WarEternal
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Should I?- Pisces
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
Posted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
She posted it (same thing) 2 months ago…
It’s like an epidemics of repetitive posts lately…WTF?
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
Posted by GemiMayPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
She posted it (same thing) 2 months ago…
It’s like an epidemics of repetitive posts lately…WTF?click to expand
Nothing new under the dxp sun 😢
Posted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃
Posted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃click to expand
There is a huge difference between lashing out because you did something that "offended" him and reaching out because he cares about you!
Posted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
Posted by UndinePosted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃
There is a huge difference between lashing out because you did something that "offended" him and reaching out because he cares about you!click to expand
So it was mostly his ego being hurt?
Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing himclick to expand
You shouldn't feel guilty about removing him when he wasn't there for you and was not showing up for you when you needed him. You made very huge efforts to come to him, and he didn't appreciate them and is now trying to shift blame and make it seem like it was your fault.
Trust your gut and know you made the right decision for yourself , even though it was impulsive, it was a good move.
Sometimes people are only meant to be in your life for a season, not a long time. Hopefully you can find new ways of making friends. You met him, right? There are others that will come into your life.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You shouldn't feel guilty about removing him when he wasn't there for you and was not showing up for you when you needed him. You made very huge efforts to come to him, and he didn't appreciate them and is now trying to shift blame and make it seem like it was your fault.
Trust your gut and know you made the right decision for yourself , even though it was impulsive, it was a good move.
Sometimes people are only meant to be in your life for a season, not a long time. Hopefully you can find new ways of making friends. You met him, right? There are others that will come into your life.click to expand
You’re right and this hit me right in the heart 😩 I’ve learned a lot from this as I’m still a novice dealing with people. The awkward thing is that he’s in a European band that I like which is how we met 😅 so if he ever comes back, just treat it like nothing like it didn’t bother me? His coworkers did nothing wrong which is why I’m still okay seeing them
Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You shouldn't feel guilty about removing him when he wasn't there for you and was not showing up for you when you needed him. You made very huge efforts to come to him, and he didn't appreciate them and is now trying to shift blame and make it seem like it was your fault.
Trust your gut and know you made the right decision for yourself , even though it was impulsive, it was a good move.
Sometimes people are only meant to be in your life for a season, not a long time. Hopefully you can find new ways of making friends. You met him, right? There are others that will come into your life.
You’re right and this hit me right in the heart 😩 I’ve learned a lot from this as I’m still a novice dealing with people. The awkward thing is that he’s in a European band that I like which is how we met 😅 so if he ever comes back, just treat it like nothing like it didn’t bother me? His coworkers did nothing wrong which is why I’m still okay seeing themclick to expand
This is the problem with feelings. You can't see it right now because you care too much.
IF he ever comes back and your feelings are dead and gone, you won't even be wondering what it will be like if you run into each other. It will just be like running into an old friend, ~ not that big of a deal. You may not be able to imagine it right now, because your feelings are overwhelming.
Now that you have started traveling, there are plenty more places to meet and collect friends along the way. You have nothing to worry about when it comes to meeting new people. Like minded people gravitate towards each other and connect naturally. 🙂
I went out to Europe twice and the same DXP member was willing to meet up and hang out with me both times- NON romantically. This is a true friend.
If a man wants to, he will.
If a man wants to, he will.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You shouldn't feel guilty about removing him when he wasn't there for you and was not showing up for you when you needed him. You made very huge efforts to come to him, and he didn't appreciate them and is now trying to shift blame and make it seem like it was your fault.
Trust your gut and know you made the right decision for yourself , even though it was impulsive, it was a good move.
Sometimes people are only meant to be in your life for a season, not a long time. Hopefully you can find new ways of making friends. You met him, right? There are others that will come into your life.
You’re right and this hit me right in the heart 😩 I’ve learned a lot from this as I’m still a novice dealing with people. The awkward thing is that he’s in a European band that I like which is how we met 😅 so if he ever comes back, just treat it like nothing like it didn’t bother me? His coworkers did nothing wrong which is why I’m still okay seeing them
This is the problem with feelings. You can't see it right now because you care too much.
IF he ever comes back and your feelings are dead and gone, you won't even be wondering what it will be like if you run into each other. It will just be like running into an old friend, ~ not that big of a deal. You may not be able to imagine it right now, because your feelings are overwhelming.
Now that you have started traveling, there are plenty more places to meet and collect friends along the way. You have nothing to worry about when it comes to meeting new people. Like minded people gravitate towards each other and connect naturally. 🙂click to expand
Yes, I do care a lot LOL my feelings are either 100% or none 😅 it’s still a fresh wound, but I do overthink of the “ what ifs” if we bump into each other. It’s only awkward if I make it awkward but I don’t want to be the petty person by ignoring so I’ll just acknowledge him with a gesture or smile and move on which is the best scenario
You understood me so well and I thank you for taking the time to respond. I feel less alone with the knowledge that you helped me with. I’m sure I will meet better people along the way in my next adventure
Posted by saggurl88
I went out to Europe twice and the same DXP member was willing to meet up and hang out with me both times- NON romantically. This is a true friend.
If a man wants to, he will.
This is so wholesome and awesome 🥹
Posted by UndinePosted by WarEternalPosted by UndinePosted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃
There is a huge difference between lashing out because you did something that "offended" him and reaching out because he cares about you!
So it was mostly his ego being hurt?
Yep. Impulsive lashing out after offence taking is often the main reason why Pisces respond "on time" 😄click to expand
Oh boy 😅and I still have a lot to learn about these men in this sign as I’m always drawn to them 💀
I don't want to come off as too harsh... but I probably will so oops.
Why did you rearrange your schedule and spend your monies to visit someone off of an "your attractive"? That is a total throwaway comment imo. I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs. He needs to do more than lightly flirt to be awarded with your effort here. Cause obviously you were/are more invested than him and ended up with a lighter wallet, disappointment and hurt feels for your troubles.
Why did you rearrange your schedule and spend your monies to visit someone off of an "your attractive"? That is a total throwaway comment imo. I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs. He needs to do more than lightly flirt to be awarded with your effort here. Cause obviously you were/are more invested than him and ended up with a lighter wallet, disappointment and hurt feels for your troubles.
Posted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing himclick to expand
You’ve been told that 2 months ago!
Posted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You’ve been told that 2 months ago!click to expand
Please screenshot as I posted this with the intention of updating. All I remember, was that we were still friends at the time. He was never malicious against me which is why I gave the benefit of the doubt
Posted by WarEternalPosted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You’ve been told that 2 months ago!
Please screenshot as I posted this with the intention of updating. All I remember, was that we were still friends at the time. He was never malicious against me which is why I gave the benefit of the doubtclick to expand
It’s not an update. It’s the same shit. He didn’t want you and he still don’t and you still do. The end.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I don't want to come off as too harsh... but I probably will so oops.
Why did you rearrange your schedule and spend your monies to visit someone off of an "your attractive"? That is a total throwaway comment imo. I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs. He needs to do more than lightly flirt to be awarded with your effort here. Cause obviously you were/are more invested than him and ended up with a lighter wallet, disappointment and hurt feels for your troubles.
What rearranging? I didn’t go to Europe for just for the sole purpose of just seeing him? I had girlfriends that wanted to go to Europe and thought it would be nice to knock out two birds with one stone. To clarify, it wasn’t just attraction, we actually bonded, became close and I just didn’t understand what went wrong throughout this whole madness. I’m quite upset you’re just assuming my actions without asking questions as I will never fuck him unless I’m in a relationship. Flirting doesn’t hurt anyone…
Posted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You’ve been told that 2 months ago!
Please screenshot as I posted this with the intention of updating. All I remember, was that we were still friends at the time. He was never malicious against me which is why I gave the benefit of the doubt
It’s not an update. It’s the same shit. He didn’t want you and he still don’t and you still do. The end.click to expand
It is an update 🙂
Posted by WarEternalPosted by LadyNeptune
I don't want to come off as too harsh... but I probably will so oops.
Why did you rearrange your schedule and spend your monies to visit someone off of an "your attractive"? That is a total throwaway comment imo. I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs. He needs to do more than lightly flirt to be awarded with your effort here. Cause obviously you were/are more invested than him and ended up with a lighter wallet, disappointment and hurt feels for your troubles.
What rearranging? I didn’t go to Europe for just for the sole purpose of just seeing him? I had girlfriends that wanted to go to Europe and thought it would be nice to knock out two birds with one stone. To clarify, it wasn’t just attraction, we actually bonded, became close and I just didn’t understand what went wrong throughout this whole madness. I’m quite upset you’re just assuming my actions without asking questions as I will never fuck him unless I’m in a relationship. Flirting doesn’t hurt anyone…click to expand
It hurt you tho... cause your here asking about this dude again.
Idk how close the bond is if he is ignoring you when your trying to do the most to meet up. Its one thing to not be available. Its another to let weeks go by without a simple explanation.
I never said you would fuck him, wha? I said finding someone attractive means next to nothing for this Pisces! I feel you read too much into the flirting and thought there was something of substance there. That's why you feel hurt by him. If it was nothing then you wouldn't still be talking about him and wondering about his motivations. Cut your loses at this point.
Posted by WarEternalPosted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You’ve been told that 2 months ago!
Please screenshot as I posted this with the intention of updating. All I remember, was that we were still friends at the time. He was never malicious against me which is why I gave the benefit of the doubt
It’s not an update. It’s the same shit. He didn’t want you and he still don’t and you still do. The end.
It is an update 🙂click to expand
Yeah. 5 months of same shit. Update my ass!
Posted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by GemiMayPosted by WarEternalPosted by saggurl88
Nope, I think you should cut your loses. The fantasy was ok until it turned into a reality and you making efforts to see him and then him backing out cause he all the sudden got busy and was going through a lot.
Cut your losses and move on. Your emotions did you a solid. It's a waste of time to be romantically interested in someone on another continent, unless you both agree that it will turn into more.
You going out there and him being busy is a red flag, IMO.
He couldn't even get back to you when you wanted to talk after he flaked?!
Save your emotions for someone who cares about you. This is wasted energy. "Sort of" friends isn't worth much.
I gave up on the idea of being romantic back in August and just wanted to be platonic, but yes you’re right . I needed this hard truth and appreciate your directness, I just have nobody to talk to 😞 it’s strange I have no ill feelings towards him even though he said he was the one being disappointed in me for my impulsive actions of removing him
You’ve been told that 2 months ago!
Please screenshot as I posted this with the intention of updating. All I remember, was that we were still friends at the time. He was never malicious against me which is why I gave the benefit of the doubt
It’s not an update. It’s the same shit. He didn’t want you and he still don’t and you still do. The end.
It is an update 🙂
Yeah. 5 months of same shit. Update my ass!click to expand
I feel so sorry for you 🙂 keep entertaining me as thankfully I freely vent and post here as I want
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by WarEternalPosted by LadyNeptune
I don't want to come off as too harsh... but I probably will so oops.
Why did you rearrange your schedule and spend your monies to visit someone off of an "your attractive"? That is a total throwaway comment imo. I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs. He needs to do more than lightly flirt to be awarded with your effort here. Cause obviously you were/are more invested than him and ended up with a lighter wallet, disappointment and hurt feels for your troubles.
What rearranging? I didn’t go to Europe for just for the sole purpose of just seeing him? I had girlfriends that wanted to go to Europe and thought it would be nice to knock out two birds with one stone. To clarify, it wasn’t just attraction, we actually bonded, became close and I just didn’t understand what went wrong throughout this whole madness. I’m quite upset you’re just assuming my actions without asking questions as I will never fuck him unless I’m in a relationship. Flirting doesn’t hurt anyone…
It hurt you tho... cause your here asking about this dude again.
Idk how close the bond is if he is ignoring you when your trying to do the most to meet up. Its one thing to not be available. Its another to let weeks go by without a simple explanation.
I never said you would fuck him, wha? I said finding someone attractive means next to nothing for this Pisces! I feel you read too much into the flirting and thought there was something of substance there. That's why you feel hurt by him. If it was nothing then you wouldn't still be talking about him and wondering about his motivations. Cut your loses at this point.click to expand
“I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs”
this is where maybe the miscommunication occurred as I thinking one thing and you another, but your follow up makes sense now. Going by physical doesn’t mean anything for me either! We “had” a connection that was ongoing til mid August. He kept trying to keep me when he stated that his disappearance had nothing to do with me and hope it doesn’t affect things
Of course I’m still hurt! We flirted but I forgot to mention he love bombed me as I’m now reading past messages and he slowly took that away. Which is why I’m in a rollercoaster of emotions that left me confused and hurt. I wished he would’ve told me as I could’ve kill the emotions sooner and none of this would’ve happened. As I stated to another user, I don’t have anyone to talk to and this makes the process a little slower. Most people have different pacing to get over things. I hope this clarifies
Posted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃click to expand
You want the truth?
You don't know if he is truly too busy or not.
What is apparent, yes there are mutual feelings yet attachment is weak. So a course priority is low....on his end.
That's the truth of current relationship.
What you did is a red flag of emotional maturity and stability.
AND/OR
You over invested and reacted as such when things didn't go the way you want.
Been there done that myself.
Got to put yourself in thier shoes with info and understanding you have objectively.
This is what it means to understand someone.
The door is closed but not locked. You can repair the damage to your relationship.
It sounds like you blamed him for your emotional response and he got defensive and offended. That's understandable.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃
You want the truth?
You don't know if he is truly too busy or not.
What is apparent, yes there are mutual feelings yet attachment is weak. So a course priority is low....on his end.
That's the truth of current relationship.
What you did is a red flag of emotional maturity and stability.
AND/OR
You over invested and reacted as such when things didn't go the way you want.
Been there done that myself.
Got to put yourself in thier shoes with info and understanding you have objectively.
This is what it means to understand someone.
The door is closed but not locked. You can repair the damage to your relationship.
It sounds like you blamed him for your emotional response and he got defensive and offended. That's understandable.click to expand
How can I repair when he ghosted me? How was I red flag when all I wanted was just concrete communication that’ll take less than a minute while I was in Europe? I literally wanted to move forward with boundaries to a healthy friendship as there wasn’t any before. I was mostly upset with the disrespect that he couldn’t get back to me and I gave him 2 and a half weeks to reply. In August, he disappeared for 2 weeks without saying anything and I left it alone til he came back. Idk, I thought I was pretty patient 🤔 I admitted I was impulsive(due to things that were unsaid and building up) but I still communicated. The end goal wasn’t to terminate my relationship with him, but to have space and get back to him later with emotional detox. This could’ve been settled in 10 minutes on the phone, but he made an excuse that he wanted to text. Not sure if he’s that upset or just was done with me. He hasn’t blocked me so it’s quite uncertain. One thing is for certain is that I tried
Posted by WarEternalPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃
You want the truth?
You don't know if he is truly too busy or not.
What is apparent, yes there are mutual feelings yet attachment is weak. So a course priority is low....on his end.
That's the truth of current relationship.
What you did is a red flag of emotional maturity and stability.
AND/OR
You over invested and reacted as such when things didn't go the way you want.
Been there done that myself.
Got to put yourself in thier shoes with info and understanding you have objectively.
This is what it means to understand someone.
The door is closed but not locked. You can repair the damage to your relationship.
It sounds like you blamed him for your emotional response and he got defensive and offended. That's understandable.
How can I repair when he ghosted me? How was I red flag when all I wanted was just concrete communication that’ll take less than a minute while I was in Europe? I literally wanted to move forward with boundaries to a healthy friendship as there wasn’t any before. I was mostly upset with the disrespect that he couldn’t get back to me and I gave him 2 and a half weeks to reply. In August, he disappeared for 2 weeks without saying anything and I left it alone til he came back. Idk, I thought I was pretty patient 🤔 I admitted I was impulsive(due to things that were unsaid and building up) but I still communicated. The end goal wasn’t to terminate my relationship with him, but to have space and get back to him later with emotional detox. This could’ve been settled in 10 minutes on the phone, but he made an excuse that he wanted to text. Not sure if he’s that upset or just was done with me. He hasn’t blocked me so it’s quite uncertain. One thing is for certain is that I triedclick to expand
My bad I was talking talking to someone and skipped over part of your post with timelines. The timeline gaps between communication, shows his actual interest level and where you stand with him... period. Fucking weeks? Takes minutes to respond to a text and he could have just be honest with you. You would have been ok if he said he wasn't interested in more right?
My bad your solid. You can find the things you liked and wanted elsewhere with someone who reciprocates. Dudes just wants to be pin pals right now, then so be it. Give him 3 months, that how long emotional stuff takes to fade for people.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by WarEternalPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by WarEternalPosted by Undine
You shouldn't. He wants an easygoing online acquaintance....you are holding a candle for him.
A Pisces is never busy when he's interested in securing the one he wants. I mean, he could be extremely busy, but "the one" will always be on his mind. They would do anything to see her.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I gave up on the idea of being romantic with him and just wanted to be friends but I’m just confused because that if he didn’t “care” why bother reaching out? 🙃
You want the truth?
You don't know if he is truly too busy or not.
What is apparent, yes there are mutual feelings yet attachment is weak. So a course priority is low....on his end.
That's the truth of current relationship.
What you did is a red flag of emotional maturity and stability.
AND/OR
You over invested and reacted as such when things didn't go the way you want.
Been there done that myself.
Got to put yourself in thier shoes with info and understanding you have objectively.
This is what it means to understand someone.
The door is closed but not locked. You can repair the damage to your relationship.
It sounds like you blamed him for your emotional response and he got defensive and offended. That's understandable.
How can I repair when he ghosted me? How was I red flag when all I wanted was just concrete communication that’ll take less than a minute while I was in Europe? I literally wanted to move forward with boundaries to a healthy friendship as there wasn’t any before. I was mostly upset with the disrespect that he couldn’t get back to me and I gave him 2 and a half weeks to reply. In August, he disappeared for 2 weeks without saying anything and I left it alone til he came back. Idk, I thought I was pretty patient 🤔 I admitted I was impulsive(due to things that were unsaid and building up) but I still communicated. The end goal wasn’t to terminate my relationship with him, but to have space and get back to him later with emotional detox. This could’ve been settled in 10 minutes on the phone, but he made an excuse that he wanted to text. Not sure if he’s that upset or just was done with me. He hasn’t blocked me so it’s quite uncertain. One thing is for certain is that I tried
My bad I was talking talking to someone and skipped over part of your post with timelines. The timeline gaps between communication, shows his actual interest level and where you stand with him... period. Fucking weeks? Takes minutes to respond to a text and he could have just be honest with you. You would have been ok if he said he wasn't interested in more right?
My bad you’re solid. You can find the things you liked and wanted elsewhere with someone who reciprocates. Dudes just wants to be pin pals right now, then so be it. Give him 3 months, that how long emotional stuff takes to fade for people.click to expand
Glad I was able to clarify! He told me he was being overwhelmed, busy, tells me that it had nothing to do with me and hope it didn’t come off as snobbing 🙄
I would’ve been fine if he told me! I wouldn’t had expectations and killed the emotions earlier, but still care as a friend, but who knows what the motives are for not saying anything
Posted by WarEternalPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by WarEternalPosted by LadyNeptune
I don't want to come off as too harsh... but I probably will so oops.
Why did you rearrange your schedule and spend your monies to visit someone off of an "your attractive"? That is a total throwaway comment imo. I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs. He needs to do more than lightly flirt to be awarded with your effort here. Cause obviously you were/are more invested than him and ended up with a lighter wallet, disappointment and hurt feels for your troubles.
What rearranging? I didn’t go to Europe for just for the sole purpose of just seeing him? I had girlfriends that wanted to go to Europe and thought it would be nice to knock out two birds with one stone. To clarify, it wasn’t just attraction, we actually bonded, became close and I just didn’t understand what went wrong throughout this whole madness. I’m quite upset you’re just assuming my actions without asking questions as I will never fuck him unless I’m in a relationship. Flirting doesn’t hurt anyone…
It hurt you tho... cause your here asking about this dude again.
Idk how close the bond is if he is ignoring you when your trying to do the most to meet up. Its one thing to not be available. Its another to let weeks go by without a simple explanation.
I never said you would fuck him, wha? I said finding someone attractive means next to nothing for this Pisces! I feel you read too much into the flirting and thought there was something of substance there. That's why you feel hurt by him. If it was nothing then you wouldn't still be talking about him and wondering about his motivations. Cut your loses at this point.
“I am constantly finding people attractive. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them or start a relationship ijs”
this is where maybe the miscommunication occurred as I thinking one thing and you another, but your follow up makes sense now. Going by physical doesn’t mean anything for me either! We “had” a connection that was ongoing til mid August. He kept trying to keep me when he stated that his disappearance had nothing to do with me and hope it doesn’t affect things
Of course I’m still hurt! We flirted but I forgot to mention he love bombed me as I’m now reading past messages and he slowly took that away. Which is why I’m in a rollercoaster of emotions that left me confused and hurt. I wished he would’ve told me as I could’ve kill the emotions sooner and none of this would’ve happened. As I stated to another user, I don’t have anyone to talk to and this makes the process a little slower. Most people have different pacing to get over things. I hope this clarifiesclick to expand
So the lesson here is be wary of the love bombers. They come on strong and fade out just as strong.
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