Come to the realisation

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Winters12 on Sunday, October 11, 2020 and has 10 replies.
Think I have come to the realisation that there isn’t a future there with my current partner I broke with my ex who is a female Sag and if you have been following my recent posts you’ll know all about my current relationship anyway my ex who is the mother of my two children even broke it off with a guy two weeks ago because he didn’t like the fact that my oldest daughter who was from a relationship before my ex is still in contact with my ex and stays at hers as its her sisters house And my ex was in her life for 8years my current partner doesn’t like that she still stays there sometimes however you’ll all know what my partner is like I am stuck in my head what to do as I don’t see me and my partner ever living together because I don’t think she wants my kids there on the weekends and she is saying now that we don’t meet up when I have my kids and she has hers because it could set her kids off so I have my girls on my own now anyway I think I have finally had enough now.
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Posted by Winters12

Think I have come to the realisation that there isn’t a future there with my current partner I broke with my ex who is a female Sag and if you have been following my recent posts you’ll know all about my current relationship anyway my ex who is the mother of my two children even broke it off with a guy two weeks ago because he didn’t like the fact that my oldest daughter who was from a relationship before my ex is still in contact with my ex and stays at hers as its her sisters house And my ex was in her life for 8years my current partner doesn’t like that she still stays there sometimes however you’ll all know what my partner is like I am stuck in my head what to do as I don’t see me and my partner ever living together because I don’t think she wants my kids there on the weekends and she is saying now that we don’t meet up when I have my kids and she has hers because it could set her kids off so I have my girls on my own now anyway I think I have finally had enough now.
I'm sorry, my head is spinning - I just couldn't follow this and so don't want to try again good luck with that
Posted by tctapp007
Posted by Winters12

Think I have come to the realisation that there isn’t a future there with my current partner I broke with my ex who is a female Sag and if you have been following my recent posts you’ll know all about my current relationship anyway my ex who is the mother of my two children even broke it off with a guy two weeks ago because he didn’t like the fact that my oldest daughter who was from a relationship before my ex is still in contact with my ex and stays at hers as its her sisters house And my ex was in her life for 8years my current partner doesn’t like that she still stays there sometimes however you’ll all know what my partner is like I am stuck in my head what to do as I don’t see me and my partner ever living together because I don’t think she wants my kids there on the weekends and she is saying now that we don’t meet up when I have my kids and she has hers because it could set her kids off so I have my girls on my own now anyway I think I have finally had enough now.


I'm sorry, my head is spinning - I just couldn't follow this and so don't want to try again good luck with that
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I don’t blame you 😅😂
Too many exes
I couldnt follow, sorry.

One thing I do know, when kids are involved there are usually parents involved. And the way a partner deals with the parent of their child, says a lot. Plus, if a new partner doesnt want to deal with someone elses children, thats their choice but it holds no future for a serious relationship. I always tell potential new partners, that I have kids and they are my number 1. When they choose for me, they get a ready made family. Mine dont see their father so no exes in the picture but that does mean my kids are always there.
This big ass run on sentence. 🤦‍♀️Periods, please. Cant read this nor understand what you're saying.
Ok I finally figured out what you were saying I think. You have two children with different mothers. But both sisters stay at an ex’s house sometimes even though she’s not one of their mother’s correct? Anyway it doesn’t that’s stupid to get mad over not sure why she thinks she has a say over your child or can feel some type of way when she doesn’t even fully accept your children. Break up today it’s too much. You are bending too much of your happiness, if you ever had any to begin with on this person, You sound like you need to be alone for a while honestly not trying to be harsh but you let this girl make you second guess how to be a father to your kids and she doesn’t even wanna move in with you. There is no future. What does your life look like in 5 years. Can you see it? Is she there? Do you love her deeply or do you resent her? I think you know. It hard. It’s very hard to let people go especially when you thought they would be something else and you have already fallen in love. Believe you deserve better it will come ❤️
Sorry my post is a mess I can’t see properly lol
So my ex partner who I have two girls with one is 2 years old the other is 6 . And my oldest from a relationship years ago when I was 17 my current partner who is the one who get funny about my oldest daughter staying with my ex and our children however they are sisters how can she dictate that or control that I am thinking ditch her and be alone for a while and build a friendship with my ex who is a much better person not just straight from one to the other but I have realised a lot of my wrongs and I now know what I can do right and this will be the first step .

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