What y’all hate about us?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by Aquavina on Monday, July 3, 2023 and has 45 replies.
What’s have you noticed to be Aquarius worst qualities?

Tell stories. Tell it aallllll 😩😂

Any cheaters? Any tried to stab you in your sleep? 🫣
Y'all are always dating people, which means I never get to date your crazy ass. Literally 90% of people I'm attracted to are aquarius, but you're always in a damn relationship. My relationship ending days are long gone. I just want to meet one of you that are single already. Like God damn.
Pornstars that find Jesus

Or are those sags I can’t remember
Thinking your shit is enlightened and ground breaking, when it's really just the same boring concepts everyone's have heard before. And then trying to explain something really left of field to an aqua and they just don't understand it at all and want to keep talking about their basic shit. At least they follow through with their basic shit and make it a reality, which is impressive.

Self righteousness, hypocritical, “Do as I say not as I do”, emotionally constipated, self reflection/apology take a year+

I love aquas, they are my fav sign btw
They are both considerate yet inconsiderate at the same time. Too inflexible and wanting things their way all the time. I have an Aqua BFF and yes she's tolerant but lately she's been treating me like I'm some exotic creature from SE Asia and I'm like, bish.. I'm both ok. I'm American AND Asian. Please don't tell me about my own country because it's not a curiosity and you're not PT Barnum. Well, anyway. I often wonder if I was from Ghana, would my bff be sending me all the latest news from West Africa or some such?
Why does it matter? I'm not going to tell her the history of the Irish or be like, hey, heard of James Joyce? What do you think about him? You're part irish right?
i think there are 2 sides to aquas like there's the incredibly socially-intelligent BFF material then there's that scamming build-a-cult side.

personally, i still like them even with the scamming and trolling. brilliant social strategists, might even exceed libra.
I just know this one Aqua lady who knows she got it going on. Sometimes I don't know if she be dressing scantily clad like that on purpose to arouse me or what but whatever the reason it worked. I knew another Aquarius lady that was similar though this one didn't hesitate to drop her panties right smack dab in my face to show me her butt tattoo. I don't know if all Aquarius women are of a freaky nature like that but it seems all of them are.

As far as what I hate about them. Actually nothing really. Or less I'm being bias. That's one of the only sign I never butt heads with.
Nothing, really. Your cool, curious, factual and friendly demeanour and your listening abilities are a welcome respite from all those dull, suffocating, clingy, self absorbed, trend following, incessantly talking for the sake of hearing their own voice individuals.
Being too interesting and original 🤣🙃⚡️
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
They're the worst offenders of marrying a fat and ugly chick or an obviously insecure single mom and acting smug about it bc they got someone who they can cheat on and get away with it without opening the relationship

They're not always openly obsessed w the wife but whenever I see a fit popular dude fawning excessively over his overweight plain partner on SM the dude turns out to be an Aqua
huh

is that the psychology behind it?

coz i know someone who always believed in 'curbing single moms' (also claims she's fat) but end up settling with one like why would a guy be with someone they don't find attractive? very strange.

oh and he had aqua venus.
Posted by virgoOPPP
i think there are 2 sides to aquas like there's the incredibly socially-intelligent BFF material then there's that scamming build-a-cult side.

personally, i still like them even with the scamming and trolling. brilliant social strategists, might even exceed libra.
You’re spot on with the two variants of Aqua. A long time ago my sister took me to cult, a legitimate cult after explaining to me the rules of conduct (lol). She and the rest of the followers were very impressed with the cult leader. I was astonished by all things that were taking place there and how these people including my sister were behaving. When the leader came, there was something I saw in his style of “explanation” and the way he carried himself (the detached aura) that reminded me of me. After I left disgusted, I asked sis if he’s an Aqua. Turns out he is Aqua sun and mars. I’m not the cult leader type though. I did see through him.


1-saviour conmen complex. They pretend to work for the common good and things like that, they make union leaders, politicians, guru, but in the end they mostly work for themselves and their bank account

2-they can be real bullies with family/spouses. Verbally abuse family members for years, with little insults, mockery, they love to do that shit, like it's a game for them. They love to keep people chained to themselves just for that

3-they lie very easily
Some of y’all didn’t hold back 🤣🤣 we appreciate the honesty tho
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Posted by nanochip
Self righteousness, hypocritical, “Do as I say not as I do”, emotionally constipated, self reflection/apology take a year+
I love aquas, they are my fav sign btw


A Gemini calling someone else emotionally constipated !? 😂
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Yea the 1 year+ apology timeline for the aquas in my life spells that out pretty clearly. Most people move on by then, but I guess the fixedness means they stew. They are (or act) much more detached overall generally
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Posted by nanochip
Self righteousness, hypocritical, “Do as I say not as I do”, emotionally constipated, self reflection/apology take a year+
I love aquas, they are my fav sign btw


A Gemini calling someone else emotionally constipated !? 😂


Yea the 1 year+ apology timeline for the aquas in my life spells that out pretty clearly. Most people move on by then, but I guess the fixedness means they stew. They are (or act) much more detached overall generally
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What does 1 year + apology timeline mean?

I don’t know- I’ve met more detached Geminis than Aquas. It’s just that Geminis get over things more quickly .. too quickly really .. to the point it gives you whiplash and youre left wondering why they switch personalities so quickly. It’s confusing
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They’re right. I’ve apologized years later when a mood swings by or I miss them.
Posted by cersei
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Posted by nanochip
Self righteousness, hypocritical, “Do as I say not as I do”, emotionally constipated, self reflection/apology take a year+
I love aquas, they are my fav sign btw


A Gemini calling someone else emotionally constipated !? 😂




Yea the 1 year+ apology timeline for the aquas in my life spells that out pretty clearly. Most people move on by then, but I guess the fixedness means they stew. They are (or act) much more detached overall generally



What does 1 year + apology timeline mean?


I don’t know- I’ve met more detached Geminis than Aquas. It’s just that Geminis get over things more quickly .. too quickly really .. to the point it gives you whiplash and youre left wondering why they switch personalities so quickly. It’s confusing
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That it’s taking them literally a year or more to reflect on wrongdoings and apologizing. I had a thing with an Aquarius man end in March 2022 and he rolled around a year later to apologize and want to pick back up. Why did it take so long? We could have fixed it at the time and I very much wanted to. He said he wanted to too. It was a situation where he ended it ultimately, it so it was his decision to not resolve our issues and call it quits. He told me the other day he hasn’t given up on us for the future, even though I am with someone else.

My dad and sister, 2 exes, several friends, and work colleagues are aquas and it’s not unusual for them to apologize in their personal lives years later for their parts in arguments. I think it really takes them that long to process their feelings. I’ve seen my sister and dad apologize as much as 5 years later 💀 my sister routinely throws stuff in my face from when I was like 12 years old still. I am 34. It’s been more than 20 years, let it go. Like who even still remembers that shit though?

Despite it all, they are my absolute favorite. Maybe being a fellow air sign with all my personal Gemini planets in the 11th house gives me a very good understanding and rapport with them

I would agree that geminis do get over things very quickly, and I see your perspective about it giving people whiplash and how it can come across as different personalities lol
Bossy
For all the humanitarian accolades given to them, i find aquarians to be slave drivers; more so than Capricorns and Taureans
Aquarius suns have very high egos and moons have higher egos and cannot apologize for the life of them.

Thanks to astrology and self-introspection, I don’t have that problem as someone who is Aqua sun and moon. There’s that advantage to learning astrology.
I hate this thread about you's
My Aqua ex took over 15 years to apologise to me……fixed air….stubborn 😬
Posted by MyStarsShine
My Aqua ex took over 15 years to apologise to me……fixed air….stubborn 😬
Whoa! How much Aqua did he have in him?

My sister has no Aqua has a hard time saying sorry. However if you initiate the apology, then she’ll say it.

My dad was Aqua sun only and had a problem apologizing. My younger bro is Aqu sun and merc, he’ll show he’s sorry but won’t say it. My older bro is Cap sun with Venus and mars in Aqua and has never said sorry in his life. 😝 My Aqua sun bestie with my chart minus moon is Sag can apologize.

I’m starting to think this isn’t an Aqua sun thing. It’s a child raised by baby boomer thing.
Posted by cersei
I don’t know many Aquas in real life except my aunt who has a drinking problem because she is always mourning for her ex husband. She’s a very nice lady

But I notice a lot of Aquas are conservative despite the stereotype of them being eccentric and rebellious
yeah noticed the conservative bend too
progressive for other people

conservative for themselves
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by MyStarsShine
My Aqua ex took over 15 years to apologise to me……fixed air….stubborn 😬


Whoa! How much Aqua did he have in him?

My sister has no Aqua has a hard time saying sorry. However if you initiate the apology, then she’ll say it.

My dad was Aqua sun only and had a problem apologizing. My younger bro is Aqu sun and merc, he’ll show he’s sorry but won’t say it. My older bro is Cap sun with Venus and mars in Aqua and has never said sorry in his life. 😝 My Aqua sun bestie with my chart minus moon is Sag can apologize.

I’m starting to think this isn’t an Aqua sun thing. It’s a child raised by baby boomer thing.
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Sun and Mercury
Posted by Eggroll
I’m not going to drag them but they can be a little self absorbed and selfish sometimes.
Are you the one who’s married to an aqua, and has an aqua ex?

Selfish in what way? Like the self absorbed way? 👀

Elaborate por favor 😐
Posted by MyStarsShine
Being too interesting and original 🤣🙃⚡️
Are you with an Aqua? Or are you one? 🤣
Posted by hydorah
progressive for other people
conservative for themselves
That's a good description.
Posted by Aquavina
Some of y’all didn’t hold back 🤣🤣 we appreciate the honesty tho
You opened this door 🚪🤦🏽‍♀️lol
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by MyStarsShine
My Aqua ex took over 15 years to apologise to me……fixed air….stubborn 😬


Whoa! How much Aqua did he have in him?

My sister has no Aqua has a hard time saying sorry. However if you initiate the apology, then she’ll say it.

My dad was Aqua sun only and had a problem apologizing. My younger bro is Aqu sun and merc, he’ll show he’s sorry but won’t say it. My older bro is Cap sun with Venus and mars in Aqua and has never said sorry in his life. 😝 My Aqua sun bestie with my chart minus moon is Sag can apologize.

I’m starting to think this isn’t an Aqua sun thing. It’s a child raised by baby boomer thing.
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Your bestie and I share sun/moon, and I also have no problem apologizing when I feel like I’m wrong. 😂

The hard part is determining whether or not I was wrong 😑
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by MyStarsShine
My Aqua ex took over 15 years to apologise to me……fixed air….stubborn 😬


Whoa! How much Aqua did he have in him?

My sister has no Aqua has a hard time saying sorry. However if you initiate the apology, then she’ll say it.

My dad was Aqua sun only and had a problem apologizing. My younger bro is Aqu sun and merc, he’ll show he’s sorry but won’t say it. My older bro is Cap sun with Venus and mars in Aqua and has never said sorry in his life. 😝 My Aqua sun bestie with my chart minus moon is Sag can apologize.

I’m starting to think this isn’t an Aqua sun thing. It’s a child raised by baby boomer thing.



Your bestie and I share sun/moon, and I also have no problem apologizing when I feel like I’m wrong. 😂

The hard part is determining whether or not I was wrong 😑
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For that reason, she consults me with a situation that’s transpired without giving me one sided story and I do that too with others and hers.
Posted by Aquavina
Posted by MyStarsShine
Being too interesting and original 🤣🙃⚡️


Are you with an Aqua? Or are you one? 🤣
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I’m a Scorpio 😃

I was with two Aqua men. A Dutch astrologer told me I’d a very Uraniun personality

⚡️🙃⚡️
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Posted by MyStarsShine
My Aqua ex took over 15 years to apologise to me……fixed air….stubborn 😬


Whoa! How much Aqua did he have in him?

My sister has no Aqua has a hard time saying sorry. However if you initiate the apology, then she’ll say it.

My dad was Aqua sun only and had a problem apologizing. My younger bro is Aqu sun and merc, he’ll show he’s sorry but won’t say it. My older bro is Cap sun with Venus and mars in Aqua and has never said sorry in his life. 😝 My Aqua sun bestie with my chart minus moon is Sag can apologize.

I’m starting to think this isn’t an Aqua sun thing. It’s a child raised by baby boomer thing.




Your bestie and I share sun/moon, and I also have no problem apologizing when I feel like I’m wrong. 😂


The hard part is determining whether or not I was wrong 😑



For that reason, she consults me with a situation that’s transpired without giving me one sided story and I do that too with others and hers.
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It’s exactly what I did…when I was unsure, I’d ask the Virgo bestie. She’s the only friend that would give advice and I’d listen to it (bc she always gave a side of the situation that I couldn’t see on my own), like 95% of the time. 😂
Having said all that, where can I meet eccentric Aqua people. Overbearing and selfishly motivated just ain't cutting it. I'd like to just meet one that puts feathers on their head and dances to Africa by Toto.
Too hot.
Aloof
Posted by RollergirlOrc
Having said all that, where can I meet eccentric Aqua people. Overbearing and selfishly motivated just ain't cutting it. I'd like to just meet one that puts feathers on their head and dances to Africa by Toto.
Sorry to say but I think overbearing and self motivated (I think you meant lol) usually goes hand in hand with eccentricity
Aside from detachment, the criticisms I see on this thread are so wide ranging and basic that they can be ascribed to any person of any sign:

1. Selfish/self-centred/self-motivated. Who isn’t? You think “nice” people aren’t buying you out or making you dependent on them?

2. Egoistic and can’t apologize. Most people in my family and in customer service can’t do that. 😝

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Posted by aquarius09
Aside from detachment, the criticisms I see on this thread are so wide ranging and basic that they can be ascribed to any person of any sign:

1. Selfish/self-centred/self-motivated. Who isn’t? You think “nice” people aren’t buying you out or making you dependent on them?
2. Egoistic and can’t apologize. Most people in my family and in customer service can’t do that. 😝





*Licks your brain*


There you can feel disgusted and weirdly appreciated for being you.

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I already do. No external validation required.

I love Aquas, the men and women are top tier! One of my favorite signs!

I love their intelligence, originality, quirkiness, maturity, and friendship qualities.
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Posted by aquarius09
Aside from detachment, the criticisms I see on this thread are so wide ranging and basic that they can be ascribed to any person of any sign:

1. Selfish/self-centred/self-motivated. Who isn’t? You think “nice” people aren’t buying you out or making you dependent on them?
2. Egoistic and can’t apologize. Most people in my family and in customer service can’t do that. 😝






*Licks your brain*



There you can feel disgusted and weirdly appreciated for being you.





I already do. No external validation required.




The reply is tantilizingly tantilizing.

Yes and that is what makes the Sun in detriment in Aquarius, at least if a Leo is not in favor with the crowd they will change it up, you guys are the inverse and the worst arrogant people ever.


But when centered? Naa we cool.


Not like you are that much different from any other Sun sign, just in how you express.
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I disagree. I’m not arrogant. I’m just confident and March to the beat of my drum. I don’t really care if I’m accepted or not. It’s not even in my thought process how someone perceived me, which is precisely what rubs other people the wrong way because most people do require external validation. Whereas Leo (because they are changing it up for external acceptance/praise) aren’t confident. They like other fire signs mask their insecurity and need for social acceptance via arrogance and acting uppity.

Arrogance is a mask for insecure people.
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Aside from detachment, the criticisms I see on this thread are so wide ranging and basic that they can be ascribed to any person of any sign:

1. Selfish/self-centred/self-motivated. Who isn’t? You think “nice” people aren’t buying you out or making you dependent on them?
2. Egoistic and can’t apologize. Most people in my family and in customer service can’t do that. 😝







*Licks your brain*




There you can feel disgusted and weirdly appreciated for being you.






I already do. No external validation required.





The reply is tantilizingly tantilizing.


Yes and that is what makes the Sun in detriment in Aquarius, at least if a Leo is not in favor with the crowd they will change it up, you guys are the inverse and the worst arrogant people ever.



But when centered? Naa we cool.



Not like you are that much different from any other Sun sign, just in how you express.




I disagree. I’m not arrogant. I’m just confident and March to the beat of my drum. I don’t really care if I’m accepted or not. It’s not even in my thought process how someone perceived me, which is precisely what rubs other people the wrong way because most people do require external validation. Whereas Leo (because they are changing it up for external acceptance/praise) aren’t confident. They like other fire signs mask their insecurity and need for social acceptance via arrogance and acting uppity.


Arrogance is a mask for insecure people.



But you want me to buy what you say right?

You still think what you say is the only truth right?


You guys are some of the most arrogant I have ever come across in this regard, it's ok that you hide it mostly so you don't get caught out but my god you are the worst to have a debate with because if you are that adamant and that into whatever it is you are pedalling, you don't back down. People call Taureans pig headed but I have seen it much more from Aquarius over the years. Plus don't get me started on the wird penchant for sticking with so called underdogs regardless of if they are correct to begin with or put themselves in a situation.


I am a Cancer Sun, you are allowed to rip into me too you know? But I am guessing you are above that right?

The ego in yourself wants you to be seen as fully in control and above all else, which is exactly like Leo except yours is intellectual..


Fire signs are insecure? Sweetheart anyone with the power to deliver from the self is going to have insecurity, since the other side is judgement and everyone fears this.. Air signs well Libra and Aquarius don't seem to recognize their selves only others, no self awareness, so no insecurity, so no humanity, no way of even comprehending how others feel or what they go through.


I have recognized and maybe this is not true for all Aquarians as they do have different charts, but the fact they tend to latch onto a movement, not the people, it is about directing a course more than it is being close to anyone and really trying to understand.


You guys are ruled by an outer planet for a reason, Uranus is the punk, worse than Mars in terms of bad nature as at least Mars is bound to a social contract, there is a reason. Aquarians can have any reason and work from that.


The down side of being a free thinker (I am one myself, My Mercury is your opposite sign) Is having nothing to bounce off of, as mad and brilliant as many can be, most are just idiotic jerks.


It's an observation on my own half, only 1 perspective I still think Aquarians are great people but it's very narrow in the way they are great. but then is any other sign less narrow? It would be pompus of me to think any other sign is as that would lead to an emphasis on minimizing you as a sign, regardless you don;t care anyway, this is just a discussion and neither do I.


Nice talking smile



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I’m not reading all that. I just gave you insight into Aqua mind and I’m a stellium. Believe it or not. I don’t care.

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Aside from detachment, the criticisms I see on this thread are so wide ranging and basic that they can be ascribed to any person of any sign:

1. Selfish/self-centred/self-motivated. Who isn’t? You think “nice” people aren’t buying you out or making you dependent on them?
2. Egoistic and can’t apologize. Most people in my family and in customer service can’t do that. 😝








*Licks your brain*





There you can feel disgusted and weirdly appreciated for being you.







I already do. No external validation required.






The reply is tantilizingly tantilizing.



Yes and that is what makes the Sun in detriment in Aquarius, at least if a Leo is not in favor with the crowd they will change it up, you guys are the inverse and the worst arrogant people ever.




But when centered? Naa we cool.




Not like you are that much different from any other Sun sign, just in how you express.





I disagree. I’m not arrogant. I’m just confident and March to the beat of my drum. I don’t really care if I’m accepted or not. It’s not even in my thought process how someone perceived me, which is precisely what rubs other people the wrong way because most people do require external validation. Whereas Leo (because they are changing it up for external acceptance/praise) aren’t confident. They like other fire signs mask their insecurity and need for social acceptance via arrogance and acting uppity.



Arrogance is a mask for insecure people.




But you want me to buy what you say right?


You still think what you say is the only truth right?



You guys are some of the most arrogant I have ever come across in this regard, it's ok that you hide it mostly so you don't get caught out but my god you are the worst to have a debate with because if you are that adamant and that into whatever it is you are pedalling, you don't back down. People call Taureans pig headed but I have seen it much more from Aquarius over the years. Plus don't get me started on the wird penchant for sticking with so called underdogs regardless of if they are correct to begin with or put themselves in a situation.



I am a Cancer Sun, you are allowed to rip into me too you know? But I am guessing you are above that right?


The ego in yourself wants you to be seen as fully in control and above all else, which is exactly like Leo except yours is intellectual..



Fire signs are insecure? Sweetheart anyone with the power to deliver from the self is going to have insecurity, since the other side is judgement and everyone fears this.. Air signs well Libra and Aquarius don't seem to recognize their selves only others, no self awareness, so no insecurity, so no humanity, no way of even comprehending how others feel or what they go through.



I have recognized and maybe this is not true for all Aquarians as they do have different charts, but the fact they tend to latch onto a movement, not the people, it is about directing a course more than it is being close to anyone and really trying to understand.



You guys are ruled by an outer planet for a reason, Uranus is the punk, worse than Mars in terms of bad nature as at least Mars is bound to a social contract, there is a reason. Aquarians can have any reason and work from that.



The down side of being a free thinker (I am one myself, My Mercury is your opposite sign) Is having nothing to bounce off of, as mad and brilliant as many can be, most are just idiotic jerks.



It's an observation on my own half, only 1 perspective I still think Aquarians are great people but it's very narrow in the way they are great. but then is any other sign less narrow? It would be pompus of me to think any other sign is as that would lead to an emphasis on minimizing you as a sign, regardless you don;t care anyway, this is just a discussion and neither do I.



Nice talking smile






I’m not reading all that. I just gave you insight into Aqua mind and I’m a stellium. Believe it or not. I don’t care.




If you read what I did say, I already said you don't care and I don't care enough to care any more.


It proves though that you are indeed arrogant, why waste your time? smile
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Nonchalance is often perceived as arrogance. Wrong, you are.