Aqua ex texting HB ...after 1 year of def. silence
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by cancimini on Sunday, July 7, 2013 and has 4 replies.
Hi all!
Last year Aqua and me (cancer) broke it off after 4,5 years. Soon after he started dating another girl for a few months. One of his friends told me she was very bossy. I never was, so I think he couldn't get used to that. Anyway... he acted a clown shortly after we broke up, was kinda arrogant (also in other pp's opinion) although I know he's not a bad person. I took a step back and broke all contact (even with his friends). While he was with this other girl he didn't wish me a happy birthday (I CAN.. understand that..).
ANYWAY... THIS year, after more than a year of plain silence, he texted me:
"Hi Mini, I wish you a very happy birthday, hope you're doing really well! Greets, Me and the dafties X"
(dafties = the 2 funny weird crazy cats we adopted)
I didn't want to be rude so I texted him back saying "txs and happy to hear those little rugrats are fine, given they are very adventurous! Greets x"
I thought that that was that, but he sent one more message:
"Of course they are! I take good care of them. The "do not freaking run under a car-lessen" we taught them, apparently worked BTW
x"
I wonder what's goin' on in his head. The Aqua and his feelings = terrible combination! Plus I didn't hear from him for such a long time and now all of a sudden he makes the effort wishing me a happy birthday and working on my soft side mentioning those two cute dwarfs?!
Just never thought I'd hear from him ever again. It's strange.. What could be going on in his mind? Any ideas?
Last year Aqua and me (cancer) broke it off after 4,5 years. Soon after he started dating another girl for a few months. One of his friends told me she was very bossy. I never was, so I think he couldn't get used to that. Anyway... he acted a clown shortly after we broke up, was kinda arrogant (also in other pp's opinion) although I know he's not a bad person. I took a step back and broke all contact (even with his friends). While he was with this other girl he didn't wish me a happy birthday (I CAN.. understand that..).
ANYWAY... THIS year, after more than a year of plain silence, he texted me:
"Hi Mini, I wish you a very happy birthday, hope you're doing really well! Greets, Me and the dafties X"
(dafties = the 2 funny weird crazy cats we adopted)
I didn't want to be rude so I texted him back saying "txs and happy to hear those little rugrats are fine, given they are very adventurous! Greets x"
I thought that that was that, but he sent one more message:
"Of course they are! I take good care of them. The "do not freaking run under a car-lessen" we taught them, apparently worked BTW
x"I wonder what's goin' on in his head. The Aqua and his feelings = terrible combination! Plus I didn't hear from him for such a long time and now all of a sudden he makes the effort wishing me a happy birthday and working on my soft side mentioning those two cute dwarfs?!
Just never thought I'd hear from him ever again. It's strange.. What could be going on in his mind? Any ideas?
Thats funny. My aqua ex started hitting me up too recently. I'm like not sure what to do about it either.
Simple. He's probably not in that relationship anymore.
If the only reason he didn't wish you a happy birthday before was b/c he was respecting the wishes of his partner then it makes sense that he'd go back to wishing you a happy birthday when he's no longer in that relationship
Plus keep in mind that a lot of time has passed too since you guys broke up. He's had time to calm down, to somewhat heal, ya know? It's alot easier being civil & speaking to someone after you've had time away from that person.
It may not even be that he's got some sick/twisted motive or is trying to wiggle his way back in or even initiate contact with you again so that it turns into more.
I don't think what he said to you recently was in any way him hitting on you or trying to get you back though. If he was "all in his feelings," you'd know b/c the conversation wouldn't be so platonic & general
If the only reason he didn't wish you a happy birthday before was b/c he was respecting the wishes of his partner then it makes sense that he'd go back to wishing you a happy birthday when he's no longer in that relationship
Plus keep in mind that a lot of time has passed too since you guys broke up. He's had time to calm down, to somewhat heal, ya know? It's alot easier being civil & speaking to someone after you've had time away from that person.
It may not even be that he's got some sick/twisted motive or is trying to wiggle his way back in or even initiate contact with you again so that it turns into more.
I don't think what he said to you recently was in any way him hitting on you or trying to get you back though. If he was "all in his feelings," you'd know b/c the conversation wouldn't be so platonic & general
Mercury retrograde. Simple as that.
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