When the bull disappears into his/her little world

Posted by Candeh15
So, what do you guys do when you're doing the "cold" business or just going off into your own bull world? Do you guys observe your significant others from a distance or wipe all memory clean until you're ready to come back? Do you just get knee deep into a bunch of things until you're ready to keel over?
Curious virgo being a curious virgo

Posted by Candeh15
Thanks a lot for the insight, Bella. I was beginning to notice more and more that he can become a very solitary person, especially after spending time together. For example, I'll spend nearly a full day with him, and then I wouldn't really hear from him for a few days. There are times when this bothered me and times when it didn't because I would also need a couple of days to myself. I am becoming more used to it; at first I would become really worried and anxious whenever he just went off into his own space because you see so many girls go through the same thing with guys and they are gone for good. However, he would always come back. He often apologizes for going MIA, and while it can be exasperating, I respect him a lot for apologizing.
I mentioned in the other thread that this taurus openly admits to his faults and admitted that he never did it on purpose, or meant any harm. So, it's just a matter of me keeping a cool head whenever he gets this way and busying myself. I wouldn't be with him still if I hadn't learned to deal with it over time lol.
And his expression of emotion is primarily physical and very subtle. If I wasn't crazy observant, most things would fly past me and I would probably be more upset about it. Like, I'll notice the way he'll look at me and it'd be different than just a casual glance. Lucky for him, or I guess unlucky, I also have a hard time expressing anything because I'm pretty reserved, but it's probably easier for me than it is for him. I often have to remind myself of his little expressive moments so I don't forget that he is expressing himself in his own weird way lol.

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Posted by Candeh15
Thanks a lot for the insight, Bella. I was beginning to notice more and more that he can become a very solitary person, especially after spending time together. For example, I'll spend nearly a full day with him, and then I wouldn't really hear from him for a few days. There are times when this bothered me and times when it didn't because I would also need a couple of days to myself. I am becoming more used to it; at first I would become really worried and anxious whenever he just went off into his own space because you see so many girls go through the same thing with guys and they are gone for good. However, he would always come back. He often apologizes for going MIA, and while it can be exasperating, I respect him a lot for apologizing.
I mentioned in the other thread that this taurus openly admits to his faults and admitted that he never did it on purpose, or meant any harm. So, it's just a matter of me keeping a cool head whenever he gets this way and busying myself. I wouldn't be with him still if I hadn't learned to deal with it over time lol.
And his expression of emotion is primarily physical and very subtle. If I wasn't crazy observant, most things would fly past me and I would probably be more upset about it. Like, I'll notice the way he'll look at me and it'd be different than just a casual glance. Lucky for him, or I guess unlucky, I also have a hard time expressing anything because I'm pretty reserved, but it's probably easier for me than it is for him. I often have to remind myself of his little expressive moments so I don't forget that he is expressing himself in his own weird way lol.

You know what, Candeh- your post made me realize something, I think..
Am I correct in my thinking that Bulls express their emotions best physically?? So when my Bull keeps saying that he wants to touch, hug , and other things to me.. is that the way he expresses himself best?

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Posted by carcar19c
they way i would do it. cuddle up to that someone special (my case a guy but whatever rocks your boat at night lol) kiss them around their neck. give them neck/backrubs especially after a long day (work, etc.) make them feel loved by showing them with a massage in turn making them feel better.

Posted by Candeh15

Posted by carcar19c
they way i would do it. cuddle up to that someone special (my case a guy but whatever rocks your boat at night lol) kiss them around their neck. give them neck/backrubs especially after a long day (work, etc.) make them feel loved by showing them with a massage in turn making them feel better.

Pretty much what I do all the time... beer on occasion lol.

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