Gemini has run off passively away from me

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by MrNobody on Thursday, May 23, 2024 and has 11 replies.
Even though it was just a crush, someone actually exposed to him and he immediately feels uncomfortable with me and change the schedule and completely avoids me. In which I was heartbroken and feels unattractive.


I do wish there's a better way to handle (in mature way), but I can see his reasons that he might have something traumatizing that he did this way. (it's still an asshole move)


It's sad unfortunately and understandably will leave him alone.
So what was it that was exposed to him about you? This Gemini dude must be a very sensitive one. I would never avoid anyone in that sense. People like spreading rumors. Cus that's all that is. Rumors. Not enough to make me avoid nobody unless I witness the rumors for myself.
You mean someone told him you had a crush? Had you told the person that said that to the crush?
Posted by ATGR
You mean someone told him you had a crush? Had you told the person that said that to the crush?
I unfortunately had a drunk confessed to few people, it was supposed to keep it for themselves but yeah... someone did told him I had a crush on him.


Lesson learned.
Posted by Sagicorn
Wait...are you a male? And he's straight? That would explain it maybe? Otherwise idk. Geminis aren't really that awkward about other people's feelings. They do tend to ignore them tho lol
Im female, but bi.

And yeah I do noticed that of gemini.
He has mars in cancer (conjunct my mars, chiron and square mercury) and his aspect is venus opp uranus (unfortunately his venus conjunct my venus as well).


But yeah im really heartbroken by his action alone, and rather avoid him and those people.
Posted by Sagicorn
Posted by MrNobody
Posted by Sagicorn
Wait...are you a male? And he's straight? That would explain it maybe? Otherwise idk. Geminis aren't really that awkward about other people's feelings. They do tend to ignore them tho lol





Im female, but bi.


And yeah I do noticed that of gemini.





Ah ok, thought it might be a situation where you're gay and he's not so it could make sense in such scenario that it could freak someone out. Geminis are also overthinkers so maybe he blew it out of proportions in his mind and decided to stay away for that reason
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Despite that, I can see through of what his expression shows and yeah that hurts.


Im to heartbroken to think of having relationship because of that action of his.
You may be heartbroken, but at least you now know. He is not interested, not even flattered by your crush (which probably feels lowkey insulting to you) so it's time to let go.


Block him mentally. Completely. Waste of time if you spend more thought on him.
Posted by Undine
You may be heartbroken, but at least you now know. He is not interested, not even flattered by your crush (which probably feels lowkey insulting to you) so it's time to let go.
Block him mentally. Completely. Waste of time if you spend more thought on him.
I was warned that he's unavailable and I took that account for, somehow they exposed to him and yeah..

Definitely feels lowkey insulting, especially that I felt ugly of this.

Yeah Im bringing my earphones and avoid him and no longer being drunk at work anymore.
Hopefully he’ll go back to normal soon and you can move past it.
Posted by ATGR
Hopefully he’ll go back to normal soon and you can move past it.
unfortunately it wont be the same anymore and hopefully I'll find someone who does find me attractive with action.


But for now I feel ugly..

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