Aqua guy acting like he hates me ?

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ariesgirl5673
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Posted by Gooober
He's probably not acting.

Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.

I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
No, I did not pester him. In fact, he initiated all communication between us, and I read up on the fact that they don't like clingy women. So I kept my cool.

The last time I saw him was in February, and he blocked me in July. In those months in between, he blew hot and cold with me. Would text me, then ignore me just as quick. He would do it over, and over again.

I already know he's attracted to me because he was clear about it. Before our first hook up in February, he chased me for about 2 months prior, I didn't do much.

This is why I'm confused.
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Posted by Gooober
He's probably not acting.

Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.

I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
uh aries does this too.

it's NOT a sign thing since i've seen with my own eyes Aries both male and female do this to people.
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Posted by Gooober
He's probably not acting.

Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.

I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
No, I did not pester him. In fact, he initiated all communication between us, and I read up on the fact that they don't like clingy women. So I kept my cool.

The last time I saw him was in February, and he blocked me in July. In those months in between, he blew hot and cold with me. Would text me, then ignore me just as quick. He would do it over, and over again.

I already know he's attracted to me because he was clear about it. Before our first hook up in February, he chased me for about 2 months prior, I didn't do much.

This is why I'm confused.
The last time you saw him was in Feb and he blocked you in July and it's now September and you still haven't moved on?! He obviously has!!! My goodness!!!! Hello!!! He hooked up with you for the last time!! That's obvious!! He's done!!! Lol lol lol lol move on!! He's busy hooking up with other people while you sit here "wondering"!!! Smh!!
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Yes, I am still wondering because I don't understand why someone would bother to delete/block someone off sown thing unless they had done something to bother them.
When I genuinely don't care about someone, or something I leave it alone because it doesn't phase me. I just don't understand the 180, he should feel indifferent towards me. We haven't argued once and there have been no disputes. I don't know why you're commenting in this topic making fun of me lol
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Gooober
He's probably not acting.

Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.

I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
uh aries does this too.

it's NOT a sign thing since i've seen with my own eyes Aries both male and female do this to people.
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Ok... never said Aries didn't do this. The topic was Aquas so I discussed Aquas...

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Posted by Gooober
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Posted by Gooober
He's probably not acting.

Were you pestering him? If so, that most likely annoyed him and that's probably why he blocked you.

I have quiet a few Aqua family members and when they don't like you, they won't pay you any mind. When you annoy them, they will shut you out.
uh aries does this too.

it's NOT a sign thing since i've seen with my own eyes Aries both male and female do this to people.
Ok... never said Aries didn't do this. The topic was Aquas so I discussed Aquas...

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it just seemed implied that you are basing what you know of your family members, so am i, and also ex colleagues, co workers and friends.

but when you imply that as a general whole, it will make the viewer think that everyone born is like that when it's not Always the case.
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let's just say..... an aquarius man with a virgo moon—


hooooo boyyyyy!!! 😄 😄 you need some SMARTS on you to get this one.
This is my first time using this forum.

I don't know what's so funny lol

You said Virgo moon men get annoyed which childish behaviours ? So you implied I'm acting childish. In what way am I acting childish?
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aries is the sign of the first, the child, the baby.

so yes, in a way.
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In all that I explained about what happened between him and I, you are saying I acted "childish" ? I don't recall I acted childish, I'm not the one who irrationally deleted/blocked someone with no cause?

I'm not childish because Aries is the first of the zodiac.... Lol if you're not going to give me actual replies stop commenting
i answered your questions.

who did you block??

your questions asking so impatiently is very very young aries feel.

"how am i childish??"

"why did he block me, delete me?"

"help! this guy is hot and cold."

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Posted by lisabethur8
if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
I know.
It's just annoying because I've never had a guy do so many 180s on me in a course of 6months of me knowing them. I think it's an Aqua guy thing because the more I read up on it, the more I find about hot and cold/disappearing/reappearing/ignoring etc.

A lot of very strange behaviour. I just don't want Yoel bad for something I didn't know because I know I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment.
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if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
I know.
It's just annoying because I've never had a guy do so many 180s on me in a course of 6months of me knowing them. I think it's an Aqua guy thing because the more I read up on it, the more I find about hot and cold/disappearing/reappearing/ignoring etc.

A lot of very strange behaviour. I just don't want Yoel bad for something I didn't know because I know I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment.
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well no, i used to be with an aqua sun guy, one of my exs and he never did the hot and cold thing with me. He just said,let's move in together and be committed. That was that.

what's your Guy's venus?? and mars?
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if only we could read his mind, OP. 😢
I know.
It's just annoying because I've never had a guy do so many 180s on me in a course of 6months of me knowing them. I think it's an Aqua guy thing because the more I read up on it, the more I find about hot and cold/disappearing/reappearing/ignoring etc.

A lot of very strange behaviour. I just don't want Yoel bad for something I didn't know because I know I haven't done anything to deserve this treatment.
well no, i used to be with an aqua sun guy, one of my exs and he never did the hot and cold thing with me. He just said,let's move in together and be committed. That was that.

what's your Guy's venus?? and mars?
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Sorry, I mean to say "I don't' want to feel bad for something I didn't do" in that typout.

His Venus is Pisces and his Mars is in Aquarius
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Posted by lisabethur8
besides, you are under HIS power.

when you are making topics over a guy like this, it means he over powers you, he is taking over your SOUL.
For some strange reason I feel connected to him. I've hooked up and gotten over guys quickly, but this has been sticking with me ever since February. However, he doesn't behave the way the other ones have. His is so bipolar. He was so so sweet and nice and now he's so not. I don't know how someone could be like that towards someone else and think it's ok.
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If it's been this long and it's not an on/off love/hate, seems you will never really know.
It may seem childish so to speak, but when everything was good, was there any bickering or questions of control or such?
Some see it as childish, but if his reasoning was asking the lines of walking away from negativity...it would be childish to stay and do battle.
You may not want to question it if there's nothing else to it. We all will be just as clueless.
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Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.
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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.
this BIG TIME.
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besides, you are under HIS power.

when you are making topics over a guy like this, it means he over powers you, he is taking over your SOUL.
For some strange reason I feel connected to him. I've hooked up and gotten over guys quickly, but this has been sticking with me ever since February. However, he doesn't behave the way the other ones have. His is so bipolar. He was so so sweet and nice and now he's so not. I don't know how someone could be like that towards someone else and think it's ok.
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yeah that's how they get some of you ladies.

it's terrible, but that's how they get ya.

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Posted by Scartooth11
If it's been this long and it's not an on/off love/hate, seems you will never really know.
It may seem childish so to speak, but when everything was good, was there any bickering or questions of control or such?
Some see it as childish, but if his reasoning was asking the lines of walking away from negativity...it would be childish to stay and do battle.
You may not want to question it if there's nothing else to it. We all will be just as clueless.
When everything was good, we did not bicker and we did not argue. It was all very neutral until he started to message me, then ignore me right away, would disappear for weeks and REPEAT. That happened between Feb and July. I hadn't physically seen him since Feb. it's just so straaaaange like do you want to see me or not. When I thought he was done, he would hit me up. Confusing.
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ck is GENIUS....
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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.
this BIG TIME.
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OP, listen to this one.

this is the wierd but why do people fall in love with those with bi polar problems or mental health issues—

find a DECENT man who acts like a decent guy. a NORMAL one k—

it's like people do not want normal.
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Posted by boxcarmirnta
Dont worry people always give each other shit on this board. Dont take it personally....if he's really bipolar, then that is why..and id run like hell cuz ppl with that mental illness are awful. And treat people like shit..honestly, who knows why he did it but the reality there is something wrong with him, that behavior is bizarre...so just let it go! You didn't even have a relationship he just sounds like an unstable jerk. Don't take it personally..again.
You are absolutely right. No it was very far from a real relationship. We talked for a bit, and he opened up a little but essentially it was a physical thing. I did feel like we got along easily right away! I didn't have any qualms with the way things were until he started acting up. Strange enough one of my close girlfriends has encountered some of his former high school friends at parities and no one has had any thing nice to say about him, in cases where his name is brought up. Small world.
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Sounds in a way you may have dodged a bullet.
N don't let me get to ya lisabethur.
Not sure if OP is needing closure...but no need to waste energy on someone who doesn't waste theirs on you. What everyone else says doesn't always matter if you are asking the same circle. But if you did find things you liked about him, at least you got experience with that.
Forgive me if I missed it, but was the original idea a fling, relationship or just let things go as it plays out?
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