Trying to understand this Virgo guy

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Jules79 on Tuesday, May 25, 2010 and has 5 replies.
Hi Guys,
First of all, I apologize for my English, it's not my mother language...
Here is my story:
I met this Virgo guy three weeks ago on a dating site. He replied to my ad - I found his reply rather dull and I didn't intend to write back (he asked me to have a look on his profile). However, I did check it out. To my surprise, when I was reading his words, it felt like it was me talking. It felt really strange. Yep, you guessed right, I contacted him after all. That's how we started our communication. We spent eight hours a day on IM just chatting. We found out we had so much in common - stuff we like, our jobs, even things we experienced in our past, our opinions, beliefs, etc. Three days after we met he asked me out on a date. I agreed. We were both pretty nervous but we had a great time (three and a half hrs). I even got the follow-up text in which he made sure I got home safely and thanked me for a wonderful evening. I just couldn't stop thinking about it over the weekend and obviously, have been wondering if he felt the same way (I was still doubtful). The following Monday (the date was on Friday)we talked openly about it. He asked me how I felt about him. We both agreed we liked each other, he found me very sensitive (he thought that might be a problem later in a relationship because he thought he was too wild for me) but we both wanted to give it more time. I have to mention that we were still communicating with each other every day of the week. He was talking about things he would want to show me, do with me, etc. We arranged 2nd date. I was looking forward to it and he must have been too, because he dressed up very smartly to impress me and we did have so much fun and enjoyed each others company. I went home to visit my parents for the weekend (this was last weekend, he had friends visiting him. When I returned yesterday, we had a very nice chat again, I told him I missed him and have been thinking about him. We got carried away a bit and started talking about being intimate, he even invited me to his flat. I believe this was a bit unusual for him because Virgo are somewhat reserved (though he's got quite many planets in Leo and Libra; not sure about his rising sign though - I am Leo with Scorpio rising) and I was surprised a bit. So we just decided things should happen naturally (It told him I was not that kind of girl that was after sex and he said he didn't want to push me into it and use me) (TO BE CONTINUED)
Later that evening there was a huge storm here and I got a text message from him saying that he had to go home through this storm and it was quite exciting. I said I was thinking about him and hoped he got home safe. He replied back in quite a controlling way telling me not to go out and stay at home. Maybe he was worried about me, maybe he wanted to make sure I wasn't hanging out with anyone else, I have no idea. And today, he didn't talk to me at all, he ignored me all day, instead talking to other girls on a dating site... I am not sure what is that supposed to mean... He is very honest chap, he would tell me if he wasn't interested. I think he is falling for me and trying to figure out what is going on... come on, I can see it in his eyes, in his smile, in him trying to protect me when we're together, doing things for me etc...If he is not, then I am Queen Elizabeth II... I am a bit worried I took things too fast and he might be scared and everything.... What if someone better will come and will take him away from me? I couldn't bear this... And I am not sure how to behave... I love him a lot... What do you think about all this???? Any replies will be appreciated... Thanks a million...
J.
I forgot to mention... about him and this dating site... he said he didn't have time meeting people and this was one of the ways how to get more friends... he asked me if I was jealous and that I should trust him... obviously, I aid I was not jealous...
"if you love something,then let it be free.If it returns to you,it's yours forever,if not then it wasn't meant to be"
In relationships you also need to give each other space,so a day or two may never hurt,during this time hang out with friends,try out something new or enjoy one of your favorite hobby's, if he truly loves you then he'll come back to you smile , those 1- 2 days of space will make him miss you more.
xoxo
Sorry if my advide won't work

Good Luck! smile
Your english is better than most english speaking natives. Proper sentences, spelling and punctuation.

Isn't that curious ......