Air & Water

Posted by Pecheresse

Posted by Taggize
Just interested in how relationships have worked out for others concerning water signs. I'm currently in what I'd like to call a tango-ship situation with a Scorpio and would like to get other's take on what it's like pursuing, dating, and being in a relationship with any or all water signs. What attracted you to them, what brought you together, and ultimately what ended your relationship (granted if it didn't continue)?

depends if you got as much water as they have air, or some kind of balance in both your charts... but what I know is that water = emotional, and air = logical. Whenever an argument arises, they won't understand each other because they feel different about it. Air people feel a tad detached, and seek for a solution, a cerebral explanation, but they don't really feel it with the intense emotions that a water sign would. It's very tiring trying to explain how you feel to someone who will never feel the same way. That's why it's kind of important that both your charts balance each other's.

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Posted by aquasnoz
Basically perch said! Depending on certain placements maybe consider venus/mars and dominants! The perks of being a air/water combo is I can understand logic but I'm definitely not afraid to get emotional or express it when I need to.
What's it like so far with the scorp? Just looking at his chart do you find him too much to handle so far for your eartly ways?

Posted by xdimplez
Oh don't let me get started lol once I get to a computer I'll type up a storm

Posted by Taggize
I certainly have mixed feelings as where this can go, but after being in two back-to-back air/fire relationships that ended in just weird but extremely explosive ways, I'm hoping that I can take what I learned from those and be more emotionally fluid. I think a watery man could definitely help me in that arena. Not looking for a "forever" sort of deal, just a new way of approaching relationships and emotions. I guess at the moment I would rather drown than be burned with emotions. lol

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Taggize
I certainly have mixed feelings as where this can go, but after being in two back-to-back air/fire relationships that ended in just weird but extremely explosive ways, I'm hoping that I can take what I learned from those and be more emotionally fluid. I think a watery man could definitely help me in that arena. Not looking for a "forever" sort of deal, just a new way of approaching relationships and emotions. I guess at the moment I would rather drown than be burned with emotions. lol

If it's not forever, you better pack up and stick to the signs you're used to.

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Posted by Taggize
I've heard a lot of people say that Scorpios test you, however, I'm not sure what that means in the scheme of things. Test/mind fuck how? I would assume so long as I am consistent and say what I mean and mean what I say he will see that I'm not there to play or take advantage of him. I'm typically really laid-back, especially when people mess with me so I'm not sure how that would come off to him if he is testing me.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Taggize
I've heard a lot of people say that Scorpios test you, however, I'm not sure what that means in the scheme of things. Test/mind fuck how? I would assume so long as I am consistent and say what I mean and mean what I say he will see that I'm not there to play or take advantage of him. I'm typically really laid-back, especially when people mess with me so I'm not sure how that would come off to him if he is testing me.

Lol. I actually dont know anything about that. Truth. Every guy is different.
You have to understand, when I first read your comment last night, it sounded like you are so non chalant and not taking it seriously. You have a "don't give a frack" attitude. So, when you wrote that, you jsut want to test how things are, and not really feeling the relationship. but this is coming from me, a very moodyyyyy person in the first place.
I just generally don't feel that you care.

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Posted by lisabethur8
"Maybe because I have an overly stacked 8th house is why I'm just trying to get as much information as I can in regards to him. I feel as if being linked to him will provide some sort of tranformative benefit to my emotional expression and being...if that makes any sense."

but it doesn't work like that. As if you're going to "use" him. If you don't feel it for him, then you don't. honestly, it doesn't really matter in the whole scheme of things if you have stacked 8th house. Trying to say what you said above, "to get transformation" it's as if you can't do it yourself and have found out via astrology that this certain guy will do it. If you don't LOVE him, then what's the use??? you're just another girl out there. who you are attracted to, is usually your sun/mars combo with your rising. (Cafeastrology and other sites repeats this) You need mental stimulation (your rising/sun) plus you have a virgo moon. Your emotional needs will want someone who will mentally stimulate you I guess. Virgo similar to Gemini by mercury. Your Cap mars needs a man with responsibility and stability. the aqua part of you wants quirky i guess.
You can read a hundred articles on this type of man with his placements, venus and moon, but if there's nothing there...
he's mars/pluto right? Mars wants to pursue, it's how s/he is wired according to astrologers.

Posted by lisabethur8
well if you have to come here and ASK, then it's not working.

Posted by Taggize

Posted by lisabethur8
well if you have to come here and ASK, then it's not working.

It's not working if I ask? Your assumption is way off base. I ask because I have a RIGHT to ask questions and gather knowledge if I deem it fit to do so. He and I are doing very well and both of us are not only enjoying each other's company, but we are moving at a pace both of us are happy with. I come here for objective insight but at the end of the day I know the most important thing is to treat him well with love, affection, and understanding.
So you may assume I am trying to "use" him or that it isn't working, but I am sorry to say you are quit wrong.

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Posted by xdimplez
i dated a scorpio...not only suns but scorpio moons also. i am also a scorpio mooner so i can relate
pursuing= you my dear, dont pursue. you let them pursue you...they like the challenge. they dont like it when its easy..sure they will still take them easy, but the better prize is the one they can win. dont act like you dont care too much, you gotta throw the dog a bone every once in a while. in other words, show you are interested back
dating/ courtship= the beginning stage is always amazing. they are definately romantics..you may also want to look at their venus sign. but let me just say this... they give you a TASTE of what its like...this goes away, because once you have crossed that line with them...the games and testing begin
in a relationship= you will get tested the fuck out of them. i know i said mind games before..because thats how it feels like...a mind fuuuck. in but in reality, they just want to see if they can trust you..i mean really trust you..because when a scorpio gives you that trust..its not only a key to his heart...but his soul. once you have passed the test, you will start to become the center of his world. their love is all consuming.
their will still be rough patches in the relationship, but you will find yourself a loyal and faithful partner once you get a scorpio to truly love you.