Aqua dude breaking my heart

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by melyssa on Monday, February 4, 2008 and has 3 replies.
Hi im new here too. I met this aqua on my birthday of november 17th 2007. I had my cousin to go and talk to him for me and he obliged. So I walk over to him and we began to talk. It was magic, fireworks, i would have given up any dude to talk to him at the time. He felt it too, sooo much so to the point we were acting like husband and wife after just meeting one another!!! Then the wait came. He waited six days to call me back after we first met (first time this ever happened to me) I was going INSANE. But finally we talked(texted) and I was good. Then a period of four weeks went by with nothing (i was devastated and thought he was gone) and he asked why I never called(texted) him back, which I did, but we started to talk again on and off four two weeks after that then POOF nothing. He went away for five weeks, yet again i was heartbroken and thought he might have moved on cause I was a virgin. Well guess what??? I saw him just one day after this long period of time at another club!!! He stared me down the whole night!!! My friend approached him and he told her he had been waiting for me!!! We talked. He was acting somewhat aloof but was still being sincere as always. He friends saw me though and began to laugh casue they knew who i was. He told me he lost touch because he soo busy and i stay and hour away and felt like a relationship wouldnt work. he texted me today saying he wasnt trying to be rude and still wants to see me, but if I could come to his part of town this time.(he even said maybe it was meant to be after all at the club) dont want to be made of fool of, what am i to do PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sounds like this guy has more women than he can handle...dump him, ignore him and act as if he doesn't exist, sounds cruel but it works, no you don't have to be mean or look at him mean but make sure you don't go out of your way to speak to him, everytime you see him avoid him and he will come to you b/c Aqua's hate to be ignored b/c we are the masters of being aloof, your way too eager and open for an Aqua, your not challenging him mentally, so he's not that into it. Ignore Ignore Ignore and that will get your Aqua to open up.
Don't be afraid to ask this guy what he's about, if he's disappearing weeks at a time then he's more than likely not looking for anything or taking any one woman seriously...
I agree!! Dump away!! Hard to do but works a treat!

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