Aqua man drives me crazy! Is he interested? Help!

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Phoebz on Tuesday, January 23, 2018 and has 20 replies.
Posted by Leo188881
Push your feelings aside, do you really believe he has feelings and wants something with you?

Only you can answer that.
Every girl crushing on an Aqua wants to say yes to this lol
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Posted by Leo188881
Push your feelings aside, do you really believe he has feelings and wants something with you?

Only you can answer that.
Every girl crushing on an Aqua wants to say yes to this lol
I know. But we need to be able to distinguish between what we want, and what is actually there. Otherwise we needlessly set ourselves up tp get hurt.
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I love getting hurt, makes me feel alive lol But I like doing things the hard wayLaughing
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Posted by Leo188881
Push your feelings aside, do you really believe he has feelings and wants something with you?

Only you can answer that.
Every girl crushing on an Aqua wants to say yes to this lol
I know. But we need to be able to distinguish between what we want, and what is actually there. Otherwise we needlessly set ourselves up tp get hurt.
I love getting hurt, makes me feel alive lol But I like doing things the hard wayLaughing


Lol. I've always thought Airies were the crazy ones but I'm beginning to think Sag are nuttier

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Just this one SAG!Laughing
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Posted by Leo188881
Push your feelings aside, do you really believe he has feelings and wants something with you?

Only you can answer that.
Every girl crushing on an Aqua wants to say yes to this lol
I know. But we need to be able to distinguish between what we want, and what is actually there. Otherwise we needlessly set ourselves up tp get hurt.
I love getting hurt, makes me feel alive lol But I like doing things the hard wayLaughing


Lol. I've always thought Airies were the crazy ones but I'm beginning to think Sag are nuttier

Just this one SAG!Laughing
Lol you're all fucking nuts
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Can't lie there. At least we don't get too hung up in stuff. Easy breezy fun! lol
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Never try and suss out an Aqua man

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I'm not an Aqua man, but I have close experiences with two of them.

One, when I was just a teenager (before texting!) and he basically just told me he liked me straight off the mark and chased me, showered me in romance and was full-on in the game from day one for the four years we dated. This might have been a "puppy love" kind of thing because I heard from his sister that since then he became a real commitment phobe and even though he's married he's always not sure what he wants and women always find him hard to pin down. Maybe I just got the rush of youthful innocence because he was 17 when we got together!

The other Aqua is a friend, but to be honest I am sure he has feelings for me and he just doesn't say anything. With him it came around a different way. At first he would do stuff like you're describing, chase me one minute then back off, popping in and out of my life and sometimes texting and sometimes not responding. I just left him to it and after probably a whole year of that behavior something changed and he was like a different guy with me. Now he messages me every day or calls, ALWAYS replies to every text in 10 seconds, spends all his free time with me, wants to show me everything and go everywhere with me, showers me in affection and time and love and shares all his thoughts and feelings and vulnerability and to be honest nowadays I feel like he's so attached to me that nothing I did would ever make him want to stop.

So I guess the experience was that he was SO slow to form attachment, but once he did it was like the ocean dam breaking and the waves rushing in! So worth the wait smile We're just friends though, but honestly act like we're married to each other!
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Posted by Leo188881
Push your feelings aside, do you really believe he has feelings and wants something with you?

Only you can answer that.
Every girl crushing on an Aqua wants to say yes to this lol
I know. But we need to be able to distinguish between what we want, and what is actually there. Otherwise we needlessly set ourselves up tp get hurt.
I love getting hurt, makes me feel alive lol But I like doing things the hard wayLaughing


Lol. I've always thought Airies were the crazy ones but I'm beginning to think Sag are nuttier

Just this one SAG!Laughing
Lol you're all fucking nuts
Can't lie there. At least we don't get too hung up in stuff. Easy breezy fun! lol
True. You're a good bunch. I think all fire signs are nuts. We like to burn shit up
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Why are these men confusing?? Are they confused themselves? Do they not know what they want? Or what is it????
Posted by Phoebz
I met this awesome Aqua guy like 2 months ago and we started to build a friendship. I guess both of us understood that we are catching something more than just a friendship.

So, my guess is that my Aqua male crush freaked out and because of that told me that we should pause everything, mentioning that he has to sort his life out (also he admitted that was confused about everything at that point in his life & told me that broke up with his ex 3 months ago or so which I already knew). Almost for a month we did not talk at all. I understood that I can't be pushy and I have to give him space if that's what he wants, so I did.

2 days ago he texted me out of the blue and we talked for a little (small talk). He just asked how am I, what did I do this whole month, told about his stuff and all that jazz.. nothing huge.. but since yesterday, again he's taking ages answering to my messages, even tho I see him online (means - clearly, he' s ignoring me). It seriously drives me crazy, cuz it has happened before with him before he said we should pause on building something between us. Obviously, I can' t do anything about it..

Most important question here is - is he interested in me or no ? That' s what I can' t figure out.. Sad

Should I just move on or be patient and happy, that he reappeared?
I'm starting out with an Aqua moon, Taurus sun man. He's taking things extremely slow and he has expressed feelings for me. I was hesitant but, let me just tell you, when I actually did express even a small amount of sentiment for him - he freeeeeaked the ffffff uuuuu cccccc kkkkk out! (I.E. can totally express feelings for me, but reciprocate those feelings equals meltdown) But...he didn't disappear or put so much space there. Thing is...he messages everyday, at least once. Some days it's constant throughout the day, but not always responding to my message, just sending an additional message. But...a month without communication? That seems unlikely that his feelings are strong enough to keep him engaged with you. He cares about you, not necessarily for you. He's not investing. I would keep your heart close to your own sleeve and surface chat catch up when he comes around.


Apparently, aka, riding the Aqua wave! Best of luck and light and love to you sweety
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Lol. give this poor girl some advice.
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I'm in the same boat of non existence that every other women is, dealing with an Aqua! lol
In my experience aqua men are clear if they really want you.

If they really want you there is not doubt.

All this aqua troubles is because they are not serious enough.
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Lol. give this poor girl some advice.
I'm in the same boat of non existence that every other women is, dealing with an Aqua! lol
You know what just be your aggressive headstrong self. But approach it from a new angle don't worry about things like if he likes you or what you have to do so that he does like you. Just know that he should like you. all your flaws and crazy outbursts a part of the package so show him the full package. If he can't handle that then the boy is not man enough for you. So go and Burn It Up
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I'm never worried about if someone likes me lol I'm very black or white, you either like me or you don't. If you don't, then keep it moving. My problem is I have too much pride and I'm stubborn. So let's hope he likes that lol Cause I won't come around and kiss your ass if you go missing. I'll let you walk right out the door and miss you silently.

This is why I think Aquas and Sag are similar. I think they do the same. The only thing I can hope for is if he actually reaches out cause he does miss me, but if not, then oh well. All is lost.
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Lol. give this poor girl some advice.
I'm in the same boat of non existence that every other women is, dealing with an Aqua! lol
You know what just be your aggressive headstrong self. But approach it from a new angle don't worry about things like if he likes you or what you have to do so that he does like you. Just know that he should like you. all your flaws and crazy outbursts a part of the package so show him the full package. If he can't handle that then the boy is not man enough for you. So go and Burn It Up
I'm never worried about if someone likes me lol I'm very black or white, you either like me or you don't. If you don't, then keep it moving. My problem is I have too much pride and I'm stubborn. So let's hope he likes that lol Cause I won't come around and kiss your ass if you go missing. I'll let you walk right out the door and miss you silently.

This is why I think Aquas and Sag are similar. I think they do the same. The only thing I can hope for is if he actually reaches out cause he does miss me, but if not, then oh well. All is lost.


Yeah Aquas don't do that. They just assume you're mad and don't want to talk to them again and then they wait. They're stupid like that

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Posted by pisceswoman123
In my experience aqua men are clear if they really want you.

If they really want you there is not doubt.

All this aqua troubles is because they are not serious enough.
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In my experience aqua men are clear if they really want you.

If they really want you there is not doubt.

All this aqua troubles is because they are not serious enough.
+1👍
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You are proving me right 😄
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In my experience aqua men are clear if they really want you.

If they really want you there is not doubt.

All this aqua troubles is because they are not serious enough.
+1👍
You are proving me right 😄
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Posted by Capmercury87
Every time I read a aqua man "how do I know" or "how do I get him to like me" all I can think is just give up like I did when I was chasing that crazy aqua for three years. Their hopeless creatures and I'm an Aquarius.

I can't stand how aloof and off in wahwah land but I am that way, guess I don't like my own medicine and didn't realize how Aquarius I have been until I listened to my sag bf tell me how hard it was to capture me...I answered "what?" what did I do?

He says I'm too wild, too free spirited. And that's how I like it but God its a pain in the ass on the other end. I did not enjoy chasing that aqua and I don't even know how my sag puts up with my crap. He has me now, but how did he do it?

Tons of sex 😂😂😂

I'm 100% sure its hard to have sex with some one we think is sexy, gets along great with our friends and opens up about life, and not catch feelings.
So true 😄

I love that chasing in the beginning because of my Aries venus.

In my experience aqua men are super loving when they are in love. They show it. Maybe not all the time. But regularly and at all the important moments.
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Lol. give this poor girl some advice.
I'm in the same boat of non existence that every other women is, dealing with an Aqua! lol
You know what just be your aggressive headstrong self. But approach it from a new angle don't worry about things like if he likes you or what you have to do so that he does like you. Just know that he should like you. all your flaws and crazy outbursts a part of the package so show him the full package. If he can't handle that then the boy is not man enough for you. So go and Burn It Up
I'm never worried about if someone likes me lol I'm very black or white, you either like me or you don't. If you don't, then keep it moving. My problem is I have too much pride and I'm stubborn. So let's hope he likes that lol Cause I won't come around and kiss your ass if you go missing. I'll let you walk right out the door and miss you silently.

This is why I think Aquas and Sag are similar. I think they do the same. The only thing I can hope for is if he actually reaches out cause he does miss me, but if not, then oh well. All is lost.


Yeah Aquas don't do that. They just assume you're mad and don't want to talk to them again and then they wait. They're stupid like that

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Well, I was all into my feelings last night and went ahead and reached out to the Aqua. If he ignores it then I will just leave it alone and be done with everything. I'm tired of it all, but I miss him lol

I messaged him at 3am like a true mutable would!Laughing
Posted by Phoebz
I met this awesome Aqua guy like 2 months ago and we started to build a friendship. I guess both of us understood that we are catching something more than just a friendship.

So, my guess is that my Aqua male crush freaked out and because of that told me that we should pause everything, mentioning that he has to sort his life out (also he admitted that was confused about everything at that point in his life & told me that broke up with his ex 3 months ago or so which I already knew). Almost for a month we did not talk at all. I understood that I can't be pushy and I have to give him space if that's what he wants, so I did.

2 days ago he texted me out of the blue and we talked for a little (small talk). He just asked how am I, what did I do this whole month, told about his stuff and all that jazz.. nothing huge.. but since yesterday, again he's taking ages answering to my messages, even tho I see him online (means - clearly, he' s ignoring me). It seriously drives me crazy, cuz it has happened before with him before he said we should pause on building something between us. Obviously, I can' t do anything about it..

Most important question here is - is he interested in me or no ? That' s what I can' t figure out.. Sad

Should I just move on or be patient and happy, that he reappeared?
Sounds like the timing for you guys is off. Expecting anything from him right now is a waste of your time. Have you considered being warm and friendly and continuing to love him on the level he can right now? You don't have to put your life on hold or anything...

Have you considered both is possible? Be patient and happy that he reappeared. Treat him like your connection and feelings are still there...but that you are going to be your own person and live your own life and let the chips fall where they may (You do not have to verbalize this to him in any way...just know it for yourself). Aqua's may seem cool and distant but there is a real underlying thread of deeper meaning to them and the way they interact within the universe. He'll completely understand that you can't wait for him but he'll secretly want you to. If he's contacting you it's because he's interested on the level he has said he's interested. No more. Not in the way you think. It's best not to create a narrative for unrequited love on your part. I admire him being honest with you instead of stringing you along.