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Jan 02, 2019Comments: 0 · Posts: 223 · Topics: 26
Sooo I’ve been dating this cancer man for 2 months. Everything felt too good to be true.(me- Aqua sun/Venus , Leo moon,Gemini rising) (him- cancer sun, Aqua moon, Gemini Venus, leo rising) he’s the first guy I’ve dated with really promising compatibility but we have a big age difference he’s 25 & im 29. Basically we were obsessed with each other up until a week ago the night of the eclipse. Btw I hate mercury retrograde this is insane. We spent as much time together as possible, we’re planning trips for the summer, I had clothes/items at his place & vice versa. I can honestly I’d never felt this complete with someone. So one night we had reservations for dinner & last minute something told me not to go. On the way there I saw 444 & 999 multiple times. His energy was off but he was still trying to keep it together and reassuring me. So after that night I felt his energy was off but I stayed positive. We got in multiple arguments over the next few days over pettiness mostly on my part bc I was feeling his energy was off and it was making me insecure. So finally I asked him was I his girlfriend.. & he told me he wasn’t ready yet. He just moved here from another country, & we’d been arguing alot so he confessed he needed more time to figure out if this is what he wants. I felt whiplashed. We’d already traveled, had future plans, I was so excited to feel seen. & now I had to take a step back. So the next day my guy friend hmu & said he had an extra ticket on helicopter ride so O went to cheer myself up & he got upset thinking it was a date but I assured him it wasn’t and that I spoke about him the entire time. After that we hung out a few more times everything felt fine. & then one night he tells me he’s going to take a nap(at 730pm) & he’ll call me when he wakes up. So no call from him, he’s watching my story & I noticed his name phone was on dnd. Cool. So next day I have him the space he wanted by ignoring his advances all day.. harsh I know but he ignored me and I felt like he now has another girl involved. So the next day I finally calmed down and hit him up & we made plans and he ghosted me! He claimed he got arrested bc his friend had a gun in the car getting pulled over to my house… who knows. So he hits me as soon as he gets bonded & I feel bad for assuming the worst and apologized. So he tells me he wants to see me that night & I told him I’ll call after I had a nap. I did so & he told me he was going out with his friends and he would hmu after. No calls nothing. Even today he didn’t call until 5pm.
What should I do? He’s not trying anymore. He usually texts me good morning/good night. He even came up with some wack excuse why we couldn’t go on our Hawaii trip.(we’re literally supposed to be there right now!). I’m heartbroken. I even threw up from the stress. I thought I found my person & I’m so tired of the universe messing with my head.
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Jan 02, 2019Comments: 0 · Posts: 223 · Topics: 26
Also to add in that since he’s told me he doesn’t want a relationship I’ve blocked him multiple times. The last thing I want is a toxic situationship. But he’ll reach out to me no caller ID & tell me everything I want to hear. Should I be patient or move on?
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Jan 02, 2019Comments: 0 · Posts: 223 · Topics: 26
I did read somewhere that people that leave your life during eclipses served their purpose… I just wanna know what was the point.