Can't tell if Taurus woman likes me

This topic was created in the Taurus and Leo Compatibility forum by idklove27 on Monday, January 17, 2022 and has 42 replies.
Thanks in advance to all the replies.


I'm a Leo Sun, Cap Moon, Leo Mercury, Libra Venus, and Cancer Mars man--27 years old. She's a Taurus Sun, Sag Moon, Gem Mercury, Taurus Venus, and Gem Mars woman--21 years old.


We've cuddled quite a bit. We've slept together once (she hasn't had time to spend a night again). I kiss her goodbye when we do hangout. She has no problem with me touching her. In fact, she's the one who broke the physical touch barrier albeit in a very shy way (quickly placing her head on my shoulder and taking it off). She also brought me back a small gift from her holiday trip to Mexico. She agrees to hangout more often than not and doesn't cancel like that. Here's the kicker.


She hardly ever reaches out 1st when we are away. The day after we slept together she blocked me from her secondary IG, saying it's no weird feelings but she just doesn't like people she know following it. She also says she'll engage with me through phone like sending me things she finds thrifting or sending me stuff to read but never does it. So when away I feel like we aren't building a connection. It's like I'm being held at a distance. Any thoughts my fellow dxpneters?


P.S. We haven't had any conversation about what we are or what we are doing. I'm afraid to ruin the vibe by doing so; she does have that Sag moon influence and Mars in Gem. But I definitely would like to date her and be her boyfriend some day.
You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you
Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you
I'm definitely planning on doing that. She said we can go out on Valentine's Day. So, if we do go out then I'll get some clarity without being pressuring. Or maybe the next we hangout I'll do it. And damn bro "fling" is like the perfect word to describe what's happening. Never knew the actual definition.
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Thanks in advance to all the replies.


I'm a Leo Sun, Cap Moon, Leo Mercury, Libra Venus, and Cancer Mars man--27 years old. She's a Taurus Sun, Sag Moon, Gem Mercury, Taurus Venus, and Gem Mars woman--21 years old.


We've cuddled quite a bit. We've slept together once (she hasn't had time to spend a night again). I kiss her goodbye when we do hangout. She has no problem with me touching her. In fact, she's the one who broke the physical touch barrier albeit in a very shy way (quickly placing her head on my shoulder and taking it off). She also brought me back a small gift from her holiday trip to Mexico. She agrees to hangout more often than not and doesn't cancel like that. Here's the kicker.


She hardly ever reaches out 1st when we are away. The day after we slept together she blocked me from her secondary IG, saying it's no weird feelings but she just doesn't like people she know following it. She also says she'll engage with me through phone like sending me things she finds thrifting or sending me stuff to read but never does it. So when away I feel like we aren't building a connection. It's like I'm being held at a distance. Any thoughts my fellow dxpneters?


P.S. We haven't had any conversation about what we are or what we are doing. I'm afraid to ruin the vibe by doing so; she does have that Sag moon influence and Mars in Gem. But I definitely would like to date her and be her boyfriend some day.

Yup that’s Taurus behavior. Reel u in by doing nothing
Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you
Your profile pic is HOT! ❤️‍🔥


Just makes me want to fill you up! Tongue


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Posted by WarAngel

She still feeling you out. You're going to have to be more patient. Slowly have her up the girlfriend stuff with the gentle nudges by you.


That Sag Moon needs freedom, don't fence her in too quickly. You're not going to win this cow over by using a lasso.
Big facts and honestly all astrology aside and considering my personal idea of how relationships should work, I would not want anyone to feel caged in or like they owe a responsibility to me or obligated to do anything. I want everybody to experience as much of this world as possible and continuously grow and if I'm in the way of that I'm like go do you. Otherwise is just selfish to hold someone back. That's why part of me is like sit back let her reach out. Then the other part is like bruh she definitely not about to do that, and it may come of as you being distance since you already created a rapport where you hit her up first and ask her out. Maybe I'll let more days go by. Patience. Got it. Also, if something is meant to work it will, if not, it won't. So yeah I got chill and get my mind off how great I think she is and how compatible I think we are. Our chemistry is amazing actually and lot of similar interest and hobbies and bad habits lol. We have a lot of fun together.
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Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


Your profile pic is HOT! ❤️‍🔥


Just makes me want to fill you up! Tongue


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LMAO That's so funny! Now I'm hungry!
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Posted by WarAngel

She still feeling you out. You're going to have to be more patient. Slowly have her up the girlfriend stuff with the gentle nudges by you.


That Sag Moon needs freedom, don't fence her in too quickly. You're not going to win this cow over by using a lasso.


Big facts and honestly all astrology aside and considering my personal idea of how relationships should work, I would not want anyone to feel caged in or like they owe a responsibility to me or obligated to do anything. I want everybody to experience as much of this world as possible and continuously grow and if I'm in the way of that I'm like go do you. Otherwise is just selfish to hold someone back. That's why part of me is like sit back let her reach out. Then the other part is like bruh she definitely not about to do that, and it may come of as you being distance since you already created a rapport where you hit her up first and ask her out. Maybe I'll let more days go by. Patience. Got it. Also, if something is meant to work it will, if not, it won't. So yeah I got chill and get my mind off how great I think she is and how compatible I think we are. Our chemistry is amazing actually and lot of similar interest and hobbies and bad habits lol. We have a lot of fun together.


In that case, watch her actions. What she says is irrelevant. At her age, any words that come out of her mouth have zero meaning relationship wise.
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Yep! On the money again. Her age was certainly something I told myself was a deal breaker from the first moment I met her. And also we I'm sort of like you can have all the space you need. You still figuring stuff out--as I am in certain ways. And yeah I notice she also says stuff in the spur of the moment. But then she'll get tired or feel sometime a way and go back on what she said, prefacing it with, "honestly" or "ngl." That's another thing I can say she has been honest even though things seems to change with her often. And very shameless in some respects. Must be that sag moon--like she can be blunt and say stuff most women are embarrassed to say lol.
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Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


I'm definitely planning on doing that. She said we can go out on Valentine's Day. So, if we do go out then I'll get some clarity without being pressuring. Or maybe the next we hangout I'll do it. And damn bro "fling" is like the perfect word to describe what's happening. Never knew the actual definition.
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She’s still young, at her age women want to enjoy their freedom. It’s still good to get a definitive answer so you’re not wasting time
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Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


Your profile pic is HOT! ❤️‍🔥


Just makes me want to fill you up! Tongue


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Damn gurl I should be saying the same thing to you!
Yes sir! Got it! Thanks I needed an outside voice to tell me this for real. That's the deadline for her. I literally can't be bogged down with her or any woman for that matter being in between careers and my monthly bills being closer to a household of a couple than a single man lol. Also, I work at a bar...so there are other women who hit on me, but I'm literally taking it slow with them because we don't get on as well. I got to let those women know what's up so I don't lead them on and play games. Can't be a product of what I hate! Thanks again!
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


Your profile pic is HOT! ❤️‍🔥


Just makes me want to fill you up! Tongue


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Damn gurl I should be saying the same thing to you!
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Bruh! I'm dying over here. Let's just turn this into a fajita thread with sexual innuendos. How spicy yall gon make that fajita? lol
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Posted by idklove27
Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


I'm definitely planning on doing that. She said we can go out on Valentine's Day. So, if we do go out then I'll get some clarity without being pressuring. Or maybe the next we hangout I'll do it. And damn bro "fling" is like the perfect word to describe what's happening. Never knew the actual definition.


She’s still young, at her age women want to enjoy their freedom. It’s still good to get a definitive answer so you’re not wasting time
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I agree. Got look out for what I want and need too.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


Your profile pic is HOT! ❤️‍🔥


Just makes me want to fill you up! Tongue


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LMAO That's so funny! Now I'm hungry!
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Posted by roti

You’re a fling bro. She’s not serious

Ask her if she’s into you


Your profile pic is HOT! ❤️‍🔥


Just makes me want to fill you up! Tongue


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🤣 😂 🤣
Posted by dontgiveup

I think it is odd that she blocked you on her other IG account, and she also promises more than she delivers.

This may be due to her Gem mars but I would just pay close attention to her actions over words.

The not reaching out first part, I can be like that when talking to guys I really like but as soon as they go quiet id reach out to see if theyre alright. Maybe dont text for a couple days see if shes reaches out.

Either way just watch her actions, they tell you more than words. Good Luck.

I would say it sounds like you need to have a conversation with her on what she is looking for. Her being young with sag and gem placements she may not want to be tied down. You need to address her intentions so you dont waste your time.

Like you said others are hitting on you, you could miss out.




ugh id love to pick your brain, you have the exact chart of the guy I was seeing awhile ago. lol
Yeah the IG account thing was sort of a way of keeping her distance I’d say, or maintaining freedom. It’s her “spam” account as she calls it where she archives stuff she’s interested in. It says “my personal archive” in the description of the page. I would comment on the stories I found interesting and like her post so I guess she was feeling self-conscious I was watching. I mean if I had a page like that where I could post whatever, or a space where I felt free to put out whatever and people I know started looking I’d feel more restricted you know. Plus a romantic interest, partner, bf, gf, etc. doesn’t have to have access to every part of your life. Everyone is entitled to boundaries and privacy. I met up with her after blocking me and the vibe was the same.


I haven’t know her long enough yet imo to have that talk (only a month now that I think about it lol), but sleeping with her and cuddling and kissing just made things seem like they need to be expedited—go figure lol. Perhaps it’s my Leo nature that thinks it’s been long when her Taurus, Sag, and Gem placements is like I barely know you. But she was comfortable enough to sleep with me and she hadn’t slept with no one in a year. I had no intention actually of doing it with her I just started rubbing her bottom and she became more and more receptive and next thing I know she straddled me. Sorry TMI perhaps.


I just wish she’d stop leaving me wondering if I’m going to get a response from her or not. Consistent communication would be nice. Doesn’t have to be a lot. Just a little something here and there to say I’m thinking of you.


Also, feel free to pick my brain! I’m down to learn more about how you’ve responded or dealt with guys in the dating realm etc. I like hearing stories lol. They give me a starting point of understanding if I’m in a similar situation.
I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.

lol I friendzoned mine awhile ago she just tried to crawl back out of it and I heel kicked her down...kinda of feel bad lol
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I think it is odd that she blocked you on her other IG account, and she also promises more than she delivers.

This may be due to her Gem mars but I would just pay close attention to her actions over words.

The not reaching out first part, I can be like that when talking to guys I really like but as soon as they go quiet id reach out to see if theyre alright. Maybe dont text for a couple days see if shes reaches out.

Either way just watch her actions, they tell you more than words. Good Luck.

I would say it sounds like you need to have a conversation with her on what she is looking for. Her being young with sag and gem placements she may not want to be tied down. You need to address her intentions so you dont waste your time.

Like you said others are hitting on you, you could miss out.




ugh id love to pick your brain, you have the exact chart of the guy I was seeing awhile ago. lol


Yeah the IG account thing was sort of a way of keeping her distance I’d say, or maintaining freedom. It’s her “spam” account as she calls it where she archives stuff she’s interested in. It says “my personal archive” in the description of the page. I would comment on the stories I found interesting and like her post so I guess she was feeling self-conscious I was watching. I mean if I had a page like that where I could post whatever, or a space where I felt free to put out whatever and people I know started looking I’d feel more restricted you know. Plus a romantic interest, partner, bf, gf, etc. doesn’t have to have access to every part of your life. Everyone is entitled to boundaries and privacy. I met up with her after blocking me and the vibe was the same.


I haven’t know her long enough yet imo to have that talk (only a month now that I think about it lol), but sleeping with her and cuddling and kissing just made things seem like they need to be expedited—go figure lol. Perhaps it’s my Leo nature that thinks it’s been long when her Taurus, Sag, and Gem placements is like I barely know you. But she was comfortable enough to sleep with me and she hadn’t slept with no one in a year. I had no intention actually of doing it with her I just started rubbing her bottom and she became more and more receptive and next thing I know she straddled me. Sorry TMI perhaps.


I just wish she’d stop leaving me wondering if I’m going to get a response from her or not. Consistent communication would be nice. Doesn’t have to be a lot. Just a little something here and there to say I’m thinking of you.


Also, feel free to pick my brain! I’m down to learn more about how you’ve responded or dealt with guys in the dating realm etc. I like hearing stories lol. They give me a starting point of understanding if I’m in a similar situation.


Okay now that I got a little more insight, yes a month is not that long. But if you have slept together that also changes the tune. I can see where you'd like to have more direction in this situation. I don't think it is too soon to bring anything up though, I sure she would be understanding of where you're coming from. Just do it in a light hearted way, no pressure. Just simply ask her what shes looking for in this situation. Tell her you don't want to rush but just curious.

Honestly I think it will bother you the longer you feel lost or questioning, so you might be doing yourself a favor to atleast get a little response back.


Also, I am not a Taurus so I am not sure if you'd still want my way of responding in relationships. I am a Leo. With Libra placements.

But I do admit I have acted very similar to the woman you're seeing. I kinda distance myself until I am sure. Which I blame on my air mars. Similar to hers. If I am spending time with you it speaks volumes, I do not spend time with someone I am not interested in. The last think I want to do is waste someones time.

I also let men come to me, its a way of getting reassurance in the connection. If they continually reach out, it shows me consistency. Although, I think not everyone does it for this reason. It could symbolize lack of effort in others. But I am unsure with you're taurus.

Might I ask what her mercury and venus signs are?

I know you mentioned her moon and mars. But I think venus is a good indicator as well.


One thing I want to pick your brain about is. Would you ever tell someone something meaningful, or make a promise... when you know you wouldnt fullfill it? Are you impulsive and say things in the moment right then when you feel it, or do you think of things thoroughly and calculate before expressing or promsing?
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Her venus is in Taurus and her mercury is in Gemini. I see. It feels to me that one must sort play a game of like reaching out to a woman like this, trying to grab her, maybe grabbing her for a second, and then letting go. Like its this constant sort of embracing them and then letting them go--like how the breathing works. The inhale is embracing them or showing them you like them etc. The exhale is letting them go. I don't know why I'm using this analogy but it's helping me wrap my mind around how to go about wooing a woman like this.


I know that in the past, I would sort of work backwards. Like I would think this woman is amazing, etc. etc. of course I want to be with her, but in the event that she started liking me back my cap moon and the detachment and need for space side of my ven in libra would have kicked. So before hand the person would be getting the mars in cancer (sweet), the leo sun (sweet), and the leo merc (sweet). This what could've happened with the Leo if he broke his promise.


I no longer do this. I am a little bit more objective from the start now which makes it easy for me to "friendzone" or draw boundaries to what type of relationship I want to have with a woman even if she is attractive and we get along well. Like that's how it was with this Taurus. We clicked instantly and she's cute af lol. But I was like 21. She's too young. However, we continued to hang. Nothing happened until the third time we hung out for 6+ hours. So, I took a little time and saw we maybe compatible, yet age still will force me to approach the situation in a certain way.


But I always think of how my actions and words might make other's feel. I'm way more feeling than my placements would suggest. I've never said anything in the moment (won't say never ever--but I can't remember a time I did). I actually do not like that. I am a firm believer in if I tell you something I'm going to back it up, follow through, etc. If I say I like you. I like you. If I say I'm going to call. I am. If I say I want to be with you I do. Even if I am unsure and I say something like that. I'll try my hardest to back it up--to get my feelings there or really try because I don't want to hurt the other person. I'm typically sure about what I want and why. I think about it a lot. I just know what it feels like for people to say and act in ways they don't mean or out of impulse. It sucks. And I feel like this Taurus is doing that.


Posted by MikeNYNYC

I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.
We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.
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I think it is odd that she blocked you on her other IG account, and she also promises more than she delivers.

This may be due to her Gem mars but I would just pay close attention to her actions over words.

The not reaching out first part, I can be like that when talking to guys I really like but as soon as they go quiet id reach out to see if theyre alright. Maybe dont text for a couple days see if shes reaches out.

Either way just watch her actions, they tell you more than words. Good Luck.

I would say it sounds like you need to have a conversation with her on what she is looking for. Her being young with sag and gem placements she may not want to be tied down. You need to address her intentions so you dont waste your time.

Like you said others are hitting on you, you could miss out.




ugh id love to pick your brain, you have the exact chart of the guy I was seeing awhile ago. lol


Yeah the IG account thing was sort of a way of keeping her distance I’d say, or maintaining freedom. It’s her “spam” account as she calls it where she archives stuff she’s interested in. It says “my personal archive” in the description of the page. I would comment on the stories I found interesting and like her post so I guess she was feeling self-conscious I was watching. I mean if I had a page like that where I could post whatever, or a space where I felt free to put out whatever and people I know started looking I’d feel more restricted you know. Plus a romantic interest, partner, bf, gf, etc. doesn’t have to have access to every part of your life. Everyone is entitled to boundaries and privacy. I met up with her after blocking me and the vibe was the same.


I haven’t know her long enough yet imo to have that talk (only a month now that I think about it lol), but sleeping with her and cuddling and kissing just made things seem like they need to be expedited—go figure lol. Perhaps it’s my Leo nature that thinks it’s been long when her Taurus, Sag, and Gem placements is like I barely know you. But she was comfortable enough to sleep with me and she hadn’t slept with no one in a year. I had no intention actually of doing it with her I just started rubbing her bottom and she became more and more receptive and next thing I know she straddled me. Sorry TMI perhaps.


I just wish she’d stop leaving me wondering if I’m going to get a response from her or not. Consistent communication would be nice. Doesn’t have to be a lot. Just a little something here and there to say I’m thinking of you.


Also, feel free to pick my brain! I’m down to learn more about how you’ve responded or dealt with guys in the dating realm etc. I like hearing stories lol. They give me a starting point of understanding if I’m in a similar situation.


Okay now that I got a little more insight, yes a month is not that long. But if you have slept together that also changes the tune. I can see where you'd like to have more direction in this situation. I don't think it is too soon to bring anything up though, I sure she would be understanding of where you're coming from. Just do it in a light hearted way, no pressure. Just simply ask her what shes looking for in this situation. Tell her you don't want to rush but just curious.

Honestly I think it will bother you the longer you feel lost or questioning, so you might be doing yourself a favor to atleast get a little response back.


Also, I am not a Taurus so I am not sure if you'd still want my way of responding in relationships. I am a Leo. With Libra placements.

But I do admit I have acted very similar to the woman you're seeing. I kinda distance myself until I am sure. Which I blame on my air mars. Similar to hers. If I am spending time with you it speaks volumes, I do not spend time with someone I am not interested in. The last think I want to do is waste someones time.

I also let men come to me, its a way of getting reassurance in the connection. If they continually reach out, it shows me consistency. Although, I think not everyone does it for this reason. It could symbolize lack of effort in others. But I am unsure with you're taurus.

Might I ask what her mercury and venus signs are?

I know you mentioned her moon and mars. But I think venus is a good indicator as well.


One thing I want to pick your brain about is. Would you ever tell someone something meaningful, or make a promise... when you know you wouldnt fullfill it? Are you impulsive and say things in the moment right then when you feel it, or do you think of things thoroughly and calculate before expressing or promsing?


Her venus is in Taurus and her mercury is in Gemini. I see. It feels to me that one must sort play a game of like reaching out to a woman like this, trying to grab her, maybe grabbing her for a second, and then letting go. Like its this constant sort of embracing them and then letting them go--like how the breathing works. The inhale is embracing them or showing them you like them etc. The exhale is letting them go. I don't know why I'm using this analogy but it's helping me wrap my mind around how to go about wooing a woman like this.


I know that in the past, I would sort of work backwards. Like I would think this woman is amazing, etc. etc. of course I want to be with her, but in the event that she started liking me back my cap moon and the detachment and need for space side of my ven in libra would have kicked. So before hand the person would be getting the mars in cancer (sweet), the leo sun (sweet), and the leo merc (sweet). This what could've happened with the Leo if he broke his promise.


I no longer do this. I am a little bit more objective from the start now which makes it easy for me to "friendzone" or draw boundaries to what type of relationship I want to have with a woman even if she is attractive and we get along well. Like that's how it was with this Taurus. We clicked instantly and she's cute af lol. But I was like 21. She's too young. However, we continued to hang. Nothing happened until the third time we hung out for 6+ hours. So, I took a little time and saw we maybe compatible, yet age still will force me to approach the situation in a certain way.


But I always think of how my actions and words might make other's feel. I'm way more feeling than my placements would suggest. I've never said anything in the moment (won't say never ever--but I can't remember a time I did). I actually do not like that. I am a firm believer in if I tell you something I'm going to back it up, follow through, etc. If I say I like you. I like you. If I say I'm going to call. I am. If I say I want to be with you I do. Even if I am unsure and I say something like that. I'll try my hardest to back it up--to get my feelings there or really try because I don't want to hurt the other person. I'm typically sure about what I want and why. I think about it a lot. I just know what it feels like for people to say and act in ways they don't mean or out of impulse. It sucks. And I feel like this Taurus is doing that.


Her venus is Taurus is going to be guarded and slow. But when and if she does come around she is going to be GLUED.

I'd say just talk to her light heartedly and see how things go. But if it is causing you too much internal havoc please don't drain yourself!

I wish you luck, you sound very genuine and I like how you know what you want.


And I never thought that he didnt mean what he said or promised, he always came across as someone who would not say or do something if they didnt mean it or feel it. I just wanted to get your perspective. We were not able to be together for reason's out of our control. Having to do with his kids.

But he told me we would grow old together, we're soul mates, he promised hed be with me etc. Which I all thought were genuine.

We no longer speak but I cannot get him out of my head, and heart. He pops up in my dreams.

Its been 2 months since we last spoke. But I let him go, I didnt chase. Neither of us wanted to part ways but his childs mother was threatening him not seeing his kids and court cases etc.

He needed to retreat and figure things out. I wish him the best and I never want to impose. I just wonder how he is and I know he still thinks of me. Id be lying if I didnt hope things could be worked out in the future but I cannot hold onto that. Atleast thats what I tell myself.


Anyways, your situation is tricky. I think she is keeping you at arms length - for now. Taurus placements move slower. But once you have them you have them.

Feel things out, be direct, and give it a bit of time.
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Oh so we are not so different he and I in that respect. Yeah he meant that. And trust me. He hasn't forgotten you. I'm sure he still thinks about you. I mean its really hard for me to let go there are still people who did me wrong who I think about and get sad over now lol let alone women who I think could've been a soulmate. Like I'll get over it, but I'll have moments when I pine over it. Maybe its the cancer mars idk. And thank you so much for your kind words and advice. I think that sounds like a good plan.
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Usually Taurus don't beat around the bush when they really like you. They are very slow, but adamant in not leave you guessing.

How long have you been seeing eachother?
So I've know her about a month. We only hung out about 4 times but this times have been like 4+ hours, 4 hours being the shortest time. The thing is we click so well so I believe that why things got here. 1st hangout no physical contact sitting far from each other while watching a movie and drinking. Just chilling as friends. 2nd hang out she breaks the touch barrier by quickly putting her head on my shoulder and taking it off and putting her arm through mine as we're walking down the hall of my apt. I didn't really reciprocate the touch. The 3rd date more or less same thing watching movies and drinking, but this time we cuddled right of the back and pretty much had some type of physical contact. Then she asks if she could spend a night because it was like 5am (I picked her up around 3 or 4 the previous day lol). And in the morning I was cuddling her and then put my hand on her a# $ not thinking it would lead to sex, but she opened up more and more to the point where she initiated the actual act.


No that I'm saying this we are moving kind of fast lol. Especially for a Taurus perhaps. She also venus in Taurus. Her sag moon and gem mars and all that must be like oh hell no lol. Actually her pulling back sorta makes sense now, or I'm just trying to make myself feel better lol. But it sorta of is like we are dating when we see each other. Like I can touch her whenever I want--you know those cute intimate touches but not sexual. I kiss her goodbye now. Last time I saw her she was looking for the Uber and I had my arms out waiting for a hug and it took time for her to notice and when she hug me I gave her a quick kiss and she came back in for another hug.


On top of all this, she hasn't dated many guys. For a long time, she was exclusively dating women until like her last relationship last year. So during sex I said get in "xyz" position and she went, "I've never done this before." I'm thinking now like did she mean the position or with a guy!? She did have a good time though and was like, "I'll do that again. It'll just get better." It was a great first time imo but we did enjoy ourselves.


Maybe this gives more perspective on the situation.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.
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Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego. ::Sorry but:: there’s a slim chance she’ll feel this way about a Leo.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.
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Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.
She hasn't done any less then you. So if your confused if she likes you I'm guessing she has similar questions.

Why not just, idk, communicate. And if you want more from her why don't you give more of yourself. This is a two way street.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.


Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.
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You sound like a good guy, but bear in mind; what you perceive as taking pride in caring about someone, someone completely opposite will perceive as controlling or crossing boundaries. What you perceive as keeping your ego in check, an opposite damns as “trying too hard” or “waiting to unveil their true nature”. What you perceive as getting along and her rolling with your perspectives and personality is her not caring more than on a fling level. If she was to agree to upgrading the relationship, she’s become more rigid and expect you to naturally align towards her perspectives more seamlessly.


*this extreme difference in perception isn’t always the case with opposites, but very likely between Leo and taurus**
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She hasn't done any less then you. So if your confused if she likes you I'm guessing she has similar questions.

Why not just, idk, communicate. And if you want more from her why don't you give more of yourself. This is a two way street.
Oh my! Ok so a good friend of my at the bar I work at said that I wasn't being vulnerable a while back when we were just casually talking about a topic she brought up, why I'm single lol. And I was like what? But I am though. So when she'd heard I got this far with this woman, she said, "see! good to see your being vulnerable!"


I thought I was being expressive and showing this woman lol. But no I think you're right. I mean I haven't brought any of that up. The closest I got was after sex I said, "You're the one I'm interested in the most." Because when we were just casually talking hours before that when I had no idea I was going to sleep with her, I told her I just make a bunch of friends and there's always one I'm the most interested in, but I never start from romantically liking someone first.


Yeah she definitely might be just as confused and could be distancing herself because of it like I sorta am.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.


Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.


You sound like a good guy, but bear in mind; what you perceive as taking pride in caring about someone, someone completely opposite will perceive as controlling or crossing boundaries. What you perceive as keeping your ego in check, an opposite damns as “trying too hard” or “waiting to unveil their true nature”. What you perceive as getting along and her rolling with your perspectives and personality is her not caring more than on a fling level. If she was to agree to upgrading the relationship, she’s become more rigid and expect you to naturally align towards her perspectives more seamlessly.


*this extreme difference in perception isn’t always the case with opposites, but very likely between Leo and taurus**
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I see. And the last thing I want to be is controlling or crossing boundaries, but that's how it may be perceived because our differences in fundamental perception. I don't see her rolling with my perspectives per se. In a lot of stuff we share a similar perspective. Same personality wise. There are a lot of similarities. But I see what you're saying though. It's a whole different ball game once you get involved on a deeper level with someone. That's when the areas of clash really come out. Makes perfect sense. Like people relationship could be fine until they get married.


I'd honestly never try to move her if that makes any sense. I'd let her be rigid. And do the best I can to align with it, and if I'm cool aligning then all good. But if I'm unhappy in doing so and feel that things aren't "balanced" and I'm not getting some of what I want out of the relationship, I'll bounce...after a while of trying to make it work.
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.


Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.


You sound like a good guy, but bear in mind; what you perceive as taking pride in caring about someone, someone completely opposite will perceive as controlling or crossing boundaries. What you perceive as keeping your ego in check, an opposite damns as “trying too hard” or “waiting to unveil their true nature”. What you perceive as getting along and her rolling with your perspectives and personality is her not caring more than on a fling level. If she was to agree to upgrading the relationship, she’s become more rigid and expect you to naturally align towards her perspectives more seamlessly.


*this extreme difference in perception isn’t always the case with opposites, but very likely between Leo and taurus**


I see. And the last thing I want to be is controlling or crossing boundaries, but that's how it may be perceived because our differences in fundamental perception. I don't see her rolling with my perspectives per se. In a lot of stuff we share a similar perspective. Same personality wise. There are a lot of similarities. But I see what you're saying though. It's a whole different ball game once you get involved on a deeper level with someone. That's when the areas of clash really come out. Makes perfect sense. Like people relationship could be fine until they get married.


I'd honestly never try to move her if that makes any sense. I'd let her be rigid. And do the best I can to align with it, and if I'm cool aligning then all good. But if I'm unhappy in doing so and feel that things aren't "balanced" and I'm not getting some of what I want out of the relationship, I'll bounce...after a while of trying to make it work.
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Ironically, she may consider you to be a pussy if you compromise to work with her rigidness (that’s why it’s so hard to win unless you simply leave) she’d have more respect for you if you just took it at face value, saw it’s not working and left (if it got to this point)
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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.


Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.


You sound like a good guy, but bear in mind; what you perceive as taking pride in caring about someone, someone completely opposite will perceive as controlling or crossing boundaries. What you perceive as keeping your ego in check, an opposite damns as “trying too hard” or “waiting to unveil their true nature”. What you perceive as getting along and her rolling with your perspectives and personality is her not caring more than on a fling level. If she was to agree to upgrading the relationship, she’s become more rigid and expect you to naturally align towards her perspectives more seamlessly.


*this extreme difference in perception isn’t always the case with opposites, but very likely between Leo and taurus**


I see. And the last thing I want to be is controlling or crossing boundaries, but that's how it may be perceived because our differences in fundamental perception. I don't see her rolling with my perspectives per se. In a lot of stuff we share a similar perspective. Same personality wise. There are a lot of similarities. But I see what you're saying though. It's a whole different ball game once you get involved on a deeper level with someone. That's when the areas of clash really come out. Makes perfect sense. Like people relationship could be fine until they get married.


I'd honestly never try to move her if that makes any sense. I'd let her be rigid. And do the best I can to align with it, and if I'm cool aligning then all good. But if I'm unhappy in doing so and feel that things aren't "balanced" and I'm not getting some of what I want out of the relationship, I'll bounce...after a while of trying to make it work.


Ironically, she may consider you to be a pussy if you compromise to work with her rigidness (that’s why it’s so hard to win unless you simply leave) she’d have more respect for you if you just took it at face value, saw it’s not working and left (if it got to this point)
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I got boundaries to though so I’ll compromise until those start getting hit but I’ll do my best salvage any relationship I get in if it’s worth saving. But honestly I’m a creature of comfort so I might be like why struggle with you when I can get on well with someone else. Honestly I think where I’m at with her is just not in her inner circle. Like I think she has her routine and her world. She makes time for me but I’m not apart of her routine yet. Hence I’m not in like that. I think she likes me or has interest at least she doesn’t pull away when I kiss her. She kisses back. So yeah just time. I’ll talk to others in the meantime and let more time pass before texting her now. Just chill and focus on myself too. She’ll eventually come around. If not cool. I honestly think if something is going to develop between us it will be after doing this for a while.


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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.


Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.


You sound like a good guy, but bear in mind; what you perceive as taking pride in caring about someone, someone completely opposite will perceive as controlling or crossing boundaries. What you perceive as keeping your ego in check, an opposite damns as “trying too hard” or “waiting to unveil their true nature”. What you perceive as getting along and her rolling with your perspectives and personality is her not caring more than on a fling level. If she was to agree to upgrading the relationship, she’s become more rigid and expect you to naturally align towards her perspectives more seamlessly.


*this extreme difference in perception isn’t always the case with opposites, but very likely between Leo and taurus**


I see. And the last thing I want to be is controlling or crossing boundaries, but that's how it may be perceived because our differences in fundamental perception. I don't see her rolling with my perspectives per se. In a lot of stuff we share a similar perspective. Same personality wise. There are a lot of similarities. But I see what you're saying though. It's a whole different ball game once you get involved on a deeper level with someone. That's when the areas of clash really come out. Makes perfect sense. Like people relationship could be fine until they get married.


I'd honestly never try to move her if that makes any sense. I'd let her be rigid. And do the best I can to align with it, and if I'm cool aligning then all good. But if I'm unhappy in doing so and feel that things aren't "balanced" and I'm not getting some of what I want out of the relationship, I'll bounce...after a while of trying to make it work.


Ironically, she may consider you to be a pussy if you compromise to work with her rigidness (that’s why it’s so hard to win unless you simply leave) she’d have more respect for you if you just took it at face value, saw it’s not working and left (if it got to this point)
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I got boundaries to though so I’ll compromise until those start getting hit but I’ll do my best salvage any relationship I get in if it’s worth saving. But honestly I’m a creature of comfort so I might be like why struggle with you when I can get on well with someone else. Honestly I think where I’m at with her is just not in her inner circle. Like I think she has her routine and her world. She makes time for me but I’m not apart of her routine yet. Hence I’m not in like that. I think she likes me or has interest at least she doesn’t pull away when I kiss her. She kisses back. So yeah just time. I’ll talk to others in the meantime and let more time pass before texting her now. Just chill and focus on myself too. She’ll eventually come around. If not cool. I honestly think if something is going to develop between us it will be after doing this for a while.


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I have little to no faith in the Taurus sun, Leo sun attempts at relating. This is through first hand experience as well as through 2nd hand experiences. You’re confidence and small successes swell their natural jealousy. They’ll damn your large, buoyant personality as excessive and in need of contact approval from everyone everywhere. Also, Leo’s are natural leaders. Try so much as collaborating with a Taurus—they hate considering other perspectives. You’ll feel like a door was swiftly slammed in your face, over and over. You’ll feel disrespected. Each person pushes the other’s red buttons without meaning to.


She already sees this I think; she’s keeping you as a fling. Taurus don’t turn down sex from what I understand. A Taurus seriously considering you won’t run away or break their word.


We've never butted heads though. And I feel like her personality is much more out there than mine lol. Or at least when we hangout we are both being goofy and what not. We have a similar sense of humor. I am a really laid back Leo and don't like forcing what I think on to others. I try to give advice when I can but its not in a patronizing or I know and you don't way. Also, when we disagree it's more like ok cool I respect that your into that though. Neither of us is forcing our opinions or style s onto one another. I respect her and don't want to change her in anyway and she isn't like critiquing me either. We just be ourselves around each other and seem to clique. I definitely haven't hid my flaws and insecurities around her and my displays of confidence have come of more as resilience. Because I was actually really down on myself when I met her. Was going through a lot and was talking to her over drinks--this was before I got her number I think and everything lol. So, I did not give off good first impressions imo lol.


Your overall charts do play a role, however, it will be hard to support what you are both aspiring towards, ego wise. You will both quietly lack a fundamental interest in supporting one another that grows more stark with time. But if you feel otherwise, give it a try. Albeit more egotistical, you’re more respectful. She’s more raw and on the fly with her mouth and temper; she’s likely to mock your attempts to make life work, being that your style is seems so bombastic and foreign to her, and, behind your back which will in turn leave you feeling shocked and hurt with an aftertaste of utter disloyalty (the kiss of death to you).


Re: her distance; another possibility is she’s assessing what the withdrawal feelings are after pulling away from you, to see how deeply you penetrated into her system. Taurus has been known to do that also. From what I heard they take a very long time to make up their mind, unless they’re sure that you’re their true love. Then, good luck shaking them even if you wanted because they’re rooting themselves in.


They’re also known to cheat whenever the option presents itself and they know they won’t get caught(the second kiss of death to a Leo)—unless they truly feel they’re with their one true love. It could be a lot of blows to your spirit and ego.


Oh I see what you are saying because our sun signs square? So fundamentally there will be tension. It's weird because my chart makes me take pride in caring for others and making. My ability to compromise is off the chart lol. But when someone isn't being fair and inconsiderate and not treating me with respect that's when I get turned off completely and I'm like "F" off. Oh yeah the un-loyal thing would be blow, but honestly wouldn't care because it would show me the type of person they truly are. And if she's assessing that withdrawal it would make sense for me not to reach out to her again. To let her see how much she misses me? To she if she misses me enough to reach out?


Yeah I have to take it with a grain of salt. She's 21 and she already said like how can you know the love of your life at this age or something like that. I agreed with her. So it is my intention to date her--be her boyfriend--but keep the relationship on a more lighter note where it's like at anytime you wanna call it you can. Like a relationship that doesn't hinder any of her growth or mine. I'm not adverse to it getting more serious and actually committed as time goes on.


You sound like a good guy, but bear in mind; what you perceive as taking pride in caring about someone, someone completely opposite will perceive as controlling or crossing boundaries. What you perceive as keeping your ego in check, an opposite damns as “trying too hard” or “waiting to unveil their true nature”. What you perceive as getting along and her rolling with your perspectives and personality is her not caring more than on a fling level. If she was to agree to upgrading the relationship, she’s become more rigid and expect you to naturally align towards her perspectives more seamlessly.


*this extreme difference in perception isn’t always the case with opposites, but very likely between Leo and taurus**


I see. And the last thing I want to be is controlling or crossing boundaries, but that's how it may be perceived because our differences in fundamental perception. I don't see her rolling with my perspectives per se. In a lot of stuff we share a similar perspective. Same personality wise. There are a lot of similarities. But I see what you're saying though. It's a whole different ball game once you get involved on a deeper level with someone. That's when the areas of clash really come out. Makes perfect sense. Like people relationship could be fine until they get married.


I'd honestly never try to move her if that makes any sense. I'd let her be rigid. And do the best I can to align with it, and if I'm cool aligning then all good. But if I'm unhappy in doing so and feel that things aren't "balanced" and I'm not getting some of what I want out of the relationship, I'll bounce...after a while of trying to make it work.


Ironically, she may consider you to be a pussy if you compromise to work with her rigidness (that’s why it’s so hard to win unless you simply leave) she’d have more respect for you if you just took it at face value, saw it’s not working and left (if it got to this point)


I got boundaries to though so I’ll compromise until those start getting hit but I’ll do my best salvage any relationship I get in if it’s worth saving. But honestly I’m a creature of comfort so I might be like why struggle with you when I can get on well with someone else. Honestly I think where I’m at with her is just not in her inner circle. Like I think she has her routine and her world. She makes time for me but I’m not apart of her routine yet. Hence I’m not in like that. I think she likes me or has interest at least she doesn’t pull away when I kiss her. She kisses back. So yeah just time. I’ll talk to others in the meantime and let more time pass before texting her now. Just chill and focus on myself too. She’ll eventually come around. If not cool. I honestly think if something is going to develop between us it will be after doing this for a while.
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I completely agree; do what comes natural, but just a word of advice, don’t make excuses for red flags. Your egos are both in fixed signs (just look at now for example) once either or both decide a decision was made, sometimes, no matter how provenly catastrophic with time, you’ll stay the course making small excuses without realizing it’s really just out of stubbornness. If she comes around and wholeheartedly commits, you win her over it might be years of misery until somehow, through a miracle, someday something makes you two break up. This will be a lesson learned either way.
I’m looking at your chart details posted again, and I’ll say, anything’s possible. But I definitely think you could be happier. The only solid pro is your mercuries are sextile. But, everything else works against it, including your Mars synastry.
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She hasn't done any less then you. So if your confused if she likes you I'm guessing she has similar questions.

Why not just, idk, communicate. And if you want more from her why don't you give more of yourself. This is a two way street.


Oh my! Ok so a good friend of my at the bar I work at said that I wasn't being vulnerable a while back when we were just casually talking about a topic she brought up, why I'm single lol. And I was like what? But I am though. So when she'd heard I got this far with this woman, she said, "see! good to see your being vulnerable!"


I thought I was being expressive and showing this woman lol. But no I think you're right. I mean I haven't brought any of that up. The closest I got was after sex I said, "You're the one I'm interested in the most." Because when we were just casually talking hours before that when I had no idea I was going to sleep with her, I told her I just make a bunch of friends and there's always one I'm the most interested in, but I never start from romantically liking someone first.


Yeah she definitely might be just as confused and could be distancing herself because of it like I sorta am.
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To a good friend it may seem obvious. But to a stranger you’ve hung out with a handful of times over the last month…much less so.


In fact if someone said to me “Your the one I’m interested in most” it almost sounds like a warning. I’d read the subtext of…I like you but there are others, and I shouldn’t get too invested here. I’d pull back too and wait to see this person make an effort if their are interested and match that effort in return.


The thing you should focus on, that all this overthinking has unearthed, is that for the first time in a long time you want to be more vulnerable and pursue a relationship. She may not end up being the one but it’s worth a shot. Keep putting yourself out there, no risk no reward mantra on the brain.
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She hasn't done any less then you. So if your confused if she likes you I'm guessing she has similar questions.

Why not just, idk, communicate. And if you want more from her why don't you give more of yourself. This is a two way street.


Oh my! Ok so a good friend of my at the bar I work at said that I wasn't being vulnerable a while back when we were just casually talking about a topic she brought up, why I'm single lol. And I was like what? But I am though. So when she'd heard I got this far with this woman, she said, "see! good to see your being vulnerable!"


I thought I was being expressive and showing this woman lol. But no I think you're right. I mean I haven't brought any of that up. The closest I got was after sex I said, "You're the one I'm interested in the most." Because when we were just casually talking hours before that when I had no idea I was going to sleep with her, I told her I just make a bunch of friends and there's always one I'm the most interested in, but I never start from romantically liking someone first.


Yeah she definitely might be just as confused and could be distancing herself because of it like I sorta am.
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She hasn't done any less then you. So if your confused if she likes you I'm guessing she has similar questions.

Why not just, idk, communicate. And if you want more from her why don't you give more of yourself. This is a two way street.


Oh my! Ok so a good friend of my at the bar I work at said that I wasn't being vulnerable a while back when we were just casually talking about a topic she brought up, why I'm single lol. And I was like what? But I am though. So when she'd heard I got this far with this woman, she said, "see! good to see your being vulnerable!"


I thought I was being expressive and showing this woman lol. But no I think you're right. I mean I haven't brought any of that up. The closest I got was after sex I said, "You're the one I'm interested in the most." Because when we were just casually talking hours before that when I had no idea I was going to sleep with her, I told her I just make a bunch of friends and there's always one I'm the most interested in, but I never start from romantically liking someone first.


Yeah she definitely might be just as confused and could be distancing herself because of it like I sorta am.


To a good friend it may seem obvious. But to a stranger you’ve hung out with a handful of times over the last month…much less so.


In fact if someone said to me “Your the one I’m interested in most” it almost sounds like a warning. I’d read the subtext of…I like you but there are others, and I shouldn’t get too invested here. I’d pull back too and wait to see this person make an effort if their are interested and match that effort in return.


The thing you should focus on, that all this overthinking has unearthed, is that for the first time in a long time you want to be more vulnerable and pursue a relationship. She may not end up being the one but it’s worth a shot. Keep putting yourself out there, no risk no reward mantra on the brain.
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Yeah that’s actually what I meant by saying that. Because I work at a bar from time to time and I’m a regular there. ( She also works there from time to time. So I’ve known her about a month and half now and we just clicked right away.) Anyways I make a lot of female friends (by friends I actually mean friends like every woman is just a friend, and there’s every now and again someone who I feel I get on with better than the others and we find ourselves talking more and more eventually it gets to a point where we start hanging out as just as friends, then something does or doesn’t happen further and we stay friends. I’m really selective. Not necessarily picky. But selective. And I told her this before we even kissed or slept together when we were hanging out as friends. Basically I was explaining you have to get to know someone first….yet here I was getting all jumpy tf lol.


You’re right it’s the vulnerability, actually trying to put myself out there. And a slight fear of intimacy. Usually I just make really good female friends. A lot of them have bfs I’m cool with. The single ones I don’t pine over or hope for something more. I’m a friend until I feel comfortable enough and the attraction pull is strong enough to overcome my fear of being vulnerable and all that and shoot my shot. I guess I wait till I’m certain bc I don’t want me hurt broke and don’t wanna lead nobody on. I think friends first is the way to go but once you know you gotta make a move.


Thank you so much though for you comments!
I’m more shocked you want a Taurus women if you think she’s not into you consider it luck and run far away Taurus women are the worst sign for women they’re manipulative controlling and they like to force their views on people. They’re not even the best Venus ruled sign that belongs to Libra. They’re extremely boring non creative, rigid and they suck. Find another woman.
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Yeah, I’ll just send that to her lol. Thanks so much (: the songs a banger!
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P.s. this song made my night actually lol makes me want to dance
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P.s. this song made my night actually lol makes me want to dance
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I’m really glad ❤️
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I’m more shocked you want a Taurus women if you think she’s not into you consider it luck and run far away Taurus women are the worst sign for women they’re manipulative controlling and they like to force their views on people. They’re not even the best Venus ruled sign that belongs to Libra. They’re extremely boring non creative, rigid and they suck. Find another woman.
Haven’t really got this vibe from her. She’s also rather creative and far from boring. We have a fun ass time when together. also we wing it most of the time. Maybe her mars in Gemini and Sag moon.


Also got a good friend that’s a Taurus. She also has a gem moon though. Idk I tend to get on with them maybe bc my cap moon and rising.



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