted by DamnataOur main rule was if we started dating other people we would tell each other. He didn't do that and lied to me about several things to hide this from me. He lied about his intentions with other people too as we both agreed going into this that we weren't planning or looking for any relationships as we both had just gotten out of them and I guess he wasn't telling me the truth when he told me that was how he felt too. Also it wasn't strictly sex, he was very romantic with me, said things he didn't need to, those I'm assuming were lies as well.Posted by artlove45What did he lie to you about?Posted by DamnataI left becaus he lied to me, I could accept just being friends but what kind of friendship would we have knowing he lied to nePosted by artlove45How is it his fault you couldn't handle it?
I'm a cap he's a fish we were FWB and it turns out I can't handle it, he got a girlfriend out of nowhere too I got hurt. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I deserted him. But he hurt me and lied to me and didn't even acknowledge that he did anything wrong not even an apology. I know this is a weird question but will he be ok? He's very sensitive and feels a lot and gets depressed easily. I didn't want to hurt him but I thought it was best for the both of us. Will he be alright?
What were the terms to that FWB?click to expand
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