Adreamuponwaking
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Gemini opinions needed......
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Hey ****,
Thank you again for all of the support and indirectly encouraging me to take more risks. You've made this last month or so very interesting.
I'm writing this letter I guess to say that I recently realized I think you're kind of cute and I'm very much attracted to your brain.
I'm perfectly happy with keeping things the way they are between us but I must admit I'd love to cook dinner for you sometime , talk about theory , give you a neck massage and maybe cuddle afterwards.
Let me know if you're down with to be friends with benefits. You of course again can define what those benefits would entail .
Looking forward to having more adventures with you in the future,
-
****
Hey ****,
Thank you again for all of the support and indirectly encouraging me to take more risks. You've made this last month or so very interesting.
I'm writing this letter I guess to say that I recently realized I think you're kind of cute and I'm very much attracted to your brain.
I'm perfectly happy with keeping things the way they are between us but I must admit I'd love to cook dinner for you sometime , talk about theory , give you a neck massage and maybe cuddle afterwards.
Let me know if you're down with to be friends with benefits. You of course again can define what those benefits would entail .
Looking forward to having more adventures with you in the future,
-
****
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
Posted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
lol I don't want to corner her.haha
also isn't this the best way if she doesn't want to?
like if a friend did this to you...wouldn't you rather want a note ...with the space of being able to decide on your own terms?
like if a friend did this to you...wouldn't you rather want a note ...with the space of being able to decide on your own terms?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
lol I don't want to corner her.hahaclick to expand
Geminis are pretty straight forward and won't hide their response, you should use that to your advantage and just be direct and let her know you find her extremely attractive and are curious if she's interested in anything more then friendship, because you find her sexy as hell.
It's not corning, it's just an easy yes or no question.
Posted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
also highly doubt she wouldn't open it.
too impatient. if I asked her to open it after class I doubt she'd be able to make it until the end
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
also isn't this the best way if she doesn't want to?
like if a friend did this to you...wouldn't you rather want a note ...with the space of being able to decide on your own terms?
Gemini's don't need space to decide, she will know immediately, they aren't wishy washy like you Pisces 😛
If she changes her mind and gets curious, she will have no problem hitting you up and saying so.
I think this is more convenient for you instead. lol Ya'll are moving at a snails pace.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
lol I don't want to corner her.haha
Geminis are pretty straight forward and won't hide their response, you should use that to your advantage and just be direct and let her know you find her extremely attractive and are curious if she's interested in anything more then friendship, because you find her sexy as hell.
It's not corning, it's just an easy yes or no question.click to expand
Jesus what's your mercury in again lol.
mine is in aqua
Also tbh I'm not sure if I want to be physical with her .
I do want to cuddle and cook for her
also down to give neck and hand massages
I do want to cuddle and cook for her
also down to give neck and hand massages
Posted by emeraldgem
Hooo I gotta take a minute here. Ok - if we are going with the note, I like the first version best. The other sounds a little businesslike.
But as @saggurl88 said, why the note? You can still basically relay this message in person and do it very charmingly as well. Like tell her you are attracted to her and how sexy her brain is and that you'd like to cook dinner for her. Leave the benefits talk out of the initial conversation and see how she reacts to the first bit. Then you can move it more toward the physical like, and I'd like to snuggle you for dessert......or something like that. See how she's gonna react with that first little step and go from there if she seems receptive.
this seems scary as hell.lol
I need to practice on someone if I'm doing this in person
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
lol I don't want to corner her.haha
Geminis are pretty straight forward and won't hide their response, you should use that to your advantage and just be direct and let her know you find her extremely attractive and are curious if she's interested in anything more then friendship, because you find her sexy as hell.
It's not corning, it's just an easy yes or no question.
Jesus what's your mercury in again lol.
mine is in aquaclick to expand
Mine is in Sag, why?
If yours is in Aqua, my direct approach always get's my way with Aqua Mercuries 😆
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
lol I don't want to corner her.haha
Geminis are pretty straight forward and won't hide their response, you should use that to your advantage and just be direct and let her know you find her extremely attractive and are curious if she's interested in anything more then friendship, because you find her sexy as hell.
It's not corning, it's just an easy yes or no question.
Jesus what's your mercury in again lol.
mine is in aqua
Mine is in Sag, why?
If yours is in Aqua, my direct approach always get's my way with Aqua Mercuries 😆click to expand
lol I knew you had a fire mercury.
her's is in gemini.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I need to practice on someone if I'm doing this in person
LMAO!!!! It's cute that you're so nervous, hopefully you get what you want.
Think of it this way- There's a 50/50 shot at success!
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
Why are you leaving yourself open like this, instead of seeing her reaction in person. You should ask while shes in front of your face, instead of passing a note to her. It's the quickest, cleanest way to see what's going on and handle the situation.
What happens if she gets busy and never reads the note or forgets about it? What happens if she doesn't want to and never tells you? There are too many instances where things can be left up in the air and you will always wonder.
lol I don't want to corner her.haha
Geminis are pretty straight forward and won't hide their response, you should use that to your advantage and just be direct and let her know you find her extremely attractive and are curious if she's interested in anything more then friendship, because you find her sexy as hell.
It's not corning, it's just an easy yes or no question.
Jesus what's your mercury in again lol.
mine is in aqua
Mine is in Sag, why?
If yours is in Aqua, my direct approach always get's my way with Aqua Mercuries 😆
lol I knew you had a fire merchant.
her's is in gemini.click to expand
Her's is in Gemini, that's why your having issues with it, they play around a lot and don't show their hand, just a lot of flirty, playful banter instead, they need some direct actions to get them straight.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I need to practice on someone if I'm doing this in person
LMAO!!!! It's cute that you're so nervous, hopefully you get what you want.
Think of it this way- There's a 50/50 shot at success!click to expand
yeah after this I feel like my med school interviews will be a breeze
Posted by emeraldgem
LOL - it is scary how well @saggurl88 knows us!
I keep trying to tell her! Gemini's are so easy to get for me lol They need no time at all when you are flirty and direct, they like it and think it's sexy.
I think both Pisces and Gemini placements are flirty and hold back a little, someone has to take they first step.
Posted by emeraldgem
@Adreamuponwaking - "this seems scary as hell.lol"
Hahaha! I know, dude - it does. Let the conversation lead there - like during some part of it when you are feeling really in tune with her, just say, "Hey in case you haven't noticed I think you are really smart and sexy as hell. I'd love to make dinner for you." Like start with something simple so she knows what you want but you are not placing any pressure on the situation.
but here's the thing....I don't want to exactly date her though.
I get the feeling that sentiment is mutual....
I think she's down though for fwb...I ask her for hugs sometimes
and she always says she normally doesn't like touch but I'm different/special
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by emeraldgem
@Adreamuponwaking - "this seems scary as hell.lol"
Hahaha! I know, dude - it does. Let the conversation lead there - like during some part of it when you are feeling really in tune with her, just say, "Hey in case you haven't noticed I think you are really smart and sexy as hell. I'd love to make dinner for you." Like start with something simple so she knows what you want but you are not placing any pressure on the situation.
but here's the thing....I don't want to exactly date her though.
I get the feeling that sentiment is mutual....
I think she's down though for fwb...I asks her for hugs sometimes
and she always says she normally doesn't like touch but I'm different/specialclick to expand
You just seem like you are unsure- If a Gemini is up for sex and dating, it turns into a relationship pretty fast, you shouldn't just say FWB situation. It's probably gonna turn her off. It needs to be more open ended. Don't box yourself in, especially if she respects you and likes you more then that.
The fact that she's hugging you and you're different or special should have already given you some cues to hitting on her- You're slacking in your pimping!
so you don't think it's bad if I'm little more clear and direct by specifically asking for the cuddling.
the cuddling thing again by the way is not a way also trying to make her feel comfortable.....
the sexual attraction was....
but I always want to / have the urge to hug and cuddle her.
is that weird I don't know?
the cuddling thing again by the way is not a way also trying to make her feel comfortable.....
the sexual attraction was....
but I always want to / have the urge to hug and cuddle her.
is that weird I don't know?
Posted by emeraldgem
Let the thing evolve organically though. Don't try to force it. If the moment calls for hugs and snuggles - then snuggle on!
hmm great advice.
I agree. I want and prefer to let things. unfold unnaturally.
The only two times I've asked when she's made space / time for us being alone in intimate settings.
The first time I hugged her is when she told me something very personal.
I felt it was an appropriate response to thank and hug her.
The second time we were in the back of this library on a different campus about 40 minutes from our university.
She decided to move upstairs to do work with me in this very dark and intimate setting.
I noticed she sat next to me...really close and her thighs were crossed towards me.
It was still pretty cold though even though we were indoors.
I asked her for a hug...
and she responded " I don't like touch ...but again I'm cold too.... and you're special something...".
I refused the hug though since she had to preface it lol
Posted by emeraldgem
My Gemini work assistant would hug up on me knowing I didn't like it and she would try to piss me off by hugging me harder. LOL - finally I just fucking gave in. She was so cute and funny about it. That was just her. She was a hugger.
Normally, I'm not much into hugging anyway. But if I REALLY like you, I'm like a tick on a dog - you can't dig me out of your skin.
I'm a super duper hugger!
unless of course you are some creepy dude
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by emeraldgem
@Adreamuponwaking - "this seems scary as hell.lol"
Hahaha! I know, dude - it does. Let the conversation lead there - like during some part of it when you are feeling really in tune with her, just say, "Hey in case you haven't noticed I think you are really smart and sexy as hell. I'd love to make dinner for you." Like start with something simple so she knows what you want but you are not placing any pressure on the situation.
but here's the thing....I don't want to exactly date her though.
I get the feeling that sentiment is mutual....
I think she's down though for fwb...I asks her for hugs sometimes
and she always says she normally doesn't like touch but I'm different/special
You just seem like you are unsure- If a Gemini is up for sex and dating, it turns into a relationship pretty fast, you shouldn't just say FWB situation. It's probably gonna turn her off. It needs to be more open ended. Don't box yourself in, especially if she respects you and likes you more then that.
The fact that she's hugging you and you're different or special should have already given you some cues to hitting on her- You're slacking in your pimping!click to expand
lol I have no game.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by emeraldgem
@Adreamuponwaking - "this seems scary as hell.lol"
Hahaha! I know, dude - it does. Let the conversation lead there - like during some part of it when you are feeling really in tune with her, just say, "Hey in case you haven't noticed I think you are really smart and sexy as hell. I'd love to make dinner for you." Like start with something simple so she knows what you want but you are not placing any pressure on the situation.
but here's the thing....I don't want to exactly date her though.
I get the feeling that sentiment is mutual....
I think she's down though for fwb...I asks her for hugs sometimes
and she always says she normally doesn't like touch but I'm different/special
You just seem like you are unsure- If a Gemini is up for sex and dating, it turns into a relationship pretty fast, you shouldn't just say FWB situation. It's probably gonna turn her off. It needs to be more open ended. Don't box yourself in, especially if she respects you and likes you more then that.
The fact that she's hugging you and you're different or special should have already given you some cues to hitting on her- You're slacking in your pimping!
lol I have no game.click to expand
I can tell 😄
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by emeraldgem
My Gemini work assistant would hug up on me knowing I didn't like it and she would try to piss me off by hugging me harder. LOL - finally I just fucking gave in. She was so cute and funny about it. That was just her. She was a hugger.
Normally, I'm not much into hugging anyway. But if I REALLY like you, I'm like a tick on a dog - you can't dig me out of your skin.
I'm a super duper hugger!
unless of course you are some creepy dudeclick to expand
You're about to go back into hiding with all this friendliness. WTF is a hug? LMAO
Blurred lines without words of a confirmation is gonna keep you right where you are.
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
Posted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some air signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me though lol
Posted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
we've hung out outside of class about half a dozen times
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
we've hung out outside of class about half a dozen timesclick to expand
Exactly. I'm not sure why you haven't been able to grab some ass or boobs by now. Even I'm sexually frustrated! 😆
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lolclick to expand
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself 🙂
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lolclick to expand
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
we've hung out outside of class about half a dozen times
Exactly. I'm not sure why you haven't been able to grab some ass or boobs by now. Even I'm sexually frustrated! 😆click to expand
roflmao!
because I'm a gentlewoman!
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself 🙂click to expand
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.click to expand
I don't get by what you mean by this
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself 🙂
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usuallyclick to expand
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by thisclick to expand
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I doubt it
the potential obstacles are very clear of why something serious couldn't happen between us......
-10 year age difference
- it's our last year of college..and we don't know where we will be going for grad school
etc..
-plus I think she's straight...aka sees herself with being with guys only.
I know she's definitely down and open to having physical relationships with girls though.
she recently kissed one of her girlfriends as well as indicated she's only been physically attracted to women lately at our university.we established this the first time we hung out a little over a month ago.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself 🙂
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.click to expand
I mean she has to kind of see me once a week because she's auditing the same class as me haha.
and one of her current mentors is one of my current professors.lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by this
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.click to expand
I think I'm consistent.
I never outright ignore her.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself 🙂
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.
I mean she has to kind of see me once a week because she's auditing the same class as me haha.
and one of her current mentors is one of my current professors.lolclick to expand
smh, you seem to want to be talked out of it instead of encouraged lol You gave it your all. The note is still a bad idea 😛
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by this
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.
I think I'm consistent.
I never outright ignore her.click to expand
That's good. Start sending kissy emojis now 😄
Edited- Actually I'm just teasing you now lol Don't do that.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lolclick to expand
I want to cuddle her and maker food..maybe talk about philosophy.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I doubt it
the potential obstacles are very clear of why something serious couldn't happen between us......
-10 year age difference
- it's our last year of college..and we don't know where we will be going for grad school
etc..
-plus I think she's straight...aka sees herself with being with guys only.
I know she's definitely down and open to having physical relationships with girls though.
she recently kissed one of her girlfriends as well as indicated she's only been physically attracted to women lately at our university.we established this the first time we hung out a little over a month ago.
Oh. Okay, never mind me. I don't understand this type of relationship. Like, why? lolclick to expand
I always attract "the straight ones".
they want to experiment with me lol.
this time I'm actually down
What makes you think she wants to be fwb? I'd be offended to be asked that and secondly for it to be given in a note....I'd Just think shallow and player.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself 🙂
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.
I mean she has to kind of see me once a week because she's auditing the same class as me haha.
and one of her current mentors is one of my current professors.lol
smh, you seem to want to be talked out of it instead of encouraged lol You gave it your all. The note is still a bad idea 😛click to expand
so should I tell her sometime before I leave for Spain next week?
we are hanging out with another friend of hers this Saturday.
we are all going to another library at another university and getting some work done.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by this
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.
I think I'm consistent.
I never outright ignore her.
That's good. Start sending kissy emojis now 😄
Edited- Actually I'm just teasing you now lol Don't do that.click to expand
lol she seemed to go cold when I started being "flirty" via text.
I said she was cute.
she didn't acknowledge it.
and then acted like I was just another one of her buddies that same day.
the next day was when she was flirty with me in the library.
I mean I'm getting mixed messages here lol
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What makes you think she wants to be fwb? I'd be offended to be asked that and secondly for it to be given in a note....I'd Just think shallow and player.
Damn
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! 😆 She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by this
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.
I think I'm consistent.
I never outright ignore her.
That's good. Start sending kissy emojis now 😄
Edited- Actually I'm just teasing you now lol Don't do that.
lol she seemed to go cold when I started being "flirty" via text.
I said she was cute.
she didn't acknowledge it.
and then acted like I was just another one of her buddies that same day.
the next day was when she was flirty with me in the library.
I mean I'm getting mixed messages here lolclick to expand
You honestly just need to bite the bullet and be direct. Even asking a simple question like “are you flirting with me?” while smiling, when you think she is, could help. She won’t say no if she is. Especially with all this stalling that you too are doing.
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