Cap cutting me off are we over?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Natleo on Friday, February 7, 2020 and has 12 replies.
I was in a relationship with cap for 10 months first 5 months was amazing he committed that he loves me and that he wants to marry me once he gets the job.

He was always pessimistic about the job and that he has a bad luck I standed by his side always he gave me a birthday gift too and we end up having sex for 3 dates he loved my lips always.

was always looking in his eyes how warm he is in front of me I knew every thing about his life, after 2 months he got the call finally for the job he was soo happy and he started the job with less salary he was grumbleing about it and they put him for training course for 2 months after that he got other big offer and he asked my opinion and that he is sad about the certification that he won't get it if he goes for the new job somehow I was able to get the certification for him from my close friend he was soo happy about it.

he shifted to other job but I noticed he tried distancing himself and he told me that he is moody and will be OK sooner after he started work he stopped doing all the things that he was doing with me I asked him what's wrong he wasn't answering he told me nothing we use to sleep whole night online on the phone I thought it's new experience and he is not use to it.

he was in a depressed mood and sometimes he scolds me when I wanted him to kiss me over the phone he acted soo strange I wasn't comfortable with the situation I sensed and asked him is there other girl in his life but he said no.








Actually I was his last follower and following on instegram he loved me soo much and I know it and I admitted I started to doubt him because his phone calls was less I wanted to give him a space becoz we never had space everyday for hours we were talking, one day he called me a lot I didn't pick the phone to maintain space and he was upset and ignored my phone calls for one day and then I apologized we talked again I pushed him a lot about aski g what's wrong with him.

I noticed when he wakes up he doesn't call me like before I noticed when I send a snap chat his points goes up but he doesn't open mine I told him about thsle points he told me so you are doubting me that am talking to other girls I will talk if I want i was very sad when he said soo every week we had arguments he said if I don't love you I wouldn't talked with you, I gifted him his birthday gift he was without emotion he said no one knew my taste like you know it and yes I was even picking his medicines for him we were soo much close

Until that I saw his points going up on snap and he didn't message me that he woke up I called him a lot until he picked he shouted at me I was crying I told him who is she he told you are mad and acting in a childish way and he left the phone he block me from tik tok and I blow his phone with massages he told me I will not answer and then he started to ignore me I was very emotional I know my father was at the hospital and I needed him the most I was crying the following week he unfollowed me on instegram and added a girl I unfollowed him too I wanted to die when I saw her, I blocked him from snap chat becoz he sees my stories but doesn't open the message now every week he blocks me from an app why can't he do it all at one time. He didn't break up with me but will he come back and does he love her because he told me dont make me flip the other face on you he warned me but I didnt hear him.

Social media is going to be the death of rational thought process.

Arguments over snapchat points. So weird.
Because I know that he is active on snap chat but doeast wanna open my message.
Posted by xoxflute

That...went from 0 to 100 quite fast...

I mean it could just be that he's moody and distant because of the stress of the new job. It just seemed like you are overreacting to him slowing his pace down...


And what about the new girl?

Is it over even if he didn't just say it.
Posted by Arielle83

How many apps do you log in on a daily basis?

Just to get your psycho drama ass blocked?

Seriously.
Am not physco he changed all of sudden he is online but not replying he stopped doing all the stuff let's say he was stressed by work, what about being online all the time instead of sharing whats wrong with him.
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i saw tiktok and stopped reading
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Posted by Natleo
Posted by xoxflute

That...went from 0 to 100 quite fast...


I mean it could just be that he's moody and distant because of the stress of the new job. It just seemed like you are overreacting to him slowing his pace down...


And what about the new girl?

Is it over even if he didn't just say it.


Well, there's probably nothing really you can do on your end at this point.

As for the new girl, there's nothing from what you wrote that suggested one way or another. If he didn't like her before, you certain gave him a reason to, imo.
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I feel like dying I can't sleep at night just that he just added her without considering my feelings every week he is blocking me from somewhere I swear I never checked or called him since that day it seems he wanted my attention and blow his phone or else why wouldn't he do it all together.

I want him back I can't help it.
Posted by colliereborn

i saw tiktok and stopped reading
Sorry my mother language is not English.
Posted by Natleo
Posted by colliereborn

i saw tiktok and stopped reading


Sorry my mother language is not English.
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its ok
Posted by xoxflute

That...went from 0 to 100 quite fast...

I mean it could just be that he's moody and distant because of the stress of the new job. It just seemed like you are overreacting to him slowing his pace down...


Do you think his paniahing me, because he didn't break up he just blocking me and ignoring my phone calls, and if he doesn't want anything from me why didn't he return my ring?
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Posted by xoxflute

That...went from 0 to 100 quite fast...

I mean it could just be that he's moody and distant because of the stress of the new job. It just seemed like you are overreacting to him slowing his pace down...


Do you think his paniahing me, because he didn't break up he just blocking me and ignoring my phone calls, and if he doesn't want anything from me why didn't he return my ring?


What is paniahing and what ring?
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Punishment, my ring fell in his car it was a gift from my mother, I asked him to return it but no reply too.