What to do with unemployed Capricorn boyfriend?

Posted by BoredToDeath

Cheat on him

Posted by Arielle83

Are you putting pressure on him?


If you’re doing that, you’re showing him a lack of security or stability if you have hard times.


Sometimes you have give and take in a relationship and you might have to big the big earner.


Capricorn needs security.


You complained about how you resent him for picking that drug addict gold digger chick over you, and she made him broke.


You’ve mentioned he’s lost his drive and most likely depressed.


You chose to be with him when he’s not ready to be up, but trying to build himself up again.


The last thing he needs is his one source of comfort, pressuring him to make money fast, and to do something he doesn’t want to do to benefit your need for security.


He will lose faith in you if you make him feel inadequate since he’s already there on his own.

Posted by sugarplumeow

lol No why would I do that

Posted by sugarplumeow

Posted by Arielle83

Are you putting pressure on him?


If you’re doing that, you’re showing him a lack of security or stability if you have hard times.


Sometimes you have give and take in a relationship and you might have to big the big earner.


Capricorn needs security.


You complained about how you resent him for picking that drug addict gold digger chick over you, and she made him broke.


You’ve mentioned he’s lost his drive and most likely depressed.


You chose to be with him when he’s not ready to be up, but trying to build himself up again.


The last thing he needs is his one source of comfort, pressuring him to make money fast, and to do something he doesn’t want to do to benefit your need for security.


He will lose faith in you if you make him feel inadequate since he’s already there on his own.

wow I never thought of it that way. Thank you. I just got worried because my cancer psychologist said "this relationship isn't going anywhere and he isn't trying ". I was floored that she said that, I thought he was trying hard. When I brought it up to her she said "I said that? I don't remember that "

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by sugarplumeow

lol No why would I do that

Are you a Capricorn too?


What would you do?


I'm a Capricorn and I would Hate a minimum wage job, just to get money.

Its a waste of time, when I COULD be working earning decent money.


Capricorns are all about work.


We don't just want a job.

We want a CAREER!


So the best thing you can do is Support him in finding jobs for his profession, maybe even look out for jobs for him that he may not have spotted himself, especially with a good wage for it, and tell him to apply.


Hope this helps.

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Posted by ClassyAquarius

Is he qualified properly? If he is then let him find his job, at the end he's still getting money from government.


If he's not qualified properly then encourage him to long term plan- like tell him he needs qualifications, so he should get any and then he should try to work on his carrier by getting wores job, but with promotion perspective.


My ex started from bottom, and I was the one who told him he should try get promotion on better position. He wasn't qualified enough for better jobs. The plan I presented to him worked and now he's more than ever satisfied with his job.


Capricorn often doesn’t understand their potential and they are edgy about it- they get under qualified job or they looking for something that may be not for their qualifications. It's good to talk with them and show them reality of what they can and can't. If it's genuine and logical advice they will Listen to it.


My ex was like this, and now he got great job and he's more than happy I engouraged him back then to look in diffrent perspectives about his career.

Posted by Arielle83

Are you putting pressure on him?


If you’re doing that, you’re showing him a lack of security or stability if you have hard times.


Sometimes you have give and take in a relationship and you might have to big the big earner.


Capricorn needs security.


You complained about how you resent him for picking that drug addict gold digger chick over you, and she made him broke.


You’ve mentioned he’s lost his drive and most likely depressed.


You chose to be with him when he’s not ready to be up, but trying to build himself up again.


The last thing he needs is his one source of comfort, pressuring him to make money fast, and to do something he doesn’t want to do to benefit your need for security.


He will lose faith in you if you make him feel inadequate since he’s already there on his own.

Posted by sugarplumeow

Posted by Arielle83

Are you putting pressure on him?


If you’re doing that, you’re showing him a lack of security or stability if you have hard times.


Sometimes you have give and take in a relationship and you might have to big the big earner.


Capricorn needs security.


You complained about how you resent him for picking that drug addict gold digger chick over you, and she made him broke.


You’ve mentioned he’s lost his drive and most likely depressed.


You chose to be with him when he’s not ready to be up, but trying to build himself up again.


The last thing he needs is his one source of comfort, pressuring him to make money fast, and to do something he doesn’t want to do to benefit your need for security.


He will lose faith in you if you make him feel inadequate since he’s already there on his own.

wow I never thought of it that way. Thank you. I just got worried because my cancer psychologist said "this relationship isn't going anywhere and he isn't trying ". I was floored that she said that, I thought he was trying hard. When I brought it up to her she said

"I said that? I don't remember that "

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Posted by pooface222

Posted by sugarplumeow

lol No why would I do that

Are you a Capricorn too?


What would you do?


I'm a Capricorn and I would Hate a minimum wage job, just to get money.

Its a waste of time, when I good be working earning decent money.


Capricorns are all about work.


We don't just want a job.

We want a CAREER!


So the best thing you can do is Support him in finding jobs for his profession, maybe even look out for jobs for him that he may not have spotted himself, especially with a good wage for it, and tell him to apply.


Hope this helps.

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Posted by Arielle83

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by Arielle83

Are you putting pressure on him?


If you’re doing that, you’re showing him a lack of security or stability if you have hard times.


Sometimes you have give and take in a relationship and you might have to big the big earner.


Capricorn needs security.


You complained about how you resent him for picking that drug addict gold digger chick over you, and she made him broke.


You’ve mentioned he’s lost his drive and most likely depressed.


You chose to be with him when he’s not ready to be up, but trying to build himself up again.


The last thing he needs is his one source of comfort, pressuring him to make money fast, and to do something he doesn’t want to do to benefit your need for security.


He will lose faith in you if you make him feel inadequate since he’s already there on his own.

Wait is this the backstory?


She took him back after he left her for a stripper? And is now supposeD to be holding him down?


This is why I will never advocate for a woman supporting a man financially. He’s going to use her to get up again and leave her again.


He is playing her.

That’s for her to figure out.


But an unemployed Capricorn is already inadequate in his own mind. If you pressure them they go deeper. It’s best to let them look for work like he’s doing and leave him be.


But I don’t agree with being serious with someone who is in his state since he’s got to figure his own shit out

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by pooface222

Posted by sugarplumeow

lol No why would I do that

Are you a Capricorn too?


What would you do?


I'm a Capricorn and I would Hate a minimum wage job, just to get money.

Its a waste of time, when I good be working earning decent money.


Capricorns are all about work.


We don't just want a job.

We want a CAREER!


So the best thing you can do is Support him in finding jobs for his profession, maybe even look out for jobs for him that he may not have spotted himself, especially with a good wage for it, and tell him to apply.


Hope this helps.

Look for jobs for him? That’s not her place nor is it her job. Let that man pull himself up by his own bootstraps.

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Posted by sugarplumeow

He doesn't want to get minimum wage job, but he's looking for jobs in his profession. He is also getting money from the government