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Pisces (27M) broke up with me (22F) and wants me back?! (Am cancer)
This seems to be the M.O for a lot of Pisces men.....atleast the ones who have come into my life..... one of the huge reasons I don't date Pisces men anymore. I'm sure there are some good ones out there so don't hate on me, but that has just been my experience with the 4 I have dated.
Posted by SeaLion
This seems to be the M.O for a lot of Pisces men.....atleast the ones who have come into my life..... one of the huge reasons I don't date Pisces men anymore. I'm sure there are some good ones out there so don't hate on me, but that has just been my experience with the 4 I have dated.
If you don’t mind me probing, what’s your story and experience with them like?
Posted by SeaLion
This seems to be the M.O for a lot of Pisces men.....atleast the ones who have come into my life..... one of the huge reasons I don't date Pisces men anymore. I'm sure there are some good ones out there so don't hate on me, but that has just been my experience with the 4 I have dated.
• Thetalko.com "We Ranked The Zodiac Signs Who Are The Most Petty In A Relationship" #1 - Pisces
• Defeatnarcissism.com "5 Most Petty Zodiac Signs" #1 - Pisces
• Cafeastrology.com "Both adorable goldfish and predatory shark, a Piscean can often display a duality in his personality."
Pisces are either at the very top of pettiness lists or the very bottom... likely because of the last observation that Cafe Astrology made/mentioned.
I know that, personally, I have the ability to be suuuuuuuper petty when I'm hardcore irritated. Takes a lot to get me there but once I'm there all gloves are fkn off. This is why I almost always leave relationships on a good note when possible. Out of my LTR's there's only one that ended on... we'll call it... less-than-ideal... terms, and yep... I'm pretty petty towards her if and when our paths cross.
Don't get it twisted. Pisces men are amazing at being petty because it's not something you'd ever really expect so they weasel their way in somehow.
I've said enough I shouldn't be telling the Pisces secrets. Nah, nvm. It's cool nobody ever believes it anyway. We are harmless little dreaming fishies after all.
*Post Edit*... One of my favorite Pisces Memes (for all the wrong reasons)
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by TheApparitionPosted by SeaLion
This seems to be the M.O for a lot of Pisces men.....atleast the ones who have come into my life..... one of the huge reasons I don't date Pisces men anymore. I'm sure there are some good ones out there so don't hate on me, but that has just been my experience with the 4 I have dated.
• Thetalko.com "We Ranked The Zodiac Signs Who Are The Most Petty In A Relationship" #1 - Pisces
• Defeatnarcissism.com "5 Most Petty Zodiac Signs" #1 - Pisces
• Cafeastrology.com "Both adorable goldfish and predatory shark, a Piscean can often display a duality in his personality."
Pisces are either at the very top of pettiness lists or the very bottom... likely because of the last observation that Cafe Astrology made/mentioned.
I know that, personally, I have the ability to be suuuuuuuper petty when I'm hardcore irritated. Takes a lot to get me there but once I'm there all gloves are fkn off. This is why I almost always leave relationships on a good note when possible. Out of my LTR's there's only one that ended on... we'll call it... less-than-ideal... terms, and yep... I'm pretty petty towards her if and when our paths cross.
Don't get it twisted. Pisces men are amazing at being petty because it's not something you'd ever really expect so they weasel their way in somehow.
I've said enough I shouldn't be telling the Pisces secrets. Nah, nvm. It's cool nobody ever believes it anyway. We are harmless little dreaming fishies after all.
*Post Edit*... One of my favorite Pisces Memes (for all the wrong reasons)
At least you are self aware. After dating a few they have become so predictable to me and less desirable because of it. Water signs can be amazing together if both signs are self aware of their dark tendencies and are intentional about resisting those urges. Cancers can also play the victim card very well, scorpios can be vindictive and downright ugly. This is how astrology does help in some ways with self awareness, it has helped me anyway.click to expand
Most of my friends are Cancerian or Scorpio, but that's as far as I like to take things because in relationships sh*t can get really crazy really quickly, lol.
And yeah, Cancer often play the victim, but 9 times out of 10 they usually are only because they stuck their little hearts so far out there they got it squished. So, I mean, yeah it's kind of their fault but you've almost got to feel bad for them at the same time; lol. That's why when my Cancer friends start QQ-ing about their significant others I'm just like "Nope... I've got to go. I didn't buy a ticket to this pity party." They'll suck the energy right out of ya' with that shit.
Scorpio are vindictive but I low-key love that about them. Again, that's probably because I just keep it at the friendship level, so from a third-party perspective it's kind of entertaining. Haha
If I were to break it down into simple terms I would say: Cancer are accidentally crazy, Scorpio are literally crazy, and Pisces are subjectively crazy ↓
Posted by PhoenixStorm
The most recent Pisces I dated in 2018 started arguments over the “thumbs up” emoji. I was working and he sent me a link for an event that we would do together. I was busy working so briefly replied with a thumbs up emoji acknowledging that I thought it was a good idea. This dude threw a fucking temper tantrum and said he wasn’t coming because I had the audacity to use the thumbs up emoji instead of typing out a response 🤯
Another time we started out joking but it turned into an argument when he asked me if I would wipe his ass out of love (I’m a nurse) I told him no I wouldn’t wipe his ass because he can wipe his own ass. I told him my patients are unable to wipe their ass and that’s why I help them, but if he’s able to wipe his own ass there is Zero reason for me to do it. At first I Thought he was joking about his request until he started saying shit like “if you really loved me, you would do it”. He was 6 years younger than me too, so his age may have contributed but he was still in his thirties. 🤨 like grow the fuck up. I eventually grew tired of him and cut him off. Even just remembering this gets me irritated lol
Okay, no... That shit is all kinds of extra. You should have threw that mofkn fish right back in real quick. Like... I wouldn't have even taken the time to remove the hook from his mouth quick.
Posted by PhoenixStorm
@TheApparition my sister is a cancer and constantly plays the victim and acts entitled. I love her so much but she drains me, I have to avoid her a lot lately. We have not been getting along at all lol
I'll let you in on a secret for free...
To pacify a Cancer and/or Taurus all you need is some kind of Arts & Crafts or a Nature/Earth Documentary, lol.
Works each and every time. Haha.
You can just be like "oh can you help me fix this while you're talking" and then they'll just end up getting distracted focusing on whatever you're doing. Oh, and every now and then you're going to have to purposefully do something incorrect otherwise they'll get bored and think that they don't need to help you any longer. At that point you're just in the way of them dwelling again, haha.
You're welcome.
Posted by PhoenixStorm
@TheApparition my sister is a cancer and constantly plays the victim and acts entitled. I love her so much but she drains me, I have to avoid her a lot lately. We have not been getting along at all lol
I guess I did/was playing the victim when he broke up with me but I got over it. They say Cancers have trouble moving on from exes, but I guess that doesn't apply to me cause of my Leo moon?
Also, when he got back to contacting me he was saying how much he misses me and loves me, and wants to be together again.
Posted by Cancer96
I guess I did/was playing the victim when he broke up with me but I got over it. They say Cancers have trouble moving on from exes, but I guess that doesn't apply to me cause of my Leo moon?
Also, when he got back to contacting me he was saying how much he misses me and loves me, and wants to be together again.
Nope. It's not the Moon. As long as Cancer have another opportunity lined up somehow (either in their head or legitimately) they move on just fine. It's whenever the Cancerian doesn't have an image of some opportunity to grab onto that they become clingy crazy crabs.
And, like I told you in the dupe thread... You don't even wanna go down this road with that Piscean. Like don't even consider the why, lol. Don't even let him get into your head because once he does it's all downhill. You've had a couple other people tell you how crazy they could be, and I'm one and I'm telling you how crazy we could be. Just for your own sanity hang on to what you've got (and don't stress about what you had). Not this instance anyway. If you end up with another Pisces relationship that comes to an end keep it on good terms and then you don't have to worry about anyting thereafter.
@PhoenixStorm @Cancer96
Oh yeah! I forgot that I had posted two chapters from the "How to survive a Pisces" book some time ago in the past. I think the two chapters that I posted were "Problems" and "Solutions".
Just throwing that out there if you wanted to check it out.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/how-to-survive-a-pisces-ch-6-7-amp-mother--13718648/
Oh yeah! I forgot that I had posted two chapters from the "How to survive a Pisces" book some time ago in the past. I think the two chapters that I posted were "Problems" and "Solutions".
Just throwing that out there if you wanted to check it out.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/how-to-survive-a-pisces-ch-6-7-amp-mother--13718648/
Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Cancer96
I guess I did/was playing the victim when he broke up with me but I got over it. They say Cancers have trouble moving on from exes, but I guess that doesn't apply to me cause of my Leo moon?
Also, when he got back to contacting me he was saying how much he misses me and loves me, and wants to be together again.
Nope. It's not the Moon. As long as Cancer have another opportunity lined up somehow (either in their head or legitimately) they move on just fine. It's whenever the Cancerian doesn't have an image of some opportunity to grab onto that they become clingy crazy crabs.
And, like I told you in the dupe thread... You don't even wanna go down this road with that Piscean. Like don't even consider the why, lol. Don't even let him get into your head because once he does it's all downhill. You've had a couple other people tell you how crazy they could be, and I'm one and I'm telling you how crazy we could be. Just for your own sanity hang on to what you've got (and don't stress about what you had). Not this instance anyway. If you end up with another Pisces relationship that comes to an end keep it on good terms and then you don't have to worry about anyting thereafter.click to expand
True, guess that's just me overthinking it lol.
The reason why that ex had broken up with me in the first place came down to trust issues. He went out partying with others, without me or letting me know several times, and I felt upset. He also once claimed that he was 'helping a friend move' to her new house, but later that day when I called I found out that he and her were both spending the night at a hotel, and that made me anxious. I felt insecure about it, but I kept it bottled up until one day I just exploded at him about all those events. He got upset and broke it off.
Another thing that annoys me when others say Cancers are overly emotional. We're really not, we just keep things bottled up until it's too much and explode at the person responsible.
Posted by Cancer96Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Cancer96
I guess I did/was playing the victim when he broke up with me but I got over it. They say Cancers have trouble moving on from exes, but I guess that doesn't apply to me cause of my Leo moon?
Also, when he got back to contacting me he was saying how much he misses me and loves me, and wants to be together again.
Nope. It's not the Moon. As long as Cancer have another opportunity lined up somehow (either in their head or legitimately) they move on just fine. It's whenever the Cancerian doesn't have an image of some opportunity to grab onto that they become clingy crazy crabs.
And, like I told you in the dupe thread... You don't even wanna go down this road with that Piscean. Like don't even consider the why, lol. Don't even let him get into your head because once he does it's all downhill. You've had a couple other people tell you how crazy they could be, and I'm one and I'm telling you how crazy we could be. Just for your own sanity hang on to what you've got (and don't stress about what you had). Not this instance anyway. If you end up with another Pisces relationship that comes to an end keep it on good terms and then you don't have to worry about anyting thereafter.
True, guess that's just me overthinking it lol.
The reason why that ex had broken up with me in the first place came down to trust issues. He went out partying with others, without me or letting me know several times, and I felt upset. He also once claimed that he was 'helping a friend move' to her new house, but later that day when I called I found out that he and her were both spending the night at a hotel, and that made me anxious. I felt insecure about it, but I kept it bottled up until one day I just exploded at him about all those events. He got upset and broke it off.
Another thing that annoys me when others say Cancers are overly emotional. We're really not, we just keep things bottled up until it's too much and explode at the person responsible.click to expand
Overly Emotional, nah. Overtly Emotional; absolutely.
Posted by Cancer96Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Cancer96
I guess I did/was playing the victim when he broke up with me but I got over it. They say Cancers have trouble moving on from exes, but I guess that doesn't apply to me cause of my Leo moon?
Also, when he got back to contacting me he was saying how much he misses me and loves me, and wants to be together again.
Nope. It's not the Moon. As long as Cancer have another opportunity lined up somehow (either in their head or legitimately) they move on just fine. It's whenever the Cancerian doesn't have an image of some opportunity to grab onto that they become clingy crazy crabs.
And, like I told you in the dupe thread... You don't even wanna go down this road with that Piscean. Like don't even consider the why, lol. Don't even let him get into your head because once he does it's all downhill. You've had a couple other people tell you how crazy they could be, and I'm one and I'm telling you how crazy we could be. Just for your own sanity hang on to what you've got (and don't stress about what you had). Not this instance anyway. If you end up with another Pisces relationship that comes to an end keep it on good terms and then you don't have to worry about anyting thereafter.
True, guess that's just me overthinking it lol.
The reason why that ex had broken up with me in the first place came down to trust issues. He went out partying with others, without me or letting me know several times, and I felt upset. He also once claimed that he was 'helping a friend move' to her new house, but later that day when I called I found out that he and her were both spending the night at a hotel, and that made me anxious. I felt insecure about it, but I kept it bottled up until one day I just exploded at him about all those events. He got upset and broke it off.
Another thing that annoys me when others say Cancers are overly emotional. We're really not, we just keep things bottled up until it's too much and explode at the person responsible.click to expand
Female Water Signs:
Cancer
Scorpio
Pisces
Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Cancer96Posted by TheApparitionPosted by Cancer96
I guess I did/was playing the victim when he broke up with me but I got over it. They say Cancers have trouble moving on from exes, but I guess that doesn't apply to me cause of my Leo moon?
Also, when he got back to contacting me he was saying how much he misses me and loves me, and wants to be together again.
Nope. It's not the Moon. As long as Cancer have another opportunity lined up somehow (either in their head or legitimately) they move on just fine. It's whenever the Cancerian doesn't have an image of some opportunity to grab onto that they become clingy crazy crabs.
And, like I told you in the dupe thread... You don't even wanna go down this road with that Piscean. Like don't even consider the why, lol. Don't even let him get into your head because once he does it's all downhill. You've had a couple other people tell you how crazy they could be, and I'm one and I'm telling you how crazy we could be. Just for your own sanity hang on to what you've got (and don't stress about what you had). Not this instance anyway. If you end up with another Pisces relationship that comes to an end keep it on good terms and then you don't have to worry about anyting thereafter.
True, guess that's just me overthinking it lol.
The reason why that ex had broken up with me in the first place came down to trust issues. He went out partying with others, without me or letting me know several times, and I felt upset. He also once claimed that he was 'helping a friend move' to her new house, but later that day when I called I found out that he and her were both spending the night at a hotel, and that made me anxious. I felt insecure about it, but I kept it bottled up until one day I just exploded at him about all those events. He got upset and broke it off.
Another thing that annoys me when others say Cancers are overly emotional. We're really not, we just keep things bottled up until it's too much and explode at the person responsible.
Female Water Signs:
Cancer
Scorpio
Pisces
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/5a/0e/1a/5a0e1a0e923ce1bcdb1544597858729d.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Scorpio is so true. (Source: Mother is a Scorpio, and that's the "emotional" support she gave me would look like)
I’d find it pretty gross that he’s disrespecting your current relationship like that. Why even entertain him by allowing him contact. I’d have blocked him from everything.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I’d find it pretty gross that he’s disrespecting your current relationship like that. Why even entertain him by allowing him contact. I’d have blocked him from everything.
Cause he wanted us to be just 'friends' but overtime he clearly hasn't been acting like a friend. He gets annoyed whenever I talk about my relationship, my partner or whenever I have to go do smth with him.
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