Aqua Confesses Love and more...
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by a muse a libra on Monday, January 14, 2008 and has 5 replies.
A whirlwind romance last summer with a lovely Aqua has me brooding (still!). Just as I grew to love him, about the same moment, he backed off. Not unexpected, not only because he is an Aqua, but because the timing was bad. It hurt, but I have been able to handle it. He moved away, but is returning soon.
Now, he never said he loved me to me, but he told others how he felt about me. These feelings have recently come to my attention. It's been about 5 months since I've seen him and I'm wondering:
Do Aqua men go back to old flames? Do I still have a glimmer of hope here?
Now, he never said he loved me to me, but he told others how he felt about me. These feelings have recently come to my attention. It's been about 5 months since I've seen him and I'm wondering:
Do Aqua men go back to old flames? Do I still have a glimmer of hope here?
You have hope...trust me. If the time and place is right you've got hope.
"Do Aqua men go back to old flames? Do I still have a glimmer of hope here?"
I'm an aqua female. I had a Sag to back out on a relationship with me last year. Said he wanted to be "just friends". The thing was I kept hearing from my sister and mutual friends how he felt about me, but I never felt like he felt that way about me so when he came back I was skeptical about letting back him so I decided to leave well enough alone. Now, it's been ages since we've been together even though we see each other and make small talk from time to time. But given that it's a new year and we're both at a different time in our lives now, I'm thinking of possibly going back to this old flame...but I don't wanna rush. I'd rather take things slowly. Start off as just friends and then see how I like it from there.
If an Aqua has been hurt, it is hard for he or she to go back to that same relationship. But once we look at the situation, explore our options, and take time out to think things through, then we're able to see the best choice or decision for ourseves as to whether we should continue or should go back.
Now that the time is right, and your Aqua may still have feelings for you he might still be willing to pursue a relationship with you. I can't see why not. I hope things work out. :-)
I'm an aqua female. I had a Sag to back out on a relationship with me last year. Said he wanted to be "just friends". The thing was I kept hearing from my sister and mutual friends how he felt about me, but I never felt like he felt that way about me so when he came back I was skeptical about letting back him so I decided to leave well enough alone. Now, it's been ages since we've been together even though we see each other and make small talk from time to time. But given that it's a new year and we're both at a different time in our lives now, I'm thinking of possibly going back to this old flame...but I don't wanna rush. I'd rather take things slowly. Start off as just friends and then see how I like it from there.
If an Aqua has been hurt, it is hard for he or she to go back to that same relationship. But once we look at the situation, explore our options, and take time out to think things through, then we're able to see the best choice or decision for ourseves as to whether we should continue or should go back.
Now that the time is right, and your Aqua may still have feelings for you he might still be willing to pursue a relationship with you. I can't see why not. I hope things work out. :-)
Thanks for the encouragement. I feel comfortable now, and I definitely understand where you're coming from cherished_one. I don't return to old flames casually either. It's definitely best to regain a friendship first, and take things slow. I hope your situation works out for you.
Aqua men usually only go back to old flames if they never emotionally detached fully from the old flame. Alot of times, Aquas are left high & dry and b/c they fear looking weak & like the "broken" one, they'll suck it up & move on, w/o really & fully resolving or healing from the past pain. So what happens is, once that old flame that they never truly got over comes back, it's like deja vu all over again & the feelings are able to come back b/c they truly never left.
Now on the other hand, once an Aqua emotionally detaches themselves from their partners, it's over forever. Sure, they sometimes will get back with you (but that's just them subconsciously testing their emotions to make sure that they made the right decision). And sometimes Aquas will come back b/c the feelings only 50% left & b/c Aquas are very possessive over who & what they love, they aren't that selfish enough to 100% let go of something if 50% of their heart is still in it.
If this Aqua is still professing his love to you, then that means that you have hope. It would be different if he just told you how he felt, but no he told others, which is a symbol that he's not afraid to acknowledge or admit his feelings about you to the world. When an Aqua hasn't fully detached, it's always easier for them to not see you for a while, randomly see you 6 months later & start back up from where they left off. And when this happens, that Aqua usually will coming back UNTIL he completely emotionally detaches himself. Once that happens, there is no chance of him ever loving his old flame the way he used to (which will completely defeat the purpose of wanting him for that mysterious & passionate love that probably made you fall for him in the first place)
Now on the other hand, once an Aqua emotionally detaches themselves from their partners, it's over forever. Sure, they sometimes will get back with you (but that's just them subconsciously testing their emotions to make sure that they made the right decision). And sometimes Aquas will come back b/c the feelings only 50% left & b/c Aquas are very possessive over who & what they love, they aren't that selfish enough to 100% let go of something if 50% of their heart is still in it.
If this Aqua is still professing his love to you, then that means that you have hope. It would be different if he just told you how he felt, but no he told others, which is a symbol that he's not afraid to acknowledge or admit his feelings about you to the world. When an Aqua hasn't fully detached, it's always easier for them to not see you for a while, randomly see you 6 months later & start back up from where they left off. And when this happens, that Aqua usually will coming back UNTIL he completely emotionally detaches himself. Once that happens, there is no chance of him ever loving his old flame the way he used to (which will completely defeat the purpose of wanting him for that mysterious & passionate love that probably made you fall for him in the first place)
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