Aries and Aries Placements - why y’all so rude to waiters?

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

Posted by DMV

I’ve declined many of eating invites because I don’t want my food spit in.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

Posted by DMV

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I’ve bear witness to a few condescending conversations with between waiters and arians.


It’s so uncomfortable because you have these staff who are essentially blind sided by the smack down they’ve just received.


I’ve seen them go blank and in a state of shock over, imo, simple things.


But when I bring it up, the Arian has zero idea what I’m talking about. They don’t see themselves as rude. Instead they see themselves as “speaking up.”


I see myself as getting E. coli


I’m amazed that even sitting in the non dominant seated position, they still manage to dominate.


Just recently, Arian will order something off the menu and then change the ingredients, the way it’s prepared, add and take away. By the time their done ordering, it’s a totally different meal.


Food comes out and wouldn’t you guess it, it ain’t right and here comes the smackdown.


If you’re going to change the meal so much, go home and cook it yourself or go to a scratch kitchen.


It’s like they set themselves up for failure.


Meanwhile I’m praying the waitress doesn’t have Covid when she spits in my food.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by LadyNeptune

Examples? Share your traumatic experiences

I’ve bear witness to a few condescending conversations with between waiters and arians.


It’s so uncomfortable because you have these staff who are essentially blind sided by the smack down they’ve just received.


I’ve seen them go blank and in a state of shock over, imo, simple things.


But when I bring it up, the Arian has zero idea what I’m talking about. They don’t see themselves as rude. Instead they see themselves as “speaking up.”


I see myself as getting E. coli


I’m amazed that even sitting in the non dominant seated position, they still manage to dominate.


Just recently, Arian will order something off the menu and then change the ingredients, the way it’s prepared, add and take away. By the time their done ordering, it’s a totally different meal.


Food comes out and wouldn’t you guess it, it ain’t right and here comes the smackdown.


If you’re going to change the meal so much, go home and cook it yourself or go to a scratch kitchen.


It’s like they set themselves up for failure.


Meanwhile I’m praying the waitress doesn’t have Covid when she spits in my food.

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Posted by Wizardz_

Maybe you just have shitty friends 😂

Posted by Earthyfire

Hmm my Tripple Aries behind must be out the loop but I was taught to treat everyone with respect including waiters. The only time I become rude is only when the person was disrespectful to me first.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Earthyfire

Hmm my Tripple Aries behind must be out the loop but I was taught to treat everyone with respect including waiters. The only time I become rude is only when the person was disrespectful to me first.

Could it be that Aries just doesn’t notice their behavior?


For example, as a Sagittarius, I am not really concerned with the person. I am more concerned with people.


Aries is a personal sign and Sagittarius is an interpersonal sign.


🤔

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Posted by DMV

There was another Arian person who did the exact same thing.


She’s vegetarian. No problem with that.


So she will go into a restaurant and try to change a dish into a vegetarian dish.


Wouldn’t you know it, what she wanted versus what came out didn’t translate. And!! There was an extra charge for substitutions which was clearly stated on the menu. Waitress got berated and I felt bad.


Then while she waited she made a mess of the table. Sugar packets everywhere, sugar on the table, straw coverings, napkins. A toddler mess.



She then refused to tip and I asked why. She gave me a laundry list of problems as to why the wait wasn’t deserving.

She didn’t clean the table.

She didn’t ask me how my meal was.

She didn’t bring me a Togo cup.

She brought me out the wrong drink and even though she apologized and made good that she wouldn’t charge me..she didn’t take it back and it cluttered the table


Meanwhile the place was packed and there was a line waiting to get in. The girl was obviously swamped and a lil empathy would have gone a long way.


I’ve learned not to argue. Because the Arian never makes a valid point they just talk louder and louder.


I speak my mind and leave.

Posted by Earthyfire

The only time I become rude is only when the person was disrespectful to me first.

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Posted by DMV

There was another Arian person who did the exact same thing.


She’s vegetarian. No problem with that.


So she will go into a restaurant and try to change a dish into a vegetarian dish.


Wouldn’t you know it, what she wanted versus what came out didn’t translate. And!! There was an extra charge for substitutions which was clearly stated on the menu. Waitress got berated and I felt bad.


Then while she waited she made a mess of the table. Sugar packets everywhere, sugar on the table, straw coverings, napkins. A toddler mess.



She then refused to tip and I asked why. She gave me a laundry list of problems as to why the wait wasn’t deserving.

She didn’t clean the table.

She didn’t ask me how my meal was.

She didn’t bring me a Togo cup.

She brought me out the wrong drink and even though she apologized and made good that she wouldn’t charge me..she didn’t take it back and it cluttered the table


Meanwhile the place was packed and there was a line waiting to get in. The girl was obviously swamped and a lil empathy would have gone a long way.


I’ve learned not to argue. Because the Arian never makes a valid point they just talk louder and louder.


I speak my mind and leave.

What did you say after she gave you that laundry list?

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Posted by Earthyfire

Oh and if us Aries are stressed out and haven’t had a release of our negative energy and we just blow up or take it out on a person, our attitude and rudeness will come out but like I said we need to apologize and check ourselves.

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

I fully understand servers got it bad cus there are some rude customers out there. And you don't have to have any Aries placements to prove me wrong. Even I myself did the inevitable when I ordered a steak rare and they gave it to me med-rare. And by doing the inevitable I don't mean physical harm. I went out of my cool calm and charming character and went off.


All in all I can fully understand this thing from both sides. This why I don't ever want a waiter job...ever. I know I'll explode.

I had to return a steak for the same reason. I literally said I wanted it bloody. First one was what I would call well done brown in the middle, second pink. I don't eat steak out anymore because chefs think it is a health risk to do it blue.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by Earthyfire

Oh and if us Aries are stressed out and haven’t had a release of our negative energy and we just blow up or take it out on a person, our attitude and rudeness will come out but like I said we need to apologize and check ourselves.

This I can relate to. I can work with this logic and maybe find some ways to diffuse situations.


Thank you for sharing your vulnerability

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