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I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.

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When a man is into you, you will know it.

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Yeah, I know. But we have completely different communication style s. I'm learning that I just have to be direct and forthcoming instead of waiting around for him to guess. lol Who knew!

I usually don't like being so direct because I don't want to scare a person away but he seems to be fine with it. I just talked with him this morning again. I'm also learning that he's fine with me texting. We've started to amp up the texting to daily within the last week. He always answers me right away if I send something.

I hate doing all the work......I'm finding if I sit back, so does he....smh

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We have plans to see eachother this weekend. I'll have to see if he actually follows through or cancels. My problem is that I don't text or talk on the phone a lot.

I can make plans up to a week or a week and a half ahead and then not talk or text you until that day. This doesn't work for him. So now I'm gonna text on Thursday just to test this out and see if it's ok, only because we've already been texting everyday.

I just always have a strong need to pull back and not bug a person. I get busy with life and end up waiting it out.

I feel stressed about texting on Thursday cause it seems like too much. I hate small talk and bsing

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He seems to be mirroring me, which is annoying and usually has no follow thru

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What's his mars ? My Aqua has Pisces mars and lots of Pisces and I have Aqua mars. Normally I hate chasing a man but I thin my Aqua prefers to be chased or something. He likes to b the one that receive the love when distant. It bugs me to hell too lol... though it's good how's showing u consistency... mine also replies and text back when he can... anyway.. be direct with him. He would prefer that than beating around the bush

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My chart-

Sun 07°46' Sagittarius

Moon 25°06' Cancer

Mercury 28°37' Sagittarius

Venus 25°00' Scorpio

Mars 10°33' Leo

Jupiter 03°57' Cancer

Saturn 00°28' Virgo

Uranus 13°39' Scorpio

Neptune 15°32' Sagittarius

Pluto 15°56' Libra

His Chart-

Sun 10°58' Aquarius

Moon 22°31' Aries

Mercury 13°10' Aquarius

Venus 25°42' Capricorn

Mars 16°48' Libra

Jupiter 09°25' Scorpio

Saturn 22°16' Libra

Uranus 03°59' Sagittarius

Neptune 26°09' Sagittarius

Pluto 26°51' Libra

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Sun Opposition Mars 0°20' -153

Sun Square Uranus 2°46' -96

Mercury Opposition Mars 2°38' -80

Mercury Square Uranus 0°28' -134

Mercury Trine Pluto 2°48' 39

Venus Opposition Moon 3°22' 62

Venus Sextile Venus 0°19' 111

Mars Sextile Neptune 1°13' 48

Mars Conjunction Pluto 0°48' 98

Jupiter Square Mars 1°09' -118

Jupiter Conjunction Uranus 4°15' 66

Uranus Conjunction Sun 4°06' 105

Neptune Conjunction Mercury 2°50' 96

Pluto Square Moon 2°10' -85

Ascendant Conjunction Sun 4°36' 123

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That's us together

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We also have a bunch of house placements inside each others and Moon in North node/ South node stuff going on-

My scorp venus is in his 12th house and and My sun/merc are his lilith- There are 8 of his placements in my houses and 4 or 5 of mine in his.

Mine is Libra/Aries Nodes. His Is Cancer/Capricorn Nodes

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HE hasn't got any water and it will drive ur water placements crazy .

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I think you might too intense for him. Calm down

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Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
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I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

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Posted by saweetz1988
I think you might too intense for him. Calm down

We'll know if he cancels this weekend lol

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by saweetz1988
I think you might too intense for him. Calm down
We'll know if he cancels this weekend lol
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Be positive. Aqua may change plans . It's typical. I think he will drive u mad. I don't know if he's a good fit for you. If he has more water then it's ok .

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Drive me mad with what? I am very adaptable and compromising. I don't have any control issues of trying to make someone conform to what I want.

Yes I will communicate what I want in a calm way, and hopefully he will listen and tell why he won't do it or he will want to do something because he loves me and he knows it makes me happy. Either way I have an understanding of where he's coming from.

It's only been 3 months of not even constant contact. It's still very early. I don't even use relationship style words with him (miss you, baby, stuff like that) I do other fun stuff like but keep it a little light until we have "The talk"

I'm only intense when it comes to sex. And I've told him this. He's fine with it now

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And I don't like flaky people. If I say I gonna do something I do it. It makes me think you're lying when you're being flaky. That's a trust issue.

He's had 2 work excuses the last time he cancelled. But if he tells me another one. I'm gonna let him know that I don't put up with flakiness. I'd rather you not make plans with me.

And then that will lead into another convo. I don't need male friends. I'm fine with being undefined until it leads into something. But texting and calling without seeing a person is not for me.

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Posted by saggurl88
And I don't like flaky people. If I say I gonna do something I do it. It makes me think you're lying when you're being flaky. That's a trust issue.

He's had 2 work excuses the last time he cancelled. But if he tells me another one. I'm gonna let him know that I don't put up with flakiness. I'd rather you not make plans with me.

And then that will lead into another convo. I don't need male friends. I'm fine with being undefined until it leads into something. But texting and calling without seeing a person is not for me.

when was the last time u saw him? maybe he was really caught up for work. ? Aqua r busu people. I have to learnt to just let it flow n go with the flow with them. Try to understand him as a person first before putting on any demands. Aqua hate to b in control. You say you r not one but it seems that ur venus in Scorpio is wanting the control deep down... which is fine. It's human nature but it won't work when u date n Aqua. My Aqua told me this before... if he cancels again, just be straight forward n tell him how it is. If he makes u made explain why via text. Me n my Aqua just had an argument coz he said he was coming to my dance class n didn't turn up lol... to him it wasn't a promise but to me it was . Our maps is diffent... it doesn't mean he doesn't care about me, they just get distracted so easily .. sometimes live in the moment too much n lose lack of time... that's prob why he keeps scheduling ... its best to go with no expectation with these beings and they will surprise u with the most inappropriate moments lol... anything by the rules or by the book won't excite them at all lol... so, just chill n let him come to u... mine never canceled plans on me though except today whixh wasn't a plan I kind of asked him to come to the class 10 mins before lol... anyhow, patient n consistence .. good luck

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We just had 2 hours convo coz he was determine to make me unmad lol... but, the point is he says he's very very bad with time n all that... so, it's in their nature to reschedule things.i have Aqua girlfriend who keeps cancelling me lol but I don't take it to heart. If it's my Aqua man I get pretty pissed but I learnt to adapt over time... it is who he is.. I can't control or change him. He wants to be better at it though he told me.. mine doesn't cancel but lateness is highly expected . We laughed it off on the phone just then... alsl remember to b his friend like his best friend.. that's the way to win their heart

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I don't need to make any demands, you either want to spend time with me or you don't. Actions speak louder than words. If he consistently doesn't see me, then that tells me something loud and clear.

We haven't seen each other in a few of weeks. But things are so new, that I need to spend time to get to know a person. I don't like hiding behind technology.

I ended up sending him a picture of me and saying that I am gonna send a different one everyday until we see each other, so he can remember what I look like lol- I also did this so it makes me keep in contact instead of doing what I normally do. He just laughed and said ok, he's looking forward to them.

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Posted by LadySagita
Posted by saggurl88
And I don't like flaky people. If I say I gonna do something I do it. It makes me think you're lying when you're being flaky. That's a trust issue.

He's had 2 work excuses the last time he cancelled. But if he tells me another one. I'm gonna let him know that I don't put up with flakiness. I'd rather you not make plans with me.

And then that will lead into another convo. I don't need male friends. I'm fine with being undefined until it leads into something. But texting and calling without seeing a person is not for me.

Never compromise what u cant tolerate, love ?

I hate flaky people too...

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My Bae is back!!! I missed you!!! I've been looking for you! lol @2moon

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I dragged @2moon to the DXPNET alter kicking and screaming but now I think he may be a little moody seeing my real life issues lol We're about to be headed for divorce already

But seriously, you're cute and funny and I missed you! lol Glad you're back.

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I DON'T SHARE!!!!!!!

YOU'RE MINE MUAHAHAHA!!! NO Threesome for you!!! She can watch though!

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I'm spilling my tea all over these threads hahahaha

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NOPE lol I don't hang out with guys that have girlfriends or that I know are actively fucking someone else. I need all eyes on me. I have no history with him and he may be dating but he doesn't tell me that. In fact he always says he's at his boys house or doing something work related. Who knows what he's really doing lol

But I wouldn't give it a second thought if he had a girl or pretend friends that he has sex with. I would've never had sex with him. Whether he does this or not with friends, I have no idea and it's really none of my business. But I better not find out about it lol I'll drop him with no regrets- I play for keeps, I don't want a player.

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

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Crying is typical girly stuff?

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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

Crying is typical girly stuff?

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3 pages of posts and all my writing and this is the line you pick out? smh. Crying is natural. Dramatic, throwing fits, crying cause your feelings are hurt when you don't get attention is what I don't do.

And I said "I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama"- I didn't mix the 2

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

Crying is typical girly stuff?

3 pages of posts and all my writing and this is the line you pick out? smh. Crying is natural. Dramatic, throwing fits, crying cause your feelings are hurt when you don't get attention is what I don't do.

And I said "I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama"- I didn't mix the 2

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I just see you describing yourself as the ideal that you think aquas want. Your post don't reflect the same though.

I responded on the first page and I said that if a man wants you will know.

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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

Crying is typical girly stuff?

3 pages of posts and all my writing and this is the line you pick out? smh. Crying is natural. Dramatic, throwing fits, crying cause your feelings are hurt when you don't get attention is what I don't do.

And I said "I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama"- I didn't mix the 2

I just see you describing yourself as the ideal that you think aquas want. Your post don't reflect the same though.

I responded on the first page and I said that if a man wants you will know.
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I describe myself the way that I am, you read the context and come to your own conclusions based on the way that you are.-This doesn't have anything to do with my personalty. You don't know me.

I'm no ones ideal partner unless they are with me, regardless of sign. There's someone for everyone.

I saw your response, and agree with you but didn't answer because it's a general response and assumption for most of the post regarding females wanting a male in all categories on this site.

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Posted by LadySagita
Posted by saggurl88
I DON'T SHARE!!!!!!! YOU'RE MINE MUAHAHAHA!!! NO Threesome for you!!! She can watch though!
I'll film and direct it ????
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You're in baby!!!

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

Crying is typical girly stuff?

3 pages of posts and all my writing and this is the line you pick out? smh. Crying is natural. Dramatic, throwing fits, crying cause your feelings are hurt when you don't get attention is what I don't do.

And I said "I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama"- I didn't mix the 2

I just see you describing yourself as the ideal that you think aquas want. Your post don't reflect the same though.

I responded on the first page and I said that if a man wants you will know.
I describe myself the way that I am, you read the context and come to your own conclusions based on the way that you are.-This doesn't have anything to do with my personalty. You don't know me.

I'm no ones ideal partner unless they are with me, regardless of sign. There's someone for everyone.

I saw your response, and agree with you but didn't answer because it's a general response and assumption for most of the post regarding females wanting a male in all categories on this site.

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I wasn't looking for a response I was just highlighting that I said something else in the thread.

I don't have to know you to see beyond what you post.

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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Sagiluv27
Posted by saggurl88
I spoke with him yesterday and am still in the same boat. Not much I can do. I am really trying to have patience with him but its getting annoying.
Are you overly emotional with your sun sag and cancer moon?

What sign is he???
I posted both of our charts. I'm not emotional at all. I don't know what all my "water" means but it just makes me caring for close family and intense with sex. I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama. I don't have the energy for it. I look like a girly girl but have a man mentality.

I don't argue or scream but I am aggressive. Most people think I'm heartless/ cut throat until they get to know me. I'm only affectionate in private. I'm not the huggy type.

Crying is typical girly stuff?

3 pages of posts and all my writing and this is the line you pick out? smh. Crying is natural. Dramatic, throwing fits, crying cause your feelings are hurt when you don't get attention is what I don't do.

And I said "I don't cry or do any of the typical female drama"- I didn't mix the 2

I just see you describing yourself as the ideal that you think aquas want. Your post don't reflect the same though.

I responded on the first page and I said that if a man wants you will know.
I describe myself the way that I am, you read the context and come to your own conclusions based on the way that you are.-This doesn't have anything to do with my personalty. You don't know me.

I'm no ones ideal partner unless they are with me, regardless of sign. There's someone for everyone.

I saw your response, and agree with you but didn't answer because it's a general response and assumption for most of the post regarding females wanting a male in all categories on this site.

I don't have to know you to see beyond what you post.

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"to see beyond what you post"? and this is the reason we all have opinions, and I can respect you for yours.

But the small amounts of posts on this board over the years has nothing to do with the type of life style or personality that I have outside of dxpnet.

I can still value your opinion though.

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