Advice Please Dating a Scorpio

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Mamma_Roz
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How many of you have dated a scoprio, Please raise your hand. LOL

Please tell me what it was like in a general sense. I am going crasy trying to figure out what is going on inside my man's head.

If you have any advice please feel free to tell me. It's been 3 months on this roller coaster and I am starting to get sick to my stomach. I need some relationship pepto bismol. (however you spell it)

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Mamma_Roz
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Besides being the Lovey Dovey, romantic, wonderful person that he is, he is extremly sensitive, very rigid about his schedule and does not like to break his routine, even if it means spending a few extra hours with me.

When he gets upset he takes a really long time to come out of it and become happy again.

He claims to be very sexual, but If I'm not initiating, it ain't happening.

He'll call and email all day every day but will only spend weekends in my presence.

He actually remembers special dates and buys flowers and presents etc...

I am just so confused by this guy.
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Scorpman
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I had a long term relationship with an Aquarius girl over 12 years ago, it was good and bad but it was all because she was a social ladder climber and had hooked up with a DJ (me), she told someone this once and I thought what a waste of time she was.

When we first met it was pretty special though and we took an instant likeing to each other, the sex was amazing and when it was good, it was really good but when it was shit it was horrible.

She cheated on me, I cheated back, she lied to my friends, she made up stories about me.

I have met a few Aquarius girls in my time and we do seem to have an instant rapport,I admire there quirkiness and honesty too.

I am done with Libra girls though...too many games, too frustrating.


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cappysweetie
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oh, I've been involved with a scorpio ... man what a relationship! Things would've been better if the circumstances were different. The relationship had to end because I felt the circumstances were wrong and I wasn't ready to go all the way with him -- I did trust him mentally but not emotionally ... it got to the point where had would become pushy when it came to sex, and then I became fearful because he was really aggrassive. When I didn't come to him he would grab me ... I couldn't put up with it anymore. I started becoming distant, he started being verbally abusive -- hahaha if it were let up to him, I would've met that cancer guy. My advice when dating a scorpio is to take things as slow as possible. If things start to get serious, try to learn and understand his values. They can be very tricky, so watch out!

Take care 😉

One more thing, Brahn may sound harsh but I don't think it's intentional -- really I don't. He gives very worthwhile advice ... TRUST ME 😉
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BlueAqua
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Mamma Roz I've been there and still doing that with my scorp friend. I had broken things off with him only to find him blowing his horn in my driveway that very same nite. He's confided and opened up to me so much untill its hard for me to just turn my back on him. I understand him,his fears and his past. When we're apart we're drawn right back together. I dont know what will happen but with time he's proving he can be better.
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"Oh well, I've never tried to screw over an Aqua women I've known. But they get extremely flakey when you start to get to know them. I don't bother chasing after them. Aqua women don't seem to get me, since they are use to guys chasing after them all the time, and I do the total opposite and just let them fly away. That would be a great topic though, "why are Aqua women so flakey"?"

Brahn,I agree I've never chased a guy they've always persued me, if they had given me the chance to persue them I probably would have,usually chasing us chases us away but just the right amount of space and we come back. The flakeness is the feelin you out part, dont give up on us yet maybe you havent met the right Aquarian🙂