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can you be a rude person but be sweet at the same time?
“I can be sweet”
I'm rude with people that should know better and sweet with people who can't help themselves.
yes.
Sag moon
We're not narcs. We're that sign you have to have patience to get to know. We're set in our ways and that make us seem worse than we really are. But we do accommodate people we love. We'll always be ourselves. Never sickly sweet but we do have real love and good will for others. Don't judge, but let Scorpio unfold and reveal naturally. No pushing or prodding or else the reveal stops and we get defensive. You'll never get to our sweet soft centers if there is any restriction in us being ourselves. Do not overreact or be quick to offend. Listen with your heart and observe us honestly. No biased or holding close what others have done to you in the past. Not everyone is up to the task. And that's fine. That just means you don't belong in our circle. We're not for everyone.
Posted by 777
I feel like I embody that sour patch kids. I like to question people and make them think about why they took certain actions & open up rabbit holes that turn into Alice in wonderland portals
Who died and made you the next Bullshit philosopher
Talk about delusion of grandeur
And you calling scorpios narcissistic
GTFOHERE
Sure. For me it would be "I'm leaving you. I alway felt like you had more strength and willpower then anyone in my life. Even more then me. You were like a hero in my life. You inspired me, and made me feel like I could accomplish anything. But now you are fucking up your life, and not listening to anyone. I will forever have faith and love for you, but I feel more disappointed then I ever have in my entire life. I'm leaving, and at this point honesty don't give a fuck if you make it or completely fail in life anymore. Prove me wrong. Show me why I always had more faith in you then anyone else in this world.
Then I would leave and ghost them, which will force them to either live with a demon or do a 180 and come out on top of life. In a way we both will either feel victory, or failure at the end of the day in some way shap or form. Its called tough love.
Then I would leave and ghost them, which will force them to either live with a demon or do a 180 and come out on top of life. In a way we both will either feel victory, or failure at the end of the day in some way shap or form. Its called tough love.
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Posted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Cancer moon smoothed everything out
And everyone that agreed also have fire placements
LMAOOOO
LMAOOOO
Posted by ELIGABPosted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Cancer moon smoothed everything outclick to expand
All he’ll say is he doesn’t understand what I’m trying to say. 😩😭😂🤣
Posted by saggurl88Posted by ELIGABPosted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Cancer moon smoothed everything out
All he’ll say is he doesn’t understand what I’m trying to say. 😩😭😂🤣click to expand
What's so crazy is
He TRULY don't
🤣🤣
Posted by ELIGABPosted by saggurl88Posted by ELIGABPosted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Cancer moon smoothed everything out
All he’ll say is he doesn’t understand what I’m trying to say. 😩😭😂🤣
What's so crazy is
He TRULY don't
🤣🤣click to expand
Posted by GC11_
There’s a bit of good & bad in everyone 😌
yea, but how do you draw the line between hurting someone's feelings & being constructive? is it based on my personal interpretation of how they will react? Sometimes people get offended by things I dont even know are offensive. if I decide to fill them with compliments to fix my offense they wont think about the statement as much as they would if just left the "rudeness to linger". I know it all depends on person but this s how most people work. They forget about the bad to absorb the good until it's time to use the back up ammo
Posted by GobbyPosted by GC11_Posted by GobbyPosted by GC11_
There’s a bit of good & bad in everyone 😌
Of course, Miss Butterflies and Rainbows...
Fuck off, you bitter old ass!
(50yrs old give or take)
Enough butterflies and rainbows for yah?
God, it's so easy to yank your chain, even when the yank is gentle.
Ageist, as well as not being a good sport and having anger management issues...
*smh*click to expand
lovers quarrel
Posted by CreativeCapPosted by 777
I feel like I embody that sour patch kids. I like to question people and make them think about why they took certain actions & open up rabbit holes that turn into Alice in wonderland portals
Who died and made you the next Bullshit philosopher
Talk about delusion of grandeur
And you calling scorpios narcissistic
GTFOHEREclick to expand
go take ur medicine
Posted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Are you a taurus whisperer? I almost want to propose to you.
No fucking way. Once I see who I thought was a sweet person turn sour I'm gone see you as a rude person for the rest of my life.
Yes, I am the perfect living example of it.
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Are you a taurus whisperer? I almost want to propose to you.click to expand
Lol. I was actually starting to wonder if I make any sense, since OP always tells me he doesn’t understand the way I write.
So thank you! Much appreciated 😁
Posted by 777Posted by GC11_
There’s a bit of good & bad in everyone 😌
yea, but how do you draw the line between hurting someone's feelings & being constructive? is it based on my personal interpretation of how they will react? Sometimes people get offended by things I dont even know are offensive. if I decide to fill them with compliments to fix my offense they wont think about the statement as much as they would if just left the "rudeness to linger". I know it all depends on person but this s how most people work. They forget about the bad to absorb the good until it's time to use the back up ammoclick to expand
You draw the line at knowing when you are being emotionally manipulated.
Sometimes “hurt feelings” don’t necessarily mean that, they just want you to stfu. So they use that as a defense mechanism to get you to stop making demands.
Virgos are known for trying to make someone change or be perfect for the Virgo.
So it will most likely be a continuous cycle of one being stubborn and emotionally manipulative and the other trying to fix what’s wrong but still wanting change.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by ParkourlerPosted by saggurl88
Yeah. I think so. But just cause you talk doesn’t mean someone has to listen.
They need to want to, because they respect you. And they need to think what you have to say pertains to them.
Some people don’t have a sense of urgency just cause someone else wants them to change their behavior.
A lot of people are happy with themselves and can’t tell they need to change, especially when it’s tossed in their face and they are expected to act quickly, to satisfy you. It would need to satisfy their needs.
Love is the only thing that would over ride this and make a person want to change but even that depends on their chart.
I describe myself like this a well cause I’m blunt with my words but have a nice delivery most times.
Are you a taurus whisperer? I almost want to propose to you.
Lol. I was actually starting to wonder if I make any sense, since OP always tells me he doesn’t understand the way I write.
So thank you! Much appreciated 😁click to expand
You are welcome, ig OP asked can you be very honest and sweet at the same time everybody would say yes.
But making somebody rethink his assumptions requires more than the right tone, you also need to think the willingness,
psychological obstacles etc. He basically wants to do what a therapist does with day to day life. That is pretty ambitious
to put it sweetly
I don’t know if I can handle a double sided sweetly rude personality on the regular.
I’m a simple Aries....I see insult, I smash it. I see pretty flower, I sniffs it. I need nice 🍑, I appreciate.
I ask very little of world.....either be with meh or not. Either way I continue with keeping things simple and direct.
I’m a simple Aries....I see insult, I smash it. I see pretty flower, I sniffs it. I need nice 🍑, I appreciate.
I ask very little of world.....either be with meh or not. Either way I continue with keeping things simple and direct.
Posted by FantomPosted by Romz-
I don’t know if I can handle a double sided sweetly rude personality on the regular.
I’m a simple Aries....I see insult, I smash it. I see pretty flower, I sniffs it. I need nice 🍑, I appreciate.
I ask very little of world.....either be with meh or not. Either way I continue with keeping things simple and direct.
You are this person on the forum. So am I.click to expand
Incorrect...I’m not intending to be sweet, I’m just a childish Aries, with a temper.
I’m also pretty direct. So you see it coming.
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Mercury Gemini
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Saturn Sagittarius
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