Another Aquarius MAN Rant.....with a twist

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Hi All,

I just need some advice on what you all think about this relationship I have.

I am a Taurus-Gemini Cusp (May 18) and my FRIEND is a Capricorn-Aquarius Cusp (Jan. 20)

We've been friends for 9 years.

We met through his ex girlfriend at a cookout I invited them to at my house(Yes you read it right). His ex girlfriend (Libra-Scorpio) is my classmate, we graduated together, hung out together, party together but we were never close best friends. Just real cool and cordial.

ANYWAY

Every since that day. He gave me the 'eye'. I ignored, then next thing I know about 2 weeks later I get a message from him on Myspace. From there, he has followed me from MySpace to Facebook to Twitter. He's on all of my social networks. Long story short. We texted, even phone calls. Now, before you think I'm being shady for talking to my buddy's boyfriend....well she cheated on him and I watched her do it. So I figured they were over and it didn't seem to phase her at all.

ANYWAY...

after a few phone conversations and texting, we eventually meet alone. He is a music producer so our first alone encounter was at his studio. I was dressed very sexy and classy that night I remember. We had a few drinks then next thing I know we're having sex.

--He vanishes

-I don't chase him

Months ago by he pops up again. Same thing, sex then he goes missing with a few texts in-between the months just to check in.

2-3 years go by, he still calls and keeps up with me. He invites me to where ever city or state he's in and sometimes I would literally drop everything and GO. He has stood me up several times, but me being a TAURUS I was always understanding and forgave him.

What had me was his mind, his ambition, and sex was something different that I've never felt before. He took my body to a whole another level. It was exciting. TMI, he makes me 'squirt'. He's the reason I discovered I could squirt and he told me "You caught me then when you started doing that." So I guess we've just always had a real sexual relationship because he's had relationships with others and I have too but he never lost contact with me as friends. He would rant to me, I was his ear to listen to any problem he felt comfortable telling me. I was cool with that

FAST FORWARD TO 2015-PRESENT

I was in a relationship with a VIRGO for 2.5 years. I cheated on him with this Aqua man because I needed a mental high and my sexual pleasures took over.

Every since then, me and this Aqua has gotten closer. Until the point I let him use my credit to put a motorcycle in my name. I started to grow feelings, he needed me and I always there for whatever. We have discussed being more than friends but it always stopped there. BECAUSE his EX is still in his life, the LIBRA. He is a wealthy man I'd like to add. He told me once "I'm taking care of both of you." He ignores me. But parlays with her by taking her on trips and out to the bar. But days later he's running to my house to talk or to fondle with me.

WTF is this? I'm confused.
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To add more,

I know more about this man than people who are around him on a daily basis do. He owns a business. and I know THE BUSINESS. I know enough about him to be considered as an emergency contact. I just dont know what kind of relationship this is because he's still in love with his ex. We haven't been on an official 'date' he hasn;t courted me but we have partied hard together, made a few investments together. Really anything involving money. We got it. But a relationship outside of friends. I could kill him
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I know It may sound crazy. But I'm to the point now I'm just waiting for him to pay this bike off. He paid me $ 700 to do it all because he's a business owner and does not have proof of income.

And I really don't have anything else for him or what to do with our friendship since he won't let go of his ex ....and the crazy part about it is his ex doesn't know the degree of our relationship ...
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Posted by infpgiftncurse
You need to forget about this muthafucka.. As an Aquarius myself, most of us are not good people. Fuck em. Date a taurus. Less drama.


I know It may sound crazy. But I'm to the point now I'm just waiting for him to pay this bike off. He paid me $ 700 to do it all because he's a business owner and does not have proof of income.

And I really don't have anything else for him or what to do with our friendship since he won't let go of his ex ....and the crazy part about it is his ex doesn't know the degree of our relationship & can literally have both of us in the same room. But SHE dates other guys too...it's a mess honestly
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Posted by Vixen2
Where the hell are the rocks you people come from, seriously?
I know!! this is stupid. I think it's a troll.

I mean OP, you cheated and then....I saw that and just whatever man....

I don't think you need to be in a relationship at all.

edit

I just saw this:

"I was in a relationship with a VIRGO for 2.5 years. I cheated on him with this Aqua man because I needed a mental high and my sexual pleasures took over"



come on!! this is so trolling.
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Vixen2
Where the hell are the rocks you people come from, seriously?
I know!! this is stupid. I think it's a troll.

I mean OP, you cheated and then....I saw that and just whatever man....

I don't think you need to be in a relationship at all.

edit

I just saw this:

"I was in a relationship with a VIRGO for 2.5 years. I cheated on him with this Aqua man because I needed a mental high and my sexual pleasures took over"



come on!! this is so trolling.

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I am starting to believe that I don't need to be in a relationship. I'm only 28 so I'm just really figuring out things . As far as the Virgo goes, he cheated on me first and stole money from me , lied , nothing going for himself ...I told him I wanted out but he clinged even more. So the only way I could think of to get rid of him was to cheat ...
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Posted by lisabethur8


come on!! this is so trolling.


imo....she just wants an emotionally available aqua that makes her squirt. That's not so much to ask for is it? 😛



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Obviously so!! Ive been so patient about this situation because he tells me I'm his best friend / his backbone ...we can sit and talk for hours without being physical.... While he's talking , I have a heart beat going on in my panties ...wtf is this?

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Posted by jane84
This is like the 3rd-4th bizarre Taurus related thread that is a crazy long story involving cheating. (One that I read was removed pretty quickly.)

They have to be trolling.. Why did I even read that?? Ugh
I am not trolling.

This is a real life story and situation I am in and I want advice.

One thing about Taurus is that we're very detailed. We won't leave anything out.

And If you read more into my post you would see the reason why I cheated on my Virgo with the Aqua.

Typically, I am no cheater, but when you have a person who stalks you and will not leave you alone you run out of options.

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Posted by geminidude
Ok I got it now. You are his MISTRESS. And he really wants you as that just as that, no more no less. Someone who can talk to, to have sex, to share thoughts but can leave without any emotions. And for you is the same, you find someone who can shag and can make you squirt like a fountain lol. Did you ever told him that his "libra" is cheating on him as well?
Pretty much I can't see myself in a committed relationship with him unless we both clean our front doors first.

'Mistress' ? I guess .....we're all single in this triangle. And he knows about his Libra. Her ex recently posted a pic of them lying in bed naked on her Facebook wall for the world to see! So he knows she's seeing other men. It's a mess.

I'm just trying to get an understanding of his thought process in this situation because clearly it's emtionless. He has told me he "loves me" but I'm not sure in what way. As a friend or more? I hate to mention it because I'm afraid he'll run for the hills once I mention my feelings but I'm sure he knows I do care about him. I find myself being faithful to a single man & will wait on him. Which is totally not me. I guess you can say he got my mind screwed up. I can move on, and I do talk to other guys but on a platonic level, nothing more but sexually I only want him.

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Posted by ladybull711
Posted by geminidude
Ok I got it now. You are his MISTRESS. And he really wants you as that just as that, no more no less. Someone who can talk to, to have sex, to share thoughts but can leave without any emotions. And for you is the same, you find someone who can shag and can make you squirt like a fountain lol. Did you ever told him that his "libra" is cheating on him as well?
Pretty much I can't see myself in a committed relationship with him unless we both clean our front doors first.

'Mistress' ? I guess .....we're all single in this triangle. And he knows about his Libra. Her ex recently posted a pic of them lying in bed naked on her Facebook wall for the world to see! So he knows she's seeing other men. It's a mess.

I'm just trying to get an understanding of his thought process in this situation because clearly it's emtionless. He has told me he "loves me" but I'm not sure in what way. As a friend or more? I hate to mention it because I'm afraid he'll run for the hills once I mention my feelings but I'm sure he knows I do care about him. I find myself being faithful to a single man & will wait on him. Which is totally not me. I guess you can say he got my mind screwed up. I can move on, and I do talk to other guys but on a platonic level, nothing more but sexually I only want him.

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ok why are you bothering with him? It sounds like you are curious about him and his thought processes and why these men are like that.

but why waste your time—

he sounds like a loser. despite him being wealthy or having money or being in good business...he is a loser and an asshole. no decent woman would want to be tied to that type of man.

I know that they come in EVERY sun sign too, the wealthy rich men who will give you everything as long as you turn your back and he has his way.

it's disgusting.

I would never associate with men like that. I don't care if they are wealthy and are music producers. I can't deal. Maybe I would if I had to do business with them but I would NEVER set up a girlfriend of mine to a creep like that.
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i was yesterday reading the TRUE story of Gunter Sachs....and i was shocked at his PLAYBOY ways...

i mean, what did i expect—

and that Bridget Bardot was no better either. I mean wtf? they treat marriage like a hedonistic playground where there is NO true marriage but everyone is cheating on eachother and having sex on the side.

and the press wondered WHY they broke up?

i don't honestly feel that a man would change even after he got with another wife. They will keep going in their HEDONISTIC ways. and the poor woman who will get caught up with that will turn their cheek all the time but still be provided for. gross.
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Posted by lisabethur8
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Posted by geminidude
Ok I got it now. You are his MISTRESS. And he really wants you as that just as that, no more no less. Someone who can talk to, to have sex, to share thoughts but can leave without any emotions. And for you is the same, you find someone who can shag and can make you squirt like a fountain lol. Did you ever told him that his "libra" is cheating on him as well?
Pretty much I can't see myself in a committed relationship with him unless we both clean our front doors first.

'Mistress' ? I guess .....we're all single in this triangle. And he knows about his Libra. Her ex recently posted a pic of them lying in bed naked on her Facebook wall for the world to see! So he knows she's seeing other men. It's a mess.

I'm just trying to get an understanding of his thought process in this situation because clearly it's emtionless. He has told me he "loves me" but I'm not sure in what way. As a friend or more? I hate to mention it because I'm afraid he'll run for the hills once I mention my feelings but I'm sure he knows I do care about him. I find myself being faithful to a single man & will wait on him. Which is totally not me. I guess you can say he got my mind screwed up. I can move on, and I do talk to other guys but on a platonic level, nothing more but sexually I only want him.


ok why are you bothering with him? It sounds like you are curious about him and his thought processes and why these men are like that.

but why waste your time—

he sounds like a loser. despite him being wealthy or having money or being in good business...he is a loser and an asshole. no decent woman would want to be tied to that type of man.

I know that they come in EVERY sun sign too, the wealthy rich men who will give you everything as long as you turn your back and he has his way.

it's disgusting.

I would never associate with men like that. I don't care if they are wealthy and are music producers. I can't deal. Maybe I would if I had to do business with them but I would NEVER set up a girlfriend of mine to a creep like that.

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I am beginning to see. I guess he makes everything so comfortable and he's honest. If I ask if he slept with her he'll go into detail about everything . The only reason why I'm stuck is because I have property in my name for him. The street bike is financed & insured in my name. Idk what I was thinking doing that but he paid me & he's planning on paying it off soon. As a Taurus woman I feel weak in this situation. Especially when I have to face Ms.Libra with kisses on the cheek because she's Latina and that's what they do. I think to myself ...we might as well have a 3-some...

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Posted by lisabethur8
i was yesterday reading the TRUE story of Gunter Sachs....and i was shocked at his PLAYBOY ways...

i mean, what did i expect—

and that Bridget Bardot was no better either. I mean wtf? they treat marriage like a hedonistic playground where there is NO true marriage but everyone is cheating on eachother and having sex on the side.

and the press wondered WHY they broke up?

i don't honestly feel that a man would change even after he got with another wife. They will keep going in their HEDONISTIC ways. and the poor woman who will get caught up with that will turn their cheek all the time but still be provided for. gross.
Not all men are the same and I see hedonistic life style is sick. They definitely need counseling. I strongly believe in constancy in relationship and marriage otherwise there is no quality to it.

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Okay wait. He is a wealthy man but used your name to get a motorcycle. Wealthy men don't use other peoples credit.

"he's still in love with his ex. We haven't been on an official 'date' he hasn;t "

You are the side chick friend of a friend.

He's dating the friend because he's in love with her and he's having quality sex with you and making some money with you or taking some money from you, not sure but overall this guy sounds like a piece of work but he is in the music industry so this is pretty much how it is, messy with no boundaries.

He's not in love with you and that in itself is your answer. If he was going to leave the Libra alone then that would have happened already. Why should he leave her alone. He's getting his cake (her) and eating it too (you).

Loving you can be friendly and friendship but being "IN LOVE" well that's the woman he's dating, he's courting, he's attempting to prove himself, prove he's worthy, your friend is truly getting the BETTER side of this bad situation.

Have you asked your friend why he's an ex? Have you asked your friend if she's in love with him too?

I'm sure it's hard to cut off the squirt action, you really don't have to but leave the loving him part OUT of the situation, he is not in love with you and will never be in love with you so stop tangling yourself up financially with him UNLESS it's benefiting you to do so, meaning you're getting your money back and putting more money into your bank account after you've got your money back.

Tangling yourself up with him financially gives the illusion that the situation is more than friendship but if he's getting more out of the deal than you are then you are being USED for financial gain. If your credit is on the line while he could walk away clean and clear then again you are being used and your credit is at risk as well.

If you ever decide to call it quits please don't blabber that you're leaving him before ensuring you get all the financial aspects cleared up FIRST before you exit out of this situation or you're going to be fucked in all kinds of ways.
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As for him being honest.

No, he's a sleazy music producer with no boundaries that use multiple women financially that make him APPEAR wealthy. I wonder how many women have put their names on the line and their credit on the line for him. The women in his life probably finance his life style , he can give the illusion that he's wealthy with zero of the financial risk that comes with his hedonistic life style .

An honest man would make sure you and the libra knew about one another.

He's only in love with himself. He's in love with you and the libra loving him and God only knows how many other women he's having sex with, music producers, the wealthy ones get massive amounts of booty on a daily. I hope you're using protection.

Eazy E was a rapper/producer and was addicted to p**sy and he's dead HIV/AIDS. So please get tested and use protection all the time, not sometimes but ALL the time.
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yea I didn't catch that on wealthy men wanting other people's credit.

maybe he is like Kanye West, broke and asking Mark Zuckerberg for millions to borrow...

even though he has sold millions.

good call on rapper/producer Eazy E.

it's sad though. his life.

I guess some people want t live that way.

but it's not something most people would want to recommend others to live that's for sure.

at least get some help.
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Posted by jane84
This is like the 3rd-4th bizarre Taurus related thread that is a crazy long story involving cheating. (One that I read was removed pretty quickly.)

They have to be trolling.. Why did I even read that?? Ugh
I am not trolling.

This is a real life story and situation I am in and I want advice.

One thing about Taurus is that we're very detailed. We won't leave anything out.

And If you read more into my post you would see the reason why I cheated on my Virgo with the Aqua.

Typically, I am no cheater, but when you have a person who stalks you and will not leave you alone you run out of options.

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OK he is stalking you right?

please call and get some help.

don't let this man ruin you.

you sound like a very nice woman who is easily persuaded by the glitter and gold, and maybe a handsome face.

don't worry! I get the same way with "certain" types, who I think are super handsome too, in the past but it's far and few between.. I still have experienced it though.

a man who is pursuing you like that, and won't leave you alone, you need to call the authorities/police.

and file a report. he will not come anywhere near you. or call you. Or he gets put in prison.

edit - I get really really persuaded by aggressive, assertive and powerful type of men in the past. because I used to think, oh he will take care of me because he is so strong and confident and protect me. that's not true.

there are certain types of powerful men, though.

so be careful.
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Posted by jane84
This is like the 3rd-4th bizarre Taurus related thread that is a crazy long story involving cheating. (One that I read was removed pretty quickly.)

They have to be trolling.. Why did I even read that?? Ugh
I am not trolling.

This is a real life story and situation I am in and I want advice.

One thing about Taurus is that we're very detailed. We won't leave anything out.

And If you read more into my post you would see the reason why I cheated on my Virgo with the Aqua.

Typically, I am no cheater, but when you have a person who stalks you and will not leave you alone you run out of options.

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well I started to give her the benefit of the doubt, because she said she's not trolling at all. and it's a real life story and really wanted/asked us for help.

so why would she lie about all this if she didn't want some help/advise?
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The twist is me knowing about the Libra and she doesn't know the degree of me & the Aqua's friendship. And him using me for financial reasons because that's something I have never done for a guy especially if he's not a long term boyfriend /fiancé /husband.

its so much more to add to this but it's the VIRGO who was stalking me after I had a talk with him about not wanting to be in a relationship anymore. I technically broke it off with the VIRGO before doing all this with the Aquarius. I guess I was emotionally cheating?

The Aquarius actually protected me from the VIRGO one night the Virgo stalked me to his house. (The Aquas home) Police was called & charges were filed he sat me down & explained to me how dangerous the virgo is but in the state I live in there's no stalking law if he's not physically abusive.

I feel like I lost on both ends. The Virgo let me walk all over him. Did anything I asked but he lacked doing for himself & his child so I left so he could focus. I guess that's why I'm attracted to the Aquas dominance he has over me. When he talks, I pay attention & will do anything.

This has been going on for the past 3.5 months and I'm drained. He told me he will never leave LIBRA alone which is sad because she parades with other guys, she was once engaged and that got broken up and I feel like it's because of him. In fact, his car is in the LIBRAs name. I checked his credit and it's really more so he doesn't have any credit since he always paid cash for everything & business owners have to go through hell to verify their income. I'm a business owner myself so I know how difficult it can be to obtain property quickly.

We do use protection. I make sure of that. He tells me all the time. "I'm only messing with you because these other chicks only want my money and you've known me way before the fame. You're a solid friend to me."

I think I've gotten the fantasy out of my head of me wanting him the way I want to have him and just cut sex out of the equation because its fcking with my emotions & I can't take it.

He texted me this morning after ignoring me all weekend to tell me he was coming to my house but he never showed. I think he just likes check in on to make sure he still "got it" because he knows I can drift away & be with someone else just as quick as he can.

I think what I'll do is sit down with him & lay it all out on the table. If he doesn't like it & wants to run fine. Just make sure the bike is paid off so I can move on
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Posted by tiki33
Okay wait. He is a wealthy man but used your name to get a motorcycle. Wealthy men don't use other peoples credit.

"he's still in love with his ex. We haven't been on an official 'date' he hasn;t "

You are the side chick friend of a friend.

He's dating the friend because he's in love with her and he's having quality sex with you and making some money with you or taking some money from you, not sure but overall this guy sounds like a piece of work but he is in the music industry so this is pretty much how it is, messy with no boundaries.

He's not in love with you and that in itself is your answer. If he was going to leave the Libra alone then that would have happened already. Why should he leave her alone. He's getting his cake (her) and eating it too (you).

Loving you can be friendly and friendship but being "IN LOVE" well that's the woman he's dating, he's courting, he's attempting to prove himself, prove he's worthy, your friend is truly getting the BETTER side of this bad situation.

Have you asked your friend why he's an ex? Have you asked your friend if she's in love with him too?

I'm sure it's hard to cut off the squirt action, you really don't have to but leave the loving him part OUT of the situation, he is not in love with you and will never be in love with you so stop tangling yourself up financially with him UNLESS it's benefiting you to do so, meaning you're getting your money back and putting more money into your bank account after you've got your money back.

Tangling yourself up with him financially gives the illusion that the situation is more than friendship but if he's getting more out of the deal than you are then you are being USED for financial gain. If your credit is on the line while he could walk away clean and clear then again you are being used and your credit is at risk as well.

If you ever decide to call it quits please don't blabber that you're leaving him before ensuring you get all the financial aspects cleared up FIRST before you exit out of this situation or you're going to be fucked in all kinds of ways.
When he asked me I asked him why he couldn't get it in his name and he said he doesn't have any credit. His business is new. He made money freelancing until he reached the point of starting a company. He paid me $ 700 to use my SSN and if he pays the bike off quickly that increases my credit score as a easy pay off.

I know for a fact he has put property in other women's name because his car is in his ex LIBRAS name and she has a 800 credit score because of all the things he has put in her name & he's paid off. He tells me everything with proof to back it up! That's why I'm confused because he tells me all his business. I have keys, passwords a lot of private shit

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No dear, he is not wealthy, wealthy men BUILD credit through building their wealth and a wealthy man will not ask women for help, a real baller shot caller's ego is way to big to get hand outs from females.

Unless he's a drug dealer or on some real shady business dealings he is not wealthy. Do you have the password to his bank account? That will tell you the truth.

Don't make excuses for him. He's USING women to GAIN whatever he's getting out of it. You get a squirt and he gets the car and the bike and the properties with none of the RISK, it's you all credit on the line not his.

If you want to have sex then have sex but he's already stated he's not leaving the Libra alone and he's most likely dating many other women as well. As long as you cool with that.
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Isn't this typical Aquarius behavior to befriend and have friends of the opposite sex?

I read where Aquarius are real big on friendship and conversations.

I guess that's where my Gemini side kicks in because we can talk for hours and I am very emotionally detached. But I see trying to tame an Aqua is like trying to catch something thats wild. And I definitely went in for a wild wild ride. And its funny because my yearly horoscope did mention I would pull a few wild cards this year but damn......
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Posted by ladybull711
Isn't this typical Aquarius behavior to befriend and have friends of the opposite sex?

I read where Aquarius are real big on friendship and conversations.

I guess that's where my Gemini side kicks in because we can talk for hours and I am very emotionally detached. But I see trying to tame an Aqua is like trying to catch something thats wild. And I definitely went in for a wild wild ride. And its funny because my yearly horoscope did mention I would pull a few wild cards this year but damn......
You have a relationship with a Dark Horse Aquarius. That's an Aqua whose been using those astrology gifts to benefit himself, and walking over others.

I think we had a discussion a couple of months ago about Dark Aquas and how they will manipulate a person into doing something they don't normally do....and to add injury to the insult, the victim is brainwashed into wanting it that way.

Ladies and Gents I announce.....THAT situation. This is more than being dickmatized, this is a mindgame on an epic level. Your Aqua is so charming, disarming, and you can't stay mad at him for very long.
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Posted by ladybull711
Isn't this typical Aquarius behavior to befriend and have friends of the opposite sex?

I read where Aquarius are real big on friendship and conversations.

I guess that's where my Gemini side kicks in because we can talk for hours and I am very emotionally detached. But I see trying to tame an Aqua is like trying to catch something thats wild. And I definitely went in for a wild wild ride. And its funny because my yearly horoscope did mention I would pull a few wild cards this year but damn......
You have a relationship with a Dark Horse Aquarius. That's an Aqua whose been using those astrology gifts to benefit himself, and walking over others.

I think we had a discussion a couple of months ago about Dark Aquas and how they will manipulate a person into doing something they don't normally do....and to add injury to the insult, the victim is brainwashed into wanting it that way.

Ladies and Gents I announce.....THAT situation. This is more than being dickmatized, this is a mindgame on an epic level. Your Aqua is so charming, disarming, and you can't stay mad at him for very long.
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Interesting. First time I've heard of a dark horse Aquarius .

His Bday is 1/20/86 . Not sure if that means anything but doesn't that make him a Capricorn-Aquarius cusp?

Anyways since my last post a few things have changed on my behalf. I stopped being so responsive to him by ignoring him and it's hard because I am the marketing coordinator/graphic designer for his business. So when he texts "hey what's up" I ponder if this is personal or business? So it takes me awhile to even respond but I have to eventually and its like he's picked up on it and now he's acting more of like a friend. We have mutual friends and like 3 of them have told me "he loves you , he speaks so highly of you." I've never heard him go into detail of how he appreciates me to me personally. It's like he expresses how he feels about me to others but not to me personally

Now our mutual friends are questioning our relationship like " I think you two look good together" or " he's hitting that isn't he!" Not knowing our situation.

He's still in tune with the Libra because he came to me with their problems as far as her wanting an open relationship and for them to live together because she has a job in the city he lives in & she commutes 35 miles or so. By surprise , he told her "No because what if I want to have company of someone i really like?? She's not going to be ok with us living together" Then the moment he said that he looked dead in my eyes when he said it & then shy away from the conversation onto the next topic, Idk I'm so confused at this point I'm just like fuck it & just have him pay the motorcycle off and only contact me for business purposes only ...