a real commitment from Aquarius man
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Antero on Sunday, October 8, 2017 and has 17 replies.
That is a horrible thing that happened to you! Accept his help and trust him with the friendship and the support he is offering, you need that and he knows it. Allow yourself to heal. Enjoy his presence and use this time to know each other. It might be the best thing that could happen. Some Aquas need a push.
Posted by aquarius_manEnjoy it as long as I appreciate one of YOUR kindPosted by compysorry, this is offtopic but i just cant help it.
That is a horrible thing that happened to you! ...best thing that could happen. Some Aquas need a push.
i clicked on ur profile looking for pics but something caught my eye : you post in the aquarius section quite a lot! you must be really fond of aquarius and aquarius men. never imagined they could have such a solid fan base here. keep up the good work. you re building us a templeclick to expand
There is a lot to love about it though and yes, I will sustain your quirkiness in your own temple, as long as I feel it's right to do so. You have my credit for now. Especially the odd combination of Aqua Sun/Pisces Moon.
When you have doubts about a person and something bad happens to them is normal to suddenly feel guilt for leaving them and to rekindle your feelings for them. But it could also mean that he realized he was mistaken.
Nobody can tell you if he is stable with his decision, given his past you can't be sure neither, the best thing you can do is accept his help as a friend on this hard situation and try to recover. Prioritize, your recover comes first, if he is serious you'll see with time, you don't need this pressure now.
And he is right, seek help, I'm really sorry you had to go through this... some people should just quit life.
Nobody can tell you if he is stable with his decision, given his past you can't be sure neither, the best thing you can do is accept his help as a friend on this hard situation and try to recover. Prioritize, your recover comes first, if he is serious you'll see with time, you don't need this pressure now.
And he is right, seek help, I'm really sorry you had to go through this... some people should just quit life.
Posted by aquarius_manNail in the head, yesPosted by compyYou re always this dignified? This solemn?
Enjoy it as long as I appreciate one of YOUR kind
There is a lot to love about it though and yes, I will sustain your quirkiness in your own temple, as long as I feel it's right to do so. You have my credit for now. Especially the odd combination of Aqua Sun/Pisces Moon.
Why is it odd, this combination? Aquas with feels?click to expand
And a reason for endless high end love inspiration.
Posted by compyIf i read it correctly, she wasnt raped, but just fell. She told him the rape story for the lulz and got what she apparently always wanted.
That is a horrible thing that happened to you! Accept his help and trust him with the friendship and the support he is offering, you need that and he knows it. Allow yourself to heal. Enjoy his presence and use this time to know each other. It might be the best thing that could happen. Some Aquas need a push.
Which opens the question how cheated is the dude gonna feel when he finds out.
Posted by Mr_PinchyLet's not be the judge here. The Aqua has a very fine intuition.Posted by compyIf i read it correctly, she wasnt raped, but just fell. She told him the rape story for the lulz and got what she apparently always wanted.
That is a horrible thing that happened to you! Accept his help and trust him with the friendship and the support he is offering, you need that and he knows it. Allow yourself to heal. Enjoy his presence and use this time to know each other. It might be the best thing that could happen. Some Aquas need a push.
Which opens the question how cheated is the dude gonna feel when he finds out.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_manThe reverse is true as well.Posted by compyeverything aquarius inspires is high end
Nail in the head, yes
they really bring out the best in people
and the worstclick to expand
Let's not ruin another thread. PM me any time to continue the talk.
This is insane
Posted by Fafaidk for sure, but the way i read the first few sentences was:Posted by Mr_PinchyIf she never got raped , why can't she sleep? She said she wants to be the old her again, all this from a fall???? Police report for a fall?Posted by compyIf i read it correctly, she wasnt raped, but just fell. She told him the rape story for the lulz and got what she apparently always wanted.
That is a horrible thing that happened to you! Accept his help and trust him with the friendship and the support he is offering, you need that and he knows it. Allow yourself to heal. Enjoy his presence and use this time to know each other. It might be the best thing that could happen. Some Aquas need a push.
Which opens the question how cheated is the dude gonna feel when he finds out.click to expand
-she came home with blood on the shirt and nose
-worried daughter called the aqua
-he calls she says "don't said that I fall down"- which i read as i didn't say i fell down
-he came over
-she was mad at him, didn't want to talk or see ppl but she says "at the end I told him that a few guys abuse and rape me"
-aqua called the police
idk, if she lied to the police it might get complicated. I sincerely hope she didn't get raped tho.
Posted by NevermoreYa that could also be how it went down. My bad then....Posted by Mr_PinchyHe told her to not say that she fell down as she pushed him away as its "fine" in which he doesn't believed that. In which he stubbornly came over as she's mad about it (because she's still in shock of what happened as she doesnt want to disturbed anything). After cool down she actually told what happened in text in which he called the police for her, in which she's also mad to do that despite he sincerly tries to help her.Posted by Fafaidk for sure, but the way i read the first few sentences was:Posted by Mr_PinchyIf she never got raped , why can't she sleep? She said she wants to be the old her again, all this from a fall???? Police report for a fall?Posted by compyIf i read it correctly, she wasnt raped, but just fell. She told him the rape story for the lulz and got what she apparently always wanted.
That is a horrible thing that happened to you! Accept his help and trust him with the friendship and the support he is offering, you need that and he knows it. Allow yourself to heal. Enjoy his presence and use this time to know each other. It might be the best thing that could happen. Some Aquas need a push.
Which opens the question how cheated is the dude gonna feel when he finds out.
-she came home with blood on the shirt and nose
-worried daughter called the aqua
-he calls she says "don't said that I fall down"- which i read as i didn't say i fell down
-he came over
-she was mad at him, didn't want to talk or see ppl but she says "at the end I told him that a few guys abuse and rape me"
-aqua called the police
idk, if she lied to the police it might get complicated. I sincerely hope she didn't get raped tho.click to expand
i was going off of this " don't said that I fall down. I said to him.". I thought the "I" infront of "don't said" wasn't written.
It's in times of crisis that you find who really loves you, so just go with the flow and take the help.
With what you have been through you really need someone close to you.
With what you have been through you really need someone close to you.
Posted by AnteroI apologize for my theories in this thread.
I got abused and got rape that night . my aqua make a report to the police and the police called me to speak . I spoke with my lawyer as I don't want anything to do with the police at the moment as my lawyer said to me they just putting down the case as I didn't remember where they room me. yes i get help for
my recovery. my aqua want yo.see the old me. and he told.me that he just realize now how much he really wants me. but I'm still doubt about him and don't want to end like before. dumped me and take me back on and off. he came to my work yesterday a d he said he wants me to sleep at his place once in a week and he said all the time i'm the women he wants to live with. but i dont know if i can believe him. i told.him that i need times to think about to take him back as that is not my priority at the moment. he said he will wait untill i'm ready and he knew that we both are in love. . i just don't understand how he can change just like that. he do everything for my recovery. and tomorrow he will following with me to.meet the social department as they get the information from the hospital and I have kids under 18. they want to.make sure if the kids are ok. and invade I need help. I wonder why he realize that he wants me to live with him for the rest of his life now not before. his behaviour totally different than before. thank you for all advice here.
Hope all will turn out okay for you.
Posted by AnteroHey beyb, its not over. If this aqua is older he probably really means he wants you. I hope he can make you happy.
I have only my 2 kids here . and living in other countries as immigrants. sometimes just wanna go back home with my family. my kids father passed away. I feel that my life is over after that night.
Posted by AnteroSometimes it takes something really awful to happen for someone to realize how much that other person means to you.
I got abused and got rape that night . my aqua make a report to the police and the police called me to speak . I spoke with my lawyer as I don't want anything to do with the police at the moment as my lawyer said to me they just putting down the case as I didn't remember where they room me. yes i get help for
my recovery. my aqua want yo.see the old me. and he told.me that he just realize now how much he really wants me. but I'm still doubt about him and don't want to end like before. dumped me and take me back on and off. he came to my work yesterday a d he said he wants me to sleep at his place once in a week and he said all the time i'm the women he wants to live with. but i dont know if i can believe him. i told.him that i need times to think about to take him back as that is not my priority at the moment. he said he will wait untill i'm ready and he knew that we both are in love. . i just don't understand how he can change just like that. he do everything for my recovery. and tomorrow he will following with me to.meet the social department as they get the information from the hospital and I have kids under 18. they want to.make sure if the kids are ok. and invade I need help. I wonder why he realize that he wants me to live with him for the rest of his life now not before. his behaviour totally different than before. thank you for all advice here.
He had a wake up call and now he knows how much you mean to him.
In this moment I have no doubt that he means what he says and that he really care for you.
Aquas loves their freedom but if he loves you like I think he does he will take care of you and help you.
Posted by AnteroAw I am very sorry for you. Are you getting the help you need? Like emotional
I have only my 2 kids here . and living in other countries as immigrants. sometimes just wanna go back home with my family. my kids father passed away. I feel that my life is over after that night.
Support help? Allow the Aqua back in your heart. It won't be as painful as what you have experienced. Let him heal you a little.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by AnteroSometimes it takes something really awful to happen for someone to realize how much that other person means to you.
I got abused and got rape that night . my aqua make a report to the police and the police called me to speak . I spoke with my lawyer as I don't want anything to do with the police at the moment as my lawyer said to me they just putting down the case as I didn't remember where they room me. yes i get help for
my recovery. my aqua want yo.see the old me. and he told.me that he just realize now how much he really wants me. but I'm still doubt about him and don't want to end like before. dumped me and take me back on and off. he came to my work yesterday a d he said he wants me to sleep at his place once in a week and he said all the time i'm the women he wants to live with. but i dont know if i can believe him. i told.him that i need times to think about to take him back as that is not my priority at the moment. he said he will wait untill i'm ready and he knew that we both are in love. . i just don't understand how he can change just like that. he do everything for my recovery. and tomorrow he will following with me to.meet the social department as they get the information from the hospital and I have kids under 18. they want to.make sure if the kids are ok. and invade I need help. I wonder why he realize that he wants me to live with him for the rest of his life now not before. his behaviour totally different than before. thank you for all advice here.
He had a wake up call and now he knows how much you mean to him.
In this moment I have no doubt that he means what he says and that he really care for you.
Aquas loves their freedom but if he loves you like I think he does he will take care of you and help you.click to expand
Yeah.... Aqua needs a real wake up call. They can b living in their own head. Lots of air signs don't know what u till it's gone and often live in their head. It takes a real kick for them to get in touch with their true emotion. Let it be . Let it flow. Face the fear and just follow ur heart
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