Backstory: We went on a few dates, had sex, and then had a fall out cuz he pretty much stood me up. A year has gone by and we both dated other people. Throughout the year we would message and apologize for how he acted. I just ignored them as I was in a relationship with another guy.
Fast forward to now he sent me another apology saying he’s very sorry and asked if I could give him another chance. I caved and me meet up for drinks. He expresses how he was being stupid and shouldn’t have acted the way he did with me. I say we can be friends. Second time we chill we make out nothing serious. And then he messages me the day after saying we should meet up again after he’s back from his week trip. I say sure thing. It’s been more then a week and he hasn’t been messaged me anything yet but I see him active on what’s app.
I need some advice, do you think he’s busy and will get back to me eventually? Or was he playing me? What’s your insight?
My experience with Aquarius men is that they do everything intentionally, dont react and just turn cold.
Girl Aquarius men are seriously hot and cold and they want to choose when they do things and how it gets done. Being with one of them is not for the weak. They don’t want to be in a serious relationship IMO. If I were you I would randomly text him hey and then stop writing him at random times. I know it’s playing games but that’s what they do. I also feel like they do things with out thinking about it. Like that make out sesh was something that he was feeling at that moment. I think it u relax and don’t nag you could have him in your life for a long time
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
Based on your past interactions and his behavior I'd say don't take him seriously. Have fun with him when he circles back around, but don't put all your eggs in his basket. He ghosted you before, he will ghost you again. Its not so much an Aquarius thing but rather his nature.
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Aquarian men — push and pull
I had two long term rships with Aqua men
“Now you see me, now you don’t”
We slept together the next time I saw him, I rocked his world lol and I guess he was embarrassed about it. It was a good night but then we went quiet on me and when I reached out to him via text he left me on "read". I sent him a last text saying I didn't want to keep in contact anymore as I respect and deserve respect to at least get a text back and that I'm not an option for him. It was short-lived thought it could be different since he kept on reaching out but I thought wrong. Anyways he's gone now.