Aqua ex completely ignored me. Kind of right now :/

This topic was created in the Aquarius Men forum by leodilemma19900730 on Tuesday, September 27, 2016 and has 41 replies.
My ex (well sort of. We had adisagreement and then a lot of miscommunication a month ago) was in my city 2 weeks ago. I knew this because he told me so. All I said back to that was “oh ok cool”. Now, according to my friends that was his way of trying to open the door because he didn’t have to tell me he was in my city. That clearly went over my head.


So fast forward to now. My friend saw that he was here so I shot him a quick text and said heard you’re here. Since I missed you the last time you were here would you like to grab some coffee? Let me know. Miss you.


Not a single word from him. Just completely ignored me. He’s never ignored me before. The hell? Guess I’m just venting. Feeling kind of hurt right now :/
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I wouldn't bother with this anymore. I know exactly how you feel.


It does go to show you what kind of person he is.


Tit for tat


Find something that you can do to raise your spirit.
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Posted by DMV
I wouldn't bother with this anymore. I know exactly how you feel.


It does go to show you what kind of person he is.


Tit for tat


Find something that you can do to raise your spirit.
Not saying he's right for how he's handling this but can you blame him? If a guy that you cared about blew you off, got word that you're in his town, then wanted to see you after blowing you off two weeks ago, how would you feel? I know I would be confused, pissed, and ready to tell him fuck off. I would think he was toying with me. I most certainly would be confused about his intentions.


Bottom line is OP you blew him off (unintentionally). Honestly him blowing you off is kind of to be expected. He's also probably really confused. It's like, "so she didn't want to see me 2 weeks ago but when she sees I'm back now she wants to see me?". It's like what does she want? And I'm not going to come running when she calls just because she asked me to after blowing me off recently. Kiss my ass.


He doesn't want to be made a fool of.


If you want to salvage this you need to explain you weren't trying to blow him off you just didn't know he was trying to see you.
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Posted by Gob_Shite
He reached out to you, offered you a chance to possibly patch things up. You were too proud and dumb to realise that.


He's not playing games - you blew it.


Idiot...


Hold on. No need to call OP an idiot. She made a mistake. Unless you're infallible there's no need to call her an idiot. You could just as easily say this guy is an asshole for completely ignoring her. Sounds like he's too proud as well. Two weeks before he wanted to patch things up, OP tries and he isn't receptive. I highly doubt his feelings went away that quickly.

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I wouldn't bother with this anymore. I know exactly how you feel.


It does go to show you what kind of person he is.


Tit for tat


Find something that you can do to raise your spirit.
Not saying he's right for how he's handling this but can you blame him? If a guy that you cared about blew you off, got word that you're in his town, then wanted to see you after blowing you off two weeks ago, how would you feel? I know I would be confused, pissed, and ready to tell him fuck off. I would think he was toying with me. I most certainly would be confused about his intentions.


Bottom line is OP you blew him off (unintentionally). Honestly him blowing you off is kind of to be expected. He's also probably really confused. It's like, "so she didn't want to see me 2 weeks ago but when she sees I'm back now she wants to see me?". It's like what does she want? And I'm not going to come running when she calls just because she asked me to after blowing me off recently. Kiss my ass.


He doesn't want to be made a fool of.


If you want to salvage this you need to explain you weren't trying to blow him off you just didn't know he was trying to see you.
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Idk the whole story but tit for tat is exhausting. If its tit for tat in the beginning cant imagine what the rest will be like.


Miscommunication shouldn't lead to tit for tat. Adults talk things out.

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I wouldn't bother with this anymore. I know exactly how you feel.


It does go to show you what kind of person he is.


Tit for tat


Find something that you can do to raise your spirit.
Not saying he's right for how he's handling this but can you blame him? If a guy that you cared about blew you off, got word that you're in his town, then wanted to see you after blowing you off two weeks ago, how would you feel? I know I would be confused, pissed, and ready to tell him fuck off. I would think he was toying with me. I most certainly would be confused about his intentions.


Bottom line is OP you blew him off (unintentionally). Honestly him blowing you off is kind of to be expected. He's also probably really confused. It's like, "so she didn't want to see me 2 weeks ago but when she sees I'm back now she wants to see me?". It's like what does she want? And I'm not going to come running when she calls just because she asked me to after blowing me off recently. Kiss my ass.


He doesn't want to be made a fool of.


If you want to salvage this you need to explain you weren't trying to blow him off you just didn't know he was trying to see you.
Idk the whole story but tit for tat is exhausting. If its tit for tat in the beginning cant imagine what the rest will be like.


Miscommunication shouldn't lead to tit for tat. Adults talk things out.

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I do agree that he's handling this like a child. I understand why he feels the way he does but find his approach to be all wrong.


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Agreed
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Posted by Gob_Shite
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He reached out to you, offered you a chance to possibly patch things up. You were too proud and dumb to realise that.


He's not playing games - you blew it.


Idiot...


Hold on. No need to call OP an idiot. She made a mistake. Unless you're infallible there's no need to call her an idiot. You could just as easily say this guy is an asshole for completely ignoring her. Sounds like he's too proud as well. Two weeks before he wanted to patch things up, OP tries and he isn't receptive. I highly doubt his feelings went away that quickly.



He's merely reacting to her seemingly detached behaviour, which is perfectly natural for any human being.


And he's not an asshole because he didn't start the recent negative chain of events. She did.


She's only feeling sorry for herself because of her EGO. I have no sympathy for Leo women who have yet to realise that acting like a prima donna does NO-ONE any favours.


I still stand by my claim that she's an idiot (that or an idiotic drama queen).







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Sounds like a Leo hurt you.


He is an asshole. He completely ignored her. That's being a jerk, child, asshole, etc. He could've said hey you pissed me off. I honestly think you're playing games. Even a simple no, but he didn't. That's just rude. I get why he's upset but you just can't treat people like that.
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I do agree that he's handling this like a child. I understand why he feels the way he does but find his approach to be all wrong.



And who was the one who originally tried to bury the hatchet?


He gave her a chance. Whether or not he'll ever contact her again, he's within his rights to ignore her if he so wishes. It's not childish but merely another form of self-preservation.


Obviously, for you, the man is always wrong...






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If someone asks you a question, especially one of wanting to get together and they ignore you is childish and rude. Why not just say no thanks? OP could've been waiting for his response to plan out the rest of her day. Again, rude and childish.
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what came first, the chicken or the egg?


Who cares. Adults at least talk to one another.
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He's ignoring you like you ignored him.
yeah most likely


indecisiveness coming from a romantic interest is no good
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You don't think that's rude of him? I didn't technically ignore him.

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Posted by DMV
what came first, the chicken or the egg?


Who cares. Adults at least talk to one another.


Thank you. My point exactly.
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He's ignoring you like you ignored him.
yeah most likely


indecisiveness coming from a romantic interest is no good
You don't think that's rude of him? I didn't technically ignore him.

Key word: "technically"


Which means you did, he initiated interest saying he wanted to see you. You ignored it instead than turn around to make plans, so he's doing the same thing.

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That's the thing he didn't say it per se. He said he was in my city. I thought ok well he didn't say let's grab lunch or anything so I didn't see it as him asking/wanting to see me, hence why I said "oh ok cool".
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what came first, the chicken or the egg?


Who cares. Adults at least talk to one another.


Thank you. My point exactly.


No, this thread is about you complaining how things didn't transpire ON YOUR TERMS.


Like a typical unevolved Leo, you're being utterly selfish.


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No. I said you had no place to call OP an idiot because she made a mistake. I'm not the only one who believes he's rude and childish to have completely ignored her. Has nothing to do with my terms. I agreed with another user who said he wasn't acting like an adult first.
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This is so typical between proud and stubborn signs (I can only speak for Leo/Aqua).


Bottom line OP, you blew it by blowing off his attempt to get your attention. You could have asked if he wanted to get together when he told you he'd be near you, if you wanted.


You asked here about it, and chose not to engage him. You don't now have a leg to stand on if he does the same.
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Posted by leodilemma19900730
My ex (well sort of. We had adisagreement and then a lot of miscommunication a month ago) was in my city 2 weeks ago. I knew this because he told me so. All I said back to that was “oh ok cool”. Now, according to my friends that was his way of trying to open the door because he didn’t have to tell me he was in my city. That clearly went over my head.


So fast forward to now. My friend saw that he was here so I shot him a quick text and said heard you’re here. Since I missed you the last time you were here would you like to grab some coffee? Let me know. Miss you.


Not a single word from him. Just completely ignored me. He’s never ignored me before. The hell? Guess I’m just venting. Feeling kind of hurt right now :/
Sounds like he was looking forward to see you the first time when he came and you agreed to meet but you didn't, that made him think that you are not reliable, may be he spend too much time waiting and pi**ed off that day.


This time when he came I bet he was having good time and saw your text and don't want to contact you just because he don't want to spoil his trip.


I think he is having a breath of fresh air at the moment. Good luck Ms Leo.


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He's ignoring you like you ignored him.
yeah most likely


indecisiveness coming from a romantic interest is no good
You don't think that's rude of him? I didn't technically ignore him.

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Leo, you've done nothing wrong. You replied politely the first time around and it was him who abandonned the conversation.


He, on the other hand, could not be bothered to reply, which is as rude as it gets.


He is in your town for other reason than meeting you. Maybe he's dating someone else?


Forget him.
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A real man should have the guts to ask a woman out, not carry on sulking because the woman didn't ask him out!
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"Oh ok cool"


Damn, ice cold.


But yea he should have been more upfront and asked to hang out. Maybe he's insecure about you cos of all the previous fighting
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She did nothing wrong. He's just a coward!!!! A real man takes control. You don't need a coward OP.
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sagitarius here

i dont know about u

but me and my aquarius are thick

i insult him so much

yet he always replied to my texts all day and when his home he gives me his full attention

he says im his queen

and hes my toy

so if u hav to ask astrology wise

then sorry this man no more into u
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Posted by leodilemma19900730
My ex (well sort of. We had adisagreement and then a lot of miscommunication a month ago) was in my city 2 weeks ago. I knew this because he told me so. All I said back to that was “oh ok cool”. Now, according to my friends that was his way of trying to open the door because he didn’t have to tell me he was in my city. That clearly went over my head.


So fast forward to now. My friend saw that he was here so I shot him a quick text and said heard you’re here. Since I missed you the last time you were here would you like to grab some coffee? Let me know. Miss you.


Not a single word from him. Just completely ignored me. He’s never ignored me before. The hell? Guess I’m just venting. Feeling kind of hurt right now :/
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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
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Posted by dontwant2fitinn
Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

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He reached out to you, offered you a chance to possibly patch things up. You were too proud and dumb to realise that.


He's not playing games - you blew it.


Idiot...


Hold on. No need to call OP an idiot. She made a mistake. Unless you're infallible there's no need to call her an idiot. You could just as easily say this guy is an asshole for completely ignoring her. Sounds like he's too proud as well. Two weeks before he wanted to patch things up, OP tries and he isn't receptive. I highly doubt his feelings went away that quickly.



He's merely reacting to her seemingly detached behaviour, which is perfectly natural for any human being.


And he's not an asshole because he didn't start the recent negative chain of events. She did.


She's only feeling sorry for herself because of her EGO. I have no sympathy for Leo women who have yet to realise that acting like a prima donna does NO-ONE any favours.


I still stand by my claim that she's an idiot (that or an idiotic drama queen).







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I don't agree with the name calling in this situation buuuuuuuutttt....she knew he contacted her for that reason.


She pretended to not care at the moment and possibly thought he would pursue further.


Why is it that when he let you know he was coming you didn't ask if he wanted to hang out ?


When you knew he was there in your town you all of a sudden want to hang out....ummmm...no.


He knows this and you do too...mind games...you gambled and lost this time.



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He reached out to you, offered you a chance to possibly patch things up. You were too proud and dumb to realise that.


He's not playing games - you blew it.


Idiot...


Hold on. No need to call OP an idiot. She made a mistake. Unless you're infallible there's no need to call her an idiot. You could just as easily say this guy is an asshole for completely ignoring her. Sounds like he's too proud as well. Two weeks before he wanted to patch things up, OP tries and he isn't receptive. I highly doubt his feelings went away that quickly.



He's merely reacting to her seemingly detached behaviour, which is perfectly natural for any human being.


And he's not an asshole because he didn't start the recent negative chain of events. She did.


She's only feeling sorry for herself because of her EGO. I have no sympathy for Leo women who have yet to realise that acting like a prima donna does NO-ONE any favours.


I still stand by my claim that she's an idiot (that or an idiotic drama queen).









I don't agree with the name calling in this situation buuuuuuuutttt....she knew he contacted her for that reason.


She pretended to not care at the moment and possibly thought he would pursue further.


Why is it that when he let you know he was coming you didn't ask if he wanted to hang out ?


When you knew he was there in your town you all of a sudden want to hang out....ummmm...no.


He knows this and you do too...mind games...you gambled and lost this time.



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As I've said I really didn't know. Like I told amethyst He said he was in my city. I thought ok well he didn't say let's grab lunch or anything so I didn't see it as him asking/wanting to see me, hence why I said "oh ok cool". I really wasn't playing games. My friend pointed it out to me that he told me that for a reason.


"When you knew he was there in your town you all of a sudden want to hang out....ummmm...no." why? Because it looks like I'm toying with him and want things on my time?
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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

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She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

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So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like he more than likely felt slighted and his ego is hurt after putting himself somewhat out there.


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Posted by leodilemma19900730

Because it looks like I'm toying with him and want things on my time?
That's exactly how it comes off.


And he will do the same thing, only Aqua literally will. Not. Care. if you get upset or think he's trying to control the situation. He is, and he'll get his way with or without you. And either way is fine with him even if he'd rather have it be with you.


That's where Leo loses because we don't tolerate not getting what (or who) we want and then we start playing games and ultimately piss Aqua off enough that we lose them anyway.




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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like he more than likely felt slighted and his ego is hurt after putting himself somewhat out there.


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They were broken up. So he did put his ego on pause because he wanted to see what was up with her.


She knows that. Now she's talking about doing things on her time and why is that an issue carrying on.


She knows him better than we do.


She did it on purpose and won't admit it.
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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like he more than likely felt slighted and his ego is hurt after putting himself somewhat out there.




They were broken up. So he did put his ego on pause because he wanted to see what was up with her.


She knows that. Now she's talking about doing things on her time and why is that an issue carrying on.


She knows him better than we do.


She did it on purpose and won't admit it.
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It's not her job to decode hints. He dropped the ball with that one. I don't think she did it on purpose.


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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like he more than likely felt slighted and his ego is hurt after putting himself somewhat out there.




They were broken up. So he did put his ego on pause because he wanted to see what was up with her.


She knows that. Now she's talking about doing things on her time and why is that an issue carrying on.


She knows him better than we do.


She did it on purpose and won't admit it.
It's not her job to decode hints. He dropped the ball with that one. I don't think she did it on purpose.


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How is that a hint...he said hey ex girlfriend I'm in town soon...she said ok cool...lol


No interest no nothing. Brushed him off...AND THEN...decides to say hey want to hang out.


She knew she wanted to hang out once he sent her the first text...she wanted him to kiss her ass to do so...she then found out he was there after pretending she didn't care ...but was basically waiting for him to get there..to try to hang out.


He sees through this...mind games. She could have asked him to hang out within those couple of weeks.


What changed...nothing.


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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like




How is that a hint...he said hey ex girlfriend I'm in town soon...she said ok cool...lol


No interest no nothing. Brushed him off...AND THEN...decides to say hey want to hang out.


She knew she wanted to hang out once he sent her the first text...she wanted him to kiss her ass to do so...she then found out he was there after pretending she didn't care ...but was basically waiting for him to get there..to try to hang out.


He sees through this...mind games. She could have asked him to hang out within those couple of weeks.


What changed...nothing.


No. I dropped off stuff at his place then sent him a text saying that's what i had done. Hours later he sent me a text saying thanks then another text saying he was in my city. I thought he was just letting me know that's why he hadn't gotten his things. I told my friend and that's when she said he told me that on purpose because he could've said he was out of town, not at home, or not have said anything at all. Again, I didn't do anything on purpose. I genuinely didn't pick up on the hint.

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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like




How is that a hint...he said hey ex girlfriend I'm in town soon...she said ok cool...lol


No interest no nothing. Brushed him off...AND THEN...decides to say hey want to hang out.


She knew she wanted to hang out once he sent her the first text...she wanted him to kiss her ass to do so...she then found out he was there after pretending she didn't care ...but was basically waiting for him to get there..to try to hang out.


He sees through this...mind games. She could have asked him to hang out within those couple of weeks.


What changed...nothing.


No. I dropped off stuff at his place then sent him a text saying that's what i had done. Hours later he sent me a text saying thanks then another text saying he was in my city. I thought he was just letting me know that's why he hadn't gotten his things. I told my friend and that's when she said he told me that on purpose because he could've said he was out of town, not at home, or not have said anything at all. Again, I didn't do anything on purpose. I genuinely didn't pick up on the hint.

But when you asked about it here, you were told multiple times that it was most likely a hint. That you didn't consider that afterwards is sort of on you.


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It's a mind game. It was a testing to see if he can still reel you in. It didn't work the first time around because your response deduced no interest at all. 'Ok cool' is the equivalence of 'Thank you for making your presence known and I care because?' He took it as a sign that you legitimately have no interest at all and he left it as that.


But then you responded with 'miss you.' Therefore, now he knows he still has you hooked because you just stroked his ego. His responses are brief. If he actually cared to see you would set a real time and place to meet, you fell for his bait. At the time he initially texted you, it was most likely out of spontaneity.
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He's ignoring you like you ignored him.
yeah most likely


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You don't think that's rude of him? I didn't technically ignore him.

Leo, you've done nothing wrong. You replied politely the first time around and it was him who abandonned the conversation.


He, on the other hand, could not be bothered to reply, which is as rude as it gets.


He is in your town for other reason than meeting you. Maybe he's dating someone else?


Forget him.


And how's it going with your Aqua? I rest my case...



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I asked for a no-contact break. I prefer my life as drama free as possible. I'm not a Leo Big Grin
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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.
Normally I would agree but not after 2 weeks. Sounds like he and OP didn't really stop caring for each other. Miscommunication was the issue here. Genuine feelings for someone just don't go away in 2 weeks. I wouldn't even say this is tit for tat. More so I'm going to be guarded because you blew me off.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like he more than likely felt slighted and his ego is hurt after putting himself somewhat out there.


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Agree to disagree.

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Uhm a fixed fire and fixed air is lava spewing into your eye anytime there is disagreements. Got to find that right compromise in fixed elements must look at other things that strengthen you.
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Or weakens so you can adjust other wise lots of burning inferno spewing out.
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Doesn't sound like tit for tat to me just a guy who is no longer interested.

She sounds like drama and from my point of view he is tired of it.

So because he wasn't explicit and direct with his intentions, she says "ok cool" to his hint she's drama?


It seems like they both dropped the ball. Still don't get the vibe that he's tired of it. It's not like it was some long drawn out spectale. Even when she reached out it was a short and simple message. Doesn't seem like drama. Seems like




How is that a hint...he said hey ex girlfriend I'm in town soon...she said ok cool...lol


No interest no nothing. Brushed him off...AND THEN...decides to say hey want to hang out.


She knew she wanted to hang out once he sent her the first text...she wanted him to kiss her ass to do so...she then found out he was there after pretending she didn't care ...but was basically waiting for him to get there..to try to hang out.


He sees through this...mind games. She could have asked him to hang out within those couple of weeks.


What changed...nothing.


No. I dropped off stuff at his place then sent him a text saying that's what i had done. Hours later he sent me a text saying thanks then another text saying he was in my city. I thought he was just letting me know that's why he hadn't gotten his things. I told my friend and that's when she said he told me that on purpose because he could've said he was out of town, not at home, or not have said anything at all. Again, I didn't do anything on purpose. I genuinely didn't pick up on the hint.



Oh ok...Well I can see how you didn't pick up on it honestly then...that makes more sense.


I probably would have been like oh ok too.




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