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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 1863 · Posts: 16901 · Topics: 108
I can't really read a chart like a true astrologer. Though I can say my life, as crazy as it always has been, actually made more sense before I knew I was a Scorpio moon. At that point I instantly had an excuse, or thing to point at for all my problems rather then actually looking at myself as a individual human.
So while I do deeply believe in astrology and the birth chart, you can't use that as a reason or excuse for being messed up. If anything your birth chart should be nothing more then a reference on how you can become better, and develop as an individual human.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30788 · Topics: 649
You tell us what you think the problem is?
I feel like ppl know exactly what the issue is but maybe we aren’t ready to acknowledge Sag moon?
Maybe you nag people to death with your Virgo
Maybe your two high maintenance with your Leo
Maybe you secretly sabotage your relationships with your Scorpio
Maybe you can be a know it all with your Sagittarius
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Mar 02, 2022Comments: 20 · Posts: 1238 · Topics: 21
i agree with the others.
don’t worry,
no one’s life is “doomed” because of a birth chart.
your birth chart might tell you where your strong points are and where your weak points are. It might give you clues about “tendencies” you may have but nothing in life is set in stone.
your bad luck with men:
are you careful and selective in choosing which men to give your time and energy to...? are you picking men who have a track record of being careless and irresponsible....?
your inability to settle down:
what fears and concerns are preventing you from wanting to settle down...?
a healthy and optimistic mindset will always get you far in life. I know it’s difficult to remain with a good mindset when real life circumstances are looking less than hopeful, but try to figure out what patterns have been interfering with your happiness.
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Sep 19, 2020Comments: 2863 · Posts: 1578 · Topics: 4
Do you relate to this?
Sun square moon.
What people who were born with Sun square Moon in their natal charts want and what they need are in conflict. The Sun square Moon aspect is similar to the Sun opposition Moon aspect in this sense, but there are very notable differences. Whereas the struggle between wants and needs is mostly played out on the inside and through significant relationships with Sun opposition Moon people, Sun square Moon people tend to confront obstacles that come from the outside. In truth, the struggle is within, as it is a case of being “one’s own worst enemy”. There can be a tendency to attract challenging situations into the life as an unconscious attempt to recreate the tension of early childhood. As well, specific habits and attitudes can hamper their progress in life.
These people experience a struggle between their need for nurture and their need for independence. When they get the autonomy that they seem to crave, they feel unsupported by others. When they receive the support they crave, they feel smothered. This internal clash is most apparent in the relationships they form, especially in the first half of their lives when they may not be aware of these patterns. Confrontations and challenges are frequent–not just with romantic partners, but also on the job, with friends, and so forth. However, these people have a lot of drive and spunk. They are resilient creatures who have faced conflict and who have survived it. Although they face a struggle with fluctuating energy, they are motivated to accomplish something. Ideally, they learn through experience to accomplish something for themselves rather than to prove their worth to others.
People born with a Sun-Moon tension can spend much of their lives struggling to balance the principles of the Sun and the Moon within their personalities, and will bring this struggle to some degree into their relationships. The urge to form meaningful relationships is generally powerful, but relationships can be as much of a struggle to these natives as the inner conflict is to themselves. This inner conflict occurs with the square, opposition, and quincunx. The desire to find meaningful relationships is stronger than it is when the natal Sun and Moon form a sextile or trine, and early relationships in particular can be challenging until the stressful aspects are recognized as an inner tension.
Sun square Moon suggests an internal “war” between two equally powerful desires: the desire for emotional commitment and the desire for autonomy. The native can be quite defensive and even belligerent with others, and often over-sensitive, which can take its toll in personal relationships. Partners may complain that the native often seems to be spoiling for a fight, and relationships can be turbulent until the native learns to compromise.