It's so random because the last time I saw him we had just finished hooking up, and we are both attracted to each other. Yet, he's blocked/deleted me off Facebook since then ? I asked, and got no explanation, so I'm confused.
Aqua guy acting like he hates me ?
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I forgot to add that he is an Aquarius sun, Virgo moon, and Libra rising

He's probably not acting.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
Posted by GoooberNo, I did not pester him. In fact, he initiated all communication between us, and I read up on the fact that they don't like clingy women. So I kept my cool.
He's probably not acting.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
The last time I saw him was in February, and he blocked me in July. In those months in between, he blew hot and cold with me. Would text me, then ignore me just as quick. He would do it over, and over again.
I already know he's attracted to me because he was clear about it. Before our first hook up in February, he chased me for about 2 months prior, I didn't do much.
This is why I'm confused.

seems like some info is missing—?
on your part
on your part

Yeah, forget about him.
He's a clown for giving you mixed signals but it's been a while so forget about it.
He's a clown for giving you mixed signals but it's been a while so forget about it.
Posted by LittleStarAnd for what exactly? Your message is so helpful lol
If he acts like he hates you he probably does.
Posted by heartofsagNope. None. What do you think I'm withholding lol
seems like some info is missing—?
on your part
Posted by Goooberuh aries does this too.
He's probably not acting.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
it's NOT a sign thing since i've seen with my own eyes Aries both male and female do this to people.
Posted by busyeyes88Yes, I am still wondering because I don't understand why someone would bother to delete/block someone off sown thing unless they had done something to bother them.Posted by ariesgirl5673The last time you saw him was in Feb and he blocked you in July and it's now September and you still haven't moved on?! He obviously has!!! My goodness!!!! Hello!!! He hooked up with you for the last time!! That's obvious!! He's done!!! Lol lol lol lol move on!! He's busy hooking up with other people while you sit here "wondering"!!! Smh!!Posted by GoooberNo, I did not pester him. In fact, he initiated all communication between us, and I read up on the fact that they don't like clingy women. So I kept my cool.
He's probably not acting.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
The last time I saw him was in February, and he blocked me in July. In those months in between, he blew hot and cold with me. Would text me, then ignore me just as quick. He would do it over, and over again.
I already know he's attracted to me because he was clear about it. Before our first hook up in February, he chased me for about 2 months prior, I didn't do much.
This is why I'm confused.click to expand
When I genuinely don't care about someone, or something I leave it alone because it doesn't phase me. I just don't understand the 180, he should feel indifferent towards me. We haven't argued once and there have been no disputes. I don't know why you're commenting in this topic making fun of me lol
i'm more of the pestering type, in the past if i like you so much. but as i got older, i'm more respectful of people's boundaries. it's hard, but i try.
*something
the virgo moon of his is probably DISCRIMINATING.
he's probably with his nose in the air, going, "jesus this young woman is too much."
virgo gets annoyed with childishness behaviours.
yet they are kind of attracted to it. (love hate thing)
he's probably with his nose in the air, going, "jesus this young woman is too much."
virgo gets annoyed with childishness behaviours.
yet they are kind of attracted to it. (love hate thing)
I'm not the pestering type. If he ever Inittated contact, I would respond, and that's all. I don't beg men for attention, in general, which is I guess is what made him want to hook up with me even more, hence the 2 month chase lol
I just don't understand the hot and cold nonsense
I just don't understand the hot and cold nonsense
Posted by lisabethur8Discriminating in what way?
the virgo moon of his is probably DISCRIMINATING.
he's probably with his nose in the air, going, "jesus this young woman is too much."
virgo gets annoyed with childishness behaviours.
yet they are kind of attracted to it. (love hate thing)
I'm acting childish? Lol
Posted by ariesgirl5673lolPosted by lisabethur8Discriminating in what way?
the virgo moon of his is probably DISCRIMINATING.
he's probably with his nose in the air, going, "jesus this young woman is too much."
virgo gets annoyed with childishness behaviours.
yet they are kind of attracted to it. (love hate thing)
I'm acting childish? Lolclick to expand
I.Q. went down reading this topic. 😆 😆
let's just say..... an aquarius man with a virgo moon—
hooooo boyyyyy!!! 😄 😄 you need some SMARTS on you to get this one.
hooooo boyyyyy!!! 😄 😄 you need some SMARTS on you to get this one.

Posted by lisabethur8Ok... never said Aries didn't do this. The topic was Aquas so I discussed Aquas...Posted by Goooberuh aries does this too.
He's probably not acting.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
it's NOT a sign thing since i've seen with my own eyes Aries both male and female do this to people.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8This is my first time using this forum.
let's just say..... an aquarius man with a virgo moon—
hooooo boyyyyy!!! 😄 😄 you need some SMARTS on you to get this one.
I don't know what's so funny lol
You said Virgo moon men get annoyed which childish behaviours ? So you implied I'm acting childish. In what way am I acting childish?
Posted by Goooberit just seemed implied that you are basing what you know of your family members, so am i, and also ex colleagues, co workers and friends.Posted by lisabethur8Ok... never said Aries didn't do this. The topic was Aquas so I discussed Aquas...Posted by Goooberuh aries does this too.
He's probably not acting.
Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.
I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
it's NOT a sign thing since i've seen with my own eyes Aries both male and female do this to people.
click to expand
but when you imply that as a general whole, it will make the viewer think that everyone born is like that when it's not Always the case.
Posted by ariesgirl5673aries is the sign of the first, the child, the baby.Posted by lisabethur8This is my first time using this forum.
let's just say..... an aquarius man with a virgo moon—
hooooo boyyyyy!!! 😄 😄 you need some SMARTS on you to get this one.
I don't know what's so funny lol
You said Virgo moon men get annoyed which childish behaviours ? So you implied I'm acting childish. In what way am I acting childish?click to expand
so yes, in a way.
virgo the sign itself has this kind of saturnic and mercurial influence which is strongly earthy of course, and they give off this fatherly feel with other women who are strongly fiery.
fiery women have a childish, impish, style to them. it's a good thing though. that's part of your charm.
fiery women have a childish, impish, style to them. it's a good thing though. that's part of your charm.
In all that I explained about what happened between him and I, you are saying I acted "childish" ? I don't recall I acted childish, I'm not the one who irrationally deleted/blocked someone with no cause?
I'm not childish because Aries is the first of the zodiac.... Lol if you're not going to give me actual replies stop commenting
I'm not childish because Aries is the first of the zodiac.... Lol if you're not going to give me actual replies stop commenting
*acting childish
Posted by ariesgirl5673i answered your questions.
In all that I explained about what happened between him and I, you are saying I acted "childish" ? I don't recall I acted childish, I'm not the one who irrationally deleted/blocked someone with no cause?
I'm not childish because Aries is the first of the zodiac.... Lol if you're not going to give me actual replies stop commenting
who did you block??
your questions asking so impatiently is very very young aries feel.
"how am i childish??"
"why did he block me, delete me?"
"help! this guy is hot and cold."
if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
Posted by lisabethur8I know.
if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
It's just annoying because I've never had a guy do so many 180s on me in a course of 6months of me knowing them. I think it's an Aqua guy thing because the more I read up on it, the more I find about hot and cold/disappearing/reappearing/ignoring etc.
A lot of very strange behaviour. I just don't want Yoel bad for something I didn't know because I know I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment.
Posted by ariesgirl5673well no, i used to be with an aqua sun guy, one of my exs and he never did the hot and cold thing with me. He just said,let's move in together and be committed. That was that.Posted by lisabethur8I know.
if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
It's just annoying because I've never had a guy do so many 180s on me in a course of 6months of me knowing them. I think it's an Aqua guy thing because the more I read up on it, the more I find about hot and cold/disappearing/reappearing/ignoring etc.
A lot of very strange behaviour. I just don't want Yoel bad for something I didn't know because I know I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment.click to expand
what's your Guy's venus?? and mars?
besides, you are under HIS power.
when you are making topics over a guy like this, it means he over powers you, he is taking over your SOUL.
when you are making topics over a guy like this, it means he over powers you, he is taking over your SOUL.
Posted by lisabethur8Sorry, I mean to say "I don't' want to feel bad for something I didn't do" in that typout.Posted by ariesgirl5673well no, i used to be with an aqua sun guy, one of my exs and he never did the hot and cold thing with me. He just said,let's move in together and be committed. That was that.Posted by lisabethur8I know.
if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
It's just annoying because I've never had a guy do so many 180s on me in a course of 6months of me knowing them. I think it's an Aqua guy thing because the more I read up on it, the more I find about hot and cold/disappearing/reappearing/ignoring etc.
A lot of very strange behaviour. I just don't want Yoel bad for something I didn't know because I know I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment.
what's your Guy's venus?? and mars?click to expand
His Venus is Pisces and his Mars is in Aquarius
Posted by lisabethur8For some strange reason I feel connected to him. I've hooked up and gotten over guys quickly, but this has been sticking with me ever since February. However, he doesn't behave the way the other ones have. His is so bipolar. He was so so sweet and nice and now he's so not. I don't know how someone could be like that towards someone else and think it's ok.
besides, you are under HIS power.
when you are making topics over a guy like this, it means he over powers you, he is taking over your SOUL.

OMG, I am so sorry that happened to you after you "hooked" up. I am assuming that is sex. Yes, Uranus the planet of sudden eruptions is one of the two planets that rule Aquarius. Sounds like Uranus erupted.

If it's been this long and it's not an on/off love/hate, seems you will never really know.
It may seem childish so to speak, but when everything was good, was there any bickering or questions of control or such?
Some see it as childish, but if his reasoning was asking the lines of walking away from negativity...it would be childish to stay and do battle.
You may not want to question it if there's nothing else to it. We all will be just as clueless.
It may seem childish so to speak, but when everything was good, was there any bickering or questions of control or such?
Some see it as childish, but if his reasoning was asking the lines of walking away from negativity...it would be childish to stay and do battle.
You may not want to question it if there's nothing else to it. We all will be just as clueless.

Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.

btw is goober depressedarian??
Posted by YourGracewhy is it there are people Always White knighting around here, and then when they do white knight they put others down in the process.Posted by lisabethur8To be honest you should be the last person on Dxp talking about IQs.
I.Q. went down reading this topic. 😆 😆click to expand
it's like the white knight men around here white knighting random women they don't know online. *smh*
hey YourGrace,why don't you stfu and go find a woman to white knight instead of whiteknighting all the women around here.
hey YourGrace,why don't you stfu and go find a woman to white knight instead of whiteknighting all the women around here.
Posted by boxcarmirntathis BIG TIME.
Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.
Posted by ariesgirl5673yeah that's how they get some of you ladies.Posted by lisabethur8For some strange reason I feel connected to him. I've hooked up and gotten over guys quickly, but this has been sticking with me ever since February. However, he doesn't behave the way the other ones have. His is so bipolar. He was so so sweet and nice and now he's so not. I don't know how someone could be like that towards someone else and think it's ok.
besides, you are under HIS power.
when you are making topics over a guy like this, it means he over powers you, he is taking over your SOUL.
click to expand
it's terrible, but that's how they get ya.
this song reminds me of how some of you girls get these guys going. *sigh*
well if he's bipolar...
it's NOT his fault. But you might be in love with that TYPE of guy. The kind with mental health issues.
it's NOT his fault. But you might be in love with that TYPE of guy. The kind with mental health issues.
Posted by Scartooth11When everything was good, we did not bicker and we did not argue. It was all very neutral until he started to message me, then ignore me right away, would disappear for weeks and REPEAT. That happened between Feb and July. I hadn't physically seen him since Feb. it's just so straaaaange like do you want to see me or not. When I thought he was done, he would hit me up. Confusing.
If it's been this long and it's not an on/off love/hate, seems you will never really know.
It may seem childish so to speak, but when everything was good, was there any bickering or questions of control or such?
Some see it as childish, but if his reasoning was asking the lines of walking away from negativity...it would be childish to stay and do battle.
You may not want to question it if there's nothing else to it. We all will be just as clueless.
ck is GENIUS....
Posted by lisabethur8OP, listen to this one.Posted by boxcarmirntathis BIG TIME.
Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.click to expand
this is the wierd but why do people fall in love with those with bi polar problems or mental health issues—
find a DECENT man who acts like a decent guy. a NORMAL one k—
it's like people do not want normal.
Posted by YourGracewhy don't you people BLOCK me—? you come into the topic and don't give any help/input but like what i type and write even if it's stupid and lame, but yet you come in here and pester me.
I don't argue with kids 😄 !!!
you are in love with reading what i write.
or else you'd IGNORE.
now why don't you be a good boy and help this chick out?
Posted by boxcarmirntaYou are absolutely right. No it was very far from a real relationship. We talked for a bit, and he opened up a little but essentially it was a physical thing. I did feel like we got along easily right away! I didn't have any qualms with the way things were until he started acting up. Strange enough one of my close girlfriends has encountered some of his former high school friends at parities and no one has had any thing nice to say about him, in cases where his name is brought up. Small world.
Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.

Sounds in a way you may have dodged a bullet.
N don't let me get to ya lisabethur.
Not sure if OP is needing closure...but no need to waste energy on someone who doesn't waste theirs on you. What everyone else says doesn't always matter if you are asking the same circle. But if you did find things you liked about him, at least you got experience with that.
Forgive me if I missed it, but was the original idea a fling, relationship or just let things go as it plays out?
N don't let me get to ya lisabethur.
Not sure if OP is needing closure...but no need to waste energy on someone who doesn't waste theirs on you. What everyone else says doesn't always matter if you are asking the same circle. But if you did find things you liked about him, at least you got experience with that.
Forgive me if I missed it, but was the original idea a fling, relationship or just let things go as it plays out?
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