Early days of dating a Gemini man, but I’m starting to notice that time with friends seem to take a priority for him over dates, even when sex is guaranteed, lol. I hear from him every day by text, although the texts are usually brief. We see each other a couple times a week. However, sometimes I start to feel like a Plan B. If plans are vague, more often than not I’ll get a text saying, sorry, I went to do XYZ with some friends. That being said, when we do spend time together, it’s a really long time, and I get 110% of his full attention; hours of amazing conversation and incredible sex. again, it’s early days, but as a Libra I’m just trying to figure out if he is actually interested, still feeling me out, or if I’m just a very casual Plan B. I do plan on directly asking him this since he’s very open and honest with me, but I’m just trying to figure out what to expect before we have this conversation. I don’t like wasting my time and I’m looking for someone who is actually excited about seeing me. Thanks!
Signed Up:
Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
Ime no. But then again he’s seeing you a couple times per week is quite a lot! It’s not like he’s ignoring you. Your getting a lot of his time.
He’s got other friendships that predate you that he also needs to maintain. It actually speaks to how he is overall a balanced individual. If he deserts his friends each time he meets a girl that would make him a shitty friend and not very loyal.
It’s early days, don’t get bored of each other too soon. Enjoy the time apart and the anticipation in seeing each other. And if you want to test him, instead of being whatever about it, one of these times ask that he prioritize spending time with you over his friends. Or verbalize how disappointed you are and tell him he’s gonna have to make it up to you 😈