My Gemini Woman seems Like her head is else where

Posted by hydorah

you could just have said "gemini" and spared yourself all those words, are you an aquarius or sthg

Posted by Winters12

Posted by hydorah

you could just have said "gemini" and spared yourself all those words, are you an aquarius or sthg

I think I have Aquarius moon 🤔

Born 12/12/91 at around 1.30 am

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Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Winters12

Hi all


My partner (gemini woman) has seemed a little distant lately like her head is not in the relationship I know she has a lot going on at the moment with moving house and things haven’t been great as we both have been living separately Not a lot of time together and both have children to care for in between that . Also she has told me she is weary of me now because I am currently living in emergency accommodation with my daughter I.e flats and the neighbour is a lady and approached me and my daughter with her daughter to ask for my daughters number keep up 😂 anyway I said I’m not sure that’s a good idea as we do not know them. That same night their was a number slipped under my door by the neighbour and I told my daughter although it is lovely for you to make new friends I do not want you to contact that number As they are strangers and we do not know the back ground of any of them and we chucked it in the bin however that was Sunday night and I didn’t tell my partner (Gemini) about it until Tuesday afternoon and I have seen her in between but it slipped my mind on Sunday to say anything about it On the phone at first as I thought I will just deal with it anyway I seen my partner on the Monday night and went back to the emergency accommodation on the same night after seeing my partner and their was another letter under the door from the neighbours daughter so say ? Saying what school do you go too as I go to such and such school we kept the letter and then the next day I told my partner about it now she thinks I didn’t tell her about the number first of all because i was hiding something but I haven’t been at all I have seen how upset and she’s just not there in her head with everything going on with her moving and a few arguments between us lately ? on the Monday I thought I wouldn’t say anything until I could approach her in a better mind set so I did on the Tuesday afternoon.

But Also she is one minuet saying she misses me and is very attached to me and the next seems like she isn’t ? But when I ask her what’s up she doesn’t want to open up straight away .

I spoke to her today before work in person and she was all over me saying I just want to hold you etc and I absolutely love it .

But last night she was around mind and we was sat on the sofa chatting like we was just friends And her head just wasn’t their properly because of this?

I don’t feel very close with her at the moment and it’s worrying is she just not interested or is their something bigger at play here ?? I know she is feeling the same can any of you make sense from this ? Please also I am a Sag male .

I dunno all of this is reading controlling and insecure on your part. People need room to breathe. I would hate it if I felt like someone was always looking over my shoulder or asking me what I’m thinking all the time. Just let her have some space and room to think....

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Posted by SolitariusLupus

I'd start by telling your neighbour not to slide notes under your door, cause yeah, that doesn't look good.


Sounds like she is just pissy about the neighbour and that's why she's being distant. You gotta make sure she knows it's nothing more than just a neighbour being friendly. She doesn't trust you fully or this wouldn't be an issue though.

Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta

Geminis can be very jealous in the early stages of a relationship. Poke that at your own risk.

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Posted by Winters12

Posted by Dread_Pirate_Phanta

Geminis can be very jealous in the early stages of a relationship. Poke that at your own risk.

🤣 what do you mean poke that at my own risk ?

lol

You could read it another way...

What I meant was it's a sensitive spot, a failing we don't like to acknowledge. So be careful with it.

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Posted by BlueStar

Posted by hydorah

you could just have said "gemini" and spared yourself all those words, are you an aquarius or sthg

🙄

You okay? Home not on fire?

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Posted by BlueStar

We already told you in the previous thread she’s not someone who should be a step mom to your kids.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by BlueStar

We already told you in the previous thread she’s not someone who should be a step mom to your kids.

Ah, so there is more to this lady...

https://www.dxpnet.com/forums/gemini/have-i-lost-her--14290189

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Turn on the charm and plan a romantic night for her. Even if its just flowers on the table, a nice home cooked meal, and scented oil massage.

She's stressed from the move and your making a big deal about your daughters potential friends mother having eyes for you. When from where I sit it just looks like a kid wanting a friend.