"A Leo Sun, Libra Moon, and Virgo or Aries Rising man would likely complement you well—bringing both passion and emotional balance. If not Leo, an Aquarius Sun with Aries Moon and a Taurus or Scorpio Ascendant could be an exciting and deep match."
Only in recent years did I get an epiphany about my life and relationship I'm in, from seemingly something so small. I knew I don't see myself buying a house with my bf from the moment he argued me about the non-existing dog - a small and highly sensitive breed that is my dream to own one day. He is strongly against having a dog in a house (not even apartment, a house with a garden!) and stated I can have it in our garden but it can't come in house. Yeah, right. That dog is not a garden dog and I will not be having it with him for sure, but I will be having it one day when I can - for sure! So I judged his character based on this heated argument and concluded that I don't see my future with him. If I can't have something so small, like a dog that I want in this life because someone else wants to dictate my life - then I might not need that person in my life. Now, to be fair and not only subjective - he also kept talking about children that I don't want to have so someone would say I'm taking away even more from him - BUT this is a huge difference in opinions compared to where a dog gets to live. I told him many times my issues with having children and he seems to ignore everything expecting me to change my opinion. I thought I might at some point...but I just never wanted that. And the older I get, I want it even less. I don't have the energy, desire or will for all that...and adding to that all my fears about this - it's an absolute no for me! I just don't want to get into all that and I tried telling him before that we should split ways if that's what he really wants, I'm not going to stand in his way. But he would gladly stand in my way by putting a poor sensitive creature into the cold in winter that causes no harm in the house whatsoever! So I guess my opinions are radical but the way I see it - we have only this life to make it what we want it to be. I'm not going to forbid myself small pleasures of it like owning a dog that I want🤷🏼♀️
"A Leo Sun, Libra Moon, and Virgo or Aries Rising man would likely complement you well—bringing both passion and emotional balance. If not Leo, an Aquarius Sun with Aries Moon and a Taurus or Scorpio Ascendant could be an exciting and deep match."