...He called me my love.....after i ended things....

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by saweetz1988 on Thursday, April 13, 2017 and has 30 replies.
long story short....

I decided to not continue our relation....at this point in time...

during our goodbyes, he said he will always be there for me 24/7..and that i am always going to be his lover/ friend ...and for the first time he called me my love....

its been over a week and he still calls me baby...babe...which i insisted for him not to...

he still does it.....

the thing is,

what does * my love * even mean to him ...

and when an aqua try to end a relation with someone, is it truly over for them...because they are so grey...i just dont get them sometimes...

i try so hard to b black and white and try to just BE FRIENDS...

but he's not getting it or something... Sad or refuse to get it or accept my decision....?



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in the beginning of our relation..

he used to call me baby, n i brought it up ..he says people say baby all the time, do girls not call each other babes?...he said he does sometimes call other girls babe too..like friends and all. and he said

if it was like * my love * then thats a whole other story....

and now he did it..what does it mean Sad

he says he has feelings....though he never said he LOVES me or anything..


he knows i love him though..
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I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
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They sometimes do that when you end things.....nice words, flowers etc

I wouldn't take much notice
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.....do you think he will always be there for you?

Time will tell
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It's a hook
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He's a stubborn soul !
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if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
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edit * when a relationship is ending with someone * on great terms * is it truly over for them?

i feel like, he's still in that grey spot calling me baby and babes n not listening to me lol

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Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
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Is this the Bogota boy?
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Posted by saweetz1988
edit * when a relationship is ending with someone * on great terms * is it truly over for them?

i feel like, he's still in that grey spot calling me baby and babes n not listening to me lol



That's his business.....you make your decision and move forward. If you are fooled by words then........

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
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yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too

Angry i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
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Posted by Whatthehell
Posted by saweetz1988
edit * when a relationship is ending with someone * on great terms * is it truly over for them?

i feel like, he's still in that grey spot calling me baby and babes n not listening to me lol

Aquas prefer to leave relationships on good terms. It's not because they want to date you later. It's because if they genuinely care for you, they're still gonna care for you after the boundaries between you change. He may just be using endearing words to let you know that. He needs to respect your boundaries, though. If you said no pet names, he needs to stop with pet names. Might be good to get yourself away from him for a while.
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yeah this is true, great advice thank you ! i am trying hard to detach from him and just tryin to talk to him as friends....

hopefully eventually he will GET it...

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too

Angry i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
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No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make

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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
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haha its ok if you are dating one another

and not ok if you just said farewell goodbye

just strange man

LOL i thought my aqua moon and venus in gem was confusing

hes a whole other story

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too

Angry i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make

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tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

smile

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too

Angry i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make



tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

smile

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Indeed

Words, words, words

I've heard thousands of them that didn't come true

smile

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too

Angry i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make



tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

smile

Indeed

Words, words, words

I've heard thousands of them that didn't come true

smile

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so sadddddddd

T_T
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Posted by Whatthehell
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Whatthehell
Posted by saweetz1988
edit * when a relationship is ending with someone * on great terms * is it truly over for them?

i feel like, he's still in that grey spot calling me baby and babes n not listening to me lol

Aquas prefer to leave relationships on good terms. It's not because they want to date you later. It's because if they genuinely care for you, they're still gonna care for you after the boundaries between you change. He may just be using endearing words to let you know that. He needs to respect your boundaries, though. If you said no pet names, he needs to stop with pet names. Might be good to get yourself away from him for a while.


yeah this is true, great advice thank you ! i am trying hard to detach from him and just tryin to talk to him as friends....

hopefully eventually he will GET it...

You may need to tell him directly again or remove yourself from the situation. You don't have to be his friend just because he wants you to. If you both want that, though, there's nothing wrong with it. It's just really hard to establish the appropriate boundaries after you've been with someone and you're trying to switch that to friends.

If it makes you feel any better, at least you know he really cared for you.
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i know..thank you...i know he does care..esp in person coz he's pretty much all pisces

moon, venus and mars in pisces LOL

but yes,

i should prob stop the friendship for a while

oerhaps its still a shock to him

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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
click to expand
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too

Angry i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make



tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

smile

Indeed

Words, words, words

I've heard thousands of them that didn't come true

smile

so sadddddddd

T_T
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Just learn to detach from them ...
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

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I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
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Pm always ready!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
Pm always ready!
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reooowwwwww hunny bunny easter bunny
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Posted by DickButt
Its ok my love. You'll survive. My love.
eyes roll lol
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
Pm always ready!
reooowwwwww hunny bunny easter bunny
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I am naked! Give it to me!

But if you say 'bunny' - your part is DONE!

Go ahead
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
Pm always ready!
reooowwwwww hunny bunny easter bunny
click to expand
I am naked! Give it to me!

But if you say 'bunny' - your part is DONE!

Go ahead
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Posted by DickButt
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by DickButt
Its ok my love. You'll survive. My love.
eyes roll lol
Don't roll your eyes at me my love.
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Omgggggg you sound so much like me lol. It's really annoying hehe... seriously, do you call everyone my love? LoL....

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