Need some help deciding the female Virgo. She was my longest relationship and we recently met up and had a beyond great night filled with laughter smiles and surprisingly love. What does she want if she’s already married
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Sep 03, 2016Comments: 35897 · Posts: 40617 · Topics: 321
A friend?
A lover?
Can you ask her?
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
A glimpse back in time from yesteryear... some excitement... admiration.. taboo territory... anything but the boredom of her life at percent.
Don’t get your hope up, she’s married.
She’s explained to me that she just wants me in her life and that she regrets getting married. Although last night she literally told me she loved me and always thought that I got too good for her as a person and that she doesn’t want me felling sorry for her.
We went out 4 years ago during and after high school and we unfortunately had a falling out that resulted in her being with an older guy and me being stuck alone. She tried keeping contact with me but always talked about herself and how things were going with her BF(now husband). I eventually just cut her off and did my best to ghost her completely but recently this year if 2020 she’s been REALLY trying to come in contact with me. Well a couple days ago on Saturday, we met up and *clicked* and just vibed to a point where it felt like the good old days but more mature because were actually listening to eachother and being reasonable. She told me how she basically was the man in the marriage and that’s it’s only for his papers,(Which she is doing all the work) and she regrets it also because he’s not ready for everything she wants like he said he was. Anyway! We ended up having sex later that night but neither both of us regret that it happened but know that we shouldn’t be doing it. She’s
They’ve been together 5 years but married 2 and they sort of just tolerate eachother. Not to mention this guy is TOXIC! what pisses me off is that he’s undocumented but treats her like shit, he’d lock her in a room like a dog in a cage and when they’d walk in public he holds her by her neck as if she’s his property. She’s over him and idk what this means but she said “if you decide to never talk to me again I think I’d just divorce my husband and move away because I’d have nothing left for me to stay here for” so I’m not entirely sure what she’s playing at
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Nov 12, 2018Comments: 3432 · Posts: 2766 · Topics: 15
Lmaooooo
Nah you trolling
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Nov 12, 2018Comments: 3432 · Posts: 2766 · Topics: 15
pray that virgo become independent and spread her wings
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
Ask yourself, why does she need you to walk away from her marriage. If you weren’t there would anyone do?
Then who will she need to walk away from you later on down the track when things get tough... or have you been there already .. and it was him?
This woman already has a cycle. If she is serious then she should take things into her own hands without you there to save her.
You being right there at her beck and call is only enabling her and tying you into the next relationship before you can make your own mind up. Step back and open your eyes. You sound lonely and desperate for the fairy tale but you split for a reason. Take out the heart and use your head (big head)
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
It may be more productive to stop wondering what she's thinking and start examining your own motivations, intentions, and wishes in reconnecting with an ex who is married.
I’ve given it a lot of thought and I originally told her that I simply only wanted to be friends and we agreed having sex was a mistake but we were honest enough to su that it did cross our minds at some point in the night. She’s told me that she’s never stopped thinking of me and she tried contacting me even after I kept deleting her requests and messages. The first month she married the dude she regretted it because she found out that he lied to her about the type of person he was and what he wanted in life. It’s difficult for her to leave because she fears to look like a failure in front of her family and peers. I can understand that but ultimately I feel like I need to distance myself away bit by bit from her until Im gone again. Unless I give her an ultimatum to choose but I wouldn’t want to pressure anybody into doing something they’re not entirely ready for. She loves me but fears our friendship will kindle some deep feelings between us. It’s a dangerous road I’m trying to walk down but I know I have to take the exit soon.
@GemiAwesomeAss
You don’t even know anything dude. Yeah we fucked up by rushing things and having sex but that was something that we were hiding deep within us. I know it’s fucked up saying I regret it now but better now than later down the line. She’ll never take the step to leave him and I can’t keep torturing myself being at her every beck and call. So you need to check yourself first and foremost buddy. If she’s unhappy then what can I do about it? I’m trying to be there for her and let her know that if she leaves him I’ll still be here to cheer her on. But if she stays with him then that’s what was really meant to be