aqaurius and virgo problem help

okay theres this female Aquarius and im a male virgo i like her alot and she told me she feels the same but the intrest level isnt there so im having doughts. i always have to txt her first she never txts me first and one day i actually waited to see if she would txt me first but she never did but when we hang in person she hugs up with me and cuddles which is why i am confused -__- but i really need guidance im just so perplexed right now

In my opinion, in the beginning stages it's up to the man to make a move. Whether it be texting, calling or doing the asking out. Have you asked her out yet?

She doesn't want to seem like she bothering you or violating your space. This is common of us Aquarian females. SO text her and let her know its ok for her to text you first sometime.

Posted by AQUAash
She doesn't want to seem like she bothering you or violating your space. This is common of us Aquarian females. SO text her and let her know its ok for her to text you first sometime.

+1 i actually HAD interest in a virgo, but he didn't seem interested so i backed off. I always intiated everything. He's too much of a puss, basically i had to call the shots. I pretty much stopped and now i ONLY see him as a friend. I'm not going to make someone "like" me or be my friend. Dont need his pity ..

I agree, you have to make the first move. It happened with a Virgo guy I have a crush on. He texted me and then gave me space. Eventually I started texting him. Now I have the opposite problem. I'm always the first person to text. I will wait three days and then text and my Virgo crush will instantly respond. But if I leave it up to him he will say nothing for a week.

Virgo males may be too structured for Aquarians. They seem to like routines and set way of doing things which are indeed the exact opposites of us. Based on how I am, I like men who can think and live outside the box. Let me be free, let me fly and for goodness sake dont hold me down. Show some passion, some fire. Ironially enough I have a virgo rising. Anyways, she might indeed like you but u want to captivate and hold her attention.

This is why I've never dated Virgos. In the beginning stages, I expect the man to make the first move. Let me rephrase, I do my own thing with the impression that if the man wants to hang out with me, he'll contact me. I don't like to feel like I'm violating and man's time or space. I do find that most virgos are shy and really structured. They're in their heads too much, so get out of it and text/call her 🙂

I agree. As a guy who had been with an aqua girl for over a decade, the like men who know exactly what they want & knows how to court a woman. If you like her act like it. Take some initiative. It comes natural to you being a Virgo like me. Open up & embrace what you feel giving her all of you so that whatever it is that you share or would like to share will either grow or stop in its tracks.

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Posted by AQUAash
She doesn't want to seem like she bothering you or violating your space. This is common of us Aquarian females. SO text her and let her know its ok for her to text you first sometime.

+1 i actually HAD interest in a virgo, but he didn't seem interested so i backed off. I always intiated everything. He's too much of a puss, basically i had to call the shots. I pretty much stopped and now i ONLY see him as a friend. I'm not going to make someone "like" me or be my friend. Dont need his pity ..

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I forget to mention, candi, that sorry it didnt work out for you and your virgo.

You need to be the one to pursue, they're similar to Aries in a way but mutable, and similar to Pisces.I know it's very very confusing...but eh, it has a lot to do with Antisica and opposites.

Lol @ the aqua girls. But a little initiative on your part doesnt hurt, lol. I have no problems initiating contact if im interested (i got their number in the 1st place so hey..) or already dating, what i hate is when they ignore it or respond later than necessary- in that case, i sit on my hands and let them do all the work.

this is the reason i havent had a phone for 3 years....i can't stand being called or replying to messages or facing the repercussions of not answering or replying.....hay theres this awesome social networking site called Facebook! u can chat in real time on that so u can pretty much intrude her space 24/7.

I concur with the part about hating to answer calls and texts- i hate answering anything (some i even ignore), but just dont do it to me please.

Just keep away fellow Virgo, no matter what you'll do - it won't be enough with aquas. Compromise does exist in their vocabulary but it only applies to other people.

From my experience: aquarius, both male & female don't make the 1st move AT ALL they act jus lik virgos with a twist. Back off for 2weeks & she'll hit yu up. They play a lot of games & because we virgos tend to over analyze we think we did something wrong wen it's them doing a disappearing act. If she does hit yu up then stop worrying about how she feels towards yu. The way we act towards the ones we love will scare an aquarius off so I suggest yu treat her as a friend yu really f*ck with...