Aqua man dumped me ONE WEEK after he said he LOVED ME!!??!
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by KateFireMoon on Saturday, December 10, 2016 and has 9 replies.
It's been two weeks post breakup and I'm still having a hard time with all of this. I just need some help from you Aquas to move on.
This is the second Aqua I've dated and the 4th Aqua I've encountered.
First Aqua boyfriend I dated for years. My first love. He was a cheater and broke my heart.
Then I met two Aquas in between that I wasn't that into. One chased me HARD and I felt smothered and lost interest. The other was very nonchalant and boring and I lost interest again.
Needless to say there's no consistency with you guys.
Now this Aqua I've dated for just a few months.. but since he moved things SO FAST between us with crazy make out sessions starting from date one and talking about future and family and telling his friends about me.. I fell hard. It was the perfect mix of sexual passion, friendship, romance with an adequate amount of space.. I fell in love. Probably too fast.
Anyways the relationship ended because he wanted space and freedom and said he no longer saw me as a potential lifelong partner (ouch).
Not sure what I did to deserve this and I'm having a hard time moving on.
I have good days when I remind myself of his bad qualities like:
-he was a jerk with no filter and had an arrogance to him that landed him in many arguments with friends and family
- he had too many female friends including one that was blowing up his phone and who he didn't want to introduce to me (even though his guy friends knew who I was). She was not got AT ALL but it still pissed me off and I acted really jealous about it which he didn't like
- he was selfish and stubborn
-he lied when we met and said he was a total homebody but then started partying like crazy half way through our relationship (another reason he dumped me is because he wanted to party and be free he says)
.. then I have bad days when I remember how he kissed me and touched me and looked into my eyes like he was smitten. We had amazing chemistry and he even told me he loved me. He said the world stopped moving when he kissed me. He said I was the smartest, hottest girl he ever met. He would say things like "you're good at everything, you would make a great Mom".
So why did he choose the party life over me? Why did he suddenly stop seeing a future with me?
I gotta say this has hurt me really bad and I don't have any desire to date someone new even though I have guys trying to date me constantly. I'm just sad and exhausted. Usually I rebound and forget the ex fast but this time I feel stuck in this feeling and I don't know what to do.
Ever since we broke up, he stopped posting things on social media but I figured that might be just cuz he's busy partying?
He reached out to me once since the breakup and the convo didn't go well. Then I reached out once and he didn't respond.
I reached out again last week and I got a response but not a good one.. since then I stopped reaching out.
What now?
This is the second Aqua I've dated and the 4th Aqua I've encountered.
First Aqua boyfriend I dated for years. My first love. He was a cheater and broke my heart.
Then I met two Aquas in between that I wasn't that into. One chased me HARD and I felt smothered and lost interest. The other was very nonchalant and boring and I lost interest again.
Needless to say there's no consistency with you guys.
Now this Aqua I've dated for just a few months.. but since he moved things SO FAST between us with crazy make out sessions starting from date one and talking about future and family and telling his friends about me.. I fell hard. It was the perfect mix of sexual passion, friendship, romance with an adequate amount of space.. I fell in love. Probably too fast.
Anyways the relationship ended because he wanted space and freedom and said he no longer saw me as a potential lifelong partner (ouch).
Not sure what I did to deserve this and I'm having a hard time moving on.
I have good days when I remind myself of his bad qualities like:
-he was a jerk with no filter and had an arrogance to him that landed him in many arguments with friends and family
- he had too many female friends including one that was blowing up his phone and who he didn't want to introduce to me (even though his guy friends knew who I was). She was not got AT ALL but it still pissed me off and I acted really jealous about it which he didn't like
- he was selfish and stubborn
-he lied when we met and said he was a total homebody but then started partying like crazy half way through our relationship (another reason he dumped me is because he wanted to party and be free he says)
.. then I have bad days when I remember how he kissed me and touched me and looked into my eyes like he was smitten. We had amazing chemistry and he even told me he loved me. He said the world stopped moving when he kissed me. He said I was the smartest, hottest girl he ever met. He would say things like "you're good at everything, you would make a great Mom".
So why did he choose the party life over me? Why did he suddenly stop seeing a future with me?
I gotta say this has hurt me really bad and I don't have any desire to date someone new even though I have guys trying to date me constantly. I'm just sad and exhausted. Usually I rebound and forget the ex fast but this time I feel stuck in this feeling and I don't know what to do.
Ever since we broke up, he stopped posting things on social media but I figured that might be just cuz he's busy partying?
He reached out to me once since the breakup and the convo didn't go well. Then I reached out once and he didn't respond.
I reached out again last week and I got a response but not a good one.. since then I stopped reaching out.
What now?
Oops typo:
She was not "hot" at all but it still pissed me off.. etc
She was not "hot" at all but it still pissed me off.. etc
As an Aqua female, I can say that either take interest in someone immediately or not all. With that being said, I can become impulsive and overly excited about a new relationship or adventure with a new person. But just as I am quick to take interest, I'm also quick to lose interest.
One thing that causes me to lose interest is being chased too much or feeling as if my FREEDOM is being threatened. I think it's common for Aquas. And I think a lot of Aquas like a game of cat and mouse.
I will say that nothing bothers me more then being IGNORED. It drives me insane. And if people don't reach out for a long period of time I often become curious about what they are up to. But if I'm ignored, I want their attention that much more. I know it doesn't sound good... Its just how I am.
With that being said, doesn't sound meant to be. But if he reaches out cold shoulder the fuck out of him.
One thing that causes me to lose interest is being chased too much or feeling as if my FREEDOM is being threatened. I think it's common for Aquas. And I think a lot of Aquas like a game of cat and mouse.
I will say that nothing bothers me more then being IGNORED. It drives me insane. And if people don't reach out for a long period of time I often become curious about what they are up to. But if I'm ignored, I want their attention that much more. I know it doesn't sound good... Its just how I am.
With that being said, doesn't sound meant to be. But if he reaches out cold shoulder the fuck out of him.
Posted by KateFireMoon
It's been two weeks post breakup and I'm still having a hard time with all of this. I just need some help from you Aquas to move on.
This is the second Aqua I've dated and the 4th Aqua I've encountered.
First Aqua boyfriend I dated for years. My first love. He was a cheater and broke my heart.
Then I met two Aquas in between that I wasn't that into. One chased me HARD and I felt smothered and lost interest. The other was very nonchalant and boring and I lost interest again.
Needless to say there's no consistency with you guys.
Now this Aqua I've dated for just a few months.. but since he moved things SO FAST between us with crazy make out sessions starting from date one and talking about future and family and telling his friends about me.. I fell hard. It was the perfect mix of sexual passion, friendship, romance with an adequate amount of space.. I fell in love. Probably too fast.
Anyways the relationship ended because he wanted space and freedom and said he no longer saw me as a potential lifelong partner (ouch).
Not sure what I did to deserve this and I'm having a hard time moving on.
I have good days when I remind myself of his bad qualities like:
-he was a jerk with no filter and had an arrogance to him that landed him in many arguments with friends and family
- he had too many female friends including one that was blowing up his phone and who he didn't want to introduce to me (even though his guy friends knew who I was). She was not got AT ALL but it still pissed me off and I acted really jealous about it which he didn't like
- he was selfish and stubborn
-he lied when we met and said he was a total homebody but then started partying like crazy half way through our relationship (another reason he dumped me is because he wanted to party and be free he says)
.. then I have bad days when I remember how he kissed me and touched me and looked into my eyes like he was smitten. We had amazing chemistry and he even told me he loved me. He said the world stopped moving when he kissed me. He said I was the smartest, hottest girl he ever met. He would say things like "you're good at everything, you would make a great Mom".
So why did he choose the party life over me? Why did he suddenly stop seeing a future with me?
I gotta say this has hurt me really bad and I don't have any desire to date someone new even though I have guys trying to date me constantly. I'm just sad and exhausted. Usually I rebound and forget the ex fast but this time I feel stuck in this feeling and I don't know what to do.
Ever since we broke up, he stopped posting things on social media but I figured that might be just cuz he's busy partying?
He reached out to me once since the breakup and the convo didn't go well. Then I reached out once and he didn't respond.
I reached out again last week and I got a response but not a good one.. since then I stopped reaching out.
What now?
How old are yall?
Thats a start
Saying *i love you* means nothing
Words are cheap and some people say it when having sex or before to make the other feel good
Words are cheap and some people say it when having sex or before to make the other feel good
I've been dealing with a aqua man for 5 months now. I've had the I really like you, I want a relationship, I love you to I don't want a relationship, I don't mean what I say, I'll do what I want and see who I want. He goes off for a few days blocks me on all social media then comes back again. Total mind games from day one. I'm not letting him do it anymore. x
Posted by KateFireMoon
One chased me HARD and I felt smothered and lost interest. The other was very nonchalant and boring and I lost interest again.
So, let me get this straight .... you reserve the right for yourself to decide to stop dating someone .. yet, you cannot tolerate it if someone does this to you? .. even though it's his right to decide who he wants.
Or, is this closer to the truth ...... so long as it's you breaking up with a person, life is good ... but, how dare a guy break up with you. because it seems like you had no qualms victimizing those other two, and just dropped them like it's another sun rising. But, the moment this person chooses to be the breaker upper, suddenly, you're so distressed that you can't manager to live another day.
hypocrite much?
Perhaps, this guy realized that you lead guys on until you're bored and then you just toss them aside .. and he decided he wasn't going to be your next victim, and so took control of his life and made the choice that you weren't worth it
You can't truly love someone after one week. That's not enough time to really know a person. At. All.
This ones on you for being so gullible to something so outrageous.
This ones on you for being so gullible to something so outrageous.
I can't even imagine to question WHY after what he had been doing to you.
Do you have ANY self-respect?
So you need some...sorry but it is not even a question why.
It is just what it is! If you don't respect yourself - why anyone should?
Do you have ANY self-respect?
So you need some...sorry but it is not even a question why.
It is just what it is! If you don't respect yourself - why anyone should?
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