SagGirl1124
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Am I overreacting or what should I do or be honest ?
Posted by ufoHe's been showing he's so into me...or he's a very good actor
birthday message yes, and valentine message yes only if he's into it no if you're not sure
men w/ children have a tendency to make time away w/ their kid about them, they're important first, he should be able to have his own life, don't let it get to you
So yes, sent him the happy birthday and happy Valentine's day message, he replied “miss you” immediately, said he's been too busy on entertaining his son the whole time.
Sorry for my English, you mean i should let him have his own time with his boy and dont be too bothered by it, am i getting it right ?
So, should I be honest to him before his next trip on Monday about I'm not comfortable he's not contacting at all in days during trip? Or how should I let him know？
Thanks x
Posted by JadeAlexanderYes, you guys are right.. I should let him focus on the little boy first...
Right now he’s focused on his son. And that’s good, his son needs him. Let him be present and reevaluate how he engages you when he returns.
but he's on another holiday on Monday, should I be honest to him before his next trip that I'm not comfortable he's not contacting at all in days during trip? And how should bring that up without feeling clingy？just i don't like he's zero contact during this boys trip, hopefully the next one won't be again...
He's planning a holiday again?
And yes you're overreacting.
I would Let him enjoy his holidays. Contact him if you miss him but I wouldn’t say that you are not happy about him no contacting you.
Yes, I think you are overreacting.
Everything seems perfect and you are very new in the relationship. I wouldn’t put any pressure on it.
Yes, I think you are overreacting.
Everything seems perfect and you are very new in the relationship. I wouldn’t put any pressure on it.
Posted by AerialViewThese 2 trips he planned sometimes ago before he ever met me, so yes... still one more trip to go on monday. He's coming back in town from this one tomorrow late evening 🙂
He's planning a holiday again?
Posted by pisceswoman123True, Thanks guys, yes i know I'm overreacting and just needing you guys tell me this and somehow it would make me feel better... stupid me hahaaa
I would Let him enjoy his holidays. Contact him if you miss him but I wouldn’t say that you are not happy about him no contacting you.
Yes, I think you are overreacting.
Everything seems perfect and you are very new in the relationship. I wouldn’t put any pressure on it.
I'm just so much wanted to message him and hoping him messages me everyday like when he's not on trip.. but yes, i should let him enjoy the holiday, only msged him on his birthday and vday.. 2 more days to go
Don't know if this is Sagittarius thing or just me, once in a relationship, fall in head to toe so quick and already super loyal to that one person...
And this relationship, he seems like a perfect man i have ever looking for, like we've known each other for ages when our first date and everything just too perfect since then, it kind of scares me... trying to tell myself not to have any expectation tho, or I know I will somehow msss things up
Posted by tizianiRight, I'm trying so hard to remind myself.. when things been too perfect, it scares me and makes me always have the thought to make sure things not going sideways...
Don't screw things up.
Trying to learn not to having any expectation, then usually would have surprises... not easy tho 🤣🤣
Fuck the kid and fuck the aqua man.
He’s using you because he feels like shit that his wife dumped his ass so he’s using you to show his wife that he can get a woman whenever he wants and you just proved that he can get himself a woman to get into a committed relationship with him in a couple of months which will make his wife jealous and see that he has value so in order to restore her losses she will need to steal him off you again.
This is what straight people do, it’s a primitive monkey reward system, don’t buy into it, he’s even using his kid to manipulate you to make you feel important, if he even gave a fuck about his kid he wouldn’t have introduced him to a strange woman so soon, he’s either very manipulative or very scared of being alone and will do anything to fix his situation.
He’s using you because he feels like shit that his wife dumped his ass so he’s using you to show his wife that he can get a woman whenever he wants and you just proved that he can get himself a woman to get into a committed relationship with him in a couple of months which will make his wife jealous and see that he has value so in order to restore her losses she will need to steal him off you again.
This is what straight people do, it’s a primitive monkey reward system, don’t buy into it, he’s even using his kid to manipulate you to make you feel important, if he even gave a fuck about his kid he wouldn’t have introduced him to a strange woman so soon, he’s either very manipulative or very scared of being alone and will do anything to fix his situation.
Posted by Aquarelle
He's only been divorced a few months.....am I the only one here who thinks "rebound"?
And if you are already worried when he takes some time with his son and is not able to talk to you......makes me wonder if you are mature enough to deal with a divorced man, his son AND possibly his ex...... which means he will always have obligations towards the other people in his life.....
If things seem TOO perfect, they usually ARE
I hope things turn out alright.....
Rebound - That's actually also something i have been worrying about deep in my head, but what so far I have known about him, he's been real honest and open to me on everything even about whatever he's been dealing with his exwife, that's why I gave it a try and see if things gonna work out... but yes, i have been wondering it, but at this point I trust my instinct for now.. as long as before i said yes to be his girlfriend, I have asked clearly about the situation with his exwife and if the son understands it.
Am I mature enough to deal with a divorced man and son and exwife? - to be honest, i don't think I am, but all the great connection and feelings between us, i couldn't resist to say no to him while the 3rd time that night he was asking me to be his girlfriend... i tried to ignore him at the first 2 times he asked, i was thinking about it if I should say yes that fast, but he came in too strong and just too sweet... i ended up.... lol.... yes.
He has also been up front about that he and his exwife occasionally still have to do some “family” thing for the sake of his son, also he mentioned himself and his son are far more happier after the arrangement now... so, at the moment i seem still pretty okay and calm with this, maybe because he's being up front and until now his behavior and honesty making me feel like i can trust him (at least i couldn't see anything yet that I doubted), but don't know if when things between us getting more serious (hopefully x), i believe that we would somehow figure it out the best way, as we're pretty open to talk about things and feelings, that's actually what made us like each other that much and also he mentioned that's the reason he likes me that much.
The thing that I worried about he's not texting me during the trip with his son, is mainly the relationship is still super new and I'm still not so sure that if this perfect man really likes me as much as he said he's... and i amwas curious if that's all aqurian behaviour lol sometimes this is my insecure issue, always don't believe that i would attract such a perfect man
If things seem TOO perfect, they usually ARE - fingers crossed !!!! He's like a dream man to me.. I'm still trying to tell myself just to believe that's really happening 🤣🤣
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Thanks, i know you feel for me.
Fuck the kid and fuck the aqua man.
He’s using you because he feels like shit that his wife dumped his ass so he’s using you to show his wife that he can get a woman whenever he wants and you just proved that he can get himself a woman to get into a committed relationship with him in a couple of months which will make his wife jealous and see that he has value so in order to restore her losses she will need to steal him off you again.
This is what straight people do, it’s a primitive monkey reward system, don’t buy into it, he’s even using his kid to manipulate you to make you feel important, if he even gave a fuck about his kid he wouldn’t have introduced him to a strange woman so soon, he’s either very manipulative or very scared of being alone and will do anything to fix his situation.
I don't know the other thing you said as of course I'm still try to tell myself to give it time and see for myself, but one thing for sure is, he's the one decided to end the marriage not his wife, and what they mainly communicating is money.
But i agree with you that do not buy into it whatever he says, the thing now is I shall not give in that quick for sure.
Thanks darling
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He won't be back until Saturday, so...now I am wondering should I be bother to send him birthday message or even Valentine's day message ? Or should I just leave him alone??
Fxxk, and after he will be back for 2 days, he's on another holiday again for 5-6 more days, should I be honest about I don't feel comfortable with his no contact thing while on trip?
Thanks in advance everyone x