rrad52
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Aires & Aquarius - what's next?
I'm not so sure how much I can help you out, but it sounds like this guy might just have some personal things going on that he needs to think over and that's why he's closed himself off from you. I say give it about a month, he has your number, and if things are still the way they are then move on.
Hello there rrad52 and welcome:-)
I have read your posting and I am smiling to myself. I am an aquairan female and I will try throw some light on the way I see things for you. I just finished with aries guy - see misc. board re. rules for disengagement...I am not suggesting that you are the female equivalent of what he was for one moment!!!
Back to Mr. Aquarian - you ask how to get this moving forward - do aquairans ever go back.....the answer to the latter is yes, they do go back, they go back big time!!but....the secret is....IN THEIR OWN TIME WHEN THEY ARE READY AND NOT THE OTHER PERSON.
The thing about aquairnas is when they get excited about an idea, no matter how screwball or outlandish it seems to others, they expect you to think the same...if you don't you burst their bubble..and you literally "burst" them too. Your aquarius guy was "all fired up" re. his business venture.....and naturally you gave your honest opinion as to what you thought....but honesty is not the best policy when an aquairan is "all fired up" about something....the secret is to just let them go along with it....sometimes, after a while, they will "see" themselves that it was screwball and come to their senses and tell you they made a mistake but for someone else to take away "their glory" just dissipats things for them with the person for a time anyway.
I am not surprsied that he was just watching and not really communicating at the club last time - that's the way we operate....we find it ahrd to make first move - we will remain detached, watch from a distance till the other person comes into our zone and shakes us out of the ice-maiden cometh mode!!!!!
So you keep it simple, you text or phone and say listen, if you'd like to meet for a chat and a drink, I'd like that too - it's up to you Mister!!! - keep it light and airy-fairy.....don't go overboard or prressurize - he may even say no initially - we usually do!!!! - but I bet you within a day or two you will get a positive response from Mr. Aquarius!!
Good luck my pal.
Alana x
I have read your posting and I am smiling to myself. I am an aquairan female and I will try throw some light on the way I see things for you. I just finished with aries guy - see misc. board re. rules for disengagement...I am not suggesting that you are the female equivalent of what he was for one moment!!!
Back to Mr. Aquarian - you ask how to get this moving forward - do aquairans ever go back.....the answer to the latter is yes, they do go back, they go back big time!!but....the secret is....IN THEIR OWN TIME WHEN THEY ARE READY AND NOT THE OTHER PERSON.
The thing about aquairnas is when they get excited about an idea, no matter how screwball or outlandish it seems to others, they expect you to think the same...if you don't you burst their bubble..and you literally "burst" them too. Your aquarius guy was "all fired up" re. his business venture.....and naturally you gave your honest opinion as to what you thought....but honesty is not the best policy when an aquairan is "all fired up" about something....the secret is to just let them go along with it....sometimes, after a while, they will "see" themselves that it was screwball and come to their senses and tell you they made a mistake but for someone else to take away "their glory" just dissipats things for them with the person for a time anyway.
I am not surprsied that he was just watching and not really communicating at the club last time - that's the way we operate....we find it ahrd to make first move - we will remain detached, watch from a distance till the other person comes into our zone and shakes us out of the ice-maiden cometh mode!!!!!
So you keep it simple, you text or phone and say listen, if you'd like to meet for a chat and a drink, I'd like that too - it's up to you Mister!!! - keep it light and airy-fairy.....don't go overboard or prressurize - he may even say no initially - we usually do!!!! - but I bet you within a day or two you will get a positive response from Mr. Aquarius!!
Good luck my pal.
Alana x
do aquarian ever go down?
Don't be dirty JT!!!!
But the answer is - OH GOD YES!! - we will go "down" all the way:-)!!
A x
But the answer is - OH GOD YES!! - we will go "down" all the way:-)!!
A x
JT - I conquer with Alana - Aquarians DO do down and oh baby it's all good 🙂
Alana - thank you so much for your response and welcome! As I am fairly new to the boards, I find it extremely comforting to know there are good people out there willing to help others and share information/stories.
As for Mr. Aquarius - what you responded makes perfect sense and probably WHY I've blamed myself for things changing. But in attempts to keep our connection honest & sincere (something neither of us had in our previous relationships) I did what I thought we both agreed to - an honest reflection/opinion. NEVER was my intent to 'burst his bubble' or 'rain on his parade' and can only hope that he DOES realize that and so he should if he knows me at all.
As for your comment around 'keep it simple' & make contact either via phone/text msg and suggest a get together - I have to admit that's difficult for me to do right now because I cannot gage what his reaction will be (ie. receptive or not) and moreso (and similar to Mr. Aqua) find it difficult to make the first move (yes, surprising considering I'm a fiery Aires) but also feel that HE, at the very least, owes me an honest explanation as to why contact stopped. Don't I at least deserve that? Of course I ultimately what to know either way (+ or - ) but I guess had hoped HE would make attempts to reconnect. But I guess I'll never know til I try right?
Thanks again for your post - will certainly keep you posted!
Natasha
Alana - thank you so much for your response and welcome! As I am fairly new to the boards, I find it extremely comforting to know there are good people out there willing to help others and share information/stories.
As for Mr. Aquarius - what you responded makes perfect sense and probably WHY I've blamed myself for things changing. But in attempts to keep our connection honest & sincere (something neither of us had in our previous relationships) I did what I thought we both agreed to - an honest reflection/opinion. NEVER was my intent to 'burst his bubble' or 'rain on his parade' and can only hope that he DOES realize that and so he should if he knows me at all.
As for your comment around 'keep it simple' & make contact either via phone/text msg and suggest a get together - I have to admit that's difficult for me to do right now because I cannot gage what his reaction will be (ie. receptive or not) and moreso (and similar to Mr. Aqua) find it difficult to make the first move (yes, surprising considering I'm a fiery Aires) but also feel that HE, at the very least, owes me an honest explanation as to why contact stopped. Don't I at least deserve that? Of course I ultimately what to know either way (+ or - ) but I guess had hoped HE would make attempts to reconnect. But I guess I'll never know til I try right?
Thanks again for your post - will certainly keep you posted!
Natasha
Natasha, you are a wise lady - all ariens are:-) good hearts true and true and everyone knows this, esp. Mr. Aquarius.
So I say to you......take a deep breath, look at yourself in your mirror and think oh boy I could stop traffic!!! Take a glass of wine or two or brandy!!! or whateve it is you need to get the dutch "aquarian" courage and make that call or text message over the weekend.
If it's a negative response, hey ho!!! You will bounce back because you are aries!!
If it's a positive response, hey ho!!! You will bounce forward because you are aries!!
Deep down, does it really matter...does anything really matter that much....you're not dying of cancer!!, you haven't killed anybody or made them cry.....nothing is as hard as you think it is - really.....:-)
Go for it N - if it's not happening, make it happen!!:-)
Good luck my pal.
A x - keep us posted:-)
So I say to you......take a deep breath, look at yourself in your mirror and think oh boy I could stop traffic!!! Take a glass of wine or two or brandy!!! or whateve it is you need to get the dutch "aquarian" courage and make that call or text message over the weekend.
If it's a negative response, hey ho!!! You will bounce back because you are aries!!
If it's a positive response, hey ho!!! You will bounce forward because you are aries!!
Deep down, does it really matter...does anything really matter that much....you're not dying of cancer!!, you haven't killed anybody or made them cry.....nothing is as hard as you think it is - really.....:-)
Go for it N - if it's not happening, make it happen!!:-)
Good luck my pal.
A x - keep us posted:-)
Alana - you are one incredible lady! (& an example of why I am so taken by Mr. Aquarius. You demonsrate some of those same qualities he has - inspiring, motivating, encouraging and supportive manner. You just all have a very special way about you. Thank you!!
You are absolutely right my lady - nothing ventured, nothing gained. I guess we (or better put I) sitback sometimes wanting the other person to step up and make the move because I think I'm owed that because I do respect any & all people, and do believe Mr. Aquarius DOES know my heart is true, sincere & honest. Self worth/Self Confidence is the MOST important element I've come to learn over my triles and tribulations, however its obvious there is still room for improvement. 😉
Would it be 'sneaky' of me to wait til after this evening to contact him? I'd like to see if he shows up at the Club again tonight before contacting him? And if he doesn't show up tonight - I will send him a text message tomorrow to hopefully ignite something. Any encouraging suggestions you can provide (for the txt msg) to help create a + response are welcome!
And yes, will keep you posted.
Cheers!
Natasha
You are absolutely right my lady - nothing ventured, nothing gained. I guess we (or better put I) sitback sometimes wanting the other person to step up and make the move because I think I'm owed that because I do respect any & all people, and do believe Mr. Aquarius DOES know my heart is true, sincere & honest. Self worth/Self Confidence is the MOST important element I've come to learn over my triles and tribulations, however its obvious there is still room for improvement. 😉
Would it be 'sneaky' of me to wait til after this evening to contact him? I'd like to see if he shows up at the Club again tonight before contacting him? And if he doesn't show up tonight - I will send him a text message tomorrow to hopefully ignite something. Any encouraging suggestions you can provide (for the txt msg) to help create a + response are welcome!
And yes, will keep you posted.
Cheers!
Natasha
Hello again folks - ok well, I promised an update so here it goes....
As per my last post, I did wait to see if Mr. Aquarius would show up at the Club this past Fri before deciding if I'd make contact. He did NOT show up therefore, the following day I did text msg him to say "Hi gorgeous - miss talking to u - would like to do so over coffee/drinks, but I leave it up to u!"
I did NOT get a response or call back and didn't really expect anything. Mr. Aqua has always moved at his pace, and I recognize that he needs time to ponder before ever making any moves. But the interesting element to this story (or perhaps coincidence) is he showed up at the Club that same night (Sat). This is a different Club than we frequent (and met at) on Friday's - He has not been to this Club in about a year, yet he knows thru a mutual friend that I also frequent this Club with my girlfriends. I was SHOCKED to see him show up there Sat nite.
He came up to us right away to say hello, kiss hello, was friendly, and things just seemed so much than last week's awkwardness. Lots of smiles, eye contact, idle chit chats with our friends around, etc and we only really talked (one on one much later in the evening and after he had a few drinks). That's when I asked him if he got my text msg - to which he replied "OMG that was you"— He said that "apparently" the msg did not show the # it came from (blocked # - but I don't have a blocked #??). Anyway, I just let it slide, but he went on and on about how he thought about it all day long and wondered who it was from, then added it was a very nice msg - he misses the talks too, things are crazy, have lots on my plate etc etc. I was preparing myself for that disappointing "NO THANKS" reply - but his body language said the opposite, touchy touchy, flirty, kept the conversation going and never cut me off or brushed me off, or rushed to go back to his/our friends (and what I love about him - he always gives each person the respect they rightfully deserve).
The conversation ended when he saw the friend he came with getting ready to leave, so Mr. Aqua says I gotta go, so if I don't see you before you leave, I'll call you - and plants a nice wet one right on the lips, grabs my hand and winks as he walks away. OMG - this guy is one HOT TAMOLI!! 😉
So, I can only hope that he does follow-thru and makes that contact but suspect it won't happen right away. All I can say is I followed my heart, communicated to him (not just in the txt msg, but that night) how I felt in a light friendly manner, no pressure, no desperation - that I miss talking to him, and miss seeing him. That's all I can do right?
Any suggestions or comments on what 'may' or may not happen from here are very welcome - and a special thank you to ALANA - for giving me the courage to speak from the heart - and I will be OK no matter what the outcome because I did what I needed to do for me! Sincere thanks my lady!
If anything further develops.........will post again!
Natasha
As per my last post, I did wait to see if Mr. Aquarius would show up at the Club this past Fri before deciding if I'd make contact. He did NOT show up therefore, the following day I did text msg him to say "Hi gorgeous - miss talking to u - would like to do so over coffee/drinks, but I leave it up to u!"
I did NOT get a response or call back and didn't really expect anything. Mr. Aqua has always moved at his pace, and I recognize that he needs time to ponder before ever making any moves. But the interesting element to this story (or perhaps coincidence) is he showed up at the Club that same night (Sat). This is a different Club than we frequent (and met at) on Friday's - He has not been to this Club in about a year, yet he knows thru a mutual friend that I also frequent this Club with my girlfriends. I was SHOCKED to see him show up there Sat nite.
He came up to us right away to say hello, kiss hello, was friendly, and things just seemed so much than last week's awkwardness. Lots of smiles, eye contact, idle chit chats with our friends around, etc and we only really talked (one on one much later in the evening and after he had a few drinks). That's when I asked him if he got my text msg - to which he replied "OMG that was you"— He said that "apparently" the msg did not show the # it came from (blocked # - but I don't have a blocked #??). Anyway, I just let it slide, but he went on and on about how he thought about it all day long and wondered who it was from, then added it was a very nice msg - he misses the talks too, things are crazy, have lots on my plate etc etc. I was preparing myself for that disappointing "NO THANKS" reply - but his body language said the opposite, touchy touchy, flirty, kept the conversation going and never cut me off or brushed me off, or rushed to go back to his/our friends (and what I love about him - he always gives each person the respect they rightfully deserve).
The conversation ended when he saw the friend he came with getting ready to leave, so Mr. Aqua says I gotta go, so if I don't see you before you leave, I'll call you - and plants a nice wet one right on the lips, grabs my hand and winks as he walks away. OMG - this guy is one HOT TAMOLI!! 😉
So, I can only hope that he does follow-thru and makes that contact but suspect it won't happen right away. All I can say is I followed my heart, communicated to him (not just in the txt msg, but that night) how I felt in a light friendly manner, no pressure, no desperation - that I miss talking to him, and miss seeing him. That's all I can do right?
Any suggestions or comments on what 'may' or may not happen from here are very welcome - and a special thank you to ALANA - for giving me the courage to speak from the heart - and I will be OK no matter what the outcome because I did what I needed to do for me! Sincere thanks my lady!
If anything further develops.........will post again!
Natasha
Hi Natasha 🙂 and ~welcome~ to the fascinating world of the "unexpected." Fasten your seatbelt and enjoy the ride...heck, just for the extra excitement you may just want to loosen that seatbelt or "forget about it" all together!
Hi, "I am" Freebird an Arian who has been involved with an Aquarian (male) for over 2 yrs. I came to this site dazed, confused, ready to commit myself to a dark cave, very dark cave for shelter and peace of mind. *remember...us arians tend to explode our situations at times* I met a wonderful, incredible woman who has helped me to understand (if there truly is anyway of totally understanding another human) my Aqua. pal. Which in turn has helped me to understand myself more through this experience. What a journey! What a ride! Be prepared for anything and expect nothing.
Natasha, listen to the wise words of this incredible lady who offers her wisdom...not sure where she gets it and that really is not important..what is important is the "gift" that she is to so many people.
I wish you the best in your relationship with your new Aquarian friend...there is a treasure in every relationship if we look hard enough to find it.
Keep us posted on your adventures Arian Woman!
Freebird
Hi, "I am" Freebird an Arian who has been involved with an Aquarian (male) for over 2 yrs. I came to this site dazed, confused, ready to commit myself to a dark cave, very dark cave for shelter and peace of mind. *remember...us arians tend to explode our situations at times* I met a wonderful, incredible woman who has helped me to understand (if there truly is anyway of totally understanding another human) my Aqua. pal. Which in turn has helped me to understand myself more through this experience. What a journey! What a ride! Be prepared for anything and expect nothing.
Natasha, listen to the wise words of this incredible lady who offers her wisdom...not sure where she gets it and that really is not important..what is important is the "gift" that she is to so many people.
I wish you the best in your relationship with your new Aquarian friend...there is a treasure in every relationship if we look hard enough to find it.
Keep us posted on your adventures Arian Woman!
Freebird
Ooooops, forgot to mention who the "Incredible Lady" is but, I have a strong feeling that you already know who she is....ALANA 😉
Hi Alana...hope all is well in your Alana~world of fun and unexpected pleasures...just wanted to say HI on the boards here....
catch ya soon!
Freebird flying all over town dodging sleet, snow and ice! Brrrrr...it's cold over here. I need a heater in my nest, ice skates for my wittle bird feet, non~frozen worms and for that goofy cat to quit starring at me! Wonder what sign he is?
Hi Alana...hope all is well in your Alana~world of fun and unexpected pleasures...just wanted to say HI on the boards here....
catch ya soon!
Freebird flying all over town dodging sleet, snow and ice! Brrrrr...it's cold over here. I need a heater in my nest, ice skates for my wittle bird feet, non~frozen worms and for that goofy cat to quit starring at me! Wonder what sign he is?
Hello Freebird - luv the name my fellow Aires! Thank you for the warm welcome!!
I have come to realize a very 'wise' one does exist on this board and she has a very natural way about her - I find it comforting to know that there IS a world where people 'share' unconditionally because we CAN learn from one another. Freebird, can you share any stories about your Aquarian friend that might further help shed some light here? 2 years together gives me hope, and do find Aires/Aqua combo's to be GREAT (both in a friendly way, as well as romance).
I think Aquarians get a bad rap because they are so unique, and I'm so tired of hearing that they are 'aloof and detached'. They are very special people and welcome any into my life. I have 2 very close friends that are Aqua's (females) and can always count on their honesty and they have NEVER let me down. But this is my 1st connection with a male aquarian yet, I also don't see him as 'aloof or detached' at all!!! Quite the contrary - he is cautious & careful - dedicated to his goals/ambitions, as well as his friends and family - patient, overwhelming honest & sincere, and accepting of all people from different walks of life. What a refreshing change! 🙂
I truly believe we ALL wear a mask, to a certain degree - but not a deceptive one - just a 'self-defensive' mask and feel that if one is truly interested in seeing beyond that mask, there are many layers to an incredible soul. Let's be honest - we have all been hurt, disappointed and let down by people (or relationships) in our life time. But I am someone who wants to move forward and NOT be a victim to my past. Better, learn from it (as you have said, and my lady Alana said), learn from it, and carry on - always in forward motion. But admit, its difficult to do (perhaps being an Aires) without fully comprehending WHAT happened. But I have also learned that I can better deal with whatever happens in my life - if people take the time to give me the courtesy that I always give others - closure! I've had to find that 'closure' myself many times over, but the universe is an amazing thing - it does give us the answers we seek, just not always in the timeframe WE want - and again, being a fellow Aires, patience is NOT my strong suit, but only ONE of my life lessons.
I await & welcome further responses and insight. Stay warm Freebird - but hard to do here too, we're having a BLIZZARD and soooooo wish Mr. Aqua was here to keep me warm 😉 Hopefully someday soon!
Natasha
xoxo
I have come to realize a very 'wise' one does exist on this board and she has a very natural way about her - I find it comforting to know that there IS a world where people 'share' unconditionally because we CAN learn from one another. Freebird, can you share any stories about your Aquarian friend that might further help shed some light here? 2 years together gives me hope, and do find Aires/Aqua combo's to be GREAT (both in a friendly way, as well as romance).
I think Aquarians get a bad rap because they are so unique, and I'm so tired of hearing that they are 'aloof and detached'. They are very special people and welcome any into my life. I have 2 very close friends that are Aqua's (females) and can always count on their honesty and they have NEVER let me down. But this is my 1st connection with a male aquarian yet, I also don't see him as 'aloof or detached' at all!!! Quite the contrary - he is cautious & careful - dedicated to his goals/ambitions, as well as his friends and family - patient, overwhelming honest & sincere, and accepting of all people from different walks of life. What a refreshing change! 🙂
I truly believe we ALL wear a mask, to a certain degree - but not a deceptive one - just a 'self-defensive' mask and feel that if one is truly interested in seeing beyond that mask, there are many layers to an incredible soul. Let's be honest - we have all been hurt, disappointed and let down by people (or relationships) in our life time. But I am someone who wants to move forward and NOT be a victim to my past. Better, learn from it (as you have said, and my lady Alana said), learn from it, and carry on - always in forward motion. But admit, its difficult to do (perhaps being an Aires) without fully comprehending WHAT happened. But I have also learned that I can better deal with whatever happens in my life - if people take the time to give me the courtesy that I always give others - closure! I've had to find that 'closure' myself many times over, but the universe is an amazing thing - it does give us the answers we seek, just not always in the timeframe WE want - and again, being a fellow Aires, patience is NOT my strong suit, but only ONE of my life lessons.
I await & welcome further responses and insight. Stay warm Freebird - but hard to do here too, we're having a BLIZZARD and soooooo wish Mr. Aqua was here to keep me warm 😉 Hopefully someday soon!
Natasha
xoxo
Hello Freebird - luv the name my fellow Aires! Thank you for the warm welcome!!
I have come to realize a very 'wise' one does exist on this board and she has a very natural way about her - I find it comforting to know that there IS a world where people 'share' unconditionally because we CAN learn from one another. Freebird, can you share any stories about your Aquarian friend that might further help shed some light here? 2 years together gives me hope, and do find Aires/Aqua combo's to be GREAT (both in a friendly way, as well as romance).
I think Aquarians get a bad rap because they are so unique, and I'm so tired of hearing that they are 'aloof and detached'. They are very special people and welcome any into my life. I have 2 very close friends that are Aqua's (females) and can always count on their honesty and they have NEVER let me down. But this is my 1st connection with a male aquarian yet, I also don't see him as 'aloof or detached' at all!!! Quite the contrary - he is cautious & careful - dedicated to his goals/ambitions, as well as his friends and family - patient, overwhelming honest & sincere, and accepting of all people from different walks of life. What a refreshing change! 🙂
I truly believe we ALL wear a mask, to a certain degree - but not a deceptive one - just a 'self-defensive' mask and feel that if one is truly interested in seeing beyond that mask, there are many layers to an incredible soul. Let's be honest - we have all been hurt, disappointed and let down by people (or relationships) in our life time. But I am someone who wants to move forward and NOT be a victim to my past. Better, learn from it (as you have said, and my lady Alana said), learn from it, and carry on - always in forward motion. But admit, its difficult to do (perhaps being an Aires) without fully comprehending WHAT happened. But I have also learned that I can better deal with whatever happens in my life - if people take the time to give me the courtesy that I always give others - closure! I've had to find that 'closure' myself many times over, but the universe is an amazing thing - it does give us the answers we seek, just not always in the timeframe WE want - and again, being a fellow Aires, patience is NOT my strong suit, but only ONE of my life lessons.
I await & welcome further responses and insight. Stay warm Freebird - but hard to do here too, we're having a BLIZZARD and soooooo wish Mr. Aqua was here to keep me warm 😉 Hopefully someday soon!
Natasha
xoxo
I have come to realize a very 'wise' one does exist on this board and she has a very natural way about her - I find it comforting to know that there IS a world where people 'share' unconditionally because we CAN learn from one another. Freebird, can you share any stories about your Aquarian friend that might further help shed some light here? 2 years together gives me hope, and do find Aires/Aqua combo's to be GREAT (both in a friendly way, as well as romance).
I think Aquarians get a bad rap because they are so unique, and I'm so tired of hearing that they are 'aloof and detached'. They are very special people and welcome any into my life. I have 2 very close friends that are Aqua's (females) and can always count on their honesty and they have NEVER let me down. But this is my 1st connection with a male aquarian yet, I also don't see him as 'aloof or detached' at all!!! Quite the contrary - he is cautious & careful - dedicated to his goals/ambitions, as well as his friends and family - patient, overwhelming honest & sincere, and accepting of all people from different walks of life. What a refreshing change! 🙂
I truly believe we ALL wear a mask, to a certain degree - but not a deceptive one - just a 'self-defensive' mask and feel that if one is truly interested in seeing beyond that mask, there are many layers to an incredible soul. Let's be honest - we have all been hurt, disappointed and let down by people (or relationships) in our life time. But I am someone who wants to move forward and NOT be a victim to my past. Better, learn from it (as you have said, and my lady Alana said), learn from it, and carry on - always in forward motion. But admit, its difficult to do (perhaps being an Aires) without fully comprehending WHAT happened. But I have also learned that I can better deal with whatever happens in my life - if people take the time to give me the courtesy that I always give others - closure! I've had to find that 'closure' myself many times over, but the universe is an amazing thing - it does give us the answers we seek, just not always in the timeframe WE want - and again, being a fellow Aires, patience is NOT my strong suit, but only ONE of my life lessons.
I await & welcome further responses and insight. Stay warm Freebird - but hard to do here too, we're having a BLIZZARD and soooooo wish Mr. Aqua was here to keep me warm 😉 Hopefully someday soon!
Natasha
xoxo
Oooops sorry - not sure why my msg posted twice!
Have a great day!
Have a great day!
What refreashing and informative postings. I can almost go on with life now.
So James..you are ready to come out of the "bat cave" and play with us again? We sure have missed you. Yep, life does indeed go on as long as you are breathing....And that is a GOOD thing 🙂
I look forward to seeing you more on the boards...spice me up, Free~James!
Luv,
Freebird
I look forward to seeing you more on the boards...spice me up, Free~James!
Luv,
Freebird
Warm fuzzie hello to you my friend...where are you Natasha that you are having a Blizzard? Gosh, wish I was there too! Sounds exiting, different, and very cold.
Speaking of cold....you mentioned the aloofness and detachment of the Aquarian. To some degree yes, it is there. However, once you know and understand that this is just a part of their nature you will be more accepting and not take it personally. You will experience it and it is not a bad thing. I have found with my friend that when he began to FEEL things...it scared him so he needed to detach. No problem and one must go on with their life like it is happening. Aries are a "feeling" sign full of warmth and this is what the Aquar. male is drawn too (besides the mental gymnastics that seem to light their fire). The Aquar. is a "thinking" sign and they remember EVERY detail! Alot of learning and patience is required here.
Natasha, this relationship like any other will require that you just be you and know that you are a Prize...let things happen naturally without any guarantees...maybe go into it with hopes of just becomming very good friends. I have gone through ALOT with my pal and now, I think we have become closer friends...amazing to me that we are still in each others lives..I suppose that we are not done learning yet. I do date other men as I am not exclusive to him.
You and your friend are going to create a special relationship like none other and be on your own unique path...and you will have fun doing it. This is one of the wonderful mysteries of life...get ready to watch it unfold and enjoy your moments.
You have a wonderful attitude Natahsa and I have no doubt that you are a bright star who has entered his world..a breath of refreshing air. His life will never be the same.
Keep on smiling my new Aries friend...so glad you are here. 🙂
Stay warm and cozy...
Freebird
Speaking of cold....you mentioned the aloofness and detachment of the Aquarian. To some degree yes, it is there. However, once you know and understand that this is just a part of their nature you will be more accepting and not take it personally. You will experience it and it is not a bad thing. I have found with my friend that when he began to FEEL things...it scared him so he needed to detach. No problem and one must go on with their life like it is happening. Aries are a "feeling" sign full of warmth and this is what the Aquar. male is drawn too (besides the mental gymnastics that seem to light their fire). The Aquar. is a "thinking" sign and they remember EVERY detail! Alot of learning and patience is required here.
Natasha, this relationship like any other will require that you just be you and know that you are a Prize...let things happen naturally without any guarantees...maybe go into it with hopes of just becomming very good friends. I have gone through ALOT with my pal and now, I think we have become closer friends...amazing to me that we are still in each others lives..I suppose that we are not done learning yet. I do date other men as I am not exclusive to him.
You and your friend are going to create a special relationship like none other and be on your own unique path...and you will have fun doing it. This is one of the wonderful mysteries of life...get ready to watch it unfold and enjoy your moments.
You have a wonderful attitude Natahsa and I have no doubt that you are a bright star who has entered his world..a breath of refreshing air. His life will never be the same.
Keep on smiling my new Aries friend...so glad you are here. 🙂
Stay warm and cozy...
Freebird
Hello James T - nice to meet your aquaintence! Thank you for
your post and so glad you founds 'ours' interesting. How are
YOU doing?
Freebird - so grateful to find a few new friends who have welcomed
me with such warmth! I'm already feeling 'warm & fuzzy' despite the
weather outside (TO, Canada). TONS of snow dumped on us in the last
48 hours, freezing temperatures and Ohhhhh how I wish Mr. Aqua was
here to keep my toes and foes warm as only he can 😉
As for your comments around his 'aloofness & detachment' - I
couldn't agree with you more - (altho I admitted I hate those
descriptors) it seemed to only surface when we WERE getting
closer and only AFTER he told me he loved so many things about me.
That's why I now find his distance so troubling, but find comfort
AND hope in reading your words of wisdom. Mr. Aqua and I have
already embarked on a wonderful journey - and a special relationship
unlike any other I've experienced - and I can only hope it continues.
Until then, I do my own thing, keep busy, work hard, enjoy my friends
& family and will always be ME, little ole ME!
I do believe I have made an impact on Mr. Aqua - as he
has made on me, and once again, can only hope he comes to his
senses. But I suspect he will - in time.
In the interim, like you, I leave myself open to other 'options'
and just recently my ex (Capricorn male) resurfaced wanting
another chance with me. WHY on earth is it that these guys
(at least in MY life) do not appreciate what they have until they
lose it? Mr. Cappie hurt me BAD, and you know the saying -
"hurt me once, its your fault, hurt me twice its mine". I
cannot possibly go back - or trust him, but admit it brought
alot of emotions to the surface. That's two ex's for me
in the last year that have come back to claim what they lost.
Arrrggghhhh! But the one my heart aches for is Mr. Aqua - just
can't get him out of my mind OR heart! (sad face, & a few tears
right now) sorry, I'll snap out of it - see I'm trying to smile
again already 🙂
Freebird - you (like my lady Alana) are very special ladies!
I cannot begin to thank you both for your words of wisdom,
comfort & hope! I so appreciate your friendship!
LOTS of love to you both.......will keep you posted and please
keep me posted on your situation or new developments.
xoxo
Natasha
your post and so glad you founds 'ours' interesting. How are
YOU doing?
Freebird - so grateful to find a few new friends who have welcomed
me with such warmth! I'm already feeling 'warm & fuzzy' despite the
weather outside (TO, Canada). TONS of snow dumped on us in the last
48 hours, freezing temperatures and Ohhhhh how I wish Mr. Aqua was
here to keep my toes and foes warm as only he can 😉
As for your comments around his 'aloofness & detachment' - I
couldn't agree with you more - (altho I admitted I hate those
descriptors) it seemed to only surface when we WERE getting
closer and only AFTER he told me he loved so many things about me.
That's why I now find his distance so troubling, but find comfort
AND hope in reading your words of wisdom. Mr. Aqua and I have
already embarked on a wonderful journey - and a special relationship
unlike any other I've experienced - and I can only hope it continues.
Until then, I do my own thing, keep busy, work hard, enjoy my friends
& family and will always be ME, little ole ME!
I do believe I have made an impact on Mr. Aqua - as he
has made on me, and once again, can only hope he comes to his
senses. But I suspect he will - in time.
In the interim, like you, I leave myself open to other 'options'
and just recently my ex (Capricorn male) resurfaced wanting
another chance with me. WHY on earth is it that these guys
(at least in MY life) do not appreciate what they have until they
lose it? Mr. Cappie hurt me BAD, and you know the saying -
"hurt me once, its your fault, hurt me twice its mine". I
cannot possibly go back - or trust him, but admit it brought
alot of emotions to the surface. That's two ex's for me
in the last year that have come back to claim what they lost.
Arrrggghhhh! But the one my heart aches for is Mr. Aqua - just
can't get him out of my mind OR heart! (sad face, & a few tears
right now) sorry, I'll snap out of it - see I'm trying to smile
again already 🙂
Freebird - you (like my lady Alana) are very special ladies!
I cannot begin to thank you both for your words of wisdom,
comfort & hope! I so appreciate your friendship!
LOTS of love to you both.......will keep you posted and please
keep me posted on your situation or new developments.
xoxo
Natasha
Hello to you Natasha and thanks for all your updates on Mr. Aqua......hey you think that he just turned up at that club out of the blue on the saturday nite....no way hozay!!! That was a very cleverly and manufactured move on behalf of Mr. Aquar...god he reminds me of me:-) No doubt about that - he knew you might very well be there and he made sure that it was all - "oh my god, surprise, surprise, fancy seeing you here"....but it's what he wanted all along to happen and happen it did!!!:-)
And clap yourself on the back for having the courage in the first place to text....that was a biggy for you because we know you were apprehensive about his reaction......and so we have the "nice story" about him not knowing your blocked!!number!!....again I don't think so Mister!!! but little fibs go a long way....if they don't hurt anyone to the core....little fibs have their value too now and again:-) Bottom line is he went out of his way to be at that club because he knew that he might see you there - so let's stick to the bottom-line!!!
As the guru Freebird says, let it all happen naturally - he's in for the ride of his life. I've experienced ariens and their rides (every which way!!)....although I broke it off with aries guy, I can honestly say I had about the best two-three weeks of my life with this special aries guy....he was so quick-witted, enthusiastic, full of life, mentally stimulating (which is an aprodisiac for an aquarian):-) I know being aries, you talk striaght from the heart and don't like to play heart/head games...well just for the moment till you snare Mr. Aquar....I'd advise you to "immerse yourself" in head games...we love them....try to be one step ahead of the posse or the loved one all the time.......
Now you want to hear how stupid I've been like I promised to tell you.
Well back to Mr. Aries guy that I supposedly broke it off with last week. In the meantime I had got back with Mr. Virgo (finished with him after christmas after a year and half - too complicated to go into all what happened and I am sure everyone on the board is bored silly with the antics of me and Mr. Virgo). Anyway, am back with Mr. Virgo and Mr. Aries rings and asks for just half an hour to talk with me one last time - says I owe it to him and he deserves this from me....I am a softie - so I agree to meet for half an hour to talk and say good-bye. He arrives that nite and is all happy happy to see me - wants to kiss and hold hands and all that stuff in the pub - I am getting stifled and need to tell him I want to finish. So go to bathroom and look in the mirror and say you got to do what you got to do.....in the meantime Mr. Virgo rings and says because I am late..I needn't bother meeting him tonite!!! I say forget tonite and forget forever!! and slam down phone!! I return to Mr. Aries but in the meantime his two pals have joined us and they are all chat and buying drinks etc. I think to myself to hell with MR. Virgo for tonite....I will have a few drinks and chat and then go and tell Mr. Aries....but the nite goes on and I get drunker and less determined and focussed....eventually we leave the pub and go to his place across the road....again I don't have the courage to tell Mr. Aries it's all over and I end up staying the bloody nite. Next day, Mr. Aries is delighted, he thinks he has me back....Mr. Virgo is annoyed, he's ringing but I am not answering....too annoyed with him for one thing and too guilty with myself.
So there you go......I'm a fallen angel.....tonite come hell or high water, her has to make that phonecall to Mr. Aries and tell him the truth. I will have failed today to try to live up to one of my ideals which is live each day without ever having to make anyone cry over something I say or do.....soomeone is going to be crying tonite over this stupid b.i.t.c.h.
Bye for now.
A x
And clap yourself on the back for having the courage in the first place to text....that was a biggy for you because we know you were apprehensive about his reaction......and so we have the "nice story" about him not knowing your blocked!!number!!....again I don't think so Mister!!! but little fibs go a long way....if they don't hurt anyone to the core....little fibs have their value too now and again:-) Bottom line is he went out of his way to be at that club because he knew that he might see you there - so let's stick to the bottom-line!!!
As the guru Freebird says, let it all happen naturally - he's in for the ride of his life. I've experienced ariens and their rides (every which way!!)....although I broke it off with aries guy, I can honestly say I had about the best two-three weeks of my life with this special aries guy....he was so quick-witted, enthusiastic, full of life, mentally stimulating (which is an aprodisiac for an aquarian):-) I know being aries, you talk striaght from the heart and don't like to play heart/head games...well just for the moment till you snare Mr. Aquar....I'd advise you to "immerse yourself" in head games...we love them....try to be one step ahead of the posse or the loved one all the time.......
Now you want to hear how stupid I've been like I promised to tell you.
Well back to Mr. Aries guy that I supposedly broke it off with last week. In the meantime I had got back with Mr. Virgo (finished with him after christmas after a year and half - too complicated to go into all what happened and I am sure everyone on the board is bored silly with the antics of me and Mr. Virgo). Anyway, am back with Mr. Virgo and Mr. Aries rings and asks for just half an hour to talk with me one last time - says I owe it to him and he deserves this from me....I am a softie - so I agree to meet for half an hour to talk and say good-bye. He arrives that nite and is all happy happy to see me - wants to kiss and hold hands and all that stuff in the pub - I am getting stifled and need to tell him I want to finish. So go to bathroom and look in the mirror and say you got to do what you got to do.....in the meantime Mr. Virgo rings and says because I am late..I needn't bother meeting him tonite!!! I say forget tonite and forget forever!! and slam down phone!! I return to Mr. Aries but in the meantime his two pals have joined us and they are all chat and buying drinks etc. I think to myself to hell with MR. Virgo for tonite....I will have a few drinks and chat and then go and tell Mr. Aries....but the nite goes on and I get drunker and less determined and focussed....eventually we leave the pub and go to his place across the road....again I don't have the courage to tell Mr. Aries it's all over and I end up staying the bloody nite. Next day, Mr. Aries is delighted, he thinks he has me back....Mr. Virgo is annoyed, he's ringing but I am not answering....too annoyed with him for one thing and too guilty with myself.
So there you go......I'm a fallen angel.....tonite come hell or high water, her has to make that phonecall to Mr. Aries and tell him the truth. I will have failed today to try to live up to one of my ideals which is live each day without ever having to make anyone cry over something I say or do.....soomeone is going to be crying tonite over this stupid b.i.t.c.h.
Bye for now.
A x
Hello again my lady Alana - nice to hear from you, and thank you for your post.
Well, where do I start— I have still not heard from Mr. Aqua despite his
appearance at the Club last Sat. I couldn't agree with you more that his
appearance was NOT coincidence (even tho I 'tried' to convince myself it was)
and can only wonder what goes thru his mind now, or whether he has even given
any more thought to my text msg, or our conversation at the Club Sat nite.
But tell me my lady....I don't want to play games and have always strived be honest,
upfront, straightforward - whatcha see, is what you get kinda gal.....but need YOUR
help with 'immersing myself' into those head games you speak of. How can I stay one
step ahead of the game if Mr. Aqua isn't playing the game? (no response to my text,
no contact) to date and I'm all for allowing things to happen 'naturally', but perhaps
I'm just being a typical 'impatient' Aires.
As for your situation........The fallen angel.......you are far from being a stupid
b.i.t.c.h. - human yes, but NOT stupid. My thoughts are with you, and I wish I had some
words of comfort/wisdom for you for a change. But are you sure you want to end things
with Mr. Aires again? I realize (from snooping around the boards, that you and Mr. Virgo
have ALOT of history - so I'd like to ask you this - (and I realize we've only recently met
on this board, so feel free to decline) but I'm gonna ask the question: what is it about
Mr. Virgo that makes you neither stay completely faithful to him, nor walk away? Am "I"
perhaps the stupid b.i.t.c.h.? No judgement here my lady, just truly want to understand
what Mr. Virgo may lack, and more importantly what makes YOU truly happy & content?
My thoughts are with you - and sincerely hope you find resolution with each guy, but
foremost, in your heart!
With love & respect always,
Natasha
xoxo 🙂
Well, where do I start— I have still not heard from Mr. Aqua despite his
appearance at the Club last Sat. I couldn't agree with you more that his
appearance was NOT coincidence (even tho I 'tried' to convince myself it was)
and can only wonder what goes thru his mind now, or whether he has even given
any more thought to my text msg, or our conversation at the Club Sat nite.
But tell me my lady....I don't want to play games and have always strived be honest,
upfront, straightforward - whatcha see, is what you get kinda gal.....but need YOUR
help with 'immersing myself' into those head games you speak of. How can I stay one
step ahead of the game if Mr. Aqua isn't playing the game? (no response to my text,
no contact) to date and I'm all for allowing things to happen 'naturally', but perhaps
I'm just being a typical 'impatient' Aires.
As for your situation........The fallen angel.......you are far from being a stupid
b.i.t.c.h. - human yes, but NOT stupid. My thoughts are with you, and I wish I had some
words of comfort/wisdom for you for a change. But are you sure you want to end things
with Mr. Aires again? I realize (from snooping around the boards, that you and Mr. Virgo
have ALOT of history - so I'd like to ask you this - (and I realize we've only recently met
on this board, so feel free to decline) but I'm gonna ask the question: what is it about
Mr. Virgo that makes you neither stay completely faithful to him, nor walk away? Am "I"
perhaps the stupid b.i.t.c.h.? No judgement here my lady, just truly want to understand
what Mr. Virgo may lack, and more importantly what makes YOU truly happy & content?
My thoughts are with you - and sincerely hope you find resolution with each guy, but
foremost, in your heart!
With love & respect always,
Natasha
xoxo 🙂
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I love the banter between Alana and rad. I feel like I'm watching the new script for Bridget Jones Diary 2. How enjoyable is it to read both of your posts. Delightful. Alana I would like to know more about you,if you would. I'm a tincy bit drunk at the moment, I won't be someone good to talk seriously witha t present but I want to know about you. Cheers! The Brute Hoe
Oh man....I like this kinda stuff...this is gonna be good! Alana, you girl got it goin on! Bringing 'em all in. BruteHoe (what a name..are you a guy or girl?) Silly me, I really don't know, sorry.
Yes, these two have a wonderful script in the making. There will NEVER be a dull moment..fasten your seat belt and get ready to watch your commercial free movie...it's on me, enjoy!
Freebird (their Manager)
Yes, these two have a wonderful script in the making. There will NEVER be a dull moment..fasten your seat belt and get ready to watch your commercial free movie...it's on me, enjoy!
Freebird (their Manager)
Heyyyyyyyyyyy Natash, how you doin? Hope you havin a real good Natash day:-)
Now to get back to you and Mr. Aquarius - so things are progressing slowly for you my impatient aries pal with Mr. Aq! and you ask how to "immerse in head games" even though you are a "what you see is what you get gal!!!!" and honesty is the best policy with you. Once again I have to say that honesty is not the best policy with aquarians - you got to let them beleive and "think" that they are right in every occasion. After you know them intimately, THEN and ONLY THEN can you say to them - what you said then was bullbutter!!!...they won't like it but will dwell on it and next day or two come back to you and say - guess what - you were right all along - I was wrong and they will say they are sorry!!!
Well No. 1 - can you manufacture a surprise meeting in one of those clubs that he goes to?
No. 2 - If you do, be flirty, flirty with him but not too touchy, then disappear for a while and then come back to him and then disappear again!, saying you got to talk to friend in the club over something that's troubling them (aquarians like to think that their pals are helping each other out!!) - make sure it's a good-looking male friend that you go talk to!
No. 3 - The phrase "another time, another place" means alot to aquarians...if you can get that into your banter with him, it will be good, because it makes aquarians think of what they have lost and what all the good times were etc. etc. with the one they are talking to NOW..it makes them think that the person they are with now is kind of letting go of them...and hey, nobody lets go of an aquarian!!! - they are just too good to be forgotten by anybody!!! and so they will make it their business that you don't forget them!!
That's all I can think of now N - as the weekend descends and I feel sure you will be clubbing it somewhere!!-) with someboby:-)
Thanking you for your very spot-on, thought-provoking and hitting the nail on the head question to me!!
"What is it about Mr. Virgo that makes you neither stay completely faithful to him, nor walk away?"
I am going to have to think and ponder this over the weekend - but deep down the bottom line maybe is - a tantalising mixture of love, lust and addiction (not sure if that order is even correct), they get mixed up from time to time with this Mr. Virgo!) - this is what keeps me with him. LOVE - When things are good between us, they are SO good - I just ly in his arms and I feel complete and at "home", LUST - Well even after a year and a half, it's still explosive when together - larger than life orgasms etc!!!:-) - you know the way when you are at home by yourself and having "play time" with yourself - and I try thinking of some hunk like Johnny Depp or whoever to make me come...well no matter how hard I try...it's always Mr. Virgo's image that comes into my mind and gets me off in the end! - I don't even have to fantasise - he's my no. 1 fantasy!!(sorry for being so crude!!); ADDICTION: If I stay away from him for a while, I can kid myself that he is out of my heart and soul but it's happened time and time again, once I see him even for a second even, I am besotted, mezmerized!! - I could just stare at the face forever and "drink him in" (however, I am not dependent on him to make me happy - I learnt that lesson a long time ago)......when he hurts me, although it's not right or makes sense to anyone else I get my own back on him by sleeping with someone else!! (I know I have a problem with this behaviour) - somebody else might bang a cushion or kick the wall to get this frustration out of their system/body....I do it by sleeping with someone else - not good, not good at all..but it works for me! I know others would think of it as cheating - but for me, truly, I don't think I am cheating - just getting my own back in my own special way. Mixed up kid or what!!!!
P.S. I did it!! - I made that phone-call to
Now to get back to you and Mr. Aquarius - so things are progressing slowly for you my impatient aries pal with Mr. Aq! and you ask how to "immerse in head games" even though you are a "what you see is what you get gal!!!!" and honesty is the best policy with you. Once again I have to say that honesty is not the best policy with aquarians - you got to let them beleive and "think" that they are right in every occasion. After you know them intimately, THEN and ONLY THEN can you say to them - what you said then was bullbutter!!!...they won't like it but will dwell on it and next day or two come back to you and say - guess what - you were right all along - I was wrong and they will say they are sorry!!!
Well No. 1 - can you manufacture a surprise meeting in one of those clubs that he goes to?
No. 2 - If you do, be flirty, flirty with him but not too touchy, then disappear for a while and then come back to him and then disappear again!, saying you got to talk to friend in the club over something that's troubling them (aquarians like to think that their pals are helping each other out!!) - make sure it's a good-looking male friend that you go talk to!
No. 3 - The phrase "another time, another place" means alot to aquarians...if you can get that into your banter with him, it will be good, because it makes aquarians think of what they have lost and what all the good times were etc. etc. with the one they are talking to NOW..it makes them think that the person they are with now is kind of letting go of them...and hey, nobody lets go of an aquarian!!! - they are just too good to be forgotten by anybody!!! and so they will make it their business that you don't forget them!!
That's all I can think of now N - as the weekend descends and I feel sure you will be clubbing it somewhere!!-) with someboby:-)
Thanking you for your very spot-on, thought-provoking and hitting the nail on the head question to me!!
"What is it about Mr. Virgo that makes you neither stay completely faithful to him, nor walk away?"
I am going to have to think and ponder this over the weekend - but deep down the bottom line maybe is - a tantalising mixture of love, lust and addiction (not sure if that order is even correct), they get mixed up from time to time with this Mr. Virgo!) - this is what keeps me with him. LOVE - When things are good between us, they are SO good - I just ly in his arms and I feel complete and at "home", LUST - Well even after a year and a half, it's still explosive when together - larger than life orgasms etc!!!:-) - you know the way when you are at home by yourself and having "play time" with yourself - and I try thinking of some hunk like Johnny Depp or whoever to make me come...well no matter how hard I try...it's always Mr. Virgo's image that comes into my mind and gets me off in the end! - I don't even have to fantasise - he's my no. 1 fantasy!!(sorry for being so crude!!); ADDICTION: If I stay away from him for a while, I can kid myself that he is out of my heart and soul but it's happened time and time again, once I see him even for a second even, I am besotted, mezmerized!! - I could just stare at the face forever and "drink him in" (however, I am not dependent on him to make me happy - I learnt that lesson a long time ago)......when he hurts me, although it's not right or makes sense to anyone else I get my own back on him by sleeping with someone else!! (I know I have a problem with this behaviour) - somebody else might bang a cushion or kick the wall to get this frustration out of their system/body....I do it by sleeping with someone else - not good, not good at all..but it works for me! I know others would think of it as cheating - but for me, truly, I don't think I am cheating - just getting my own back in my own special way. Mixed up kid or what!!!!
P.S. I did it!! - I made that phone-call to
Helllooooooooooooooooooo to you Brute Hoe!!!!
What a name! What a man!!! I am going to take it that you are a man with a name like that!!!!
And hey welcome to this board.....big time Mister!!!! There are not too many "Misters" on this board - and when they come WE devour them - or their MINDS - so to speak!!!!
Funny thing is I watched Brigid Jones No. 1 just last week!:-) Oh that Colin Firth...what magnetism...what class!! He doesn't really have to say much or do anything...he' just got class, style and magnetism!!
So, I want to know what zodiac sign are you...I got a hunch it may be aries..but I may be wrong....
So what you wanna know bout me!!!
My name on this board is Alana
I am from Dublin, Ireland
I will be 38 on Sunday
I am aquarius
I am the horse in chiense astrology - the fire horse!!
I have one son, aged 4 in real life
I was married once in the past
I never intend to get married in the future!
I am a lady of contradictions:-)
I am hot-headed, shoot straight from the hip and sometimes am too soft, hey even the marsh mallows say I am too soft! for their liking.
Soometimes I can be a cookiemonster (but it's only when I see a hard heart)...
I believe in the phrase ....Minds are for CHANGING!..I change mine every day....after I have lived another 24 hours each day I learn so much and alter the way I see things....I like to provoke...see things from a differnt point of view....I don't like to be one of the sheep....if everybody's saying something and agreeing on one viewpoint..then I guaranteee them they are wrong!!:-)
I am the devil's advocate:-)
These are the boring, silly, non-descript facts about me - to learn more - come enter my world:-)
Hello Brute......welcome.
Alana x
What a name! What a man!!! I am going to take it that you are a man with a name like that!!!!
And hey welcome to this board.....big time Mister!!!! There are not too many "Misters" on this board - and when they come WE devour them - or their MINDS - so to speak!!!!
Funny thing is I watched Brigid Jones No. 1 just last week!:-) Oh that Colin Firth...what magnetism...what class!! He doesn't really have to say much or do anything...he' just got class, style and magnetism!!
So, I want to know what zodiac sign are you...I got a hunch it may be aries..but I may be wrong....
So what you wanna know bout me!!!
My name on this board is Alana
I am from Dublin, Ireland
I will be 38 on Sunday
I am aquarius
I am the horse in chiense astrology - the fire horse!!
I have one son, aged 4 in real life
I was married once in the past
I never intend to get married in the future!
I am a lady of contradictions:-)
I am hot-headed, shoot straight from the hip and sometimes am too soft, hey even the marsh mallows say I am too soft! for their liking.
Soometimes I can be a cookiemonster (but it's only when I see a hard heart)...
I believe in the phrase ....Minds are for CHANGING!..I change mine every day....after I have lived another 24 hours each day I learn so much and alter the way I see things....I like to provoke...see things from a differnt point of view....I don't like to be one of the sheep....if everybody's saying something and agreeing on one viewpoint..then I guaranteee them they are wrong!!:-)
I am the devil's advocate:-)
These are the boring, silly, non-descript facts about me - to learn more - come enter my world:-)
Hello Brute......welcome.
Alana x
Happy Friday to all (Freebird, Alana - and yes, a very warm welcome to BruteHoe) 🙂
BruteHo - interesting is an understatement of what takes place here on this board, but I continue to love the honesty and sincerity I have found with my ladies! I, like Alana, am curious about your sun sign and if you are male? Getting a man's perspective would also be so helpful! Again, welcome!!
Freebird - how are you? I hope all is well with you and your aqua friend. After reading your last post, I've decided NOT to fasten that seatbelt girlfriend, as I'm trying to stay true to our fellow sign of Aires, in that excitement and unpredictability is what I love and live for! I continue to await breathlessly for that journey with Mr. Aqua to unfold naturally, just being brutally honest here (darn Aires in me) that patience is NOT my strong suit....but I promise to 'try'. Warm hugs of thanks my friend ((((HUGS)))))
Alana - you are definitely one incredible lady! I have never met anyone so creative, interesting and full of life such as yourself - contradictions and all 😉
Thank you for answering my question, and for being totally honest! We don't always have the answers, and all we can do is just as you have written, LEARN with each new day. I wish you luck in searching your heart for those answers. In the meantime, I sincerely hope your 'birthday' weekend is spent full of that LOVE, LUST, and ADDICTION you speak of - and moreso that Mr. Virgo DOES remember your birthday and you spend your time together doing some major MAKEY-UP 😉
I look forward to hearing more upon your return on Wed. (((HUGS)))) to you too my lady for your words of wisdom and advise on 'immersing myself' into head games with Mr. Aqua. Great advice and I will certainly do my best to make you proud!
Speaking of Mr. Aqua - we'll see what this weekend brings, if anything. I am curious to see if he shows up at either Club this weekend so I can engage into some of those 'games' you speak of. I cannot manufacture his appearance there, as him showing up is pretty much a hit N miss situation, but am prepared to 'play' should/when he shows up.
But I do have one more question - HIS birthday is Feb. 10th - to which he reminded me last Sat at the Club, when he told me he hadn't been to THAT club since his last birthday (Feb. 10th) - Another example of his 'clever' ways........assuming I don't hear from him/see him before then - what would you propose I do for his birthday, if anything at all? I have mixed feelings about, and feel if he didn't want me to do anything, he would NOT have reminded me of it last week?
Anyhow, need to sign off for now......here's a toast to all you wonderful people for listening(((TOAST))) - and another (((TOAST))) to my lady's BIRTHDAY!!!
I will certainly keep ya all posted (you lucky devils - wink wink)!!
Til we meet again.......xoxo
Natasha
BruteHo - interesting is an understatement of what takes place here on this board, but I continue to love the honesty and sincerity I have found with my ladies! I, like Alana, am curious about your sun sign and if you are male? Getting a man's perspective would also be so helpful! Again, welcome!!
Freebird - how are you? I hope all is well with you and your aqua friend. After reading your last post, I've decided NOT to fasten that seatbelt girlfriend, as I'm trying to stay true to our fellow sign of Aires, in that excitement and unpredictability is what I love and live for! I continue to await breathlessly for that journey with Mr. Aqua to unfold naturally, just being brutally honest here (darn Aires in me) that patience is NOT my strong suit....but I promise to 'try'. Warm hugs of thanks my friend ((((HUGS)))))
Alana - you are definitely one incredible lady! I have never met anyone so creative, interesting and full of life such as yourself - contradictions and all 😉
Thank you for answering my question, and for being totally honest! We don't always have the answers, and all we can do is just as you have written, LEARN with each new day. I wish you luck in searching your heart for those answers. In the meantime, I sincerely hope your 'birthday' weekend is spent full of that LOVE, LUST, and ADDICTION you speak of - and moreso that Mr. Virgo DOES remember your birthday and you spend your time together doing some major MAKEY-UP 😉
I look forward to hearing more upon your return on Wed. (((HUGS)))) to you too my lady for your words of wisdom and advise on 'immersing myself' into head games with Mr. Aqua. Great advice and I will certainly do my best to make you proud!
Speaking of Mr. Aqua - we'll see what this weekend brings, if anything. I am curious to see if he shows up at either Club this weekend so I can engage into some of those 'games' you speak of. I cannot manufacture his appearance there, as him showing up is pretty much a hit N miss situation, but am prepared to 'play' should/when he shows up.
But I do have one more question - HIS birthday is Feb. 10th - to which he reminded me last Sat at the Club, when he told me he hadn't been to THAT club since his last birthday (Feb. 10th) - Another example of his 'clever' ways........assuming I don't hear from him/see him before then - what would you propose I do for his birthday, if anything at all? I have mixed feelings about, and feel if he didn't want me to do anything, he would NOT have reminded me of it last week?
Anyhow, need to sign off for now......here's a toast to all you wonderful people for listening(((TOAST))) - and another (((TOAST))) to my lady's BIRTHDAY!!!
I will certainly keep ya all posted (you lucky devils - wink wink)!!
Til we meet again.......xoxo
Natasha
Hello again my friends.............hope everyone had a great weekend, and our lady Alana will have lots to tell us upon her return on Wed.
Just wanted to stop by and say hello to you all, and not much else to say since I have not yet heard from Mr. Aqua, nor did he show up at either Club this past weekend. Recognizing (as we all know) that I am the MOST impatient person out there, I am sooooooo sad that he has not made any attempts to contact me, especially after my text msg to him, and perhaps am just losing 'some' faith that we will get another chance to continue this journey.
I think, should I still not hear from him before his birthday (Feb. 10th), I will make one last attempt to contact him on THAT day - to merely wish him a Happy Birthday. If nothing further happens after that contact, I guess I must continue to move on. But ohhhhh how I miss talking to him, miss seeing him, and miss being with him! What a fool I must be!!!
Natasha
xoxo
Just wanted to stop by and say hello to you all, and not much else to say since I have not yet heard from Mr. Aqua, nor did he show up at either Club this past weekend. Recognizing (as we all know) that I am the MOST impatient person out there, I am sooooooo sad that he has not made any attempts to contact me, especially after my text msg to him, and perhaps am just losing 'some' faith that we will get another chance to continue this journey.
I think, should I still not hear from him before his birthday (Feb. 10th), I will make one last attempt to contact him on THAT day - to merely wish him a Happy Birthday. If nothing further happens after that contact, I guess I must continue to move on. But ohhhhh how I miss talking to him, miss seeing him, and miss being with him! What a fool I must be!!!
Natasha
xoxo
Hello to all, thanks for the Alana-lowdown. I must divulge I am a woman. Sorry not sure if theres enough room in here for more estrogen? I'm the virgo dis-liker. I eat virgos for breakfast and spit them up. I've had more than my hey day with them and they all seem to be the same. Little cowards at heart. Might add, The virgo-male species that is. Don't have too much time but stopped in real quick to say hello. The Brute Hoe
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Hey welcome BruteHoe...welcome to this crazy board of crazie and loonies:-) and their lives and loves etc. etc. As robbie robertson sings...you like us now but you will learn to love us later:-)!!!
Sorry for presuming that you were a guy...just with a name like Brute..the male species sprung to mind!!! Maybe you have already stated it elsewhere, but sign are you??
And you are dead right about the virgos - well MY EX Mister Virgo...."little cowards at heart" - I am all virgo-ed out!!
And now to rrad52 or Natash......so Mr. Aquarius didn't show up on Saturday...I suppose you were a somewhat disappointed but I am sure you didn't let it spoil your nite at the club..(hey where exactly is this club—)
And no you are not being unduly impatient....I think all of us girls are in matters of the heart or matters of anything for that matter!!!...hey I want something done or want somebody...I want them like yesterday!!!....everyone of us only has a certain no. of days left!!! And then the guru will say - Yes, but all good things come to those that wait....I want to smack the guru's face and say...hey, I am GOOD now and I want things to be my way NOW...but in real life we gotta wait - a little while anyway:-)
So no word yet from Mr. Aquarius and it's his birthday in 5 days....I think you are playing it exactly spot on....don't go texting before, he will think you are chasing him for birthday get-together or whatever (even though you'd love nothing better!!) Day of his birthday, text him....I'd text something funny like...HEY, Happy Birthday Big Boy and I mean Big Boy!!!:-) Aquarians like to be flirted with and naughty words to be used..they don't like the vulgar...just naughty - :-) That's all I can really say for the moment...we all await his birthday and his reaction with bated breath!!!! (Hey and make sure you add your name..that way he can't maky-up that your name was blocked from the text like last time!!!)
"What a fool I must be!!!" you say......show me someone who can't call themselves a fool for love or when in love and I'll show you a plastic robot!!! We don't choose...we just fall....enjoy the fall for now:-)
Alana x
Sorry for presuming that you were a guy...just with a name like Brute..the male species sprung to mind!!! Maybe you have already stated it elsewhere, but sign are you??
And you are dead right about the virgos - well MY EX Mister Virgo...."little cowards at heart" - I am all virgo-ed out!!
And now to rrad52 or Natash......so Mr. Aquarius didn't show up on Saturday...I suppose you were a somewhat disappointed but I am sure you didn't let it spoil your nite at the club..(hey where exactly is this club—)
And no you are not being unduly impatient....I think all of us girls are in matters of the heart or matters of anything for that matter!!!...hey I want something done or want somebody...I want them like yesterday!!!....everyone of us only has a certain no. of days left!!! And then the guru will say - Yes, but all good things come to those that wait....I want to smack the guru's face and say...hey, I am GOOD now and I want things to be my way NOW...but in real life we gotta wait - a little while anyway:-)
So no word yet from Mr. Aquarius and it's his birthday in 5 days....I think you are playing it exactly spot on....don't go texting before, he will think you are chasing him for birthday get-together or whatever (even though you'd love nothing better!!) Day of his birthday, text him....I'd text something funny like...HEY, Happy Birthday Big Boy and I mean Big Boy!!!:-) Aquarians like to be flirted with and naughty words to be used..they don't like the vulgar...just naughty - :-) That's all I can really say for the moment...we all await his birthday and his reaction with bated breath!!!! (Hey and make sure you add your name..that way he can't maky-up that your name was blocked from the text like last time!!!)
"What a fool I must be!!!" you say......show me someone who can't call themselves a fool for love or when in love and I'll show you a plastic robot!!! We don't choose...we just fall....enjoy the fall for now:-)
Alana x
Hey Alana - thank you for taking the time to post. So nice to have you back & hope you had a chance to read my post under different title to Freebird. Hope you are feeling better today, and can only assume by your comments relative to Mr. Virgo, that its still a done deal?? Are you truly done with Mr. Virgo my lady? Are you absolutely sure this is it??
As for Mr. Aqua - you are right that his not showing up at the club last Sat was a disappointment, but it did NOT stop me from having a good time.....are you kidding me my lady? 🙂
I know in my heart our moment will come...and this waiting is hard, but oh how true that all good things are worth waiting for - and my lady - he is sooooooooo worth it 😉
hmmmm hmmmmm - hard to focus on work right now.
Ok - where was I?
The Club I speak of in my posts (there's two in particular) that I frequent. One on Friday nites, the other on Saturday nites. Mr. Aqua and I met at the Club we frequent on Fri nites. Both these Clubs are at a distance for Mr. Aqua - we are both in TO, Canada, yet we live about a 30-45 minute drive from each other. The Fri nite Club is kinda half-way point for us both. The Sat nite club is closer to my neck of the woods and puts him out of his way - which is why I was so surprised to see him show up there 2 weeks ago, considering he admitted he hadn't been there since his birthday last year (and proceeded to remind me - Feb. 10th). Ohh how clever he is indeed, and why I suspect he does expect to hear from me on his birthday.
Have to admit Alana - I smiled when I read the part of your post that reminded me to sign my name to the text msg this time - thought the exact same thing - so he has NO excuses this round - I guess great minds do think alike!! I will definitely be as flirty and creative as I can be - as I agree he LOVES that stuff (but then again, so does Ms. Aires).
Somewhere in one of my earlier posts (I think, or perhaps I think I asked the question) about the detachment of Aquarians and how does one decipher if that detachment is because they are sorting thru their feelings (ie. the more detached they are the more taken they are), or whether they are 'completly' detaching from someone?
Being the Aires that I am - and that darn straight forwardness in me - the other party always knows when its over for ME, because I tell them straight out. But how does one determine that with an Aquarian if their detachment can also be construed as a means to sorting out their feelings, needing space, yet they do not initiate contact, or end the relationship? Can you possibly help shed some light here Alana? Or my pal Freebird can also interject here with her experience with her aqua friend.
As always.....send you both warm hugs and good wishes!
Natasha
xoxo
As for Mr. Aqua - you are right that his not showing up at the club last Sat was a disappointment, but it did NOT stop me from having a good time.....are you kidding me my lady? 🙂
I know in my heart our moment will come...and this waiting is hard, but oh how true that all good things are worth waiting for - and my lady - he is sooooooooo worth it 😉
hmmmm hmmmmm - hard to focus on work right now.
Ok - where was I?
The Club I speak of in my posts (there's two in particular) that I frequent. One on Friday nites, the other on Saturday nites. Mr. Aqua and I met at the Club we frequent on Fri nites. Both these Clubs are at a distance for Mr. Aqua - we are both in TO, Canada, yet we live about a 30-45 minute drive from each other. The Fri nite Club is kinda half-way point for us both. The Sat nite club is closer to my neck of the woods and puts him out of his way - which is why I was so surprised to see him show up there 2 weeks ago, considering he admitted he hadn't been there since his birthday last year (and proceeded to remind me - Feb. 10th). Ohh how clever he is indeed, and why I suspect he does expect to hear from me on his birthday.
Have to admit Alana - I smiled when I read the part of your post that reminded me to sign my name to the text msg this time - thought the exact same thing - so he has NO excuses this round - I guess great minds do think alike!! I will definitely be as flirty and creative as I can be - as I agree he LOVES that stuff (but then again, so does Ms. Aires).
Somewhere in one of my earlier posts (I think, or perhaps I think I asked the question) about the detachment of Aquarians and how does one decipher if that detachment is because they are sorting thru their feelings (ie. the more detached they are the more taken they are), or whether they are 'completly' detaching from someone?
Being the Aires that I am - and that darn straight forwardness in me - the other party always knows when its over for ME, because I tell them straight out. But how does one determine that with an Aquarian if their detachment can also be construed as a means to sorting out their feelings, needing space, yet they do not initiate contact, or end the relationship? Can you possibly help shed some light here Alana? Or my pal Freebird can also interject here with her experience with her aqua friend.
As always.....send you both warm hugs and good wishes!
Natasha
xoxo
Well helloooooo dear Natasha!
Hope this note finds you all warm and cozy up in the brrrrr cold weather. Canada, yes I do remember now, thanks for reminding this little pea brain girl. You ask me to interject about my experiences with my aqua pal...yikes...today may not be a good day and then again, it could be a great day! Right now I am feeling like telling you that he sucks and I hope I never see him again for the rest of my life! "Whoa there Freebird, simmer down now.." you are are probably saying...where in the heck did that come from?
He has been playing mind games with me and I must admit that I too am at partial fault since there are two of us. I stayed in the game when I should have gotten out long ago...now I am wondering where my sensible brain has gone...where did I leave it? I am going to express some thoughts here BUT not all Aquarians are the same...so please keep this in mind when you read my words coming from a feathered down bird. I caught him in so many lies and ouch...lies do not do well with us Aries. I knew things about him awhile ago and it is my fault that I did not trust my instincts and I am kicking myself for that! He is insensitive, very selfish and oh so many things and I don't really want to get into bashing him as he did have some good qualities which I have totally forgotten what they are at the moment. Lessons I suppose, lessons. I am more mad at myself than anything else.
Thanks for your warm hugs and good wishes...they are much appreciated.
Freebird on the down low......for awhile anyway...
Hope this note finds you all warm and cozy up in the brrrrr cold weather. Canada, yes I do remember now, thanks for reminding this little pea brain girl. You ask me to interject about my experiences with my aqua pal...yikes...today may not be a good day and then again, it could be a great day! Right now I am feeling like telling you that he sucks and I hope I never see him again for the rest of my life! "Whoa there Freebird, simmer down now.." you are are probably saying...where in the heck did that come from?
He has been playing mind games with me and I must admit that I too am at partial fault since there are two of us. I stayed in the game when I should have gotten out long ago...now I am wondering where my sensible brain has gone...where did I leave it? I am going to express some thoughts here BUT not all Aquarians are the same...so please keep this in mind when you read my words coming from a feathered down bird. I caught him in so many lies and ouch...lies do not do well with us Aries. I knew things about him awhile ago and it is my fault that I did not trust my instincts and I am kicking myself for that! He is insensitive, very selfish and oh so many things and I don't really want to get into bashing him as he did have some good qualities which I have totally forgotten what they are at the moment. Lessons I suppose, lessons. I am more mad at myself than anything else.
Thanks for your warm hugs and good wishes...they are much appreciated.
Freebird on the down low......for awhile anyway...
Hi Natash in cooool Canada......and where those hot clubs are!!!
Our feathered friend is a bit down today...her cant even fly an inch off the ground but come tomoro, it will be a different story....she will again soar the heights!!! she's just a natural bouncer!!!, like you and me, she will always bounce back:-)!!
Anyway, to get back to you and Mr. Aquar....detachment aura-mode - whatever you want to call it!!! If you have noticed it, then that is a good sign....(as the more we like a person, often the more removed, detached and impersonal we try to appear to that person especially) - I for one, needs lots of quiet time for myself - even when I am in full frontal-flirt attack on a guy in a club, say, and he thinks he has me!! just at that intense crucial moment...I might then go to the toilet - it's really just to re-group, centre myself, find myself...I will return to guy and even though I fancy him like mad, I suddenly don't want to talk or do anything....he thinks I have lost interest when it couldn't be furthest from the truth....I am just observing and quieting down myself after "nearly losing myself in the other person" - (If I lose myself, then I lose control, then I become vulnerable, then you may hurt me and I will never give you the satisfaction of knowing that you have the power to hurt me!!) if that makes sense...........and even though weeks may go by and I don't make contact with a certain person, it certainly doens't mean to say that I am not interested or am not thinking of that person...I am thinking of them ALOT!! They will never know this or get to know it....that's how I operate - and after I will ring them or call them and then am sometimes baffled when they say to me - but you never rang or whatever!! - they are hurt that I didn't call or think of them in the in-between...I say but I was...I just wasn't with you physcially....it's a hard concept for those who love physical contact all the time like an aries to understand - but if you can grasp even an angle of it, you will be on the road to understanding Mr. Aquar.
So Missy, I say to you....keep your fingers and legs crossed:-) - the world is your oyster - and Mr. Aquar. is still certainly on the menu........
As for me and Mr. Virgo - I plead the fifth amendment for today anyway:-)
Bye for now and have a great weekend N.
Alana x
Our feathered friend is a bit down today...her cant even fly an inch off the ground but come tomoro, it will be a different story....she will again soar the heights!!! she's just a natural bouncer!!!, like you and me, she will always bounce back:-)!!
Anyway, to get back to you and Mr. Aquar....detachment aura-mode - whatever you want to call it!!! If you have noticed it, then that is a good sign....(as the more we like a person, often the more removed, detached and impersonal we try to appear to that person especially) - I for one, needs lots of quiet time for myself - even when I am in full frontal-flirt attack on a guy in a club, say, and he thinks he has me!! just at that intense crucial moment...I might then go to the toilet - it's really just to re-group, centre myself, find myself...I will return to guy and even though I fancy him like mad, I suddenly don't want to talk or do anything....he thinks I have lost interest when it couldn't be furthest from the truth....I am just observing and quieting down myself after "nearly losing myself in the other person" - (If I lose myself, then I lose control, then I become vulnerable, then you may hurt me and I will never give you the satisfaction of knowing that you have the power to hurt me!!) if that makes sense...........and even though weeks may go by and I don't make contact with a certain person, it certainly doens't mean to say that I am not interested or am not thinking of that person...I am thinking of them ALOT!! They will never know this or get to know it....that's how I operate - and after I will ring them or call them and then am sometimes baffled when they say to me - but you never rang or whatever!! - they are hurt that I didn't call or think of them in the in-between...I say but I was...I just wasn't with you physcially....it's a hard concept for those who love physical contact all the time like an aries to understand - but if you can grasp even an angle of it, you will be on the road to understanding Mr. Aquar.
So Missy, I say to you....keep your fingers and legs crossed:-) - the world is your oyster - and Mr. Aquar. is still certainly on the menu........
As for me and Mr. Virgo - I plead the fifth amendment for today anyway:-)
Bye for now and have a great weekend N.
Alana x
Hello my ladies Alana & Freebird - hope you both had a great weekend! I
just had a few minutes, but wanted to say hello & give you a quick update
on Mr. Aqua - quick because he did NOT show up at the Club this past weekend.
Is Ms. Natasha disappointed? Ohhhhhh ya!!! More than I can express here.
Perhaps it is a matter of 'out of sight - out of mind' for Mr. Aqua??
I did however get some info on him from one of this friends Fri nite. His
friend mentioned that Mr. Aqua got laid off his job last Friday. I was shocked!
I did not solicit any info on Mr. Aqua (I never do), but his friend
volunteered (as if I already knew) - "so did you hear that Mr. Aqua
got laid off". I said no, when? He replied last Friday. It
totally contradicts what Mr. Aqua told me the last time I saw him
at the Club (the same day I text msg'd him) - that nite he said
he had alot on his plate, work was busy, yada yada yada - and now
I hear he got laid off? Work has been slow for him, etc.
What's REALLY going on??
As I posted before, tomorrow (Feb 10th) is his birthday and I have
decided to make ONE MORE attempt to contact him. I just haven't
decided if I will text msg him (and sign it this time) or actually
place a live call into him. But will decide tomorrow. Either way,
I will keep it light, airy, and its just a means to wish him a
happy birthday! I don't suspect HE will volunteer any information
(that darn pride thing and all), but all "I" can do is send him a
message that I am still his 'friend', still care, and am still thinking
of him. But my ladies, if I get no response or if I don't hear
from him AFTER this attempt - than I have no choice but to move forward
and just "Let Go and Let God"! What more can a girl do??
Would welcome to hear about your weekends and hope Freebird is flying
high again and NOT grounded anymore - and my lady Alana has found
some answers within her heart regarding Mr. Virgo!
Until we meet again........
Natasha
xoxo
just had a few minutes, but wanted to say hello & give you a quick update
on Mr. Aqua - quick because he did NOT show up at the Club this past weekend.
Is Ms. Natasha disappointed? Ohhhhhh ya!!! More than I can express here.
Perhaps it is a matter of 'out of sight - out of mind' for Mr. Aqua??
I did however get some info on him from one of this friends Fri nite. His
friend mentioned that Mr. Aqua got laid off his job last Friday. I was shocked!
I did not solicit any info on Mr. Aqua (I never do), but his friend
volunteered (as if I already knew) - "so did you hear that Mr. Aqua
got laid off". I said no, when? He replied last Friday. It
totally contradicts what Mr. Aqua told me the last time I saw him
at the Club (the same day I text msg'd him) - that nite he said
he had alot on his plate, work was busy, yada yada yada - and now
I hear he got laid off? Work has been slow for him, etc.
What's REALLY going on??
As I posted before, tomorrow (Feb 10th) is his birthday and I have
decided to make ONE MORE attempt to contact him. I just haven't
decided if I will text msg him (and sign it this time) or actually
place a live call into him. But will decide tomorrow. Either way,
I will keep it light, airy, and its just a means to wish him a
happy birthday! I don't suspect HE will volunteer any information
(that darn pride thing and all), but all "I" can do is send him a
message that I am still his 'friend', still care, and am still thinking
of him. But my ladies, if I get no response or if I don't hear
from him AFTER this attempt - than I have no choice but to move forward
and just "Let Go and Let God"! What more can a girl do??
Would welcome to hear about your weekends and hope Freebird is flying
high again and NOT grounded anymore - and my lady Alana has found
some answers within her heart regarding Mr. Virgo!
Until we meet again........
Natasha
xoxo
Hello back atcha Natasha in Canada! Freebird flying high and above the clouds! I am free once again and it FEELS sooooooo good! Thanks for caring you thoughtful Ram you. 🙂
I am so sorry that you have not connected with your Aqua pal. I so remember those days and the feelings that went along with the longing of connecting. What can you do but as you say, "let go and let God." Yep Natasha my friend, you may have a desire to connect with him but hey, may not be the divine plan....or at least not at this moment in time...but then again...who knows? An Aries is always open to whatever so keep staying open and watch the 'miracles' appear when you least expect them to.
My aqua guy pal was very secretive and did lie quite a bit...they say people lie because they don't want their true self to be found out. This is a way to "cover up" what one does not want another to see. He was afraid of being "exposed". And THEN there was some other hokey pokey stuff that did not fly well with this bird who enjoys being in Paradise. So, adios my sir aqua...I'm off on another adventure to SEE what surprises await me. 😉
Funny thing happened to me today..I have another male Aqua buddy who is a bit older than myself and much wiser than my other aqua pal....what a difference! The time of their journey wises them up so. Anywho....we have been pals for awhile...today he tells me that he thinks we are soulmates...connected somehow...he feels such a strong connection. WHOA BUDDY simmer down now....too much too fast for me. Pulling the wing span in and heading south for a time. Friends for now is super dooper for me...when one door closes, another will and always does open...gosh, I feel like I belong on that old show, LET'S MAKE A DEAL where all the doors kept opening and closing.
Next———? Onward and upward I say!
Nat, please keep us posted on your adventures and I do hope that some connection will be made..he does NOT know what he is missing by not getting in touch with you....hey, maybe he is imbarrased due to losing his job and once he is back in the flow of things...connection time? I just wish and hope for the BEST for you my lovely Candian Aries Fire Girl...🙂
High Hopes to YOU!
Freebird....it was great hearing from you xoxoxo
I am so sorry that you have not connected with your Aqua pal. I so remember those days and the feelings that went along with the longing of connecting. What can you do but as you say, "let go and let God." Yep Natasha my friend, you may have a desire to connect with him but hey, may not be the divine plan....or at least not at this moment in time...but then again...who knows? An Aries is always open to whatever so keep staying open and watch the 'miracles' appear when you least expect them to.
My aqua guy pal was very secretive and did lie quite a bit...they say people lie because they don't want their true self to be found out. This is a way to "cover up" what one does not want another to see. He was afraid of being "exposed". And THEN there was some other hokey pokey stuff that did not fly well with this bird who enjoys being in Paradise. So, adios my sir aqua...I'm off on another adventure to SEE what surprises await me. 😉
Funny thing happened to me today..I have another male Aqua buddy who is a bit older than myself and much wiser than my other aqua pal....what a difference! The time of their journey wises them up so. Anywho....we have been pals for awhile...today he tells me that he thinks we are soulmates...connected somehow...he feels such a strong connection. WHOA BUDDY simmer down now....too much too fast for me. Pulling the wing span in and heading south for a time. Friends for now is super dooper for me...when one door closes, another will and always does open...gosh, I feel like I belong on that old show, LET'S MAKE A DEAL where all the doors kept opening and closing.
Next———? Onward and upward I say!
Nat, please keep us posted on your adventures and I do hope that some connection will be made..he does NOT know what he is missing by not getting in touch with you....hey, maybe he is imbarrased due to losing his job and once he is back in the flow of things...connection time? I just wish and hope for the BEST for you my lovely Candian Aries Fire Girl...🙂
High Hopes to YOU!
Freebird....it was great hearing from you xoxoxo
sheesh...I mispelled embarrased...yikes! don't like when I do that...must be the silly perfectionsism in me...what the heck...I will jsut spill iny ole way i want two! 🙂
Natasha~ my aqua pal made contact with me today...says our friendship is very important to him and that I mean a lot to him. Sometimes I really wonder and I told him so. I am moving on with my life..gonna keep staying busy and if I have time to share with him I will but for now..I gotta spread these huge awesome wings and see what is out there in this giant playground called Earth!
Today was your Aqua pals b~day....any details to share with your new buddies? We are awaiting to hear of your news..and hoping it is all good. Whatever it is, it will be good cuz it will have been meant to happen. Sittin by my screen waiting to hear of your latest developments and I am sure Alana is tooooooooo!
Freebird xoxox 😉
Natasha~ my aqua pal made contact with me today...says our friendship is very important to him and that I mean a lot to him. Sometimes I really wonder and I told him so. I am moving on with my life..gonna keep staying busy and if I have time to share with him I will but for now..I gotta spread these huge awesome wings and see what is out there in this giant playground called Earth!
Today was your Aqua pals b~day....any details to share with your new buddies? We are awaiting to hear of your news..and hoping it is all good. Whatever it is, it will be good cuz it will have been meant to happen. Sittin by my screen waiting to hear of your latest developments and I am sure Alana is tooooooooo!
Freebird xoxox 😉
Hello my ladies - been a long day but oh so nice to come home to a friendly
message such as yours Freebird! Thank you!! I'm so glad to hear that you are
flying high again my friend - us Rams just don't do well on the ground for too long.
I am also glad to hear your aqua pal called you. But it just continues to baffle me
as to WHY do these guys only realize what they have when on the verge of losing it?
Perhaps our lady Alana can shed some further light on this when she can. Fly high
Freebird - let your wings take you as high as you dare to dream!
My lady Alana - I hope all is well with you. What's happening with Mr. Virgo? Has
my lady made any further decisions?? Update please!!!!
Well, as for my Mr. Aqua - yes Freebird, today was his birthday and I thought about
him ALL day long and finally decided I would not text msg him, but this time I had a
beed to call him LIVE and accept whatever the universe delivered as an outcome. Well,
he answered on the 2nd ring, and sounded so excited to hear from me. I was flirty, friendly,
light and airy as only an Aires can be. You'd be proud Freebird!
But OMG ladies, hearing the excitement in his voice when he knew it was me, and he couldn't
believe I remembered his birthday (of course I would - daaaaa!) and the 'surprising' part was
he instantly told me about his work situation, having recently been laid off, trying to stay
positive, making his rounds and getting some good leads. I, (in typical Aires & Natasha fasion)
was positive, supportive, friendly and flirty - told him I "know" things will work out for him,
and that something good WILL come out of this - trust me. He says, 'you continually amaze me Nat,
you are forever positive and you always know the right thing to say'. I said, you gotta be positive
honey, it takes WAY too much energy to be negative - so do something more concrete with all that
energy and worse case scenario - I think the Club we frequent is looking for some table dancers -
and with that body of yours - you could make a fortune! I haven't heard him laugh in sooooooooooo long.
He flirts back and asked if I would pay for a table dance - to which I replied, but of course, all in the
name of friendship of course. Anyway, I cannot begin to explain how good it felt to talk to him like that
again, what his voice - that gentle, warm, inviting voice does to me. Freebird help me - I think this Ram
is heading for the ground and I need help to keep my wings afloat!!
At the risk of sounding WAY TOO CORNY - there is heaven on earth - and its called "Mr. Aqua"!!
If only I could tell him all that sits in my heart - I can only hope someday! I asked him what
his plans were for his b.day - and it being a weekday, said a simple dinner with his family and his
special niece. So, my goodbye was "well honey, I just wanted to call and wish you a very happy
birthday, so enjoy your dinner with family, and when its time to blow out the candles, make sure
you close your eyes and make that wish - cause I promise you it WILL come true if you believe in it!
He says Nat, only you can actually make me believe that. I said, no honey - YOU gotta believe it!
We'll talk again soon............that's it!!
How did I do my ladies? There was no talk about HIM calling me, or about us getting together, but
overall I was extremely pleased with the conversation and I thank the universe for giving me the
strength, as I am hanging on by a thread. I miss him too much to put into words, and don't want to
fill up this page with TEARS (yes, they are dripping as I'm writing this). Patience is a virtue right?
All good things come to those who wait, or all good things are worth waiting for'......but why does it
have to hurt in the process—
I'm signing off for now my ladies - thank you for
message such as yours Freebird! Thank you!! I'm so glad to hear that you are
flying high again my friend - us Rams just don't do well on the ground for too long.
I am also glad to hear your aqua pal called you. But it just continues to baffle me
as to WHY do these guys only realize what they have when on the verge of losing it?
Perhaps our lady Alana can shed some further light on this when she can. Fly high
Freebird - let your wings take you as high as you dare to dream!
My lady Alana - I hope all is well with you. What's happening with Mr. Virgo? Has
my lady made any further decisions?? Update please!!!!
Well, as for my Mr. Aqua - yes Freebird, today was his birthday and I thought about
him ALL day long and finally decided I would not text msg him, but this time I had a
beed to call him LIVE and accept whatever the universe delivered as an outcome. Well,
he answered on the 2nd ring, and sounded so excited to hear from me. I was flirty, friendly,
light and airy as only an Aires can be. You'd be proud Freebird!
But OMG ladies, hearing the excitement in his voice when he knew it was me, and he couldn't
believe I remembered his birthday (of course I would - daaaaa!) and the 'surprising' part was
he instantly told me about his work situation, having recently been laid off, trying to stay
positive, making his rounds and getting some good leads. I, (in typical Aires & Natasha fasion)
was positive, supportive, friendly and flirty - told him I "know" things will work out for him,
and that something good WILL come out of this - trust me. He says, 'you continually amaze me Nat,
you are forever positive and you always know the right thing to say'. I said, you gotta be positive
honey, it takes WAY too much energy to be negative - so do something more concrete with all that
energy and worse case scenario - I think the Club we frequent is looking for some table dancers -
and with that body of yours - you could make a fortune! I haven't heard him laugh in sooooooooooo long.
He flirts back and asked if I would pay for a table dance - to which I replied, but of course, all in the
name of friendship of course. Anyway, I cannot begin to explain how good it felt to talk to him like that
again, what his voice - that gentle, warm, inviting voice does to me. Freebird help me - I think this Ram
is heading for the ground and I need help to keep my wings afloat!!
At the risk of sounding WAY TOO CORNY - there is heaven on earth - and its called "Mr. Aqua"!!
If only I could tell him all that sits in my heart - I can only hope someday! I asked him what
his plans were for his b.day - and it being a weekday, said a simple dinner with his family and his
special niece. So, my goodbye was "well honey, I just wanted to call and wish you a very happy
birthday, so enjoy your dinner with family, and when its time to blow out the candles, make sure
you close your eyes and make that wish - cause I promise you it WILL come true if you believe in it!
He says Nat, only you can actually make me believe that. I said, no honey - YOU gotta believe it!
We'll talk again soon............that's it!!
How did I do my ladies? There was no talk about HIM calling me, or about us getting together, but
overall I was extremely pleased with the conversation and I thank the universe for giving me the
strength, as I am hanging on by a thread. I miss him too much to put into words, and don't want to
fill up this page with TEARS (yes, they are dripping as I'm writing this). Patience is a virtue right?
All good things come to those who wait, or all good things are worth waiting for'......but why does it
have to hurt in the process—
I'm signing off for now my ladies - thank you for
Oh what strength you have you mighty Aries woman! I think you are being the "perfect" Natasha and there is no need to change..keep up your high spirits and positive attitude..those are your gifts (along with many others) to share and by your note...sounds as if Mr. Aquar. sure is appreciative of YOU! All we really have are moments and it is up to us to decide what to do and how to be in those moments so that we have no regrets when that times come for us to be sittin around in rockin chairs chewin on grass!!!!! Each moment is our gift to create our life by our choices...this is all we can do. Hopefully, those choices that we make come from a loving place. Doesn't always happen cause ....ummmm why? who knows. But we can make it happen! Keep dreaming big Natasha, that is why there are stars in the sky..so that you have something to reach for....🙂
Saw my aqua pal at the gym yesterday...he is so into mind games and I am not sure he is aware of it...oh well, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em! He is a good pal and that is all he will be to me so I am enjoying the ride and have decided to make light of everything...no problem.
I so enjoyed how to spoke to your aqua guy on the phone..way to go and I am sure that Alana will agree with me that you are on the right track! I hope she appears to today...come out where ever you are our Alana girl!!!!!
I gotta scoot out to the gym and mess around with all my buddies and THEN.....this is a BIG day for me as I am getting my hair highlighted and cut! I know, sounds very normal to most but I have not ever done this...I color my hair with a reddish brown and now I want to be SPARKED up! Change is good I say!
Hugs, kisses and many mystery moments to you Nat and Alana!!!!!!
Chat soon my pals,
Freebird
Saw my aqua pal at the gym yesterday...he is so into mind games and I am not sure he is aware of it...oh well, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em! He is a good pal and that is all he will be to me so I am enjoying the ride and have decided to make light of everything...no problem.
I so enjoyed how to spoke to your aqua guy on the phone..way to go and I am sure that Alana will agree with me that you are on the right track! I hope she appears to today...come out where ever you are our Alana girl!!!!!
I gotta scoot out to the gym and mess around with all my buddies and THEN.....this is a BIG day for me as I am getting my hair highlighted and cut! I know, sounds very normal to most but I have not ever done this...I color my hair with a reddish brown and now I want to be SPARKED up! Change is good I say!
Hugs, kisses and many mystery moments to you Nat and Alana!!!!!!
Chat soon my pals,
Freebird
Hello there to you my 2 pals Freebird and Natash - her is back:-) I actually thought about you yesterday N. and wondered what you would do!!! And hey, I know it must have taken a certain just "that take a deep breath and just do courage moment" for you to ring Mr. Aquar:-) but hey aren't you glad you did....no doubt you made his day!! You remembered:-)!!! How could anyone forget an aquarians' birthday!!! or even them:-) (Well everyone that is except Virgos!!!!! And I loved the airy fairy banter that ensued between both of you...naughty but nice...espc. the lap-dance stuff....COR!!!I'd pay money myself to see your Mr. Aquar strut his stuff:-)!!! Chicowoa!!!:-)
I am not too surprised that he didnt mention to you the way his job had gone for him at the club....when in the middle of a crisis..an aquarian will pretend to others that all is well, swimmingly so...it's only after it's over that they can admit to others what happened...it's nothing to do with a pride thing really...more to do with "I may be burdening my problems on you when I know there are more happier and pressing things I want to talk with you with and you may think I am looking for your sympathy and I'm not coz I can handle everything on my own!!(even if I can't)!!"....but I am glad that he mentioend it to you on the phone first thing after....
You ask about aquairns only realizing they will lose things when they are on the verge of losing them....we tend to think people will wait for us forever and a day!! and be there at our beck and call whenever we choose...time-frames dont mean not much to an aquarian...but if you want to shock an aquairn into "waking up", you say to them that's it's finished and you are thinking of moving on and you will never see them again and it's only then will we react and boy will we react....
But no need for this dramatic scenario with your mr. aquar. yet - just keep your trump card up your sleeve...for the moment you are in after-glow from your verbal communication with Mr. Flirt!!!:-) So is he you can bet.....I like your phrase Honey......it's sweet but not to commital or pressurizing.....and I espec. like your comment on the "Wish" - you clever girl you!!!!:-)
So clap yourself on the back for a job well done:-)
OK so set date has been made for you to see each other - now if I were you, I'd just sit back for a little while and wait....you've done your stuff, gone as far as you can go without becoming a stalker:-)!!!!!....put on your patience hat for a little while....say a little prayer and dream on....hey is that a boat I see with dreamboy on it in the distance....me thinketh so:-)
Have to go now my pal........will tell you about Mr. Virgo tomoro is I get a chance....and boy....what a tale!!!
I am not too surprised that he didnt mention to you the way his job had gone for him at the club....when in the middle of a crisis..an aquarian will pretend to others that all is well, swimmingly so...it's only after it's over that they can admit to others what happened...it's nothing to do with a pride thing really...more to do with "I may be burdening my problems on you when I know there are more happier and pressing things I want to talk with you with and you may think I am looking for your sympathy and I'm not coz I can handle everything on my own!!(even if I can't)!!"....but I am glad that he mentioend it to you on the phone first thing after....
You ask about aquairns only realizing they will lose things when they are on the verge of losing them....we tend to think people will wait for us forever and a day!! and be there at our beck and call whenever we choose...time-frames dont mean not much to an aquarian...but if you want to shock an aquairn into "waking up", you say to them that's it's finished and you are thinking of moving on and you will never see them again and it's only then will we react and boy will we react....
But no need for this dramatic scenario with your mr. aquar. yet - just keep your trump card up your sleeve...for the moment you are in after-glow from your verbal communication with Mr. Flirt!!!:-) So is he you can bet.....I like your phrase Honey......it's sweet but not to commital or pressurizing.....and I espec. like your comment on the "Wish" - you clever girl you!!!!:-)
So clap yourself on the back for a job well done:-)
OK so set date has been made for you to see each other - now if I were you, I'd just sit back for a little while and wait....you've done your stuff, gone as far as you can go without becoming a stalker:-)!!!!!....put on your patience hat for a little while....say a little prayer and dream on....hey is that a boat I see with dreamboy on it in the distance....me thinketh so:-)
Have to go now my pal........will tell you about Mr. Virgo tomoro is I get a chance....and boy....what a tale!!!
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hey by far i've found out and witnessed that this guy is truely my soulmate..
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I think all of you Aquas are wayyyyy toooooooo intellectual and conservative.........
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