Aqua disappears...dont understand..????

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by buttercuppp1111 on Tuesday, November 19, 2013 and has 3 replies.
Okay ...I will try to make this short ...this aqua guy told me, "im in love with you" on the FIRST night we hung out (granted we were drunk) he texted me 24/7 and told me any guy would be soooo lucky to have me... he would try to visit me all the time during his limited free time at school...he seeemed really genuine ..and like such a sweet guy...after hooking up twice he started to text me barely once a month. How does this happen???? why would he go from being so genuine and seeming like he's head over heels with me to ignoring me for weeks...? Before, if he couldnt text or his phone wasnt working he would write a paragraph emailing me apologizing... It hurts me that he just ignores me now....i thought aquarians care about peoples feelings...? he told me he always remains friends with his ex's even.....??
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Some aquas come off strong in the beginning. Then they start thinking and feel vulnerable and back off. OR they meant it at the time and then realize you're not the one so they slowly disappear.
I'm a capricorn, but, personally, if someone tells me the love me too soon, warning sirens go off and I'm the one who's leery. I'm like 'you don't even KNOW me, how can you know you love me?' (unless it's someone I've known for a long time). In my opinion, guys who fall in love fast, lose interest really fast.
But that's all beside the point. You're hurting and confused. It's understandable. Don't take it personally, give him his freedom and start living your life for you. Don't let it wreck your confidence. I wouldn't chase him, but perhaps text him a little weird funny thing every now and again and see if it gets better. Be friendly when you see him, no sense being all angry because that will definitely run a guy off. But if you're honestly confident and secure within yourself, just realize some guys are the one and some guys aren't and you can use their behavior as a weeding out tool.
For me, he would have blown his chances because he's showing he's not reliable and dependable. If you look at it with that attitude, then you will save yourself a lot of analyzing and heart ache.
I don't know if I helped you any, but I do understand how that aqua distance is confusing and hurtful.
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I don't think this has to do with astrology honey
The keyword that gives me this impression is "AFTER."
He was being all over you BEFORE he got the cookie. Then AFTER he got it, he disappeared. Get where I'm going?!
Sounds like he just wanted you for some azz. And yes, some men will say all of the right things, tell you everything they THINK women wanna hear & fill your head up with all of these empty promises all so that they can get into your pants. Once they've gotten the cookie a few times, they're true colors come out, how they REALLY feel about you shows through their actions, etc.
I'll never understand why some men put in so much work/energy just to get the cookie. And hell, sometimes they'll go to extremes & wait for long periods of time to get the cookie, which makes him seem genuine in a woman's eyes b/c women are so used to a man being persistent only up to a certain point, but then dropping out once he starts giving up hope that he'll be able to have sex with her.
The big red flag in this story was when he told you he loved you on the 1st date. BIG red flag!
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