May Geminis generally nicer than June Geminis

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by HistoryDelusional on Sunday, January 28, 2024 and has 47 replies.
I don’t know if it’s just me but I notice a difference between those two

In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May Geminis also have a great sense of humor. Would make a great best friend and more stable. Usually they bring out best sides of Gemini.

In contrast, I’m not usually fond of June Geminis. Whenever I hear people say they don’t like Geminis or that they are toxic, I’m going to assume they had experience that with June Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis. I feel like they bring out the worst qualities of a Gemini. From my experience, they tend to be moody, dramatic, shady and erratic. The June Gemini males are so gossipy and such mommas boy. The females tend to be pick-me’s and jealous.

This is all coming from a January Aqua woman w/ Sag dominant. I have friends who are May Geminis. I don’t know if it’s the leftover Taurus influence on Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis- too moody and dramatic for my free-spirited, independent Aqua self. Not to mention the Cancer influence, which adds in to emotional mess.

Any thoughts, comments or experiences with both?
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I think maybe its because a lot of June geminis tends to be introverts. The most quiet ones (me in this case) just comes off as intense and a lot of folks don't know what to make of them. The June gems may look mean and unapproachable but you'd have to get to know them. I don't find that they are hard to get along with. My only issue with me is trust. They can snap at the tip of a button at any minute. Just keep away from their bad/evil twin and try and stay on their good twin side and you'll find that you've got a friend for life. Providing you don't screw it up. I find may geminis to be the most outgoing talkative ones and it seem to me all June geminis are the most laid back quiet ones and too doggone easy going. That's what I hate about being a June Gemini. Not the quiet laid back part but most specifically the easy going part.
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We are.
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One of my worst relationships ever was with a May Gemini. He was a self absorbed, heartless ass
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I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐

I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.

I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.
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I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐
I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.
I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.



I refuse to be anything sag

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You hate your sag moon?
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Posted by nanochip
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Posted by nanochip
I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐
I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.
I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.


I refuse to be anything sag



You hate your sag moon?
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No, i just refuse to be perceived as sag

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How come? Everyone loves sag energy
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Posted by nanochip
I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐
I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.
I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.
I agree about the moon

Remember reading that as we age we grow into our moon energy. I think I definitely have.
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Posted by nanochip
I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐
I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.
I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.
I definitely see your Capricorn Moon shine quite a lot. I didn't even know your Sun Sign, but you did not strike me as a Capricorn Sun as you seem more lighthearted on the surface, but I did took notice of an unmistakable realism, goal oriented ambition and no BS energy that I typically see in Capricorn Moons.

Personally I relate to both my Sun and Moon placement. So I fully acknowledge both and refused to be placed in a Sun Sign box by some of the morons on this site.

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Posted by nanochip
I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐
I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.
I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.


I definitely see your Capricorn Moon shine quite a lot. I didn't even know your Sun Sign, but you did not strike me as a Capricorn Sun as you seem more lighthearted on the surface, but I did took notice of an unmistakable realism, goal oriented ambition and no BS energy that I typically see in Capricorn Moons.
Personally I relate to both my Sun and Moon placement. So I fully acknowledge both and refused to be placed in a Sun Sign box by some of the morons on this site.

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I will take this as a compliment because I think these Capricorn traits are desirable! Especially grounding alongside gemini energy, but also makes me feel like a strange alien gremlin of a Gemini 👽

For you, I can see both sag and scorp energies for sure. Mischievousness and a darker sense of humor, also no BS. I think Scorpio AND sag energy both loves to be a bit inflammatory and it makes my Gemini bits giggle in the background.
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I’m a June Gemini on the cancer cusp. I don’t like May Geminis.
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I think that’s because June geminis are heavier in water placements for some reason and May geminis tend to have more earthy placements.
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I'm far beyond past astrology now folks but I tend to think this whole taking advantage of my nice and kindness thing with me is because I'm just me. And it suck. I just hate it when people are mean to me for absolutely no reason of insanity. Most people are grouches anyway especially cancer people. So if we June gems come across as being mean just know it's because we just being us and because some grouches need some reality checks. Nothing really to do with astrology anymore. It's the people, I've learn.
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I think that’s because June geminis are heavier in water placements for some reason and May geminis tend to have more earthy placements.
Depends. I’m June 19th and my Moon and Venus are in Taurus. My rising is in Cancer.
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I’m a June Gemini and I don’t like May Geminis. I’m on the Cancer cusp. My moon and venus are in Taurus which is weird. It’s the ones on the Taurus cusp I don’t like.
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I am a May Gemini on the Taurus cusp with Capricorn moon 💎🐐
I don’t relate to many of the negative Gemini traits that people often complain about and associate with us. I relate more to the negative Capricorn traits.
I’ve always thought moon is a lot more significant than sun, which is a rare take in this community.


I refuse to be anything sag



You hate your sag moon?
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No, i just refuse to be perceived as sag
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How come? Everyone loves sag energy
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I can’t stand Sags. They are bossy and know it alls. Nosy too and story tellers. I love Scorpio/Sag cusps though. Very different.
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Depends on other placements
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The closer to June 22, the nicer the people, the farther, the colder.

Cancer, Leo, Gemini have the softest heart.

Capricorn, Sagittarius, Aquarius have the coldest.
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Leos are the only fire signs i like unless they are Sags on the Scorpio cusp. Aries men I can’t stand. Evil.
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Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
The closer to June 22, the nicer the people, the farther, the colder.
Cancer, Leo, Gemini have the softest heart.
Capricorn, Sagittarius, Aquarius have the coldest.
I love Aquarius as friends but would never date them.
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The closer to June 22, the nicer the people, the farther, the colder.
Cancer, Leo, Gemini have the softest heart.
Capricorn, Sagittarius, Aquarius have the coldest.
I’m june 19th. My cousins are June 20,22nd. Love them. I can see the Cancerian in them too. My daughter is the 15th and my mom the 13th. Completely different lol yet sometimes the same.
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Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
The closer to June 22, the nicer the people, the farther, the colder.
Cancer, Leo, Gemini have the softest heart.
Capricorn, Sagittarius, Aquarius have the coldest.
I’m june 19th. My cousins are June 20,22nd. Love them. I can see the Cancerian in them too. My daughter is the 15th and my mom the 13th. Completely different lol yet sometimes the same.
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I’m a June Gemini and I don’t like May Geminis. I’m on the Cancer cusp. My moon and venus are in Taurus which is weird. It’s the ones on the Taurus cusp I don’t like.


Ditto
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My boss is May 24th lol. We fight then make up. She’s my work mom. She knows when i wanna be left alone though and gives me my space.
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November Geminis are the worst
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Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
The closer to June 22, the nicer the people, the farther, the colder.
Cancer, Leo, Gemini have the softest heart.
Capricorn, Sagittarius, Aquarius have the coldest.
I am a combo of Gemini sun with Cancer and Leo placements. It is true about the very soft heart.

I wish it wasn’t so soft 🫤
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Posted by IReallyAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
The closer to June 22, the nicer the people, the farther, the colder.
Cancer, Leo, Gemini have the softest heart.
Capricorn, Sagittarius, Aquarius have the coldest.


I am a combo of Gemini sun with Cancer and Leo placements. It is true about the very soft heart.
I wish it wasn’t so soft 🫤
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I don't know if I'm closer to June 22 or if I'm more closer to Taurus. I'm hoping the latter. As nice as I already am the last thing I need is a soft heart too. My heart is sweet but I wouldn't go as far as to say it's soft.
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The loveliest Gemini I know was born 29 May

One of the coldest 1st June …. She has an Aqua moon
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Posted by HistoryDelusional
I don’t know if it’s just me but I notice a difference between those two
In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May Geminis also have a great sense of humor. Would make a great best friend and more stable. Usually they bring out best sides of Gemini.
In contrast, I’m not usually fond of June Geminis. Whenever I hear people say they don’t like Geminis or that they are toxic, I’m going to assume they had experience that with June Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis. I feel like they bring out the worst qualities of a Gemini. From my experience, they tend to be moody, dramatic, shady and erratic. The June Gemini males are so gossipy and such mommas boy. The females tend to be pick-me’s and jealous.
This is all coming from a January Aqua woman w/ Sag dominant. I have friends who are May Geminis. I don’t know if it’s the leftover Taurus influence on Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis- too moody and dramatic for my free-spirited, independent Aqua self. Not to mention the Cancer influence, which adds in to emotional mess.
Any thoughts, comments or experiences with both?
Same here! My sister and two friends are May Geminis - they're super talkative, gossipy, and childish or a bit crazy in a way. My mother and best friend are June Geminis, and they're laid-back, sensitive, and gentle. I actually spent the past couple of days thinking about this, and the only conclusion I came to is that May Geminis seem to have a bit of Taurus in them, while June Geminis have a touch of sensitive Cancer!?

Also, there's so much negativity towards Geminis, yet all of the ones I know are really great people, especially my best friend, who was born on June 17th.

Here's a great post on this topic: https://chi-nese.com/may-vs-june-gemini-their-biggest-differences/
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Posted by HistoryDelusional
I don’t know if it’s just me but I notice a difference between those two
In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May Geminis also have a great sense of humor. Would make a great best friend and more stable. Usually they bring out best sides of Gemini.
In contrast, I’m not usually fond of June Geminis. Whenever I hear people say they don’t like Geminis or that they are toxic, I’m going to assume they had experience that with June Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis. I feel like they bring out the worst qualities of a Gemini. From my experience, they tend to be moody, dramatic, shady and erratic. The June Gemini males are so gossipy and such mommas boy. The females tend to be pick-me’s and jealous.
This is all coming from a January Aqua woman w/ Sag dominant. I have friends who are May Geminis. I don’t know if it’s the leftover Taurus influence on Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis- too moody and dramatic for my free-spirited, independent Aqua self. Not to mention the Cancer influence, which adds in to emotional mess.
Any thoughts, comments or experiences with both?


Same here! My sister and two friends are May Geminis - they're super talkative, gossipy, and childish or a bit crazy in a way. My mother and best friend are June Geminis, and they're laid-back, sensitive, and gentle. I actually spent the past couple of days thinking about this, and the only conclusion I came to is that May Geminis seem to have a bit of Taurus in them, while June Geminis have a touch of sensitive Cancer!?
Also, there's so much negativity towards Geminis, yet all of the ones I know are really great people, especially my best friend, who was born on June 17th.
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I agree with this. I am a June Gemine and am extremely introverted. I don't hang out with people at all, 100% loner. I had many May Gemini friends growing up, they are a lot more outgoing and social, where as I am definitely more laid back and sensitve.
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Posted by HistoryDelusional
I don’t know if it’s just me but I notice a difference between those two
In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May Geminis also have a great sense of humor. Would make a great best friend and more stable. Usually they bring out best sides of Gemini.
In contrast, I’m not usually fond of June Geminis. Whenever I hear people say they don’t like Geminis or that they are toxic, I’m going to assume they had experience that with June Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis. I feel like they bring out the worst qualities of a Gemini. From my experience, they tend to be moody, dramatic, shady and erratic. The June Gemini males are so gossipy and such mommas boy. The females tend to be pick-me’s and jealous.
This is all coming from a January Aqua woman w/ Sag dominant. I have friends who are May Geminis. I don’t know if it’s the leftover Taurus influence on Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis- too moody and dramatic for my free-spirited, independent Aqua self. Not to mention the Cancer influence, which adds in to emotional mess.
Any thoughts, comments or experiences with both?


Same here! My sister and two friends are May Geminis - they're super talkative, gossipy, and childish or a bit crazy in a way. My mother and best friend are June Geminis, and they're laid-back, sensitive, and gentle. I actually spent the past couple of days thinking about this, and the only conclusion I came to is that May Geminis seem to have a bit of Taurus in them, while June Geminis have a touch of sensitive Cancer!?
Also, there's so much negativity towards Geminis, yet all of the ones I know are really great people, especially my best friend, who was born on June 17th.


I agree with this. I am a June Gemine and am extremely introverted. I don't hang out with people at all, 100% loner. I had many May Gemini friends growing up, they are a lot more outgoing and social, where as I am definitely more laid back and sensitve.
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Take the test here and let's see how high your introverted level are. Not saying I don't believe you but proofreading is where it's at.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/post-your-mbti-here-15957094/
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November Geminis are the worst
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According to classic astrolgy yeah people with prominent water placements can shift the vibe and subtly steer things in their favor. Basically redirecting the outcome. While earth signs are bad at finessing, they think they will get their way by waiting things out. Their trick is outlasting situations until it bends to them.
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Posted by HistoryDelusional
I don’t know if it’s just me but I notice a difference between those two
In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May Geminis also have a great sense of humor. Would make a great best friend and more stable. Usually they bring out best sides of Gemini.
In contrast, I’m not usually fond of June Geminis. Whenever I hear people say they don’t like Geminis or that they are toxic, I’m going to assume they had experience that with June Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis. I feel like they bring out the worst qualities of a Gemini. From my experience, they tend to be moody, dramatic, shady and erratic. The June Gemini males are so gossipy and such mommas boy. The females tend to be pick-me’s and jealous.
This is all coming from a January Aqua woman w/ Sag dominant. I have friends who are May Geminis. I don’t know if it’s the leftover Taurus influence on Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis- too moody and dramatic for my free-spirited, independent Aqua self. Not to mention the Cancer influence, which adds in to emotional mess.
Any thoughts, comments or experiences with both?


Same here! My sister and two friends are May Geminis - they're super talkative, gossipy, and childish or a bit crazy in a way. My mother and best friend are June Geminis, and they're laid-back, sensitive, and gentle. I actually spent the past couple of days thinking about this, and the only conclusion I came to is that May Geminis seem to have a bit of Taurus in them, while June Geminis have a touch of sensitive Cancer!?
Also, there's so much negativity towards Geminis, yet all of the ones I know are really great people, especially my best friend, who was born on June 17th.


I agree with this. I am a June Gemine and am extremely introverted. I don't hang out with people at all, 100% loner. I had many May Gemini friends growing up, they are a lot more outgoing and social, where as I am definitely more laid back and sensitve.
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Take the test here and let's see how high your introverted level are. Not saying I don't believe you but proofreading is where it's at.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/post-your-mbti-here-15957094/
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I have done that test before quite a few times. I generally get INTP, but somtimes I get INTF. I will take it again and post it in your other thread.

I have Scorpio Moon, Asc & Pluto . And an 8th House Sun, that's where my introversion comes from. I also discovered that I have Autism, so that likely contributes.
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@Jumpin_Jupiter

I got INFJ this time!

89% Introverted (LOL)

82% Intuitive

67% Feeling

79% Judging

54% Turbulent

What I had wrote above about what I got previous, I think I got the letters wrong. I always get IN for the first 2 letters, but the last 2 change, they are always either, T, F, P or J
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I don’t know if it’s just me but I notice a difference between those two
In general they are part of the Gemini season, but what I do noticed based off my experiences is that imo the May Geminis tend to be nicer, laidback and easy to get along with. May Geminis also have a great sense of humor. Would make a great best friend and more stable. Usually they bring out best sides of Gemini.
In contrast, I’m not usually fond of June Geminis. Whenever I hear people say they don’t like Geminis or that they are toxic, I’m going to assume they had experience that with June Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis. I feel like they bring out the worst qualities of a Gemini. From my experience, they tend to be moody, dramatic, shady and erratic. The June Gemini males are so gossipy and such mommas boy. The females tend to be pick-me’s and jealous.
This is all coming from a January Aqua woman w/ Sag dominant. I have friends who are May Geminis. I don’t know if it’s the leftover Taurus influence on Geminis. I can’t stand June Geminis- too moody and dramatic for my free-spirited, independent Aqua self. Not to mention the Cancer influence, which adds in to emotional mess.
Any thoughts, comments or experiences with both?


Same here! My sister and two friends are May Geminis - they're super talkative, gossipy, and childish or a bit crazy in a way. My mother and best friend are June Geminis, and they're laid-back, sensitive, and gentle. I actually spent the past couple of days thinking about this, and the only conclusion I came to is that May Geminis seem to have a bit of Taurus in them, while June Geminis have a touch of sensitive Cancer!?
Also, there's so much negativity towards Geminis, yet all of the ones I know are really great people, especially my best friend, who was born on June 17th.


I agree with this. I am a June Gemine and am extremely introverted. I don't hang out with people at all, 100% loner. I had many May Gemini friends growing up, they are a lot more outgoing and social, where as I am definitely more laid back and sensitve.
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Take the test here and let's see how high your introverted level are. Not saying I don't believe you but proofreading is where it's at.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/miscellaneous/post-your-mbti-here-15957094/


I have done that test before quite a few times. I generally get INTP, but somtimes I get INTF. I will take it again and post it in your other thread.
I have Scorpio Moon, Asc & Pluto . And an 8th House Sun, that's where my introversion comes from. I also discovered that I have Autism, so that likely contributes.
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Ye I just looked up symptoms of autism and it seems I got it too. Honestly I don't know why and how an autism person such as myself manage to own a business dealing with people. It just seem awkward and feel awkward too. The best jobs for people with autisms is working at home but I get bored and tired of that.

And yeah I took a good look at your mbti results. I would expect people with autism introvert level is quite high up there. I'm not surprised. Not surprised at all.
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Posted by MidAtBest
I havent had a bad experience with a May Gemini I don't think
As a June Gemini, my past 2 romantic rivals have also been June Geminis. One told the Libra I was dating (who she then stole) "why would you want her, she's a butterface"
The other one has 2 baby dads, 3 living children, 2 deceased children (one would have had a 3rd baby dad) and her kids have 3 different last names. High school dropout, lots of evictions
Her:

I'm just hating but idk why I attract chubbychasers unless my facial impairments put me level with the fat girls. Anyway, I avoid and rarely cross paths with Geminis of any month, but usually when we get along they're may gems.
You can't have this strong distaste towards the Gemini and not the Libra. Libra wasn't stolen, it sounds like he went willingly and stirred the pot.
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And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness
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I havent had a bad experience with a May Gemini I don't think
As a June Gemini, my past 2 romantic rivals have also been June Geminis. One told the Libra I was dating (who she then stole) "why would you want her, she's a butterface"
The other one has 2 baby dads, 3 living children, 2 deceased children (one would have had a 3rd baby dad) and her kids have 3 different last names. High school dropout, lots of evictions
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I'm just hating but idk why I attract chubbychasers unless my facial impairments put me level with the fat girls. Anyway, I avoid and rarely cross paths with Geminis of any month, but usually when we get along they're may gems.


You can't have this strong distaste towards the Gemini and not the Libra. Libra wasn't stolen, it sounds like he went willingly and stirred the pot.
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I continue to be in lots of pain surrounding both situations. the libra one was complex though, he was playing both but then we all got in a throuple for a few months (last august-october or so) till she blocked me . she has scorpio moon and kept asking invasive questions till I answered one honestly which she deemed blockable. he had me waste a sick day because she changed her mind and didn't want me around. I'm pissed to have been the bigger person to find good in someone insecure who thinks I'm facially inferior to her (I posted her photo after the post you quoted). but surely we were both doing it for the libra end of the day. end of the day he was the most charismatic of all 3. but I hate ugly motherfuckers who call me ugly and say I'm defined by it.

and I truly am overjoyed to move hours away so as never to risk crossing paths with this porcine poopappotamus.

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Not a fan of a June gem ik, better off acquaintances than friends. First bf was a gem and it was the most mentally exhausting relationship with lots of cheating/flirting behind my back but this person was double air 🤡 even after getting a new gf, he’s still trynna talk to me and said how he’s down to have more than one gf
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Posted by aka_xy
And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness
true, its deleted. but I've never told a partner who was stuck between two that he should pick me because I'm prettier. I've never dissed the other persons looks. I have in my head, but not to him as an argument. Libra did nothing wrong in that regard, he was just being a playa, he told me I'm the most beautiful girl he'd never seen (because he cares about my feelings) and not ugly at all. he also said this in her face with both of us present, he said I'm the best looking of the 3, just undateable for other reasons. (such as my overreaction in this thread).

this past year has been full of (mainly online) criticism about my face and its fucking destroying me. I want to die over it. if it wasn't for my cat, I would. when the girl saw me in person, she changed her mind as usually happens. basically you're poking a mentally ill bear here. 😢
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Posted by aka_xy
And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness


true, its deleted. but I've never told a partner who was stuck between two that he should pick me because I'm prettier. I've never dissed the other persons looks. I have in my head, but not to him as an argument. Libra did nothing wrong in that regard, he was just being a playa, he told me I'm the most beautiful girl he'd never seen and not ugly at all. he also said this in her face with both of us present, he said I'm the best looking of the 3, just undateable for other reasons. (such as my overreaction in this thread).
this past year has been full of (mainly online) criticism about my face and its fucking destroying me. I want to die over it. if it wasn't for my cat, I would. when the girl saw me in person, she changed her mind as usually happens. basically you're poking a mentally ill bear here. 😢
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It's ok. All gods creatures are beautiful. You're beautiful in the eyes of me and God so pay no attention to the negative nancies on and off the internets. Keep away from those that mean harm and stay to yourself. You don't need people who calls you ugly around not even as a friend.
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And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness


true, its deleted. but I've never told a partner who was stuck between two that he should pick me because I'm prettier. I've never dissed the other persons looks. I have in my head, but not to him as an argument. Libra did nothing wrong in that regard, he was just being a playa, he told me I'm the most beautiful girl he'd never seen and not ugly at all. he also said this in her face with both of us present, he said I'm the best looking of the 3, just undateable for other reasons. (such as my overreaction in this thread).
this past year has been full of (mainly online) criticism about my face and its fucking destroying me. I want to die over it. if it wasn't for my cat, I would. when the girl saw me in person, she changed her mind as usually happens. basically you're poking a mentally ill bear here. 😢
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It's ok. All gods creatures are beautiful. You're beautiful in the eyes of me and God so pay no attention to the negative nancies on and off the internets. Keep away from those that mean harm and stay to yourself. You don't need people who calls you ugly around not even as a friend.
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thank you so much... Love 😞 im in tears and it really means a lot.
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Posted by aka_xy
And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness


true, its deleted. but I've never told a partner who was stuck between two that he should pick me because I'm prettier. I've never dissed the other persons looks. I have in my head, but not to him as an argument. Libra did nothing wrong in that regard, he was just being a playa, he told me I'm the most beautiful girl he'd never seen (because he cares about my feelings) and not ugly at all. he also said this in her face with both of us present, he said I'm the best looking of the 3, just undateable for other reasons. (such as my overreaction in this thread).
this past year has been full of (mainly online) criticism about my face and its fucking destroying me. I want to die over it. if it wasn't for my cat, I would. when the girl saw me in person, she changed her mind as usually happens. basically you're poking a mentally ill bear here. 😢
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Personally, I'd avoid guys the minute they compare me to another woman. Libra knew what he was doing and he wanted to feed his ego by making you compete against each other. People who may be charismatic can be manipulative. It doesn't matter if there was an agreement with you all three, he still wanted to play a game and he played into both your insecurities.

It's tough dealing with criticisms especially when you're down but you won't feel any better criticizing the next person about what makes you insecure yourself.

Take care of yourself♥️
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Posted by aka_xy
And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness


true, its deleted. but I've never told a partner who was stuck between two that he should pick me because I'm prettier. I've never dissed the other persons looks. I have in my head, but not to him as an argument. Libra did nothing wrong in that regard, he was just being a playa, he told me I'm the most beautiful girl he'd never seen (because he cares about my feelings) and not ugly at all. he also said this in her face with both of us present, he said I'm the best looking of the 3, just undateable for other reasons. (such as my overreaction in this thread).
this past year has been full of (mainly online) criticism about my face and its fucking destroying me. I want to die over it. if it wasn't for my cat, I would. when the girl saw me in person, she changed her mind as usually happens. basically you're poking a mentally ill bear here. 😢
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Personally, I'd avoid guys the minute they compare me to another woman. Libra knew what he was doing and he wanted to feed his ego by making you compete against each other. People who may be charismatic can be manipulative. It doesn't matter if there was an agreement with you all three, he still wanted to play a game and he played into both your insecurities.
It's tough dealing with criticisms especially when you're down but you won't feel any better criticizing the next person about what makes you insecure yourself.
Take care of yourself♥️
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you're right. thanks for responding and I'm sorry for going off. thanks for your empathy. Love 🥲 this is also exactly why I was reluctant to give a libra a shot in the first place.
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I'm going to have to agree with the OP.
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Posted by aka_xy
And as much as she may have been an ass, she doesn't deserve to have her photos floating around without her awareness


true, its deleted. but I've never told a partner who was stuck between two that he should pick me because I'm prettier. I've never dissed the other persons looks. I have in my head, but not to him as an argument. Libra did nothing wrong in that regard, he was just being a playa, he told me I'm the most beautiful girl he'd never seen and not ugly at all. he also said this in her face with both of us present, he said I'm the best looking of the 3, just undateable for other reasons. (such as my overreaction in this thread).
this past year has been full of (mainly online) criticism about my face and its fucking destroying me. I want to die over it. if it wasn't for my cat, I would. when the girl saw me in person, she changed her mind as usually happens. basically you're poking a mentally ill bear here. 😢
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It's ok. All gods creatures are beautiful. You're beautiful in the eyes of me and God so pay no attention to the negative nancies on and off the internets. Keep away from those that mean harm and stay to yourself. You don't need people who calls you ugly around not even as a friend.


thank you so much... 😞 im in tears and it really means a lot.
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Oh trust me I know how it is and what's it like to be humiliated like that. It makes me wanna kill but I can't do that because I know the consequences behind that. I don't know how many times I've been gossiped about just passing by groups of people but when they by themselves thats when they wanna act all nice and speak to you like nothing never happened. But thats people for you. As far as nice, honestly I kinda don't know what that word truly means. I really wanna say that's no such word cus all signs (everybody) are evil. That's just to stay on the thread topic.
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