aqua and relationships
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by asa011 on Tuesday, September 19, 2006 and has 31 replies.
what are aqua men like when in a relationship? and do their relationships tend to last long or end quickly?
Asa, depends on the woman/girl.
You have to give them A LOT of space, or they will run and take cover. If you hover over them, then they will not feel their independence - they need time to do a test drive with you before they commit. Keep their brains challenged - don't be a ditz.
The length of the relationship depends on the chemistry. I dated one for 3 years, was engaged, we had some problems, broke up, and in the midst of getting back together, he died.
I've dated 2 other Aquas in recent years and one lasted about 9 months and the other was a flash in the pan. I learned early with the 3 year-relationship and even the 9 month that these guys are freedom loving. You have to give them space. If they say they just need a day to themselves, give it to them! If you don't respect their space, they will lose respect in you quick. And don't question their intentions or motives when they're having this day to themselves.
Don't get huffy or upset if they don't show interest in your day. Truth is, they are interested, but they don't always feel like being in a talkative mood. They also are not the jealous type, or at least mine wasn't. So if you want to play that kind of game, pick another sign.
Don't get too attached to them too early - when they're ready to commit, it will be on their terms. I'm not sure of your sign, but you have to possess a lot of patience with these guys. I think that's why mine and my Aqua guy of 3 years lasted. I accepted him for who he was and vise versa and I even forgave his indiscretions and I continued to see what a great guy he was.
You have to give them A LOT of space, or they will run and take cover. If you hover over them, then they will not feel their independence - they need time to do a test drive with you before they commit. Keep their brains challenged - don't be a ditz.
The length of the relationship depends on the chemistry. I dated one for 3 years, was engaged, we had some problems, broke up, and in the midst of getting back together, he died.
I've dated 2 other Aquas in recent years and one lasted about 9 months and the other was a flash in the pan. I learned early with the 3 year-relationship and even the 9 month that these guys are freedom loving. You have to give them space. If they say they just need a day to themselves, give it to them! If you don't respect their space, they will lose respect in you quick. And don't question their intentions or motives when they're having this day to themselves.
Don't get huffy or upset if they don't show interest in your day. Truth is, they are interested, but they don't always feel like being in a talkative mood. They also are not the jealous type, or at least mine wasn't. So if you want to play that kind of game, pick another sign.
Don't get too attached to them too early - when they're ready to commit, it will be on their terms. I'm not sure of your sign, but you have to possess a lot of patience with these guys. I think that's why mine and my Aqua guy of 3 years lasted. I accepted him for who he was and vise versa and I even forgave his indiscretions and I continued to see what a great guy he was.
I agree with houston.
Being a cap, I did get attached to a previous Aqua and he doesn't to bolt :O He wanted his freedom with other women
So I let him be free ... but without me. He will be a very decent man once he is ready to commit but beforehand will continue to play around.
Being a cap, I did get attached to a previous Aqua and he doesn't to bolt :O He wanted his freedom with other women
So I let him be free ... but without me. He will be a very decent man once he is ready to commit but beforehand will continue to play around.
Are you a scorp?
If so dont, go all postal and dramatic because he will leave you.
If so dont, go all postal and dramatic because he will leave you.
Oh, she's a scorpio? That means she is worse than a Taurus with emotions.
LOL
j/k
LOL
j/k
asa011...just curious why you are inquiring about aqua in relationships when you were with one for a year...don't you already know???
LOL! Well damn...She posted this on the Scorp board also. I thought it was a guy.
HP are you turning on us???? I see you are on the Aqua board a lot-TRADER
HP are you turning on us???? I see you are on the Aqua board a lot-TRADER
LOL...I'm not a traitor. The Aqua board was the first board I encountered a couple of months ago and I like coming in here. I still keep up with Pluto's Muse and her Scorpio guy.
I love everyone. I would never betray anyone.
I love everyone. I would never betray anyone.
oh, I know that song....
The Cure, right?
The Cure, right?
The Cure? I have never listened to their music.
Okay HP You still my girl...
Okay HP
You still my girl...Thanks, Karima.
Group Hug.
Group Hug.
No sb
you talking to anyone specific, sb or just a random reader?
Haiducii-Dragostea
The Love under the Lime Tree
Ain't Google great?
I know right HP...
Well im outta guess'..i guess google was WRONG.
Well im outta guess'..i guess google was WRONG.
sb, you want my smart ass answer or was that a rhetorical question?
@ HP&SBGoogle was right
hey how much longer do you think they'll keep youtube free?
poor girls thread has been hi-jacked after 6 posts LOL
yeah it didn't take long, LadyM. Prime arrived.
Oh ok now the song is familiar.
Yes i am being nice. I just find it funny its already gone off topic, so quickly.
It kinda shows what redundance can do to people.
It kinda shows what redundance can do to people.
oh so that's what's causes things to go off topic...
got it.
made a note of it.
got it.
made a note of it.
what, not what's
i'm working from home today and watching TV...I'm a slacker.
i'm working from home today and watching TV...I'm a slacker.
The Aqua board is just so hilarious. There is always so many topics going on and it never stays on track. LOL.
Oh really? Well, then I guess we're on track in Aquarian style where nothing stays the same as we are always looking for something interesting to talk about or do. The thread started with relationship advice and went quickly to lyrics of a Cure song, then some other song from the summertime to videos link. Hey, I'm not knocking it at all. It's just so great to see so many different personalities with different points of view. Makes life grand. Also in Aqua land things go very quickly.
Well, then I guess we're on track in Aquarian style where nothing stays the same as we are always looking for something interesting to talk about or do. The thread started with relationship advice and went quickly to lyrics of a Cure song, then some other song from the summertime to videos link. Hey, I'm not knocking it at all. It's just so great to see so many different personalities with different points of view. Makes life grand. Also in Aqua land things go very quickly.Definitely different personalities in here. But of course I'm SOOO lovable.
HP74,
Yes, of course you are lovable. Taureans are great people. I should know as my first love was one.
Primegen,
I totally agree.
Yes, of course you are lovable. Taureans are great people. I should know as my first love was one.
Primegen,
I totally agree.
Thanks, Mystical. I try to get along with everyone.
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