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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.

Posted by 81gemsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.
I think you miss read or misunderstood what I wrote. I’m not talking about people who are boring people to be around. I’m talking about people who are constantly bored. As in their constantly, routinely, consistently, regularly afflicted by boredom. They’re at home, they get bored and leave, there’s somewhere else with other people, after a couple of hours they’re bored and leave. They go back home get on the Internet, get bored with that play video games, get bored with that. You know what I’m saying now?click to expand

Posted by 81gemsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.
I think you misunderstood what I wrote. I’m not talking about boring people. I’m talking about people who are constantly bored. As in they’re constantly, routinely, consistently, regularly afflicted by boredom. They’re at home, they get bored and leave. theyre somewhere else with other people, after a couple of hours they’re bored and leave. They go back home, get on the Internet, get bored with that, play video games, get bored with that. You know what I’m saying now?click to expand

Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by 81gemsPosted by Jumpin_JupiterI think you miss read or misunderstood what I wrote. I’m not talking about people who are boring people to be around. I’m talking about people who are constantly bored. As in their constantly, routinely, consistently, regularly afflicted by boredom. They’re at home, they get bored and leave, there’s somewhere else with other people, after a couple of hours they’re bored and leave. They go back home get on the Internet, get bored with that play video games, get bored with that. You know what I’m saying now?
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.
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I mean what do you expect out of us? Party all day and night?click to expand


Posted by MarkGemPosted by 81gemsPosted by Jumpin_JupiterI think you misunderstood what I wrote. I’m not talking about boring people. I’m talking about people who are constantly bored. As in they’re constantly, routinely, consistently, regularly afflicted by boredom. They’re at home, they get bored and leave. theyre somewhere else with other people, after a couple of hours they’re bored and leave. They go back home, get on the Internet, get bored with that, play video games, get bored with that. You know what I’m saying now?
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.
It doesnt matter what you wrote, he will just find a way to talk about himself againclick to expand

Posted by 81gemsPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.
I think you misunderstood what I wrote. I’m not talking about boring people. I’m talking about people who are constantly bored. As in they’re constantly, routinely, consistently, regularly afflicted by boredom. They’re at home, they get bored and leave. theyre somewhere else with other people, after a couple of hours they’re bored and leave. They go back home, get on the Internet, get bored with that, play video games, get bored with that. You know what I’m saying now?click to expand

Posted by MarkGemPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MarkGemYou sending me vibes of gemitati. Are you gemitati real life brother, mark?Posted by 81gemsIt doesnt matter what you wrote, he will just find a way to talk about himself againPosted by Jumpin_JupiterI think you misunderstood what I wrote. I’m not talking about boring people. I’m talking about people who are constantly bored. As in they’re constantly, routinely, consistently, regularly afflicted by boredom. They’re at home, they get bored and leave. theyre somewhere else with other people, after a couple of hours they’re bored and leave. They go back home, get on the Internet, get bored with that, play video games, get bored with that. You know what I’m saying now?
I tend to think only quiet people can be boring. I'm not gonna even deny the fact I'm a boring being only and mostly it's because I just like to be left alone. But people always want to invade my space. If you're so bothered by boring people the solution is simple. Don't bother with them. You go your way and let them go their own way. We boring people got just as much right to be here in this world just as much as you lively extroverts does. I like to think I fall in to most of those things you listed about Gemini moon except I'm not wishy washy, unstabled, and flaky.
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Why are you so jealous? Cut that shit out. If there's one thing I can't stand is jealous people.
Its dislike - plain and simple. Guess I should just mute. My badclick to expand

Posted by Soul
Meanwhile Scorpio moons are intensely looking though all the content here and deeply offended we weren't even mentioned yet. Till now that is 😚



Posted by serenidad
…isn’t everyone doing 10000 things in a day?
not just us.
unless someone is like a lazy bum with nothing to do, most people are doing 10000 things in a day.
people have responsibilities, tasks to take care of. which will naturally pull you in many different directions. it’s not boredom.
gemini energy is just sorta prone to be used as the scapegoat of the zodiac. it’s easier to point finger at gemini energy and call it a day. while other sign energies practically get away with murder…lol

Posted by 81gemsPosted by serenidad
…isn’t everyone doing 10000 things in a day?
not just us.
unless someone is like a lazy bum with nothing to do, most people are doing 10000 things in a day.
people have responsibilities, tasks to take care of. which will naturally pull you in many different directions. it’s not boredom.
gemini energy is just sorta prone to be used as the scapegoat of the zodiac. it’s easier to point finger at gemini energy and call it a day. while other sign energies practically get away with murder…lol
No.
I may have 30 or 50 other things to do. Half get done if I feel like it. Maybe 1/4. But no, I never have... ten thousand like you. That must suck.
Don't take it so personally. I'm a gemini sun. People always point the finger at "Gemini energy." Myself included. There are some things that are so glaring. Such is life.
Also, it is boredom if they openly admit about how bored they get with XYZ and/or ABC, and maybe even LMNOP throughout the day.click to expand


Posted by 81gems
Before you say I don’t know what I’m talking about, I’m a Gemini sun. There’s an unspeakable bond between me and a Gemini moon. For them. I on the other hand have all the right words; unstable, wish washy, indecisive, unpredictable, perpetually bored, impatient. FLAKY af! Always changing their mind on a whim.
They’re like ADD without having ADD, except two I know have ADHD.
And I’ve always got this nagging feeling I can’t trust them 100% . I also can’t deal with their constant boredom. They’re always BORED. I feel sorry for them but I’d rather not hang around someone who… I end up feeling like I’m just part of their list of “entertaining” things in their day, amongst 1,000,000 other.


Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️

Posted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.click to expand

Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
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Posted by Timone
They like to talk...a lot. Their brain is going in a complete different speed than the rest of us. They have million thoughts running through their mind. Good speakers but yeh sometimes I feel they can't keep their mouth shut even if their life depended on it. 😂

Posted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
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What is your moon sign?
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Libra. I feel it’s a great placement for an Aries sun. Baker Mayfield also has this Sun/moon combo.click to expand

Posted by serenidad
…isn’t everyone doing 10000 things in a day?
not just us.
unless someone is like a lazy bum with nothing to do, most people are doing 10000 things in a day.
people have responsibilities, tasks to take care of. which will naturally pull you in many different directions. it’s not boredom.
gemini energy is just sorta prone to be used as the scapegoat of the zodiac. it’s easier to point finger at gemini energy and call it a day. while other sign energies practically get away with murder…lol

Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
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What is your moon sign?
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Libra. I feel it’s a great placement for an Aries sun. Baker Mayfield also has this Sun/moon combo.
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Oh nice! I have a Libra rising.click to expand

Posted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
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What is your moon sign?
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Libra. I feel it’s a great placement for an Aries sun. Baker Mayfield also has this Sun/moon combo.
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Oh nice! I have a Libra rising.
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How do you feel that meshes with your Sun? I think of the rising sign/ascendant as more than just how we come off to the world, but more of the soul in a chart. Your ascendant sign with the chart ruler shows what themes will play out in your life. Since you have Libra rising, Venus is your chart ruler. I know you shared your chart before, but I forget some of your placements or where they are in your chart. What sign and house does Venus fall in?
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Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
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What is your moon sign?
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Libra. I feel it’s a great placement for an Aries sun. Baker Mayfield also has this Sun/moon combo.
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Oh nice! I have a Libra rising.
click to expand
How do you feel that meshes with your Sun? I think of the rising sign/ascendant as more than just how we come off to the world, but more of the soul in a chart. Your ascendant sign with the chart ruler shows what themes will play out in your life. Since you have Libra rising, Venus is your chart ruler. I know you shared your chart before, but I forget some of your placements or where they are in your chart. What sign and house does Venus fall in?
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Venus is in Scorpio in my first house. I definitely resonate with both Scorpio and Libra. Scorpio in the sense that I can be stubborn in moving on from something. I hate change and it takes me forever to get over heartbreak. I am a deep thinker and feel so misunderstood at times which is why I don’t make many friends. I also over analyze every little detail to bits which is so very exhausting. With the Libra Rising and other planets in Libra in my chart, I am most definitely a people pleaser! It can be a good and bad thing for me. A lot of people claim they like me because I try to get along with everyone, but I also don’t like to rock the boat and hate confrontation so despite how I feel about a situation, I will always take the side of the other person just to not start an argument even though I really wanna tell them where to go and what I think of them. It’s a constant struggle. I also can’t make a decision to save my life! Thanks to Libra.
For example, I have a Capricorn coworker and we got along great at first, but now I’m seeing that she’s lazy as fuck. I do all the diaper changes of the babies, I clean up after breakfast, lunch and snack, I clean the classroom at the end of the day and take out the trash etc. Only thing she does is give me orders. She never helps out and yet at the end of the day she always complains of how exhausted she is. I’m thinking from what— I do all the damn work and I wanna tell her so bad why don’t you do something for a change, but I don’t wanna rock the boat or start an argument or make her dislike me so I just remain her little bitch and do everything. Sucks even more that she’s only 22 and I’m almost 43. She’s not my boss, but I’m taking orders from a 22 year old baby. 🤦♀️click to expand

Posted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
click to expand
What is your moon sign?
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Libra. I feel it’s a great placement for an Aries sun. Baker Mayfield also has this Sun/moon combo.
click to expand
Oh nice! I have a Libra rising.
click to expand
How do you feel that meshes with your Sun? I think of the rising sign/ascendant as more than just how we come off to the world, but more of the soul in a chart. Your ascendant sign with the chart ruler shows what themes will play out in your life. Since you have Libra rising, Venus is your chart ruler. I know you shared your chart before, but I forget some of your placements or where they are in your chart. What sign and house does Venus fall in?
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Venus is in Scorpio in my first house. I definitely resonate with both Scorpio and Libra. Scorpio in the sense that I can be stubborn in moving on from something. I hate change and it takes me forever to get over heartbreak. I am a deep thinker and feel so misunderstood at times which is why I don’t make many friends. I also over analyze every little detail to bits which is so very exhausting. With the Libra Rising and other planets in Libra in my chart, I am most definitely a people pleaser! It can be a good and bad thing for me. A lot of people claim they like me because I try to get along with everyone, but I also don’t like to rock the boat and hate confrontation so despite how I feel about a situation, I will always take the side of the other person just to not start an argument even though I really wanna tell them where to go and what I think of them. It’s a constant struggle. I also can’t make a decision to save my life! Thanks to Libra.
For example, I have a Capricorn coworker and we got along great at first, but now I’m seeing that she’s lazy as fuck. I do all the diaper changes of the babies, I clean up after breakfast, lunch and snack, I clean the classroom at the end of the day and take out the trash etc. Only thing she does is give me orders. She never helps out and yet at the end of the day she always complains of how exhausted she is. I’m thinking from what— I do all the damn work and I wanna tell her so bad why don’t you do something for a change, but I don’t wanna rock the boat or start an argument or make her dislike me so I just remain her little bitch and do everything. Sucks even more that she’s only 22 and I’m almost 43. She’s not my boss, but I’m taking orders from a 22 year old baby. 🤦♀️
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You need to say something to that woman - she’s taking advantage of you. It will build resentment in you if you don’t. You’re prioritizing her needs over your own. There are 2 sides of Libra and the one you mention is the unevolved Libra. The evolved Libra detaches and taps into their diplomatic side to handle things. For your Libra ascendant to evolve, first fall in love with your independent side and nurture it. Once you know who you truly are and what you want, you will evolve. Say something to her before it gets worse. I have SN in Aries, which made this easy for me to reconcile the unevolved to the evolved. I hope this truly helps you.
Totally get that it takes forever to move on from heart break. Same. I also do not feel most people are worthy of my type of love. To make friends, join different social groups relating to your hobbies and interests.
Edit to add: Your Venus in your 1st house can help you with prioritizing your needs over others. Do not be afraid to do that. You will often hear me telling others on here: “prioritize yourself”. 😊click to expand

Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabcPosted by Bluemoon86Posted by xyzabc
One of the worst moons ever is Leo moons. I fucking hate Leo moons. I am a Leo moon, therefore I hate myself.🤦♀️
I’m sorry to hear this.
Depending on the degrees, it would be a challenging moon for a Scorpio sun because it would form a square aspect.
My moon is separated from my sun by at least 8 degrees, so not very challenging. I like my moon sign with my sun sign. It makes me see all angles to things, be considerate, and thoughtful of others.
click to expand
What is your moon sign?
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Libra. I feel it’s a great placement for an Aries sun. Baker Mayfield also has this Sun/moon combo.
click to expand
Oh nice! I have a Libra rising.
click to expand
How do you feel that meshes with your Sun? I think of the rising sign/ascendant as more than just how we come off to the world, but more of the soul in a chart. Your ascendant sign with the chart ruler shows what themes will play out in your life. Since you have Libra rising, Venus is your chart ruler. I know you shared your chart before, but I forget some of your placements or where they are in your chart. What sign and house does Venus fall in?
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Venus is in Scorpio in my first house. I definitely resonate with both Scorpio and Libra. Scorpio in the sense that I can be stubborn in moving on from something. I hate change and it takes me forever to get over heartbreak. I am a deep thinker and feel so misunderstood at times which is why I don’t make many friends. I also over analyze every little detail to bits which is so very exhausting. With the Libra Rising and other planets in Libra in my chart, I am most definitely a people pleaser! It can be a good and bad thing for me. A lot of people claim they like me because I try to get along with everyone, but I also don’t like to rock the boat and hate confrontation so despite how I feel about a situation, I will always take the side of the other person just to not start an argument even though I really wanna tell them where to go and what I think of them. It’s a constant struggle. I also can’t make a decision to save my life! Thanks to Libra.
For example, I have a Capricorn coworker and we got along great at first, but now I’m seeing that she’s lazy as fuck. I do all the diaper changes of the babies, I clean up after breakfast, lunch and snack, I clean the classroom at the end of the day and take out the trash etc. Only thing she does is give me orders. She never helps out and yet at the end of the day she always complains of how exhausted she is. I’m thinking from what— I do all the damn work and I wanna tell her so bad why don’t you do something for a change, but I don’t wanna rock the boat or start an argument or make her dislike me so I just remain her little bitch and do everything. Sucks even more that she’s only 22 and I’m almost 43. She’s not my boss, but I’m taking orders from a 22 year old baby. 🤦♀️
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You need to say something to that woman - she’s taking advantage of you. It will build resentment in you if you don’t. You’re prioritizing her needs over your own. There are 2 sides of Libra and the one you mention is the unevolved Libra. The evolved Libra detaches and taps into their diplomatic side to handle things. For your Libra ascendant to evolve, first fall in love with your independent side and nurture it. Once you know who you truly are and what you want, you will evolve. Say something to her before it gets worse. I have SN in Aries, which made this easy for me to reconcile the unevolved to the evolved. I hope this truly helps you.
Totally get that it takes forever to move on from heart break. Same. I also do not feel most people are worthy of my type of love. To make friends, join different social groups relating to your hobbies and interests.
Edit to add: Your Venus in your 1st house can help you with prioritizing your needs over others. Do not be afraid to do that. You will often hear me telling others on here: “prioritize yourself”. 😊
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Sigh….I know you’re right. It’s just easier said than done. This is my fixed Scorpio taking over with my dislike of change. Keeping me stuck in my unevolved Libra ways.click to expand

Posted by ThatWomanAgain11
By the name of 81.. this gemini chiron is gon come to beat Emhendo out of you!!
I kind of like Gemini energy be it sun or moon or 7th house. It's like role-playing bad cops/good cops you know.. the thing is as this scorpio sun, cancer moon, & sag rising, the case keeps me alive. However they are rising detectives on the periphery, one be a leo moon.
I agree though, Leo moon is one of the worst moon sign. So no play ain't games no more for that Leo moon is gon witness the change.
~to be continued


Posted by ThatWomanAgain11Posted by ArgusPosted by ThatWomanAgain11
By the name of 81.. this gemini chiron is gon come to beat Emhendo out of you!!
I kind of like Gemini energy be it sun or moon or 7th house. It's like role-playing bad cops/good cops you know.. the thing is as this scorpio sun, cancer moon, & sag rising, the case keeps me alive. However they are rising detectives on the periphery, one be a leo moon.
I agree though, Leo moon is one of the worst moon sign. So no play ain't games no more for that Leo moon is gon witness the change.
~to be continued
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I love him.. he was a good fisherman.. in with his power I shall resume my object of affection whose moon is gem.click to expand


Posted by Bluemoon86Posted by serenidad
…isn’t everyone doing 10000 things in a day?
not just us.
unless someone is like a lazy bum with nothing to do, most people are doing 10000 things in a day.
people have responsibilities, tasks to take care of. which will naturally pull you in many different directions. it’s not boredom.
gemini energy is just sorta prone to be used as the scapegoat of the zodiac. it’s easier to point finger at gemini energy and call it a day. while other sign energies practically get away with murder…lol
With all due respect, I’ve talked with you on here a few times. Don’t know you, but you seem level-headed.click to expand
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They’re like ADD without having ADD, except two I know have ADHD.
And I’ve always got this nagging feeling I can’t trust them 100% . I also can’t deal with their constant boredom. They’re always BORED. I feel sorry for them but I’d rather not hang around someone who… I end up feeling like I’m just part of their list of “entertaining” things in their day, amongst 1,000,000 other.