Aqua confusion

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Catch26 on Thursday, April 10, 2014 and has 8 replies.
Well I've known this Aquarius girl since 09 and I love her more than anything in the world.We did have a relationship in 2011 which didn't work out because I had my own insecurities.(I've never dealt with a woman that's so open to being friends with so many guys).She stated that we would get back together but nothing has to be rushed and I'm the one.Its been quite some time now and we still hang out together and go out on dates and get a little intimate but not too much because I can tell she's not ready for a relationship because she values her freedom so much.She lets me in for a period of time but then she disappears(gon missing now) when I seem to make the right move.What I want to know is,what does it take for these women to want to commit to an exclusive relationship?I know forcing things and constant contact is a no go.It seems like I'm disabled and I have no kind of fire power.
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I'm a Leo...Pisces moon
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Posted by Catch26
Well I've known this Aquarius girl since 09 and I love her more than anything in the world.We did have a relationship in 2011 which didn't work out because I had my own insecurities.(I've never dealt with a woman that's so open to being friends with so many guys).She stated that we would get back together but nothing has to be rushed and I'm the one.Its been quite some time now and we still hang out together and go out on dates and get a little intimate but not too much because I can tell she's not ready for a relationship because she values her freedom so much.She lets me in for a period of time but then she disappears(gon missing now) when I seem to make the right move.What I want to know is,what does it take for these women to want to commit to an exclusive relationship?I know forcing things and constant contact is a no go.It seems like I'm disabled and I have no kind of fire power.


ok well, if she's NOT willing to give up her male entourage, she's NOT worth it. She's too preoccupied with her bevy of men adoring her. How can you put up with that? A man with great patience would SNAP!!!
so honestly, she is immature and not willing to give you the relationship full on, by giving you the commitment you want. Plus she disappears? You don't want someone like that do you? Go after women who are there for you.
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When I say guys,it's not JUST guys.Just the fact that she's friends with guys period.She seems to be more worried about hanging out with her girlfriends and establishing a career.
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Posted by Catch26
When I say guys,it's not JUST guys.Just the fact that she's friends with guys period.She seems to be more worried about hanging out with her girlfriends and establishing a career.


she's a career woman then. she probably puts career #1 over you. Her bevy of male entourage is probably just the icing on the cake.
be glad you are not with her. you would be going crazy and you don't want that kind of heartache do you? Now, let go....and pursue the women that want you back crazily. Big Grin
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see this guy? Tongue
this guy has it going on. ^___^
be that guy:
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Posted by Sugarfoot
Posted by Catch26
Well I've known this Aquarius girl since 09 and I love her more than anything in the world.We did have a relationship in 2011 which didn't work out because I had my own insecurities.(I've never dealt with a woman that's so open to being friends with so many guys).She stated that we would get back together but nothing has to be rushed and I'm the one.Its been quite some time now and we still hang out together and go out on dates and get a little intimate but not too much because I can tell she's not ready for a relationship because she values her freedom so much.She lets me in for a period of time but then she disappears(gon missing now) when I seem to make the right move.What I want to know is,what does it take for these women to want to commit to an exclusive relationship?I know forcing things and constant contact is a no go.It seems like I'm disabled and I have no kind of fire power.


If you want to get her back, give her freedom. Back all the way off. She should feel like SHE chose YOU. if she feels like you're manipulating her into being with her, it'll be a no go. So, no more moves from you is the best move.
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that's pretty good advice, Ultra.
however, with me, when my husband pursued me...he was RELENTLESS. NO QUARTER. so i gave in. because the more i know you love me, and want me, with FEARLESSNESS....i am safe and happy!!
this one however sounds like a freebird. and not very stable.
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hm which begs to say....
OP, this woman probably feels you lack backbone. and she won't go for a man who has NO backbone.
you must face your fears and face it with COURAGE.
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