afraid to be upset

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by moirah77 on Tuesday, April 10, 2007 and has 4 replies.
i know this aqua guy for several months. to be honest, i really like him thats why im still here for him. he made me happy but sometimes he makes me upset. that doesnt make me sleep. we were doing things together which i think is not normal for friends. and that makes me confused. i talked about this with him and he asked me what can he do to ease the confusion. from then, i dont initialize the talking. he kept on sending messages and just responded. last thursday i want to go out and gave him a call but didnt answer. the next he called me back. we talked. but I dont have the courage to invite him to go out. just sent him a text message and invited him. but he didnt reply. I was really upset that time. We didnt talk for a day after that then it was easter sunday when he sent a message to me. Greeted me happy easter and apologizing for the confusion the other day. He was telling me that he is planning to get lost on this weekend, out of town and explore. he asked me if i care to go with him. I said yes and told him that make sure this time would be real coz im really feeling upset everytime he says things then later he doesnt do. i didnt get a reply from him. I called him that night. it was a good conversation. he was at work but still keep on talking to me even he is busy. yesterday i asked him where are we going the weekends and if it is a promise this time. he just replied if he doesnt have to work. i am really afraid to be upset again. i dont want to expect but thats what coming from my head and heart. not sure if he just invited me coz he knows that I was upset when he rejected my invitation. what should i do?
im a cancer lady and he si an aquarian like what i have said...
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i thought we have the mutual feeling. thats what i understood from him.
then after not replying to my invitation, he text me after a day and now he is the one inviting me. and when i answered yes he said that it depends if he doesnt have to work.
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So he is being straight with you and making you aware he may have to work. Here's a tip, please don't try to work out the aqua male. You may end up in an asylum lol. I have been guilty of it myself and still have to give myself a kick up the backside when i find myself doing it with my aqua boyfriend. Also if you are a cancer female dating or hoping to date an aquarian male you're gonna need to get ready for a bumpy ride.... it can work but its not easy.Im on my third so i know from experience.
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In my humble opinion.....if you are afraid to be upset moriah - (from the title of your post) then this relationship is not allowing you to express your truth. I am not totally sure of why you are afraid to be upset but....if someone did something that I did not care for and I knew that they were not going to change....to keep my emotional well - being honest, I would move on to a place where my feelings were honored.
Be well and happy Winking
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