Aqua boys are sweet.

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Posted by aquaj
In all seriousness, if you can actually get an Aqua to declare that he is All Yours, congratulations. Because I know that once an Aqua gets an idea in their head, they get stuck on it, and people are no exception, so if he likes the idea of you and being yours, he'll be impossible to get rid of. Lucky you.



Sure...they're yours...until they have a mood swing...hate you for 3-5 days...question your relationship and your future with them...then decide to love you again like nothing happened.

I'm not harboring any angst at all.


ARG!
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Posted by aquaj
In all seriousness, if you can actually get an Aqua to declare that he is All Yours, congratulations. Because I know that once an Aqua gets an idea in their head, they get stuck on it, and people are no exception, so if he likes the idea of you and being yours, he'll be impossible to get rid of. Lucky you.



Sure...they're yours...until they have a mood swing...hate you for 3-5 days...question your relationship and your future with them...then decide to love you again like nothing happened.

I'm not harboring any angst at all.


ARG!
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Then again...my particular Aqua's actions may be based on the ABUNDANCE of Pisces in his chart. Gotta love mutables.
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Posted by WaterCup
i think ur a rare breed of an aqua male lad. Saturn is stabilizing u and giving u dependability, etc. The others, its like ur dating casper. Im no ghost buster or a medium, thats why im not a fan. Some teen girl would be lucky to have u, stay away from hags though, lol. How are you lad?




Aww thanks WaterCup that means a lot to me, yea Saturn does stabilize me I am only dependable though once you got me hooked then I always be there. Until then I will duck, spin, roll, dodge, and dance my away around if they try suffocating me.
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I am a Scorpio and I have spent the majority of my life with two of them. I was engaged to one that then ended and I married the other both birthdates were the 16 Feb. My husband seems nothing like an Aquarius at all, he dislikes pretty much all people in general, I am far more social than he is and all he wants to do is sit around the house drink, gamble and play the occassional game of golf. Loves his freedom apparently (never mentioned or showed this when we were dating as I couldn't get rid of him for 5 seconds of peace for love or money!) I found with both of mine, they were mega clingy when dating then when they feel they have got you, they disappear only to return whenever the heck they feel like it! My husband admitted he lied to me when we were dating as to who he was as he didn't want to lose me (obviously that was a great choice as we now have a 4 year old daughter and and impending separation to deal with instead!). They are so warm, loving and caring up front but I was assured from both of them that this is just an act to win the girl, what you actually end up with is the complete opposite. I was so sick with the flu a couple of weeks ago and he managed to drive to the local TAB (3 times) to place bets on the horse races but it was too much trouble to get me some medicine on his travels........very cold hearted and me being a scorpio - it hurts like hell to see another human so unconcerned for his mate. I would have helped out a complete stranger in that situation but he couldn't even do it for his wife 😢 Now for the positives!! He is very responsible and strives to be the best in his chosen career. He is very reliable too. If he tells you he will do something, he generally will. He is also a good provider for my daughter and I but unfortunately he believes this is his only role........no helping around the house, no helping with daughter, no emotional support. I am sure they would be perfect for some, but not for ultra sensitive water signs............
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"He is very responsible and strives to be the best in his chosen career. He is very reliable too. If he tells you he will do something, he generally will. He is also a good provider for my daughter and I but unfortunately he believes this is his only role........no helping around the house, no helping with daughter, no emotional support. I am sure they would be perfect for some, but not for ultra sensitive water signs............"

Not to be argumentative but this last paragraph seems contradictary. How can he be a good provider for your daughter if he doens't help with your daughter. To me that seems impossible. I'm sorry about the seperation but it seems as though it worked out for the best for you. Good luck.
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For sum reason i found the above post touching. Aqua or not aqua, we are all humans at the end of the day. If he is not there for u emotionally then maybe he shouldnt be there at all. Who does that to their spouse when they are sick? He is selfish and doesnt deserve anyone, but the horses he is betting on. Stay strong for your daughter, be a role model to her by not accepting his crap. Children mirror more the behaviors of the same sex parent. All the best to you.
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Thankyou both for your support 🙂 I have gone over this so many times in my head whether or not I should leave or stay for my daughter and I honestly could put up with an eternity of crap if it made her happy but she is a Scorpio too and very much like me so she picks up on sooo many things already and she is only 4..... Sorry Tbird, I should have clarified that him being 'a good provider' meant financially as in paying bills/food etc....he is very money orientated. I think he used to view me as an equal prior to our daughter's birth as we used to pay half for everything as we both worked full time, but when I had to stop work to have our daughter and then go back to part time work he seemed to lose respect for me as I was no longer bringing in the money so he views me as being 'under' him. The equality and respect has completely gone. The sad thing is that he told me he wanted children (I wasn't too concerned either way) but he is an only child and his mum desperately wanted a grand child so we decided to have one but he pretty much did it for her as he doesen't even really like kids (I found this out later). He would much prefer to spend his time to himself, which is sad for my baby girl............she does love her daddy but I think she would like much more of him to herself 😢 Oh well, here's hoping it gets better for us down the road :-)
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Ahh the ol' stay together for the kids scenerio. Never works...kids pick up on it and alters their perception of what a good, stable and fullfilling marriage ought to be. Trust me my parents did it and the above happened. Hence me staying in a horrible relationship for 14 years. The last 6 years he was a hard core drug addict. Not healthy.

You're welcome hun and you don't even have to apologize to me at all hun.

Oh god that's gut wrenchingly sad. Him wanting children to appease others while not liking children is such a bad thing on so many different level. I know how it is to have a non-present/present father. Meaning him physically being there and that's it. It sucks so badly and it is very hard to deal with. I truly don't even know what to say rather than be strong.
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Posted by tbird
Aqua guys are amazing.... they keep you on their toes for sure. *shakes fist* How many times do I have to request for you aqua guys to wear a sign or sticker that says danger I'm an aqua and highly addictive and mysterious.

Yeah aqualad get loads of luv from me. *hands over a plate of lemon bars* 😄



Well I am throwing that love right back to you girl. Oh man why do you do this to me... I love those tasty treats. Uggh now I have to find someone tomorrow who can make those delicious things and propose it is my only option. 😛