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Apr 27, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 547 · Topics: 36
will this work? any exeperiances with this combo?
me aries
Sun Aries
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aries
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Taurus
her aqua
Sun Aquarius.
Moon Leo
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aries.
Mars Aries.
Jupiter Capricorn.
Saturn Scorpio.
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn.
Pluto Scorpio.
btw we are 7 years apart, lol
but i cant help my self and be drawn to her its very strange to me
any input would be appreciated
thanks
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Its supposed to be a good enough match.
onefineaquarius has been dating an aries guy for awhile now. You can PM her or hope she catches the thread.
"but i cant help my self and be drawn to her its very strange to me"
Its OK... 
"Hey! I did a search on my screenname so this popped up!
Lol. In the nick of time. =D I like Aries men. Some people can't stand them, but to me they're total studs. I don't mind stroking their ego not one bit. At least I think he was an Aries...maybe he was a Taurus...
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Im not one for stroking...egos...but I do want to play with an aries for a wee bit.
I am an Aqua female living with an Aries male. Our relationship is most often fun, very comfortable, very physical, and it just seems like a great match. My love grows for him every day. He shows me in action how much he loves me every day. He spoils me and cherishes me and he is not afraid to commit. He also has no jealousies so I am able to still have my friendships and so forth without him feeling threatened. He tries very hard to accept everyone in my life and treat them decently, even my past relationships. What he wants from me is to be there for him and just love him. It is the best relationship I've ever had with anyone. He has been and is my knight in shining armor. He protects me and supports me emotionally and understands me. I love my Aries guy and would do anything for him because he deserves it.
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i knew her aqua would come out but i didnt this ti would be so soon. i think she is getting scared how fast things are moving and how comfortable we are getting with each other so she was being weird last night, started to talk how she got out of a relationship not to long ago and how she is not ready and stuff like that, that hurt me a lot , i tried not to show it but my whole attitude changed and she noticed it rigih of way. she felt so bad and didnt want to look me in the eye she cleaned my entire kitchen , my asking not to do it didnt help at all.
so i already have this seed of doubt in my head and it makes me sad because this more likely than not will not last very long, but she made the choice for us. I dont think im able to talk for hours on the phone with her anymore, i felt it when she called me after she left my house.
My sign/chart is similar to this chicks, and my best friend's is even more so with the Leo moon.
Here's the deal: your girl is being logical. She's using logic as a way of not getting too close to you. She thinks if you want her bad enough you'll persist. She wouldn't be hanging out with you if she didn't like you.
If you want her, keep persisting. Don't be psycho, but keep trying in a calm, rational, normal manner. Be friends first. Don't bring up relationship talk.
Good luck!
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
I agree^
Persistnece is key...you have to be assertive sometimes in order to get what you want. Not demanding...dont confuse the two. Everything has its time and place and wording.
If she likes you and your persistent you can get somewhere.
IF she didnt like you...no matter how persistent you'd get nowhere...trust me.
Trust her actions more than what comes out of her mouth in regards to her true feelings.
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maybe so, maybe not
i showed her all my affection , maybe too much thats why she is backing off, everytime something like this happens makes me back away too. She might be waiting for me to be persistant and chase her now but i dont knwo if i want to do that anymore. Imagine your self in bed with the person you care for and you getting nice and close and all of the sudden you get splshed with icy cold water. this is how i feel right now. She was perfect and than she did this, not so perfect anymore. I dont know what makes me more sad, that she turned out to be like that, or that it happened again? oh well, thats life for you, guess i will have to start all over again
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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words . . . can wound forever
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Your taking this a little too personally.
It has NOTHING to do with you.
Her explanation was "she wasnt ready", correct?? You didnt say she said, "I dont like you in that way."
If you easily give up, this is not the girl for you. Because let me tell you aries man...this shit can take years...it just is what it is.
We arent hasty lovers.
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i dont give up easy, im not a quiter, i had fallen on some hard times before and i prevailed. I can and could go after her,but some of the things she said, makes me worried and i cant help to think that i could be setting my self up for another heartbrake cuaze she is so much younger ....been there done that.
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What did she say?
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things about her ex boyfriend, how she things this shouldnt be happening so fast, how we can be the specila kind of friends ( sex buddies?)
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I have my theories of why she would offer the FWB relationship.
hmmm...
Well if its possible you can just try being a friend...without the benefits, for sure.
OK, I didn't know there was an age factor, that could very well have something to do with it. If this chick is 21, or close to it, then she probably very well does not want anything serious with you.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with dating a younger girl, but you're probably not going to find one that is at the same stage of life and maturity that you are at if you are dating a much younger person. Being an Aquarius really doesn't have so much to do with it as much as, well, maybe you could say it DOES as she's being up front with you and Aquas are like that. I'd actually say that that's pretty mature of her.
My advice: move on.
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she is 23 im 30 and yes i think she is pretty mature for her age after all i was 23 once too lol
im not ready to move on yet, there is other issues at hand in her life that i knew about before we hooked up and i was willing to work with her around that. I talked to her today and she does like me i know this for a fact. she actually txt me first thing she woke up and after few txts she called me and usually we wait with phonecalla till 9pm to take advantage of free minutes on her cell, to me it makes no diff.
also most of her g/f are 30 and over and she was saying how hard it is for her friends to find a good man at that age. she already had her fun, from what she told me it looks like she had pretty fun time in her late teens early 20s and now she would like to have someone steady. so im very confused with her but i will give it a chance and try to work it out. I really like her, we dont know eachother very long but i feel like i know her forever, i dont want to loose that
The driving away is true, but it doesn't mean "away" permanently. With me it's more of "let me turn my phone off and distance myself from you for a few days to get a hold of this situation." And that can happen intermittently, anytime I'm being overwhelmed with attention and feel like I need SPACE to get my equilibrium back. Not having that "sense of myself" is scary. Like free-falling.
But I think, in the end, it's good to let an Aquarius know that you want them. I for sure won't think twice unless I know a guy wants me, and then I'll be the one to put a little distance in there. I've read that that's how we manipulate/control/dominate the relationship, but really for me it's more about emotional comfort level.
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
OFA and mermaid are correct.
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Mar 04, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1775 · Topics: 125
She is playing games just like other aquas. The way i see you to solve it is to have patience to play along with her or dump her and find another chick. Don't be a fool, class-act, I was an experiencer myself. If you are obssessive with her, you play right into her hands.
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Sorry, i do not want to ruin this thread, but i have to help out my aries friend here.
If you find my advise trolling, just ignore what i said.
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"Persistnece is key."
"let me turn my phone off and distance myself from you for a few days to get a hold of this situation."
Look it does not make sense.
this is what i am getting from this thread;
1)aquas draw a distance because he wants the guy to be more obssessive and persistant twoards her.
2)aquas draw a distance because she feels oveerwhelmed by the closeness and wants "freedom". in other words time away from the guy, she doesn't want to be bothered.
These two is contradictory. the only reason base on this logic: playing games.
The aries perspective is we like things clear and straightfoward, if you like playing games, we seriously will not enetertain you.