Hi. I'm 22.I was with an Aquarius guy in a long distance relationship for almost three years. Just last month we had our break up. This was our third break up until now.We met only three times in the three years and he told me that it's being too hard for him.Our last hangout was so much fun. I felt like he really loved me.He suddenly started being weird one day over the texts and I suggested that we break up.I was all okie when just today he changed his profile picture in insta. It was his hand holding another girl's hand and I was devastated. I was shocked because he's a very conservative person. I know him so well. He would never do that on social media. He keeps everything private. I couldn't stop crying. I blocked him everywhere on social media.
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Jun 27, 2016Comments: 975 · Posts: 5791 · Topics: 44
well it’s been a month since the breakup
A guy did this to me too. It’s hurtful but some people move on faster than others
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Aug 24, 2011Comments: 17 · Posts: 5119 · Topics: 78
You were in a long distance relationship for three years and only saw each other three times, but managed to break up three times. Please know that this relationship wasn't designed to last. As a guy that just doesn't sound fun. Not to sound harsh, but long distance relationships are difficult as is and can still end even if things are going well. There are just more logistics that come with being at a distance from your partner.
Another thing to note is that while Aqua men like their freedom/space, they can have some traditional ideas when it comes to their relationships. It looks like your Aqua didn't want to adhere to a long distance relationship when he had other options nearby. I advise you that you take up a similar mindset and be open to romantic prospects that are much closer to you. You will probably be more satisfied with the results.
Fortunately you're 22 and still young. Give yourself some time to heal from this relationship, but realize that you were only 19 when you became involved with this person. This relationships was merely the tip of the iceberg. Breakups are hard, but they are also part of life. Dust yourself off and get back out there.
(Also here's a quick tip. Don't ask for a breakup if you don't actually want one. That's a move a lot of young/immature people make to get attention. It can/will backfire.)
I never wanted a break up. I just didn't want to be a burden on him anymore. I still love him. I don't know why I behave this way. Sometimes I tend to do the opposite of what I want. It's being really really hard for me. I was just afraid that he might start seeing someone else nearby. Please help me. I really love him so much. He once texted me telling me that he got into vaping and if he stopped, he gets headaches. This was before that upload on insta. I don't want to lose him.should I unblock him on social media? I don't know what to do.
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Mar 27, 2017Comments: 1330 · Posts: 12920 · Topics: 29
LDR with aqua is never gonna work.
He texted me and wanted to talk to me but I was sleeping. Just saw his texts. He said he wanted to talk about something important. I replied to him saying him to stay away from me and to talk to his new girlfriend about it. He hasn't seen my text yet. Any suggestions? Guys. Please help me.
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Apr 18, 2013Comments: 1 · Posts: 4807 · Topics: 263
Just speak tochim and be mature about it. One thing I know is Aqua likes and need maturity. Communication is important. Listen to what he has to say without arguing or responding right away then back off and analyse what he says and then you can come into a conclusion later. Don't jump the gun. Good look
He replied saying that he doesn't have a girlfriend and that picture was an old one. I honestly have no idea what to do. I know that Aqua people hate clingy people and the ones who show an interest. He even noticed that I blocked him everywhere.
I just read his texts in my notifications which means he doesn't know I read them. I don't want to show that I'm ignoring him. I need some time to think on how to reply.
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Hey guys,
A few days ago he called me over the phone since I had asked him to. He did and I let him know that I loved him. This was because the moment he realised that I had blocked him, he kept calling me over the phone but I missed the calls so I had asked him to call. I was very upset because we talked and he said he didn't love me at the "moment". So I took a day break, unblocked him everywhere. He then asked me why I did and I let him know that I had no grudges and we can still be friends. Honestly, I was done. So yesterday he calls me and talks to me over the phone. He's going crazy for me. He wants me to move where he is. I can't do that as circumstances will not allow. There are many reasons why I can't. It's not under my control.He said he would come to meet me here soon and I let him know that I can't meet him. He said that he liked me and wants to be near me.I said I won't meet him. He told me he went on a few dates and he didn't like them and that he doesn't want anyone else.How can I be sure if he isn't playing a game?
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Mar 27, 2017Comments: 1330 · Posts: 12920 · Topics: 29
Don't really count on his words.
The fact is he's still far away.
in the meantime, why not having fun for yourself and date some?